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Not too long ago PAPA from the west, happily performed Kanya-daan of their

daughters to the " brahmins of the east " .. For some reason(not know to me)

eastern brahmins were highly sought after for marriage purpose, even though they

spoke a foreign language and had different dietary needs..So when the freshly

married Kanya arrived at the door-step of her newly adopted family, and despite

not able to speak a lick of her new family language, or even tasted their food

was still highly entertained from her In-laws.

Kanya quickly adapted & adjusted well to the her new clan, and all this without

even matching the horoscope!!!

 

Lilly

 

, Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 wrote:

>

> Sir,

> It is not always through parents and the adult individuals as per their wish

canadopt for Institutional tie up by way of a traditional/vedic Kalyanam or by

way solemnising in a holy place b4 priests(church/Koil/Mushraf)

>

> Vattem Krishnan

> Cyber Jyotish Services

> (For all counseling services)

> Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

>  

>

> --- On Thu, 1/21/10, K Gopu <kgopu_24 wrote:

>

>

> K Gopu <kgopu_24

> Re: Re: query - bhakut dosha

>

> Thursday, January 21, 2010, 12:58 AM

>

>

>  

>

>

>

> dear shri krishnaji,

> Very nicely explained. If there is mental compatability all the negative

> factors of the chart gets reduced and the couple' s marital life is

> harmonious. Sometimes marriages not arranged by parents also

> cliks and they live a happy life.

>  

>  

> regards,

> k.gopu

>

> --- On Wed, 1/20/10, Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 > wrote:

>

> Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 >

> Re: Re: query - bhakut dosha

>

> Wednesday, January 20, 2010, 12:01 PM

>

>  

>

> Rohini Ji,

> Marraige as per conventions and as per socital limitations is one and only

kind of arrangements between hetero sexuals with the sole aim of  sharing of

concerns,live togther happily and promote progeny by fulfilling desires.

> Marriaged if arranged(not out of one's own choice) can last as long if the two

individuals feel comfortable able to have same wave length.Mutual respect of

feelings,comforts and have prominence and respect.When ever these basics(of any

marraige) are flouted,they lead to collapse.This comes out of discord ,loss of

trust and even conceit.

> As long as these basics are born in mind by the two people,all doshas get

cancelled and harmony prevails.if any one at any time ignores,disrespects ,toys

with ego,they are bound to fall through.Every thing has a limit.This limit is

the Lakshmana Rekha.when not crossed,it is a life full of duets.

> Considering the social situations ,Marriage is an arrangement between two

persons.Today the geneder basis also is not a matter.In that context arranged

arrangements can last as long the two individuals would like to continue to

have.Their longevity can be anything depending the emotional quotient.

>

> Vattem Krishnan

> Cyber Jyotish Services

> (For all counseling services)

> Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

>  

>

> --- On Tue, 1/19/10, rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ hotmail.com> wrote:

>

> rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ hotmail.com>

> Re: query - bhakut dosha

>

> Tuesday, January 19, 2010, 10:04 PM

>

>  

>

> Krishnan ji,

>

> Seriously -- how long do we think, ARRANGED MARRIAGES are going to last in

Human Society? I mean the entire world, of course!

>

> Not a challenge, but just something to take a deep breath and realistically

ponder about!

>

> RR_,

>

> , Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99@ ..>

wrote:

> >

> > Dear Members,

> > Some issues like this were widely discussed and opined .v r in favour or

against for such doshas.probably the decison to atke the firm view is left to

the one who has to finally decide good or bad.

> > Aditi was informed of theory as put in texts and it;s practical impct of

good and bad has lot of vascillation from true to false.

> > V have done our things by giving theoritical implications and left to the

native to have good faith and all consequences to count but not to falme the old

version nor the one who judgesd and made a positive suggestion.

> > The bhakoota dosha is just coined,perhaps to  " prevent " some thing may

happen.In fact all doshas have some base in our texts.Some tool courage and

challenged and r happy and few were also quarrentined for their revolt against

Dharam/Sastras or what ever.

> > This also reminds me a recent query dealing with marriage problem and in

which,the girls parents came up with a stern attitude that astrologically this

relationship acn not end up in meaning marraige.

