Guest guest Posted October 22, 2007 Report Share Posted October 22, 2007 Hare Rama Krishna Namaste Sri.Gutpa ji, As always, I am thankful for such enriching writing that you feed my eyes to read, and mind to decipher. Gaurav _www.planetgem.biz_ (http://www.planetgem.biz) In a message dated 10/22/2007 6:39:34 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, gupta816 writes: Namaste, You were born in Vyatipata yoga,your lagna lord Guru is combust associated with lagna kaarak Surya in Mithun the burnt Rasi;these makes you an unreliable and inconsistent . Your 2nd house is afflicted by Ketu aspect,bhava kaarak Guru is also afflicted and 2nd lord Sani has lost itself in graha yuddha with Venus;these make your Chinta / Manasu volatile and sadist. On the whole you would be of the habit of 'think one, do another thing' / 'csha~nNa~pitaa'. Supose you are beautiful and your wife is not beautiful, that itself is a gift for the reason every 'sathi' (wife)would love and be sincere to their handsome 'pathi'(husband); on the other hand you would be also greatly relived for the reasons of the adage 'bharya roopavathy chatru'. As you were born in Simha rasi,Poorva phalguni nakshtra,make a pilgrimage with your wife to Kurukshetra and Pushkar(near Ajmer) perform the rituals as directed by native Pandas ,further to ease yourself, practice to follow meditation and as well as consult a good psychiatrist for good treatment and follow up. Regards, D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta vivluv_2000 <vivluv_2000 wrote: .Dear Sirs, I am a victim of my own attitude but what to do I am like that and not able to help. So, I request you all to guide me and give me corrective remedies. This has become the most serious issue of my life and I am on the brink of breaking down. I got married to Shweta on 29th June 2006 and from that day till today there has not been a single day of peace among us. The problem is mostly from my side. We got engaged in March 2006 and from that time when I first met her in Mumbai; I was not attracted towards her. There was no feeling of attraction. Whenever I met her I felt she is not the one. She never appealed to me. But I did not have the guts to break engagement also thinking that things will improve. We got married but after 2 days only I had negative feelings towards her. The main thing was her complexion. I am a kind of person who likes Fair girls. I don't know why I said yes for marriage but I have realized this fact that fair/white girl was so very important in my life. Please don't take it otherwise but I am telling you my correct feelings. She is not as fair as I am infact she is not fair at all. Over and above I never like her personality, posture, the way she walk and the way she talk. Though we married but I always used to comment. Our whole honeymoon was spoilt. I have never given her respect of wife neither I have loved her. Though I have tried to change myself but my focus never shifts from all these things and I end up commenting on her thinking she will improve some day. But 9 months have gone and till date we never have good married life. And now it's like on the rocks. We have started fighting on continuous basis and personal life is becoming totally absurd. Many a time I have told her to get separated and she also agrees but I don't have the guts for that also. The family set up and society is like that and infact I also want to give up chance but the thing is when there is no attraction from day one and I don't love her, respect her as a person she is how will we live together. From her side she tried initially to change as per me but things don't change if she is wheatish in complexion she will remain the same. Now she is also irritated and fed up with my behavior. Apart from a couple of attitude problem and high temper she is a good person. Sir this is snapshot of what's going on in one aspect of my life though it has still not surfaced and all the things are happening in four walls of our room. Though I am under control but she is getting affected emotionally. As of now things are very bad and we are fighting on a regular basis. Thing is very simple. She expects a lot of love, respect from me which I am not been able to. Believe me sir, even when I go out with her I am not comfortable. What shall I do now? I cant change her – the way she is, her color complexion, the way she walks, she talks, the way she take things in life, her attitude. I have problems with everything. She fights on small comments on her. I know that I am not doing justice to her and that's why she might be behaving. She never compromises on anything. Only one thing is she is not bad. Is there any remedy/solution like Puja, Vrata, Gems any sort of things which will make things better among us. Please suggest remedy for both of us. What can make her attractive to me? Please suggest sirs. I never expected my married life will be come hell like this. Why is this happening to me? Vivek 10th July 1978 Maunath Bhanjan 18.40 Shweta ( wife) 7th March 1982 Kalyan 9.40 am Do You ? Tired of spam? Mail has the best spam protection around [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] Archives: vedic astrology Group info: vedic astrology/info.html To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- ........ May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... || Om Tat Sat || Sarvam Sri Krishnaarpanamastu || Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 22, 2007 Report Share Posted October 22, 2007 Namaste, You were born in Vyatipata yoga,your lagna lord Guru is combust associated with lagna kaarak Surya in Mithun the burnt Rasi;these makes you an unreliable and inconsistent . Your 2nd house is afflicted by Ketu aspect,bhava kaarak Guru is also afflicted and 2nd lord Sani has lost itself in graha yuddha with Venus;these make your Chinta / Manasu volatile and sadist. On the whole you would be of the habit of 'think one, do another thing' / 'csha~nNa~pitaa'. Supose you are beautiful and your wife is not beautiful, that itself is a gift for the reason every 'sathi' (wife)would love and be sincere to their handsome 'pathi'(husband); on the other hand you would be also greatly relived for the reasons of the adage 'bharya roopavathy chatru'. As you were born in Simha rasi,Poorva phalguni nakshtra,make a pilgrimage with your wife to Kurukshetra and Pushkar(near Ajmer) perform the rituals as directed by native Pandas ,further to ease yourself, practice to follow meditation and as well as consult a good psychiatrist for good treatment and follow up. Regards, D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta vivluv_2000 <vivluv_2000 wrote: .Dear Sirs, I am a victim of my own attitude but what to do I am like that and not able to help. So, I request you all to guide me and give me corrective remedies. This has become the most serious issue of my life and I am on the brink of breaking down. I got married to Shweta on 29th June 2006 and from that day till today there has not been a single day of peace among us. The problem is mostly from my side. We got engaged in March 2006 and from that time when I first met her in Mumbai; I was not attracted towards her. There was no feeling of attraction. Whenever I met her I felt she is not the one. She never appealed to me. But I did not have the guts to break engagement also thinking that things will improve. We got married but after 2 days only I had negative feelings towards her. The main thing was her complexion. I am a kind of person who likes Fair girls. I don't know why I said yes for marriage but I have realized this fact that fair/white girl was so very important in my life. Please don't take it otherwise but I am telling you my correct feelings. She is not as fair as I am infact she is not fair at all. Over and above I never like her personality, posture, the way she walk and the way she talk. Though we married but I always used to comment. Our whole honeymoon was spoilt. I have never given her respect of wife neither I have loved her. Though I have tried to change myself but my focus never shifts from all these things and I end up commenting on her thinking she will improve some day. But 9 months have gone and till date we never have good married life. And now it's like on the rocks. We have started fighting on continuous basis and personal life is becoming totally absurd. Many a time I have