Brother has Mental Problems

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Dear Astrologers:

 

I am very closed person but still share with you all since you are doing service

and suggesting remedies.

 

As I indicated about my brother born in Gataprabha, Belgaum district, 20-2-1955

at 13.40, some of you also predicted. My date is 1-2-62, 2.30am, New Delhi.

 

I had indicated about the money he gave. He gave my hard earned money without

consulting me and in my absence. He is mentally ill but at the same time, knows

good hindi, english, tamil and sanskrit. He likes other people more than the

family people and believes others fully. That is how he gave the money to the

person who has already tried to stop my sister’s marriage. We have not been in

talking terms but somehow my brother got his phone and talked to him and gave

him the money. He also kept on saying that the person will give back, and then

kept on saying, he would contact my uncle who would help. Nothing worked, noone

helped. Then he kept on saying, he would get it. I got hold of the address,

asked him to go, he went but came running saying he was afraid of the person’s

wife. See he gave all my hard earned money and is such a coward, not even having

guts to ask for the money given. In fact that person stayed at my house in my

absence, ate food and

took the money in 4 instalments, in my absence. Now he is not giving his

address. My brother has gone atleast 20 times, wasted all money and come back.

Everytime he shouts, when here, he will kill that man and get the money from his

dead body. I advise saying I need my money and not his body. God is there to

punish. Everytime I tell him, you go and come back without any result but

everytime he says past is past. This time he will do it.  This time also 2 days

back he went and actually I am sending him to a tour of Dwaraka costing 11000

rupees. So since 2 days were there. I told him to meet that fellow. Today

morning he called and said, he is going to die and that he may not come back

alive from Dwaraka and also that I am capable of getting the money back. I told

him, I cannot since I did not give the money. He says he will see if he returns

from there.

 

 

Imagine my living with an idiot all these years. I lost my mom in 92. Since then

he is with me. I have no relatives to rely on. Only good one is my eldest sister

who lives in Canada but she has had too many tragedies in her family recently.

 

Also while I don’t talk to anyone about my problems, my brother told everyone

in my office about it thinking they would get him the money. I hated that. In

fact, he has been a nuisance and I even made him stay alone where he uttered the

word bastard (scolding me since I sent him there) more than 10000 times the

whole night disturbing the neighbours. He also told me office people and I felt

so embarrassed and brought him back.

 

He does nothing in the house, I cook, make coffee or tea, wash my clothes, clean

the house and so on. While I am clean, he is too shabby spoils the house after I

clean, misplaces the books well arranged and so on. I get him lot of clothes but

he wears dirty ones, makes them dirty.

 

I don’t like any of his qualities but still in the corner feel good things to

happen to him but sometimes curse him since he irritates almost everyday.

Compared to before, there is improvement now. He writes Ramanama and so on. But

he is a coward and cannot even ask the money given. Actually they should run but

seeing them he runs.

 

What am I to do with such idiots, respect and love him or throw him away. When I

start pitying and helping, he irritates and makes me shout. Then I pity him. So

sometimes I shout, sometimes I pity.

 

Marriage also has not been happening. Also I mentioned about my office problem

because of which I talk not a single word to anyone. Now from home, I go to

office and from there return home but both are Hell for me. I return from one

Hell to another, noone to talk to and confide to.

Please explain if it will improve. What approach should be used to try recover

the money. He gave away my 10 year earnings and runs away seeing them. I am

employed and cannot all the time go there and that person does not respond even

to Police station or may be he gets money from them.

 

Only good thing about my brother is he is very honest, does not take a paise of

others, helps everyone to the extent possible. But he gossips a lot which I

don’t like. He has never earned money. So he talks rubbish politics and so on.

My field is totally different – music vocal and instrumental and I love

astrology.

 

Please tell me if there are shapas and how they need rectification.

In the previous years there used to be quarrel everyday between us and he used

very bad words though I used to keep quiet. In fact people used to advise me to

throw him out. Nowadays situation is better. He gives money to everyone and then

gets cheated and then says they are bad, then he is trapped by another. This

keeps on happening. Please advise.

 

Dev

 

 

 

 

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