> >

> >

> > Vattem Krishnan

> > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > (For all counseling services)

> > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> >  

> >

> > --- On Tue, 1/19/10, rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ ...> wrote:

> >

> >

> > rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ ...>

> > Re: query - bhakut dosha

> >

> > Tuesday, January 19, 2010, 9:27 PM

> >

> >

> >  

> >

> >

> >

> > Dear Aditi,

> >

> > Jyotish is a very 'empirical' subject that also has a rather HEAVY didactic

end! If you take up any traditional, classical text on Jyotish, you will find

that it is choc-full of rules and yogas and so on, but other than one or two

text-books (out of the few dozens that you hear of on Jyotish fora -- BPHS,

Vrihajjataka, Phaladeepika, Deve Keralam, Uttarkalamrita, ad infinitud... ) NO

EXAMPLES are provided! One can only deduce that the 'workbooks' with examples

and so on somehow miraculously got destroyed or were only provided in Gurukool

type settings (after one enrolled in the academy which was not easy from what I

hear!).

> >

> > Before you make a decision that could affect human lives, whether it is

Bhakoot or NBRY -- please make sure that you follow-up the theory with examples!

Or else you would end up blaming Jyotish!

> >

> > Also, please remember: One robin does not signal the spring and one locust

(TIDDA) does not warn of a famine!

> >

> > Take care...!

> >

> > Rohiniranjan

> >

> > , aditi budhiraja <aditi_budhiraja@

....> wrote:

> > >

> > > Hello/ Namaste,

> > >

> > > Please could all the respected astrologers make me understand what is

bhakut dosha?

> > >

> > > Also, how dangerous it is when considered from the match making point of

view?

> > >

> > > Best Regards,

> > > Aditi Budhiraja

> > >

> > >

> > > The INTERNET now has a personality. YOURS! See your Homepage.

http://in.. com/

> > >

> > >

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Thanks! I did not know about this practice -- presumably amongst certain Hindus

settled in the West?

 

I can only hope that such PAPAs were doing whatever they thought was best for

their progeny. Other than that, no comments :-)

 

RR

 

 

 

, " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005 wrote:

>

> Not too long ago PAPA from the west, happily performed Kanya-daan of their

daughters to the " brahmins of the east " .. For some reason(not know to me)

eastern brahmins were highly sought after for marriage purpose, even though they

spoke a foreign language and had different dietary needs..So when the freshly

married Kanya arrived at the door-step of her newly adopted family, and despite

not able to speak a lick of her new family language, or even tasted their food

was still highly entertained from her In-laws.

> Kanya quickly adapted & adjusted well to the her new clan, and all this

without even matching the horoscope!!!

>

> Lilly

>

> , Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99@> wrote:

> >

> > Sir,

> > It is not always through parents and the adult individuals as per their wish

canadopt for Institutional tie up by way of a traditional/vedic Kalyanam or by

way solemnising in a holy place b4 priests(church/Koil/Mushraf)

> >

> > Vattem Krishnan

> > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > (For all counseling services)

> > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> >  

> >

> > --- On Thu, 1/21/10, K Gopu <kgopu_24@> wrote:

> >

> >

> > K Gopu <kgopu_24@>

> > Re: Re: query - bhakut dosha

> >

> > Thursday, January 21, 2010, 12:58 AM

> >

> >

> >  

> >

> >

> >

> > dear shri krishnaji,

> > Very nicely explained. If there is mental compatability all the negative

> > factors of the chart gets reduced and the couple' s marital life is

> > harmonious. Sometimes marriages not arranged by parents also

> > cliks and they live a happy life.

> >  

> >  

> > regards,

> > k.gopu

> >

> > --- On Wed, 1/20/10, Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 > wrote:

> >

> > Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 >

> > Re: Re: query - bhakut dosha

> >

> > Wednesday, January 20, 2010, 12:01 PM

> >

> >  

> >

> > Rohini Ji,

> > Marraige as per conventions and as per socital limitations is one and only

kind of arrangements between hetero sexuals with the sole aim of  sharing of

concerns,live togther happily and promote progeny by fulfilling desires.

> > Marriaged if arranged(not out of one's own choice) can last as long if the

two individuals feel comfortable able to have same wave length.Mutual respect of

feelings,comforts and have prominence and respect.When ever these basics(of any

marraige) are flouted,they lead to collapse.This comes out of discord ,loss of

trust and even conceit.

> > As long as these basics are born in mind by the two people,all doshas get

cancelled and harmony prevails.if any one at any time ignores,disrespects ,toys

with ego,they are bound to fall through.Every thing has a limit.This limit is

the Lakshmana Rekha.when not crossed,it is a life full of duets.