told her to get separated and she also agrees but I don't have the guts for that also. The family set up and society is like that and infact I also want to give up chance but the thing is when there is no attraction from day one and I don't love her, respect her as a person she is how will we live together. From her side she tried initially to change as per me but things don't change if she is wheatish in complexion she will remain the same. Now she is also irritated and fed up with my behavior. Apart from a couple of attitude problem and high temper she is a good person. Sir this is snapshot of what's going on in one aspect of my life though it has still not surfaced and all the things are happening in four walls of our room. Though I am under control but she is getting affected emotionally. As of now things are very bad and we are fighting on a regular basis. Thing is very simple. She expects a lot of love, respect from me which I am not been able to. Believe me sir, even when I go out with her I am not comfortable. What shall I do now? I cant change her – the way she is, her color complexion, the way she walks, she talks, the way she take things in life, her attitude. I have problems with everything. She fights on small comments on her. I know that I am not doing justice to her and that's why she might be behaving. She never compromises on anything. Only one thing is she is not bad. Is there any remedy/solution like Puja, Vrata, Gems any sort of things which will make things better among us. Please suggest remedy for both of us. What can make her attractive to me? Please suggest sirs. I never expected my married life will be come hell like this. Why is this happening to me? Vivek 10th July 1978 Maunath Bhanjan 18.40 Shweta ( wife) 7th March 1982 Kalyan 9.40 am Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 22, 2007 Report Share Posted October 22, 2007 Namaste Vivek, Your chart shows many influences that disturb married life. Specifically, Venus (indicator for love life) is in conjunction with Mars and Saturn, both of which are malefic. As such, you have many conflicting attitudes about your wife, as you have indicated. The solution is not an easy one. Most importantly, you should ask yourself if you love your wife. If not, then there is no reason in prologing a relationship that has no life. If yes, then you can stay with the marriage, even if there are conflicts along the way. Regards, John R. , Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote: > > > Dear Sirs, > > I am a victim of my own attitude but what to do I am > like that and not able to help. So, I request you all > to guide me and give me corrective remedies. > > This has become the most serious issue of my life and > I am on the brink of breaking down. I got married to > Shweta on 29th June 2006 and from that day till today > there has not been a single day of peace among us. The > problem is mostly from my side. We got engaged in > March 2006 and from that time when I first met her in > Mumbai; I was not attracted towards her. There was no > feeling of attraction. Whenever I met her I felt she > is not the one. She never appealed to me. But I did > not have the guts to break engagement also thinking > that things will improve. > > We got married but after 2 days only I had negative > feelings towards her. The main thing was her > complexion. I am a kind of person who likes Fair > girls. I don't know why I said yes for marriage but I > have realized this fact that fair/white girl was so > very important in my life. Please don't take it > otherwise but I am telling you my correct feelings. > She is not as fair as I am infact she is not fair at > all. Over and above I never like her personality, > posture, the way she walk and the way she talk. Though > we married but I always used to comment. Our whole > honeymoon was spoilt. I have never given her respect > of wife neither I have loved her. Though I have tried > to change myself but my focus never shifts from all > these things and I end up commenting on her thinking > she will improve some day. But 9 months have gone and > till date we never have good married life. And now > it's like on the rocks. We have started fighting on > continuous basis and personal life is becoming totally > absurd. > > Many a time I have told her to get separated and she > also agrees but I don't have the guts for that also. > The family set up and society is like that and infact > I also want to give up chance but the thing is when > there is no attraction from day one and I don't love > her, respect her as a person she is how will we live > together. From her side she tried initially to change > as per me but things don't change if she is wheatish > in complexion she will remain the same. Now she is > also irritated and fed up with my behavior. Apart from > a couple of attitude problem and high temper she is a > good person. > > Sir this is snapshot of what's going on in one aspect > of my life though it has still not surfaced and all > the things are happening in four walls of our room. > Though I am under control but she is getting affected > emotionally. > > > As of now things are very bad and we are fighting on a > regular basis. Thing is very simple. She expects a lot > of love, respect from me which I am not been able to. > Believe me sir, even when I go out with her I am not > comfortable. What shall I do now? I cant change her – > the way she is, her color complexion, the way she > walks, she talks, the way she take things in life, her > attitude. I have problems with everything. She fights > on small comments on her. I know that I am not doing > justice to her and that's why she might be behaving. > She never compromises on anything. Only one thing is > she is not bad. > > Is there any remedy/solution like Puja, Vrata, Gems > any sort of things which will make things better among > us. Please suggest remedy for both of us. What can > make her attractive to me? Please suggest sirs. I > never expected my married life will be come hell like > this. Why is this happening to me? > > Vivek > 10th July 1978 > Maunath Bhanjan > 18.40 > > Shweta ( wife) > 7th March 1982 > Kalyan > 9.40 am > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 22, 2007 Report Share Posted October 22, 2007 dear vivek, at the outset I have not analysed ur horoscope. Before going to both the horoscopes, let me tell u that u didnt have the guts to say no to the alliance and having married her ur trying to find a convenient excuse like skin colour. Please note that there is a dermatological problem called vitiligo ie excessive production of a pigment called melamine which will turn the entire body white and the skin becomes intolerant to heat. So if a girl is born with dark complexion it has nothing to do with beauty, ultimately u have to change ur thinking and approach. if u make a cut on ur skin or ur wife's skin , below the skin the composition is the same for both. What u shud look for is good health,good behaviour, tolerant behaviour and this shud be mutual not only from the girl, it shud also reflect from ur end. So drop the negative thought of skin complexion etc. start a new life with a new approach which shud be positive. probably u can take ur wife to a hill station and have a frank talk and assure that u will forget the past and start a new life filled up with joy and harmony. u can also go to a temple do puja for both and pray for happiness and haromony. do this u dont need any astro advice. good luck, k.gopu Vivek 10th July 1978 Maunath Bhanjan 18.40 Shweta ( wife) 7th March 1982 Kalyan 9.40 am Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 22, 2007 Report Share Posted October 22, 2007 a correction ie vitiligo is due to excessive production of the pigment melanin and not melamine as mentioned. sorry for the error k.gopu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2007 Report Share Posted October 23, 2007 Thanks for the reply sir. It was really enriching and I knew about myself. But is there any solution for all this? And how does it affects me? Why psychiatrist? I am not mad? Pls help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2007 Report Share Posted October 23, 2007 - Thanks for your reply sir. She is very intolerant and short tempered. She is also inconsistent. If she starts something she will stop the same. Also, never does anything perfectly. She