Guest guest Posted October 28, 2009 Report Share Posted October 28, 2009 respected gurujans, i am wife who is separated and living with parents. i am so much tensed that all ego clashes of everybody is destructing my marriage life. my husband says its u who have created problems because of i couldnt keep our and his family secrets as secret. please suggest me what will happen. i have got one small baby. on delivery neither me nor my parents called my husbands family so in return they also didnt called. my parents are making more issues out of nothing but my dad is jallad and i am timid girl cant speak anything in front of him. i strictly said i wont marry again. if they feel me burden i will move out with my baby. my husband called but as dad has denied i couldnt talk to him or rather i myself never tried. but just due to timidity i just cant. my father is hurting ego of even a normal person so badly that no one will interact with him. what shall i do please suggest me what will happen. husband said to my dad that he will marry another girl at any cost now. i am very much tensed please help me name:- durgeshnandini (preety at home) dob:- 12/08/1987 tob:- 12:15 pm pob:- merta city rajasthan my husband details name:- balu dob:- 16/01/1984 tob:- some time near 7:15 am pob:- bhilwara rajasthan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 28, 2009 Report Share Posted October 28, 2009 Dear Madam, It seems,from your horo, there is severe temporary troubles created by both of your only, however, before, I proceed further,please confirm the following: 1) Did your narriage performed all of a sudden after cancellation of good number of proposals. 2) Did your birth occured in a wide house located at main road, facing south north. 3) Did your mother taken from a old and narrow house located at subroad,having both side neibour,south north facing. 4) After delivery, you stayed in the above house for quite a longer period say upto 16/17 years and did your education, with lowaverage/breakage due to physical illness. 5) After 17 years of your age, your father changed your residential house, good build,squarry type,located at main road. 6) In the above house, you did your education better and performed your marriage there. Pl.confirm the above for further reading. With best wishes, P K Tripathy ________________________________ preety <preetysweet_2006 Wed, October 28, 2009 5:29:25 AM what will happen in my married life respected gurujans, i am wife who is separated and living with parents. i am so much tensed that all ego clashes of everybody is destructing my marriage life. my husband says its u who have created problems because of i couldnt keep our and his family secrets as secret. please suggest me what will happen. i have got one small baby. on delivery neither me nor my parents called my husbands family so in return they also didnt called. my parents are making more issues out of nothing but my dad is jallad and i am timid girl cant speak anything in front of him. i strictly said i wont marry again. if they feel me burden i will move out with my baby. my husband called but as dad has denied i couldnt talk to him or rather i myself never tried. but just due to timidity i just cant. my father is hurting ego of even a normal person so badly that no one will interact with him. what shall i do please suggest me what will happen. husband said to my dad that he will marry another girl at any cost now. i am very much tensed please help me name:- durgeshnandini (preety at home) dob:- 12/08/1987 tob:- 12:15 pm pob:- merta city rajasthan my husband details name:- balu dob:- 16/01/1984 tob:- some time near 7:15 am pob:- bhilwara rajasthan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 28, 2009 Report Share Posted October 28, 2009 dear preethi, going thro ur chart and ur husband's chart, I find transit jup which is debilitated can be one of the reason for the current turmoil in ur marital life. saturn is the 2nd lord in ur husband' s chart and is exalted. transit saturn has come to fifth from moon and its aspect is on the 7th house from his lagna so that can also cause tension because his natal saturn is exalted. he is running jup maha dasa and saturn antara. Offer ur prayers to Lord shaneeswara. coming to ur chart ur 7th house is occupied by jup and 7th lord mars is debilitated. transit jup and mars are debilitated and after dec jup moves to kumbham so there will be some improvement. however transit mars is deblilitated till May 2010. so u have to wait patiently. Offer ur prayers to lord balaji. definitely u can come out of this turmoil and lead a happy marital life. In adddition keep an active contact with ur husband and if need be u can apologise as to whatever that has happened and assure him that such situation will not arise in the future. Ask ur relatives to talk to ur father and let him pacify down and let not his ego spoil ur marital life. Now that ur a mother, be bold and dont be submissive. whenever injustice is seen u have to be bold to expose the injustice. Ultimately truth will win over ego. may god bless u, good luck, k.gopu --- On Wed, 10/28/09, preety <preetysweet_2006 wrote: preety <preetysweet_2006 what will happen in my married life Wednesday, October 28, 2009, 