> > Considering the social situations ,Marriage is an arrangement between two

persons.Today the geneder basis also is not a matter.In that context arranged

arrangements can last as long the two individuals would like to continue to

have.Their longevity can be anything depending the emotional quotient.

> >

> > Vattem Krishnan

> > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > (For all counseling services)

> > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> >  

> >

> > --- On Tue, 1/19/10, rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ hotmail.com> wrote:

> >

> > rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ hotmail.com>

> > Re: query - bhakut dosha

> >

> > Tuesday, January 19, 2010, 10:04 PM

> >

> >  

> >

> > Krishnan ji,

> >

> > Seriously -- how long do we think, ARRANGED MARRIAGES are going to last in

Human Society? I mean the entire world, of course!

> >

> > Not a challenge, but just something to take a deep breath and realistically

ponder about!

> >

> > RR_,

> >

> > , Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99@ ..>

wrote:

> > >

> > > Dear Members,

> > > Some issues like this were widely discussed and opined .v r in favour or

against for such doshas.probably the decison to atke the firm view is left to

the one who has to finally decide good or bad.

> > > Aditi was informed of theory as put in texts and it;s practical impct of

good and bad has lot of vascillation from true to false.

> > > V have done our things by giving theoritical implications and left to the

native to have good faith and all consequences to count but not to falme the old

version nor the one who judgesd and made a positive suggestion.

> > > The bhakoota dosha is just coined,perhaps to  " prevent " some thing may

happen.In fact all doshas have some base in our texts.Some tool courage and

challenged and r happy and few were also quarrentined for their revolt against

Dharam/Sastras or what ever.

> > > This also reminds me a recent query dealing with marriage problem and in

which,the girls parents came up with a stern attitude that astrologically this

relationship acn not end up in meaning marraige.

> > >

> > >

> > > Vattem Krishnan

> > > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > > (For all counseling services)

> > > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> > > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> > >  

> > >

> > > --- On Tue, 1/19/10, rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ ...> wrote:

> > >

> > >

> > > rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ ...>

> > > Re: query - bhakut dosha

> > >

> > > Tuesday, January 19, 2010, 9:27 PM

> > >

> > >

> > >  

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Dear Aditi,

> > >

> > > Jyotish is a very 'empirical' subject that also has a rather HEAVY

didactic end! If you take up any traditional, classical text on Jyotish, you

will find that it is choc-full of rules and yogas and so on, but other than one

or two text-books (out of the few dozens that you hear of on Jyotish fora --

BPHS, Vrihajjataka, Phaladeepika, Deve Keralam, Uttarkalamrita, ad infinitud...

) NO EXAMPLES are provided! One can only deduce that the 'workbooks' with

examples and so on somehow miraculously got destroyed or were only provided in

Gurukool type settings (after one enrolled in the academy which was not easy

from what I hear!).

> > >

> > > Before you make a decision that could affect human lives, whether it is

Bhakoot or NBRY -- please make sure that you follow-up the theory with examples!

Or else you would end up blaming Jyotish!

> > >

> > > Also, please remember: One robin does not signal the spring and one locust

(TIDDA) does not warn of a famine!

> > >

> > > Take care...!

> > >

> > > Rohiniranjan

> > >

> > > , aditi budhiraja

<aditi_budhiraja@ ...> wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Hello/ Namaste,

> > > >

> > > > Please could all the respected astrologers make me understand what is

bhakut dosha?

> > > >

> > > > Also, how dangerous it is when considered from the match making point of

view?

> > > >

> > > > Best Regards,

> > > > Aditi Budhiraja

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > The INTERNET now has a personality. YOURS! See your Homepage.

http://in.. com/

> > > >

> > > >

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Ay_APPA, How did you assume I was talking about Hindu's settled in the west??

In case you forgot Dharni AMMA is round, as in not flat or linear. East, West

concepts are all presumably only valid from the point where we stand on this

earth. East can be anyone residing east of you, or an eastern state for that

matter..By the way I was talking about a grandmother in India who got married to

someone from an eastern state back 60+ years ago..

 

Lilly

 

 

 

 

 

 

, " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani

wrote:

>

> Thanks! I did not know about this practice -- presumably amongst certain

Hindus settled in the West?