has a communication problem and can never talk and convince people properly. All this is making the situation worse and I get more worried. What shall i do? -- In vedic astrology , K Gopu <kgopu_24 wrote: > > > dear vivek, > at the outset I have not analysed ur horoscope. Before > going to both the horoscopes, let me tell u that u > didnt have the guts to say no to the alliance and > having married her ur trying to find a convenient > excuse like skin colour. Please note that there is a > dermatological problem called vitiligo ie excessive > production of a pigment called melamine which will > turn the entire body white and the skin becomes > intolerant to heat. So if a girl is born with dark > complexion it has nothing to do with beauty, > ultimately u have to change ur thinking and approach. > if u make a cut on ur skin or ur wife's skin , below > the skin the composition is the same for both. What u > shud look for is good health,good behaviour, tolerant > behaviour and this shud be mutual not only from the > girl, it shud also reflect from ur end. So drop the > negative thought of skin complexion etc. start a new > life with a new approach which shud be positive. > probably u can take ur wife to a hill station and have > a frank talk and assure that u will forget the past > and start a new life filled up with joy and harmony. u > can also go to a temple do puja for both and pray for > happiness and haromony. do this u dont need any astro > advice. > > good luck, > k.gopu > > Vivek > 10th July 1978 > Maunath Bhanjan > 18.40 > > Shweta ( wife) > 7th March 1982 > Kalyan > 9.40 am > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2007 Report Share Posted October 23, 2007 Vivek > 10th July 1978 > Maunath Bhanjan > 18.40 > > Shweta ( wife) > 7th March 1982 > Kalyan > 9.40 am > dear vivek, the place of birth u had given is somewhere near gorakhpur. I had to search in the website for longitude and latitude. In ur case lagna lord jup is in the 7th along with sun and loses its power. lagna lord inthe 7th along with sun can disturb ur married life whether u divorce this girl and marry once again. I would suggest that ur prayers shud be focussed to LOrd dhakshinamurthy and lord balaji. from moon ur 7th lord is saturn placed in simha and inimical house for saturn plus ur running sade sati so for u the next 4.5yrs will be problematic. U can offer ur prayers to lord shaneeswara.ur rasi and ur wife's rasi are in 2/12 position so frequent quarrels are bound to occur. so both can go to the temple on weekends and spend ur time there, preferably to a hill temple. In ur wife's horoscope her lagna is aries and the lord is in the 6th house along with saturn, both are retrograde so naturally she is short tempered. but her trimsamsa chart shows her asc and moon falling in the house of jupiter so she will be endowed with satwic qualities. she is born in Ashelesha star, the qualities are that they will do most of the things aimlessly and everything they except instantaneous results. she is running the last leg of sade sati and this tension will be there for 2years. Prayers to Lord shaneeswara will help her a lot.her 7th house is occupied by retro jup which is once again not a favourable house for Jupiter. So both can offer ur prayers to Lord dhakshinamurthy(jupiter). this will help u to lead a harmonious life. good luck, k.gopu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2007 Report Share Posted October 23, 2007 Thanks a lot for your mail sir. Please suggest me some remedy as I dont want to separated. I know as of now I don't love her but i hope with time it will come. Can you help me with some astrological remedies t Regards --- John <jr_esq make this better. > wrote: > Namaste Vivek, > > Your chart shows many influences that disturb > married life. > Specifically, Venus (indicator for love life) is in > conjunction with > Mars and Saturn, both of which are malefic. As > such, you have many > conflicting attitudes about your wife, as you have > indicated. > > The solution is not an easy one. Most importantly, > you should ask > yourself if you love your wife. If not, then there > is no reason in > prologing a relationship that has no life. If yes, > then you can stay > with the marriage, even if there are conflicts along > the way. > > Regards, > > John R. > , Jim > <vivluv_2000 wrote: > > > > > > Dear Sirs, > > > > I am a victim of my own attitude but what to do I > am > > like that and not able to help. So, I request you > all > > to guide me and give me corrective remedies. > > > > This has become the most serious issue of my life > and > > I am on the brink of breaking down. I got married > to > > Shweta on 29th June 2006 and from that day till > today > > there has not been a single day of peace among us. > The > > problem is mostly from my side. We got engaged in > > March 2006 and from that time when I first met her > in > > Mumbai; I was not attracted towards her. There was > no > > feeling of attraction. Whenever I met her I felt > she > > is not the one. She never appealed to me. But I > did > > not have the guts to break engagement also > thinking > > that things will improve. > > > > We got married but after 2 days only I had > negative > > feelings towards her. The main thing was her > > complexion. I am a kind of person who likes Fair > > girls. I don't know why I said yes for marriage > but I > > have realized this fact that fair/white girl was > so > > very important in my life. Please don't take it > > otherwise but I am telling you my correct > feelings. > > She is not as fair as I am infact she is not fair > at > > all. Over and above I never like her personality, > > posture, the way she walk and the way she talk. > Though > > we married but I always used to comment. Our whole > > honeymoon was spoilt. I have never given her > respect > > of wife neither I have loved her. Though I have > tried > > to change myself but my focus never shifts from > all > > these things and I end up commenting on her > thinking > > she will improve some day. But 9 months have gone > and > > till date we never have good married life. And now > > it's like on the rocks. We have started fighting > on > > continuous basis and personal life is becoming > totally > > absurd. > > > > Many a time I have told her to get separated and > she > > also agrees but I don't have the guts for that > also. > > The family set up and society is like that and > infact > > I also want to give up chance but the thing is > when > > there is no attraction from day one and I don't > love > > her, respect her as a person she is how will we > live > > together. From her side she tried initially to > change > > as per me but things don't change if she is > wheatish > > in complexion she will remain the same. Now she is > > also irritated and fed up with my behavior. Apart > from > > a couple of attitude problem and high temper she > is a > > good person. > > > > Sir this is snapshot of what's going on in one > aspect > > of my life though it has still not surfaced and > all > > the things are happening in four walls of our > room. > > Though I am under control but she is getting > affected > > emotionally. > > > > > > As of now things are very bad and we are fighting > on a > > regular basis. Thing is very simple. She expects a > lot > > of love, respect from me which I am not been able > to. > > Believe me sir, even when I go out with her I am > not > > comfortable. What shall I do now? I cant change > her – > > the way she is, her color complexion, the way she > > walks, she talks, the way she take things in life, > her > > attitude. I have problems with everything. She > fights > > on small comments on her. I know that I am not > doing > > justice to her and that's why she might be > behaving. > > She never compromises on anything. Only one thing > is > > she is not bad. > > > > Is there any remedy/solution like Puja, Vrata, > Gems > > any sort of things which will make things better > among > > us. Please suggest remedy for both of us. What can > > make her attractive to me? Please suggest sirs. I > > never expected my married life will be come hell > like > > this. Why is this happening to me? > > > > Vivek > > 10th July 1978 > > Maunath Bhanjan > > 18.40 > > > > Shweta ( wife) > > 7th March 1982 > > Kalyan > > 9.40 am > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Tired of spam? Mail has the best spam > protection around > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2007 Report Share Posted October 23, 2007 Namaste, Hindus consider marriage is part of ones Dharma .An individual's duty fulfilled by observance of custom or law.Wedlock should create reciprocal love and affection,mutual respect among couples or else one would be exposed to kalathra saabha .If some of the above referred qualities are found to be lacking in ones wedded life,it should be probed into Astrologically and repaired by prayers and pilgrimages or Medically treated / rectified with the help of the tools like Meditation,psychology,au~shad prayog (medicines), regardless of any stigma attached to the above referred different means. Regards, D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta. Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote: Thanks for the reply sir. It was really enriching and I knew about myself. But is there any solution for all this? And how does it affects me? Why psychiatrist? I am not mad? Pls help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2007 Report Share Posted October 23, 2007 My DOB is 18-03-1979; AM:11:25; Place : Guntur ( AP) India. Please suggest me for. 1. Quick marrage, 2. professional advance ment. I am currently wearing Blue saphire ( This helped me alot when i first wore it two and half years bacl), Diamond, Green emerald. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2007 Report Share Posted October 23, 2007 Also very importantly, - She is very intolerant and short tempered. If she is not in a good mood then she will spill her bad mood on everybody. she does not know how to deal with situations tactfullt and communicate effectively and intelligently. She is also inconsistent. If she starts something she will stop the same on a mid way. Also, never does anything perfectly. She has a communication problem and can never talk and convince people properly. All this is making the situation worse and I get more worried. What shall i do? is there any solution? Can astrology help us? I want to be with her but not like this. I want to accpet her. Currently its all formality and i look for reasons so that i can accept her. Whenever i look at her negative vibes starts creeping in me and i'll start complaining. I dont fee good to see her. My personal life is in a mess. I want to have good life both peacefully and personally. gurujis and seniors pls guide me properly. Thanks, > > Dear Sirs, > > I am a victim of my own attitude but what to do I am > like that and not able to help. So, I request you > all > to guide me and give me corrective remedies. > > This has become the most serious issue of my life > and > I am on the brink of breaking down. I got married to > Shweta on 29th June 2006 and from that day till > today > there has not been a single day of peace among us. > The > problem is mostly from my side. We got engaged in > March 2006 and from that time when I first met her > in > Mumbai; I was not attracted towards her. There was > no > feeling of attraction. Whenever I met her I felt she > is not the one. She never appealed to me. But I did > not have the guts to break engagement also thinking > that things will improve. > > We got married but after 2 days only I had negative > feelings towards her. The main thing was her > complexion. I am a kind of person who likes Fair > girls. I don’t know why I said yes for marriage but > I > have realized this fact that fair/white girl was so > very important in my life. Please don’t take it > otherwise but I am telling you my correct feelings. > She is not as fair as I am infact she is not fair at > all. Over and above I never like her personality, > posture, the way she walk and the way she talk. > Though > we married but I always used to comment. Our whole > honeymoon was spoilt. I have never given her respect > of wife neither I have loved her. Though I have > tried > to change myself but my focus never shifts from all > these things and I end up commenting on her thinking > she will improve some day. But 9 months have gone > and > till date we never have good married life. And now > it’s like on the rocks. We have started fighting on > continuous basis and personal life is becoming > totally > absurd. > > Many a time I have told her to get separated and she > also agrees but I don’t have the guts for that also. > The family set up and society is like that and > infact > I also want to give up chance but the thing is when > there is no attraction from day one and I don’t love > her, respect her as a person she is how will we live > together. From her side she tried initially to > change > as per me but things don’t change if she is wheatish > in complexion she will remain the same. Now she is > also irritated and fed up with my behavior. Apart > from > a couple of attitude problem and high temper she is > a > good person. > > Sir this is snapshot of what’s going on in one > aspect > of my life though it has still not surfaced and all > the things are happening in four walls of our room. > Though I am under control but she is getting > affected > emotionally. > > > As of now things are very bad and we are fighting on > a > regular basis. Thing is very simple. She expects a > lot > of love, respect from me which I am not been able > to. > Believe me sir, even when I go out with her I am not > comfortable. What shall I do now? I cant change her > – > the way she is, her color complexion, the way she > walks, she talks, the way she take things in life, > her > attitude. I have problems with everything. She > fights > on small comments on her. I know that I am not doing > justice to her and that’s why she might be behaving. > She never compromises on anything. Only one thing is > she is not bad. > > Is there any remedy/solution like Puja, Vrata, Gems > any sort of things which will make things better > among > us. Please suggest remedy for both of us. What can > make her attractive to me? Please suggest sirs. I > never expected my married life will be come hell > like > this. Why is this happening to me? > > Vivek > 10th July 1978 > Maunath Bhanjan > 18.40 > > Shweta ( wife) > 7th March 1982 > Kalyan > 9.40 am > > > > > > > > Tired of spam? Mail has the best spam > protection around > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2007 Report Share Posted October 23, 2007 Dear Chi.Gaurav, Thanks for the compliments and your kind remembrances. With regards, D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta. yobrevol wrote: Hare Rama Krishna Namaste Sri.Gutpa ji, As always, I am thankful for such enriching writing that you feed my eyes to read, and mind to decipher. Gaurav _www.planetgem.biz_ (http://www.planetgem.biz) In a message dated 10/22/2007 6:39:34 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, gupta816 writes: Namaste, You were born in Vyatipata yoga,your lagna lord Guru is combust associated with lagna kaarak Surya in Mithun the burnt Rasi;these makes you an unreliable and inconsistent . Your 2nd house is afflicted by Ketu aspect,bhava kaarak Guru is also afflicted and 2nd lord Sani has lost itself in graha yuddha with Venus;these make your Chinta / Manasu volatile and sadist. On the whole you would be of the habit of 'think one, do another thing' / 'csha~nNa~pitaa'. Supose you are beautiful and your wife is not beautiful, that itself is a gift for the reason every 'sathi' (wife)would love and be sincere to their handsome 'pathi'(husband); on the other hand you would be also greatly relived for the reasons of the adage 'bharya roopavathy chatru'. As you were born in Simha rasi,Poorva phalguni nakshtra,make a pilgrimage with your wife to Kurukshetra and Pushkar(near Ajmer) perform the rituals as directed by native Pandas ,further to ease yourself, practice to follow meditation and as well as consult a good psychiatrist for good treatment and follow up. Regards, D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta vivluv_2000 <vivluv_2000 wrote: .Dear Sirs, I am a victim of my own attitude but what to do I am like that and not able to help. So, I request you all to guide me and give me corrective remedies. This has become the most serious issue of my life and I am on the brink of breaking down. I got married to Shweta on 29th June 2006 and from that day till today there has not been a single day of peace among us. The problem is mostly from my side. We