When am i going to get a life partner?? 1/01

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The problem is that, i'm anxious if , even i get married, will i be able to keep

my wife happy? I've got a very low self esteem basically...that's the reason...I

feel inferior to other people, though i have a good job right now, nd i may plan

to do higher studies in the near future..till when is this going to last??Will

it be solved after marriage?I was also ridiculed and bullied by some people when

i was young( in school and college). even now i face it sometime...i also have

some kind of phobia and have been taking medicines for the same...

thanking you in advance

 

 

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Prakash,

 

In our modern reality, I have seen people as old as 60 getting married and then

begetting children as well. One famous scientist got married at 60+ (2nd

marriage obviously!) and then had a baby who was many years younger than his

grandchildren from the first marriage!

 

What I am saying is that fate moves in interesting ways and current modern

(open) mindset gradually imposes less and less of draconian decrees and rules on

those who live in it. All kinds of marriages take place, with legal and in some

cases religious tolerance (if not blessings!). Do not agonize so much -- you are

still young and perhaps marriage may not be your cup of tea at all.

 

Please first make yourself stronger, and more complete or you will make another

person's life hell! Have mercy on your future spouse! And children, in case you

hastily get married just because parents or relatives or Great Grand Mother

*Society* says so!

 

I am sorry if I am sounding harsh, insensitive etc but please do not try to

build a home on a platform made of thatch floating on troubled waters!

Particularly when you already know so much about yourself and your insecurities!

Enough to voice those on a public forum full of strangers. Definitely get some

counselling but not necessarily astrological, at this juncture in your life.

 

Regards,

 

Rohiniranjan

 

, prakash baskaran <prakash_b_18

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> The problem is that, i'm anxious if , even i get married, will i be able to

keep my wife happy? I've got a very low self esteem basically...that's the

reason...I feel inferior to other people, though i have a good job right now, nd

i may plan to do higher studies in the near future..till when is this going to

last??Will it be solved after marriage?I was also ridiculed and bullied by some

people when i was young( in school and college). even now i face it sometime...i

also have some kind of phobia and have been taking medicines for the same...

> thanking you in advance

>

>

> The INTERNET now has a personality. YOURS! See your Homepage.

http://in./

>

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