>

> I can only hope that such PAPAs were doing whatever they thought was best for

their progeny. Other than that, no comments :-)

>

> RR

>

>

>

> , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote:

> >

> > Not too long ago PAPA from the west, happily performed Kanya-daan of their

daughters to the " brahmins of the east " .. For some reason(not know to me)

eastern brahmins were highly sought after for marriage purpose, even though they

spoke a foreign language and had different dietary needs..So when the freshly

married Kanya arrived at the door-step of her newly adopted family, and despite

not able to speak a lick of her new family language, or even tasted their food

was still highly entertained from her In-laws.

> > Kanya quickly adapted & adjusted well to the her new clan, and all this

without even matching the horoscope!!!

> >

> > Lilly

> >

> > , Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99@> wrote:

> > >

> > > Sir,

> > > It is not always through parents and the adult individuals as per their

wish canadopt for Institutional tie up by way of a traditional/vedic Kalyanam or

by way solemnising in a holy place b4 priests(church/Koil/Mushraf)

> > >

> > > Vattem Krishnan

> > > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > > (For all counseling services)

> > > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> > > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> > >  

> > >

> > > --- On Thu, 1/21/10, K Gopu <kgopu_24@> wrote:

> > >

> > >

> > > K Gopu <kgopu_24@>

> > > Re: Re: query - bhakut dosha

> > >

> > > Thursday, January 21, 2010, 12:58 AM

> > >

> > >

> > >  

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > dear shri krishnaji,

> > > Very nicely explained. If there is mental compatability all the negative

> > > factors of the chart gets reduced and the couple' s marital life is

> > > harmonious. Sometimes marriages not arranged by parents also

> > > cliks and they live a happy life.

> > >  

> > >  

> > > regards,

> > > k.gopu

> > >

> > > --- On Wed, 1/20/10, Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 > wrote:

> > >

> > > Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 >

> > > Re: Re: query - bhakut dosha

> > >

> > > Wednesday, January 20, 2010, 12:01 PM

> > >

> > >  

> > >

> > > Rohini Ji,

> > > Marraige as per conventions and as per socital limitations is one and only

kind of arrangements between hetero sexuals with the sole aim of  sharing of

concerns,live togther happily and promote progeny by fulfilling desires.

> > > Marriaged if arranged(not out of one's own choice) can last as long if the

two individuals feel comfortable able to have same wave length.Mutual respect of

feelings,comforts and have prominence and respect.When ever these basics(of any

marraige) are flouted,they lead to collapse.This comes out of discord ,loss of

trust and even conceit.

> > > As long as these basics are born in mind by the two people,all doshas get

cancelled and harmony prevails.if any one at any time ignores,disrespects ,toys

with ego,they are bound to fall through.Every thing has a limit.This limit is

the Lakshmana Rekha.when not crossed,it is a life full of duets.

> > > Considering the social situations ,Marriage is an arrangement between two

persons.Today the geneder basis also is not a matter.In that context arranged

arrangements can last as long the two individuals would like to continue to

have.Their longevity can be anything depending the emotional quotient.

> > >

> > > Vattem Krishnan

> > > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > > (For all counseling services)

> > > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> > > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> > >  

> > >

> > > --- On Tue, 1/19/10, rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ hotmail.com> wrote:

> > >

> > > rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ hotmail.com>

> > > Re: query - bhakut dosha

> > >

> > > Tuesday, January 19, 2010, 10:04 PM

> > >

> > >  

> > >

> > > Krishnan ji,

> > >

> > > Seriously -- how long do we think, ARRANGED MARRIAGES are going to last in

Human Society? I mean the entire world, of course!

> > >

> > > Not a challenge, but just something to take a deep breath and

realistically ponder about!

> > >

> > > RR_,

> > >

> > > , Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99@ ..>

wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Dear Members,

> > > > Some issues like this were widely discussed and opined .v r in favour or

against for such doshas.probably the decison to atke the firm view is left to

the one who has to finally decide good or bad.

> > > > Aditi was informed of theory as put in texts and it;s practical impct of

good and bad has lot of vascillation from true to false.

> > > > V have done our things by giving theoritical implications and left to

the native to have good faith and all consequences to count but not to falme the

old version nor the one who judgesd and made a positive suggestion.

> > > > The bhakoota dosha is just coined,perhaps to  " prevent " some thing

may happen.In fact all doshas have some base in our texts.Some tool courage and

challenged and r happy and few were also quarrentined for their revolt against

Dharam/Sastras or what ever.

> > > > This also reminds me a recent query dealing with marriage problem and in

which,the girls parents came up with a stern attitude that astrologically this

relationship acn not end up in meaning marraige.