got engaged in March 2006 and from that time when I first met her in Mumbai; I was not attracted towards her. There was no feeling of attraction. Whenever I met her I felt she is not the one. She never appealed to me. But I did not have the guts to break engagement also thinking that things will improve. We got married but after 2 days only I had negative feelings towards her. The main thing was her complexion. I am a kind of person who likes Fair girls. I don't know why I said yes for marriage but I have realized this fact that fair/white girl was so very important in my life. Please don't take it otherwise but I am telling you my correct feelings. She is not as fair as I am infact she is not fair at all. Over and above I never like her personality, posture, the way she walk and the way she talk. Though we married but I always used to comment. Our whole honeymoon was spoilt. I have never given her respect of wife neither I have loved her. Though I have tried to change myself but my focus never shifts from all these things and I end up commenting on her thinking she will improve some day. But 9 months have gone and till date we never have good married life. And now it's like on the rocks. We have started fighting on continuous basis and personal life is becoming totally absurd. Many a time I have told her to get separated and she also agrees but I don't have the guts for that also. The family set up and society is like that and infact I also want to give up chance but the thing is when there is no attraction from day one and I don't love her, respect her as a person she is how will we live together. From her side she tried initially to change as per me but things don't change if she is wheatish in complexion she will remain the same. Now she is also irritated and fed up with my behavior. Apart from a couple of attitude problem and high temper she is a good person. Sir this is snapshot of what's going on in one aspect of my life though it has still not surfaced and all the things are happening in four walls of our room. Though I am under control but she is getting affected emotionally. As of now things are very bad and we are fighting on a regular basis. Thing is very simple. She expects a lot of love, respect from me which I am not been able to. Believe me sir, even when I go out with her I am not comfortable. What shall I do now? I cant change her – the way she is, her color complexion, the way she walks, she talks, the way she take things in life, her attitude. I have problems with everything. She fights on small comments on her. I know that I am not doing justice to her and that's why she might be behaving. She never compromises on anything. Only one thing is she is not bad. Is there any remedy/solution like Puja, Vrata, Gems any sort of things which will make things better among us. Please suggest remedy for both of us. What can make her attractive to me? Please suggest sirs. I never expected my married life will be come hell like this. Why is this happening to me? Vivek 10th July 1978 Maunath Bhanjan 18.40 Shweta ( wife) 7th March 1982 Kalyan 9.40 am Do You ? Tired of spam? Mail has the best spam protection around [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] Archives: vedic astrology Group info: vedic astrology/info.html To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... || Om Tat Sat || Sarvam Sri Krishnaarpanamastu || Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2007 Report Share Posted October 23, 2007 Namaste Vivek, As a recommendation, you should donate services or money to organizations helping single parents, or battered women. This will increase the strength of your moksha houses, which will eventually heal the negativuty in your marriage relationship. Regards, John R. , Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote: > > Thanks a lot for your mail sir. > > Please suggest me some remedy as I dont want to > separated. I know as of now I don't love her but i > hope with time it will come. > > Can you help me with some astrological remedies t > > > Regards > > > > --- John <jr_esq make this better. > > > > wrote: > > > Namaste Vivek, > > > > Your chart shows many influences that disturb > > married life. > > Specifically, Venus (indicator for love life) is in > > conjunction with > > Mars and Saturn, both of which are malefic. As > > such, you have many > > conflicting attitudes about your wife, as you have > > indicated. > > > > The solution is not an easy one. Most importantly, > > you should ask > > yourself if you love your wife. If not, then there > > is no reason in > > prologing a relationship that has no life. If yes, > > then you can stay > > with the marriage, even if there are conflicts along > > the way. > > > > Regards, > > > > John R. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Jim > > <vivluv_2000@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Sirs, > > > > > > I am a victim of my own attitude but what to do I > > am > > > like that and not able to help. So, I request you > > all > > > to guide me and give me corrective remedies. > > > > > > This has become the most serious issue of my life > > and > > > I am on the brink of breaking down. I got married > > to > > > Shweta on 29th June 2006 and from that day till > > today > > > there has not been a single day of peace among us. > > The > > > problem is mostly from my side. We got engaged in > > > March 2006 and from that time when I first met her > > in > > > Mumbai; I was not attracted towards her. There was > > no > > > feeling of attraction. Whenever I met her I felt > > she > > > is not the one. She never appealed to me. But I > > did > > > not have the guts to break engagement also > > thinking > > > that things will improve. > > > > > > We got married but after 2 days only I had > > negative > > > feelings towards her. The main thing was her > > > complexion. I am a kind of person who likes Fair > > > girls. I don't know why I said yes for marriage > > but I > > > have realized this fact that fair/white girl was > > so > > > very important in my life. Please don't take it > > > otherwise but I am telling you my correct > > feelings. > > > She is not as fair as I am infact she is not fair > > at > > > all. Over and above I never like her personality, > > > posture, the way she walk and the way she talk. > > Though > > > we married but I always used to comment. Our whole > > > honeymoon was spoilt. I have never given her > > respect > > > of wife neither I have loved her. Though I have > > tried > > > to change myself but my focus never shifts from > > all > > > these things and I end up commenting on her > > thinking > > > she will improve some day. But 9 months have gone > > and > > > till date we never have good married life. And now > > > it's like on the rocks. We have started fighting > > on > > > continuous basis and personal life is becoming > > totally > > > absurd. > > > > > > Many a time I have told her to get separated and > > she > > > also agrees but I don't have the guts for that > > also. > > > The family set up and society is like that and > > infact > > > I also want to give up chance but the thing is > > when > > > there is no attraction from day one and I don't > > love > > > her, respect her as a person she is how will we > > live > > > together. From her side she tried initially to > > change > > > as per me but things don't change if she is > > wheatish > > > in complexion she will remain the same. Now she is > > > also irritated and fed up with my behavior. Apart > > from > > > a couple of attitude problem and high temper she > > is a > > > good person. > > > > > > Sir this is snapshot of what's going on in one > > aspect > > > of my life though it has still not surfaced and > > all > > > the things are happening in four walls of our > > room. > > > Though I am under control but she is getting > > affected > > > emotionally. > > > > > > > > > As of now things are very bad and we are fighting > > on a > > > regular basis. Thing is very simple. She expects a > > lot > > > of love, respect from me which I am not been able > > to. > > > Believe me sir, even when I go out with her I am > > not > > > comfortable. What shall I do now? I cant change > > her – > > > the way she is, her color complexion, the way she > > > walks, she talks, the way she take things in life, > > her > > > attitude. I have problems with