5:29 AM respected gurujans, i am wife who is separated and living with parents. i am so much tensed that all ego clashes of everybody is destructing my marriage life. my husband says its u who have created problems because of i couldnt keep our and his family secrets as secret. please suggest me what will happen. i have got one small baby. on delivery neither me nor my parents called my husbands family so in return they also didnt called. my parents are making more issues out of nothing but my dad is jallad and i am timid girl cant speak anything in front of him. i strictly said i wont marry again. if they feel me burden i will move out with my baby. my husband called but as dad has denied i couldnt talk to him or rather i myself never tried. but just due to timidity i just cant. my father is hurting ego of even a normal person so badly that no one will interact with him. what shall i do please suggest me what will happen. husband said to my dad that he will marry another girl at any cost now. i am very much tensed please help me name:- durgeshnandini (preety at home) dob:- 12/08/1987 tob:- 12:15 pm pob:- merta city rajasthan my husband details name:- balu dob:- 16/01/1984 tob:- some time near 7:15 am pob:- bhilwara rajasthan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 28, 2009 Report Share Posted October 28, 2009 yes problems are created by us only. my husband suspects that i had affair in past. i dont know what to say to him but whenever he says he says upon some proofs. before marriage he had asked me several times to disclose it. he is pure hearted person he had disclosed everything about him on first day itself. he is so pure that he always use to share all his secrets with me. i all of a sudden after marriage when my husband asked on phone, i let his people hear this and keep on acting as if i dont know what he is talking. to which his parents baffled him and shouted on him. when he came back his dad hit him a lot. so probs stretched and he found that i use to call one of my friend to which initially i had assured him on durga kasam that i havent called anybody other than my mom. its hard he will never believe me now. also that his family was running serious financial troubles since marriage and i told all this to my dad who is now making issues as such that no man would ever dare to listen him. i am sure that if my husband would had been in front and my dad speaking so much about his house and attacking his self respect he would have hit up my dad even. 1. yes engagement was performed all of a sudden. then we both against wish of my dad married in court to later he affirmed. at times we both are looking extra ordinary so but natural he also had tremendous proposals i had some but werent good as him. 2. sir i couldnt get ur point my birth did occured in wife house but not facing south north facing north west 3. yes my mother use to live in old and narrow house both side neighbours directions i dont remember 4.yes we had this old and narrow house facing both way north and south. here i stayed from age 8 till age 17. i have physical illness people at first may term it as epilepsy but i feel its only from tensions. if i get tensed i loose control on my hands and legs and fall down and get cramps in fingers toungue everywhere except i can have damn feeling of this. i hidden this from my husband till my dadi started threatning me to tell him as i had failed in 12th, couldnt appear some exams due to this illness. my dad was always against my education. 5. it was on 15th february 2006 i and my husband were engaged when the person who had land just opposite to this house on seeing my husband proposed to sell it to us very very cheap. just within the seconds of engagement. he also got visas approval just before arriving for engagement. yes once i moved to this house i passed out 12th commerce instead of science then and first year and then marriage in nov 2008. this house is good and square built just opposite to that old rented house. > > respected gurujans, > > i am wife who is separated and living with parents. i am so much tensed that all ego clashes of everybody is destructing my marriage life. my husband says its u who have created problems because of i couldnt keep our and his family secrets as secret. please suggest me what will happen. i have got one small baby. on delivery neither me nor my parents called my husbands family so in return they also didnt called. my parents are making more issues out of nothing but my dad is jallad and i am timid girl cant speak anything in front of him. i strictly said i wont marry again. if they feel me burden i will move out with my baby. my husband called but as dad has denied i couldnt talk to him or rather i myself never tried. but just due to timidity i just cant. my father is hurting ego of even a normal person so badly that no one will interact with him. what shall i do please suggest me what will happen. husband said to my dad that he will marry another girl at > any cost now. i am very much tensed please help me > > name:- durgeshnandini (preety at home) > dob:- 12/08/1987 > tob:- 12:15 pm > pob:- merta city rajasthan > > my husband details > name:- balu > dob:- 16/01/1984 > tob:- some time near 7:15 am > pob:- bhilwara rajasthan > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2009 Report Share Posted October 29, 2009 Dear Madam, First of all I would like to request you to address by name atleast, as there are many astrologers, and I got confused whether you have replied to my querries. We take lot of pain in analysis, only with an attitude that we should get proper response, so that we feel the interest of remidy seeker and only looking to this we move ahead. 