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > Vattem Krishnan

> > > > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > > > (For all counseling services)

> > > > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> > > > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> > > >  

> > > >

> > > > --- On Tue, 1/19/10, rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ ...> wrote:

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ ...>

> > > > Re: query - bhakut dosha

> > > >

> > > > Tuesday, January 19, 2010, 9:27 PM

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >  

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > Dear Aditi,

> > > >

> > > > Jyotish is a very 'empirical' subject that also has a rather HEAVY

didactic end! If you take up any traditional, classical text on Jyotish, you

will find that it is choc-full of rules and yogas and so on, but other than one

or two text-books (out of the few dozens that you hear of on Jyotish fora --

BPHS, Vrihajjataka, Phaladeepika, Deve Keralam, Uttarkalamrita, ad infinitud...

) NO EXAMPLES are provided! One can only deduce that the 'workbooks' with

examples and so on somehow miraculously got destroyed or were only provided in

Gurukool type settings (after one enrolled in the academy which was not easy

from what I hear!).

> > > >

> > > > Before you make a decision that could affect human lives, whether it is

Bhakoot or NBRY -- please make sure that you follow-up the theory with examples!

Or else you would end up blaming Jyotish!

> > > >

> > > > Also, please remember: One robin does not signal the spring and one

locust (TIDDA) does not warn of a famine!

> > > >

> > > > Take care...!

> > > >

> > > > Rohiniranjan

> > > >

> > > > , aditi budhiraja

<aditi_budhiraja@ ...> wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > > Hello/ Namaste,

> > > > >

> > > > > Please could all the respected astrologers make me understand what is

bhakut dosha?

> > > > >

> > > > > Also, how dangerous it is when considered from the match making point

of view?

> > > > >

> > > > > Best Regards,

> > > > > Aditi Budhiraja

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > > The INTERNET now has a personality. YOURS! See your Homepage.

http://in.. com/

> > > > >

> > > > >

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I did say, " presumably! " :-)

 

We should talk one of these days, about generalizing an instance or one case or

one horoscope into portraying it as a 'trend' or norm!

 

Don't feel bad, many jyotishis and other types of astrologers too do that all

the time! It is a very misleading practice when the background details are not

provided, such as single-factor statements on internet forum that are offered as

fait accompli!

 

RR

 

, " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005 wrote:

>

>

> Ay_APPA, How did you assume I was talking about Hindu's settled in the west??

> In case you forgot Dharni AMMA is round, as in not flat or linear. East, West

concepts are all presumably only valid from the point where we stand on this

earth. East can be anyone residing east of you, or an eastern state for that

matter..By the way I was talking about a grandmother in India who got married to

someone from an eastern state back 60+ years ago..

>

> Lilly

, " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@>

wrote:

> >

> > Thanks! I did not know about this practice -- presumably amongst certain

Hindus settled in the West?

> >

> > I can only hope that such PAPAs were doing whatever they thought was best

for their progeny. Other than that, no comments :-)

> >

> > RR

> >

> >

> >

> > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote:

> > >

> > > Not too long ago PAPA from the west, happily performed Kanya-daan of their

daughters to the " brahmins of the east " .. For some reason(not know to me)

eastern brahmins were highly sought after for marriage purpose, even though they

spoke a foreign language and had different dietary needs..So when the freshly

married Kanya arrived at the door-step of her newly adopted family, and despite

not able to speak a lick of her new family language, or even tasted their food

was still highly entertained from her In-laws.

> > > Kanya quickly adapted & adjusted well to the her new clan, and all this

without even matching the horoscope!!!

> > >

> > > Lilly

> > >

> > > , Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99@>

wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Sir,

> > > > It is not always through parents and the adult individuals as per their

wish canadopt for Institutional tie up by way of a traditional/vedic Kalyanam or

by way solemnising in a holy place b4 priests(church/Koil/Mushraf)

> > > >

> > > > Vattem Krishnan

> > > > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > > > (For all counseling services)

> > > > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> > > > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> > > >  

> > > >

> > > > --- On Thu, 1/21/10, K Gopu <kgopu_24@> wrote:

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > K Gopu <kgopu_24@>

> > > > Re: Re: query - bhakut dosha

> > > >

> > > > Thursday, January 21, 2010, 12:58 AM

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >  

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > dear shri krishnaji,

> > > > Very nicely explained. If there is mental compatability all the negative

> > > > factors of the chart gets reduced and the couple' s marital life is

> > > > harmonious. Sometimes marriages not arranged by parents also

> > > > cliks and they live a happy life.