everything. She > > fights > > > on small comments on her. I know that I am not > > doing > > > justice to her and that's why she might be > > behaving. > > > She never compromises on anything. Only one thing > > is > > > she is not bad. > > > > > > Is there any remedy/solution like Puja, Vrata, > > Gems > > > any sort of things which will make things better > > among > > > us. Please suggest remedy for both of us. What can > > > make her attractive to me? Please suggest sirs. I > > > never expected my married life will be come hell > > like > > > this. Why is this happening to me? > > > > > > Vivek > > > 10th July 1978 > > > Maunath Bhanjan > > > 18.40 > > > > > > Shweta ( wife) > > > 7th March 1982 > > > Kalyan > > > 9.40 am > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Tired of spam? Mail has the best spam > > protection around > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 24, 2007 Report Share Posted October 24, 2007 Dear Sh. Gupta ji, Thanks for your feedback. I will try to incorporate things and meet some pshychiatrist. Meanwhile sir I was really concerned when you have written that I am unreliable. While I feel that I am not that bad also. I never think bad of anybody and will try to do whatever I say. Can you pls throw some light on that? It would be good for me to intospect and improve further to become a better person. I hope you understand my position sir. Sir I know that I am doing right when I treat my wife this way but it happens and I cant help. I have tried to control my feelings but beyond some point i react becos those feelings start coming to my mind as soon as I see her. Please guide me sir as I need to grow in my professional life as well. Thanks a lot Sir, Regards, vedic astrology , Sathiyanarayana Gupta <gupta816 wrote: > > Namaste, > > Hindus consider marriage is part of ones Dharma .An individual's duty fulfilled by observance of custom or law.Wedlock should create reciprocal love and affection,mutual respect among couples or else one would be exposed to kalathra saabha .If some of the above referred qualities are found to be lacking in ones wedded life,it should be probed into Astrologically and repaired by prayers and pilgrimages or Medically treated / rectified with the help of the tools like Meditation,psychology,au~shad prayog (medicines), regardless of any stigma attached to the above referred different means. > > Regards, > D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta. > > Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote: Thanks for the reply sir. It was really enriching and > I knew about myself. But is there any solution for all > this? And how does it affects me? Why psychiatrist? I > am not mad? > > Pls help. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 24, 2007 Report Share Posted October 24, 2007 Namaste, No Astrologer or at least I could ever exactly trace the qualities of a person but I could only sketch ones qualities using adjectives.Any thing said seems to be excessive and redundant,just ignore them. Regards, D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta. vivluv_2000 <vivluv_2000 wrote: Dear Sh. Gupta ji, Thanks for your feedback. I will try to incorporate things and meet some pshychiatrist. Meanwhile sir I was really concerned when you have written that I am unreliable. While I feel that I am not that bad also. I never think bad of anybody and will try to do whatever I say. Can you pls throw some light on that? It would be good for me to intospect and improve further to become a better person. I hope you understand my position sir. Sir I know that I am doing right when I treat my wife this way but it happens and I cant help. I have tried to control my feelings but beyond some point i react becos those feelings start coming to my mind as soon as I see her. Please guide me sir as I need to grow in my professional life as well. Thanks a lot Sir, Regards, vedic astrology , Sathiyanarayana Gupta <gupta816 wrote: > > Namaste, > > Hindus consider marriage is part of ones Dharma .An individual's duty fulfilled by observance of custom or law.Wedlock should create reciprocal love and affection,mutual respect among couples or else one would be exposed to kalathra saabha .If some of the above referred qualities are found to be lacking in ones wedded life,it should be probed into Astrologically and repaired by prayers and pilgrimages or Medically treated / rectified with the help of the tools like Meditation,psychology,au~shad prayog (medicines), regardless of any stigma attached to the above referred different means. > > Regards, > D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta. > > Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote: Thanks for the reply sir. It was really enriching and > I knew about myself. But is there any solution for all > this? And how does it affects me? Why psychiatrist? I > am not mad? > > Pls help. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 25, 2007 Report Share Posted October 25, 2007 Dear Sh Gupta ji, I just wanted to introspect and if any wekness is there so that I can try to correct on the same. Guruji, you said about investigation thriugh astrolgy and solution. What do you think should be the solution for the problems I am facing? Pls suggest some remedies. Thnaks a lot Guruji for your kind advice. Vivek vedic astrology , Sathiyanarayana Gupta <gupta816 wrote: > > Namaste, > No Astrologer or at least I could ever exactly trace the qualities of a person but I could only sketch ones qualities using adjectives.Any thing said seems to be excessive and redundant,just ignore them. > Regards, > D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta. > > vivluv_2000 <vivluv_2000 wrote: Dear Sh. Gupta ji, > > Thanks for your feedback. I will try to incorporate things and meet > some pshychiatrist. Meanwhile sir I was really concerned when you > have written that I am unreliable. While I feel that I am not that > bad also. I never think bad of anybody and will try to do whatever I > say. Can you pls throw some light on that? It would be good for me > to intospect and improve further to become a better person. I hope > you understand my position sir. > > Sir I know that I am doing right when I treat my wife this way but > it happens and I cant help. I have tried to control my feelings but > beyond some point i react becos those feelings start coming to my > mind as soon as I see her. > > Please guide me sir as I need to grow in my professional life as > well. > > Thanks a lot Sir, > > Regards, > > vedic astrology , Sathiyanarayana Gupta > <gupta816@> wrote: > > > > Namaste, > > > > Hindus consider marriage is part of ones Dharma .An individual's > duty fulfilled by observance of custom or law.Wedlock should create > reciprocal love and affection,mutual respect among couples or else > one would be exposed to kalathra saabha .If some of the above > referred qualities are found to be lacking in ones wedded life,it > should be probed into Astrologically and repaired by prayers and > pilgrimages or Medically treated / rectified with the help of the > tools like Meditation,psychology,au~shad prayog (medicines), > regardless of any stigma attached to the above referred different > means. > > > > Regards, > > D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta. > > > > Jim <vivluv_2000@> wrote: Thanks > for the reply sir. It was really enriching and > > I knew about myself. But is there any solution for all > > this? And how does it affects me? Why psychiatrist? I > > am not mad? > > > > Pls help. > > > > > > > > Tired of spam? Mail has the best spam protection around > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 28, 2007 Report Share Posted October 28, 2007 Dear Sh. Gupta ji, I am waiting for your reply. Pls help me sir with the right solution so that I can get some peace. Also - I need to focus on my career as well as on that front I need to grow fast. Please let me know things to do so that I am able to lead a better life and become a nice person. Thanks, Vivek vedic astrology , " vivluv_2000 " <vivluv_2000 wrote: > > Dear Sh Gupta ji, > > I just wanted to introspect and if any wekness is there so that I > can try to correct on the same. Guruji, you said about investigation > thriugh astrolgy and solution. What do you think should be the > solution for the problems I am facing? Pls suggest some remedies. > > Thnaks a lot Guruji