2) As regards your answer in point No. 2, north-west means , west comes in north, so it is north-south facing but not east west facing. Okay, it seems, the confirmation, which, you have send, has got satisfied horo-accuracy, since, you want some remidies in order to lead your happy married life, it appears lot of deep research work to both of your horos on invented and experimented basis to astro-remidies.So which can be more convenient over cell, as, it would take more longer time in computer.So, would it be convenient for you to contact me over cell, if so, please mail me With best wishes, P K Tripathy, Vedic Scientiest. ________________________________ preety <preetysweet_2006 Thu, October 29, 2009 3:17:27 AM Re: what will happen in my married life yes problems are created by us only. my husband suspects that i had affair in past. i dont know what to say to him but whenever he says he says upon some proofs. before marriage he had asked me several times to disclose it. he is pure hearted person he had disclosed everything about him on first day itself. he is so pure that he always use to share all his secrets with me. i all of a sudden after marriage when my husband asked on phone, i let his people hear this and keep on acting as if i dont know what he is talking. to which his parents baffled him and shouted on him. when he came back his dad hit him a lot. so probs stretched and he found that i use to call one of my friend to which initially i had assured him on durga kasam that i havent called anybody other than my mom. its hard he will never believe me now. also that his family was running serious financial troubles since marriage and i told all this to my dad who is now making issues as such that no man would ever dare to listen him. i am sure that if my husband would had been in front and my dad speaking so much about his house and attacking his self respect he would have hit up my dad even. 1. yes engagement was performed all of a sudden. then we both against wish of my dad married in court to later he affirmed. at times we both are looking extra ordinary so but natural he also had tremendous proposals i had some but werent good as him. 2. sir i couldnt get ur point my birth did occured in wife house but not facing south north facing north west 3. yes my mother use to live in old and narrow house both side neighbours directions i dont remember 4.yes we had this old and narrow house facing both way north and south. here i stayed from age 8 till age 17. i have physical illness people at first may term it as epilepsy but i feel its only from tensions. if i get tensed i loose control on my hands and legs and fall down and get cramps in fingers toungue everywhere except i can have damn feeling of this. i hidden this from my husband till my dadi started threatning me to tell him as i had failed in 12th, couldnt appear some exams due to this illness. my dad was always against my education. 5. it was on 15th february 2006 i and my husband were engaged when the person who had land just opposite to this house on seeing my husband proposed to sell it to us very very cheap. just within the seconds of engagement. he also got visas approval just before arriving for engagement. yes once i moved to this house i passed out 12th commerce instead of science then and first year and then marriage in nov 2008. this house is good and square built just opposite to that old rented house. > > respected gurujans, > > i am wife who is separated and living with parents. i am so much tensed that all ego clashes of everybody is destructing my marriage life. my husband says its u who have created problems because of i couldnt keep our and his family secrets as secret. please suggest me what will happen. i have got one small baby. on delivery neither me nor my parents called my husbands family so in return they also didnt called. my parents are making more issues out of nothing but my dad is jallad and i am timid girl cant speak anything in front of him. i strictly said i wont marry again. if they feel me burden i will move out with my baby. my husband called but as dad has denied i couldnt talk to him or rather i myself never tried. but just due to timidity i just cant. my father is hurting ego of even a normal person so badly that no one will interact with him. what shall i do please suggest me what will happen. husband said to my dad that he will marry another girl at > any cost now. i am very much tensed please help me > > name:- durgeshnandini (preety at home) > dob:- 12/08/1987 > tob:- 12:15 pm > pob:- merta city rajasthan > > my husband details > name:- balu > dob:- 16/01/1984 > tob:- some time near 7:15 am > pob:- bhilwara rajasthan > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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