> > > >  

> > > >  

> > > > regards,

> > > > k.gopu

> > > >

> > > > --- On Wed, 1/20/10, Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 > wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 >

> > > > Re: Re: query - bhakut dosha

> > > >

> > > > Wednesday, January 20, 2010, 12:01 PM

> > > >

> > > >  

> > > >

> > > > Rohini Ji,

> > > > Marraige as per conventions and as per socital limitations is one and

only kind of arrangements between hetero sexuals with the sole aim of  sharing

of concerns,live togther happily and promote progeny by fulfilling desires.

> > > > Marriaged if arranged(not out of one's own choice) can last as long if

the two individuals feel comfortable able to have same wave length.Mutual

respect of feelings,comforts and have prominence and respect.When ever these

basics(of any marraige) are flouted,they lead to collapse.This comes out of

discord ,loss of trust and even conceit.

> > > > As long as these basics are born in mind by the two people,all doshas

get cancelled and harmony prevails.if any one at any time ignores,disrespects

,toys with ego,they are bound to fall through.Every thing has a limit.This limit

is the Lakshmana Rekha.when not crossed,it is a life full of duets.

> > > > Considering the social situations ,Marriage is an arrangement between

two persons.Today the geneder basis also is not a matter.In that context

arranged arrangements can last as long the two individuals would like to

continue to have.Their longevity can be anything depending the emotional

quotient.

> > > >

> > > > Vattem Krishnan

> > > > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > > > (For all counseling services)

> > > > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> > > > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> > > >  

> > > >

> > > > --- On Tue, 1/19/10, rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ hotmail.com> wrote:

> > > >

> > > > rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ hotmail.com>

> > > > Re: query - bhakut dosha

> > > >

> > > > Tuesday, January 19, 2010, 10:04 PM

> > > >

> > > >  

> > > >

> > > > Krishnan ji,

> > > >

> > > > Seriously -- how long do we think, ARRANGED MARRIAGES are going to last

in Human Society? I mean the entire world, of course!

> > > >

> > > > Not a challenge, but just something to take a deep breath and

realistically ponder about!

> > > >

> > > > RR_,

> > > >

> > > > , Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99@

...> wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > > Dear Members,

> > > > > Some issues like this were widely discussed and opined .v r in favour

or against for such doshas.probably the decison to atke the firm view is left to

the one who has to finally decide good or bad.

> > > > > Aditi was informed of theory as put in texts and it;s practical impct

of good and bad has lot of vascillation from true to false.

> > > > > V have done our things by giving theoritical implications and left to

the native to have good faith and all consequences to count but not to falme the

old version nor the one who judgesd and made a positive suggestion.

> > > > > The bhakoota dosha is just coined,perhaps to  " prevent " some thing

may happen.In fact all doshas have some base in our texts.Some tool courage and

challenged and r happy and few were also quarrentined for their revolt against

Dharam/Sastras or what ever.

> > > > > This also reminds me a recent query dealing with marriage problem and

in which,the girls parents came up with a stern attitude that astrologically

this relationship acn not end up in meaning marraige.

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > > Vattem Krishnan

> > > > > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > > > > (For all counseling services)

> > > > > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control

Them "

> > > > > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> > > > >  

> > > > >

> > > > > --- On Tue, 1/19/10, rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ ...> wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > > rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ ...>

> > > > > Re: query - bhakut dosha

> > > > >

> > > > > Tuesday, January 19, 2010, 9:27 PM

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >  

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > > Dear Aditi,

> > > > >

> > > > > Jyotish is a very 'empirical' subject that also has a rather HEAVY

didactic end! If you take up any traditional, classical text on Jyotish, you

will find that it is choc-full of rules and yogas and so on, but other than one

or two text-books (out of the few dozens that you hear of on Jyotish fora --

BPHS, Vrihajjataka, Phaladeepika, Deve Keralam, Uttarkalamrita, ad infinitud...

) NO EXAMPLES are provided! One can only deduce that the 'workbooks' with

examples and so on somehow miraculously got destroyed or were only provided in

Gurukool type settings (after one enrolled in the academy which was not easy

from what I hear!).

> > > > >

> > > > > Before you make a decision that could affect human lives, whether it

is Bhakoot or NBRY -- please make sure that you follow-up the theory with

examples! Or else you would end up blaming Jyotish!

> > > > >

> > > > > Also, please remember: One robin does not signal the spring and one

locust (TIDDA) does not warn of a famine!