for your kind advice. > > Vivek > > > > > vedic astrology , Sathiyanarayana Gupta > <gupta816@> wrote: > > > > Namaste, > > No Astrologer or at least I could ever exactly trace the > qualities of a person but I could only sketch ones qualities using > adjectives.Any thing said seems to be excessive and redundant,just > ignore them. > > Regards, > > D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta. > > > > vivluv_2000 <vivluv_2000@> wrote: > Dear Sh. Gupta ji, > > > > Thanks for your feedback. I will try to incorporate things and > meet > > some pshychiatrist. Meanwhile sir I was really concerned when you > > have written that I am unreliable. While I feel that I am not > that > > bad also. I never think bad of anybody and will try to do > whatever I > > say. Can you pls throw some light on that? It would be good for > me > > to intospect and improve further to become a better person. I > hope > > you understand my position sir. > > > > Sir I know that I am doing right when I treat my wife this way > but > > it happens and I cant help. I have tried to control my feelings > but > > beyond some point i react becos those feelings start coming to my > > mind as soon as I see her. > > > > Please guide me sir as I need to grow in my professional life as > > well. > > > > Thanks a lot Sir, > > > > Regards, > > > > vedic astrology , Sathiyanarayana Gupta > > <gupta816@> wrote: > > > > > > Namaste, > > > > > > Hindus consider marriage is part of ones Dharma .An > individual's > > duty fulfilled by observance of custom or law.Wedlock should > create > > reciprocal love and affection,mutual respect among couples or > else > > one would be exposed to kalathra saabha .If some of the above > > referred qualities are found to be lacking in ones wedded life,it > > should be probed into Astrologically and repaired by prayers and > > pilgrimages or Medically treated / rectified with the help of the > > tools like Meditation,psychology,au~shad prayog (medicines), > > regardless of any stigma attached to the above referred different > > means. > > > > > > Regards, > > > D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta. > > > > > > Jim <vivluv_2000@> wrote: Thanks > > for the reply sir. It was really enriching and > > > I knew about myself. But is there any solution for all > > > this? And how does it affects me? Why psychiatrist? I > > > am not mad? > > > > > > Pls help. > > > > > > > > > > > > Tired of spam? Mail has the best spam protection > around > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Tired of spam? Mail has the best spam protection around > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 Namaste, > I am waiting for your reply. Pls help me sir with the right solution > so that I can get some peace. Kindly refer to the URL vedic astrology/message/9733;in the concluding paragraph of the message I have suggested you some remedies but for them, I have nothing to add further in this regard. Regards, D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta. vedic astrology , " vivluv_2000 " <vivluv_2000 wrote: > > > Dear Sh. Gupta ji, > > I am waiting for your reply. Pls help me sir with the right solution > so that I can get some peace. Also - I need to focus on my career as > well as on that front I need to grow fast. Please let me know things > to do so that I am able to lead a better life and become a nice > person. > > Thanks, > > Vivek > > > vedic astrology , " vivluv_2000 " > <vivluv_2000@> wrote: > > > > Dear Sh Gupta ji, > > > > I just wanted to introspect and if any wekness is there so that I > > can try to correct on the same. Guruji, you said about > investigation > > thriugh astrolgy and solution. What do you think should be the > > solution for the problems I am facing? Pls suggest some remedies. > > > > Thnaks a lot Guruji for your kind advice. > > > > Vivek > > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology , Sathiyanarayana Gupta > > <gupta816@> wrote: > > > > > > Namaste, > > > No Astrologer or at least I could ever exactly trace the > > qualities of a person but I could only sketch ones qualities using > > adjectives.Any thing said seems to be excessive and redundant,just > > ignore them. > > > Regards, > > > D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta. > > > > > > vivluv_2000 <vivluv_2000@> wrote: > > Dear Sh. Gupta ji, > > > > > > Thanks for your feedback. I will try to incorporate things and > > meet > > > some pshychiatrist. Meanwhile sir I was really concerned when > you > > > have written that I am unreliable. While I feel that I am not > > that > > > bad also. I never think bad of anybody and will try to do > > whatever I > > > say. Can you pls throw some light on that? It would be good for > > me > > > to intospect and improve further to become a better person. I > > hope > > > you understand my position sir. > > > > > > Sir I know that I am doing right when I treat my wife this way > > but > > > it happens and I cant help. I have tried to control my feelings > > but > > > beyond some point i react becos those feelings start coming to > my > > > mind as soon as I see her. > > > > > > Please guide me sir as I need to grow in my professional life > as > > > well. > > > > > > Thanks a lot Sir, > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > vedic astrology , Sathiyanarayana Gupta > > > <gupta816@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Namaste, > > > > > > > > Hindus consider marriage is part of ones Dharma .An > > individual's > > > duty fulfilled by observance of custom or law.Wedlock should > > create > > > reciprocal love and affection,mutual respect among couples or > > else > > > one would be exposed to kalathra saabha .If some of the above > > > referred qualities are found to be lacking in ones wedded > life,it > > > should be probed into Astrologically and repaired by prayers > and > > > pilgrimages or Medically treated / rectified with the help of > the > > > tools like Meditation,psychology,au~shad prayog (medicines), > > > regardless of any stigma attached to the above referred > different > > > means. > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta. > > > > > > > > Jim <vivluv_2000@> wrote: > Thanks > > > for the reply sir. It was really enriching and > > > > I knew about myself. But is there any solution for all > > > > this? And how does it affects me? Why psychiatrist? I > > > > am not mad? > > > > > > > > Pls help. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Tired of spam? Mail has the best spam protection > > around > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Tired of spam? Mail has the best spam protection > around > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 6, 2007 Report Share Posted November 6, 2007 Dear shri Gupta ji, Sorry for writing again and again. But what to do condition is like that. i hope you will not mind. Pls let me know if astrologically you can see our marital condition to be improving. I dont know Gupta ji but we fight on a daily basis. I am not like that person but with her I dont know what happens to me. She also has a major ego problem and without understanding things she reacts very fast and shouts and then i also lose my temper and things start becoming worse. later on i realize that what to do. Please help me with your advice as to if situation will continue like this and how we will live our lives like thia. And for sure I am not able to develop a liking for her and its always there in my mind`that I deserve better marriage than what I am having. I am just sharing my feelings with you. at the same time i also understand that whatver GOD has given me is ok and I must respect that. Also, it was my own decision to marry her. I understand this also. But cant help with my thoughts when I see some other girl or negative feelings when i see my wife then i start thinking why it happened to me>? Pls try to understand my situation and suggest me some remedy. I need your help sir. Thanks, Vivek vedic astrology , " vivluv_2000 " <vivluv_2000 wrote: > > Dear Sh Gupta ji, > > I just wanted to introspect and if any wekness is there so that I > can try to correct on the same. Guruji, you said about investigation > thriugh astrolgy and solution. What do you think should be the > solution for the problems I am facing? Pls suggest some remedies. > > Thnaks a lot Guruji for your kind advice. > > Vivek > > > > > vedic astrology , Sathiyanarayana Gupta > <gupta816@> wrote: > > > > Namaste, > > No Astrologer or at least I could ever exactly trace the > qualities of a person but I could only sketch ones qualities using > adjectives.Any thing said seems to be excessive and redundant,just > ignore them. > > Regards, > > D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta. > > > > vivluv_2000 <vivluv_2000@> wrote: > Dear Sh. Gupta ji, > > > > Thanks for your feedback. I will try to incorporate things and > meet > > some pshychiatrist. Meanwhile sir I was really concerned when you > > have written that I am unreliable. While I feel that I am not > that > > bad also. I never think bad of anybody and will try to do > whatever I > > say. Can you pls throw some light on that? It would be good for > me > > to intospect and improve further to become a better person. I > hope > > you understand my position sir. > > > > Sir I know that I am doing right when I treat my wife this way > but > > it happens and I cant help. I have tried to control my feelings > but > > beyond some point i react becos those feelings start coming to my > > mind as soon as I see her. > > > > Please guide me sir as I need to grow in my professional life as > > well. > > > > Thanks a lot Sir, > > > > Regards, > > > > vedic astrology , Sathiyanarayana Gupta > > <gupta816@> wrote: > > > > > > Namaste, > > > > > > Hindus consider marriage is part of ones Dharma .An > individual's > > duty fulfilled by observance of custom or law.Wedlock should > create > > reciprocal love and affection,mutual respect among couples or > else > > one would be exposed to kalathra saabha .If some of the above > > referred qualities are found to be lacking in ones wedded life,it > > should be probed into Astrologically and repaired by prayers and > > pilgrimages or Medically treated / rectified with the help of the > > tools like Meditation,psychology,au~shad prayog (medicines), > > regardless of any stigma attached to the above referred different > > means. > > > > > > Regards, > > > D.Sathiyanarayana Gupta. > > > > > > Jim <vivluv_2000@> wrote: Thanks > > for the reply sir. It was really enriching and > > > I knew about myself. But is there any solution for all > > > this? And how does it affects me? Why psychiatrist? I > > > am not mad? > > > > > > Pls help. > > > > > > > > > > > > Tired of spam? Mail has the best spam protection > around > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Tired of spam? Mail has the best spam protection around > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 25, 2008 Report Share Posted February 25, 2008 TOB seems to be an approximation. However, Rasi chart is correct. See the horoscope carefully, see dasa sequence. Marital felicity is ruled out, at least during Saturn dasa (2004 to 2023). See chara dasa too and you can notice marital discord but good material prospects for spouse. Praveen Kumar On Mon, Feb 25, 2008 at 12:52 PM, Astro Logy <astrovignan wrote: > Dear Gurujans, > > Pranam! > > The following are the birth details of my friend and his wife. Inlaws > filed case against him and demanded money initially . Now they kept quiet > .They are living separately from 6 months . will she come to him ? If so > when ? or will they get divorce? Pl.kindly analyse the charts and give > your valuble suggestions. > > My frn's data > > 21-10-1968 > 11:45pm > Nellore,AP > > Wife's data > > 16-9-1971 > 2:30 am > Nellore , AP > > thx > Vignan. > > ________ > Be a better friend, newshound, and > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. > http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 26, 2008 Report Share Posted February 26, 2008 Problem in 1971's chart..... Praveen Agrawal <pkumar24 wrote: TOB seems to be an approximation. However, Rasi chart is correct. See the horoscope carefully, see dasa sequence. Marital felicity is ruled out, at least during Saturn dasa (2004 to 2023). See chara dasa too and you can notice marital discord but good material prospects for spouse. Praveen Kumar On Mon, Feb 25, 2008 at 12:52 PM, Astro Logy <astrovignan wrote: > Dear Gurujans, > > Pranam! > > The following are the birth details of my friend and his wife. Inlaws > filed case against him and demanded money initially . Now they kept quiet > .They are living separately from 6 months . will she come to him ? If so > when ? or will they get divorce? Pl.kindly analyse the charts and give > your valuble suggestions. > > My frn's data > > 21-10-1968 > 11:45pm > Nellore,AP > > Wife's data > > 16-9-1971 > 2:30 am > Nellore , AP > > thx > Vignan. > > ________ > Be a better friend, newshound, and > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. > http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 26, 2008 Report Share Posted February 26, 2008 Dear Guruji's can you pl.elaborate ? Prashant <praspandey vedic astrology Tuesday, February 26, 2008 8:43:12 PM Re: [vedic astrology] MARRIAGE PROBLEMS Problem in 1971's chart..... Praveen Agrawal <pkumar24 (AT) gmail (DOT) com> wrote: TOB seems to be an approximation. However, Rasi chart is correct. See the horoscope carefully, see dasa sequence. Marital felicity is ruled out, at least during Saturn dasa (2004 to 2023). See chara dasa too and you can notice marital discord but good material prospects for spouse. Praveen Kumar On Mon, Feb 25, 2008 at 12:52 PM, Astro Logy <astrovignan@ > wrote: > Dear Gurujans, > > Pranam! > > The following are the birth details of my friend and his wife. Inlaws > filed case against him and demanded money initially . Now they kept quiet > .They are living separately from 6 months . will she come to him ? If so > when ? or will they get divorce? Pl.kindly analyse the charts and give > your valuble suggestions. > > My frn's data > > 21-10-1968 > 11:45pm > Nellore,AP > > Wife's data > > 16-9-1971 > 2:30 am > Nellore , AP > > thx > Vignan. > > ____________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _ > Be a better friend, newshound, and > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. > http://mobile. / ;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR 8HDtDypao8Wcj9tA cJ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 5, 2009 Report Share Posted July 5, 2009 Hello Youry, Aggressiveness of the wife is very difficult to be checked. - Youry Sunday, July 05, 2009 2:28 AM Marriage Problems Dear Professor, May I ask a remedy advise for the following person (male)? Date of Birth : 19 Mar 1964 Time of Birth : 7:48 am Place of Birth : Kiev, Ukraine (30E31, 50N26), TZ 3 He has many problems in his marriage and he is going to get divorce. This is his 2nd marriage. He has 13 years son, to whom he is very connected. He likes his wife, but she is aggressive and very jealous towards of him. She doesn't work and stay at home, but he works very hard every day. Is any way to help them to save family? Just in case, the wife chart is following: Date of Birth : 23 Feb 1970 Time of Birth : 12:00 pm Place of Birth : Leninsk, Kazahstan (63E19, 45N39), TZ 5 Sincerely yours, Youry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 5, 2009 Report Share Posted July 5, 2009 Dear Professor, Thanks for your prompt reply and for your answer so much! Is any way to save family or reduce tension in the family? The husband feels very upset himself, because he loves his son very much and he still have warm feelings to his wife. Is any way to bring a peace to him? He has not favorable transits now (Ra, Ma and Sk), Thanks a lot for help! Youry  Hello Youry, Aggressiveness of the wife is very difficult to be checked. - Youry Sunday, July 05, 2009 2:28 AM Marriage Problems Dear Professor, May I ask a remedy advise for the following person (male)? Date of Birth : 19 Mar 1964 Time of Birth : 7:48 am Place of Birth : Kiev, Ukraine (30E31, 50N26), TZ 3 He has many problems in his marriage and he is going to get divorce. This is his 2nd marriage. He has 13 years son, to whom he is very connected. He likes his wife, but she is aggressive and very jealous towards of him. She doesn't work and stay at home, but he works very hard every day. Is any way to help them to save family? Just in case, the wife chart is following: Date of Birth : 23 Feb 1970 Time of Birth : 12:00 pm Place of Birth : Leninsk, Kazahstan (63E19, 45N39), TZ 5 Sincerely yours, Youry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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