> > > > >

> > > > > Take care...!

> > > > >

> > > > > Rohiniranjan

> > > > >

> > > > > , aditi budhiraja

<aditi_budhiraja@ ...> wrote:

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Hello/ Namaste,

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Please could all the respected astrologers make me understand what

is bhakut dosha?

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Also, how dangerous it is when considered from the match making

point of view?

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Best Regards,

> > > > > > Aditi Budhiraja

> > > > > >

> > > > > >

> > > > > > The INTERNET now has a personality. YOURS! See your Homepage.

http://in.. com/

> > > > > >

> > > > > >

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Members,

We have been informing that predective tools avaialble in jyotish are of immense

value and available for those who wants to prevent/avoid emberassment in life.It

provides prior understanding and paves way to handle issues without loosing

hearts in crisis times.

''Matching of the Horoscopes " is for people knowing language and it helps in

enlightenment evn if ambiguous.

When happiness is there between them better we complements for their element of

decisiveness and clinch the issue in favour of Kanya from west.

Satwicks are preferred over Rajasik and Tamsik people.Language does not come in

the way as skills have intrinsic value and preferrences.

 

 

Vattem Krishnan

Cyber Jyotish Services

(For all counseling services)

Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

 

 

--- On Thu, 1/21/10, Lilly <tigresslilly2005 wrote:

 

 

Lilly <tigresslilly2005

Kanya from the west!

 

Thursday, January 21, 2010, 12:55 PM

 

 

 

 

 

 

Not too long ago PAPA from the west, happily performed Kanya-daan of their

daughters to the " brahmins of the east " .. For some reason(not know to me)

eastern brahmins were highly sought after for marriage purpose, even though they

spoke a foreign language and had different dietary needs..So when the freshly

married Kanya arrived at the door-step of her newly adopted family, and despite

not able to speak a lick of her new family language, or even tasted their food

was still highly entertained from her In-laws.

Kanya quickly adapted & adjusted well to the her new clan, and all this without

even matching the horoscope!!!

 

Lilly

 

, Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99@. ..>

wrote:

>

> Sir,

> It is not always through parents and the adult individuals as per their wish

canadopt for Institutional tie up by way of a traditional/ vedic Kalyanam or by

way solemnising in a holy place b4 priests(church/ Koil/Mushraf)

>

> Vattem Krishnan

> Cyber Jyotish Services

> (For all counseling services)

> Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

>  

>

> --- On Thu, 1/21/10, K Gopu <kgopu_24@.. .> wrote:

>

>

> K Gopu <kgopu_24@.. .>

> Re: Re: query - bhakut dosha

>

> Thursday, January 21, 2010, 12:58 AM

>

>

>  

>

>

>

> dear shri krishnaji,

> Very nicely explained. If there is mental compatability all the negative

> factors of the chart gets reduced and the couple' s marital life is

> harmonious. Sometimes marriages not arranged by parents also

> cliks and they live a happy life.

>  

>  

> regards,

> k.gopu

>

> --- On Wed, 1/20/10, Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 > wrote:

>

> Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 >

> Re: Re: query - bhakut dosha

>

> Wednesday, January 20, 2010, 12:01 PM

>

>  

>

> Rohini Ji,

> Marraige as per conventions and as per socital limitations is one and only

kind of arrangements between hetero sexuals with the sole aim of  sharing of

concerns,live togther happily and promote progeny by fulfilling desires.

> Marriaged if arranged(not out of one's own choice) can last as long if the two

individuals feel comfortable able to have same wave length.Mutual respect of

feelings,comforts and have prominence and respect.When ever these basics(of any

marraige) are flouted,they lead to collapse.This comes out of discord ,loss of

trust and even conceit.

> As long as these basics are born in mind by the two people,all doshas get

cancelled and harmony prevails.if any one at any time ignores,disrespects ,toys

with ego,they are bound to fall through.Every thing has a limit.This limit is

the Lakshmana Rekha.when not crossed,it is a life full of duets.

> Considering the social situations ,Marriage is an arrangement between two

persons.Today the geneder basis also is not a matter.In that context arranged

arrangements can last as long the two individuals would like to continue to

have.Their longevity can be anything depending the emotional quotient.

>

> Vattem Krishnan

> Cyber Jyotish Services

> (For all counseling services)

> Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

>  

>

> --- On Tue, 1/19/10, rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ hotmail.com> wrote:

>

> rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ hotmail.com>

> Re: query - bhakut dosha

>

> Tuesday, January 19, 2010, 10:04 PM

>

>  

>

> Krishnan ji,

>

> Seriously -- how long do we think, ARRANGED MARRIAGES are going to last in

Human Society? I mean the entire world, of course!

>

> Not a challenge, but just something to take a deep breath and realistically

ponder about!

>

> RR_,

>

> , Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99@ ..>

wrote:

> >

> > Dear Members,

> > Some issues like this were widely discussed and opined .v r in favour or

against for such doshas.probably the decison to atke the firm view is left to

the one who has to finally decide good or bad.

> > Aditi was informed of theory as put in texts and it;s practical impct of

good and bad has lot of vascillation from true to false.

> > V have done our things by giving theoritical implications and left to the

native to have good faith and all consequences to count but not to falme the old

version nor the one who judgesd and made a positive suggestion.

> > The bhakoota dosha is just coined,perhaps to  " prevent " some thing

may happen.In fact all doshas have some base in our texts.Some tool courage and

challenged and r happy and few were also quarrentined for their revolt against

Dharam/Sastras or what ever.

> > This also reminds me a recent query dealing with marriage problem and in

which,the girls parents came up with a stern attitude that astrologically this

relationship acn not end up in meaning marraige.

> >

> >

> > Vattem Krishnan

> > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > (For all counseling services)

> > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control

Them "

> > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> >  

> >

> > --- On Tue, 1/19/10, rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ ...> wrote:

> >

> >

> > rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ ...>

> > Re: query - bhakut dosha

> >

> > Tuesday, January 19, 2010, 9:27 PM

> >

> >

> >  

> >

> >

> >

> > Dear Aditi,

> >

> > Jyotish is a very 'empirical' subject that also has a rather HEAVY didactic

end! If you take up any traditional, classical text on Jyotish, you will find

that it is choc-full of rules and yogas and so on, but other than one or two

text-books (out of the few dozens that you hear of on Jyotish fora -- BPHS,

Vrihajjataka, Phaladeepika, Deve Keralam, Uttarkalamrita, ad infinitud... ) NO

EXAMPLES are provided! One can only deduce that the 'workbooks' with examples

and so on somehow miraculously got destroyed or were only provided in Gurukool

type settings (after one enrolled in the academy which was not easy from what I

hear!).

> >

> > Before you make a decision that could affect human lives, whether it is

Bhakoot or NBRY -- please make sure that you follow-up the theory with examples!

Or else you would end up blaming Jyotish!

> >

> > Also, please remember: One robin does not signal the spring and one locust

(TIDDA) does not warn of a famine!

> >

> > Take care...!

> >

> > Rohiniranjan

> >

> > , aditi budhiraja <aditi_budhiraja@

....> wrote:

> > >

> > > Hello/ Namaste,

> > >

> > > Please could all the respected astrologers make me understand what is

bhakut dosha?

> > >

> > > Also, how dangerous it is when considered from the match making point of

view?

> > >

> > > Best Regards,

> > > Aditi Budhiraja

> > >

> > >

> > > The INTERNET now has a personality. YOURS! See your Homepage.

http://in.. com/

> > >

> > >

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Satvik by birth or satwic by Manasa, Vacha, Karmana, Dada ;-)

 

On the other hand, is it not a good idea for marriages to remain somewhat

samadharmi? What would be the outcome of bringing a satwic to marry a tamasica

-- on both partners?

 

Is it even something to worry about, because, aren't all marriage made in

heaven, melapak or not? Then Divorces were perhaps made in Heaven too!

 

One can't have it both ways -- have your cake and eat it too!

 

Some say that marriages are made in heaven but broken on Earth. I think that is

like bending the rules to one's liking and convenience! When it serves our

argument we call everything destined, but then when we need to argue against

something we use the opposite stance.

 

At least I have been consistent and honest about destiny and free-will! Or my

views about those!

 

RR_,

 

, Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 wrote:

>

> Members,

> We have been informing that predective tools avaialble in jyotish are of

immense value and available for those who wants to prevent/avoid emberassment in

life.It provides prior understanding and paves way to handle issues without

loosing hearts in crisis times.

> ''Matching of the Horoscopes " is for people knowing language and it helps in

enlightenment evn if ambiguous.

> When happiness is there between them better we complements for their element

of decisiveness and clinch the issue in favour of Kanya from west.

> Satwicks are preferred over Rajasik and Tamsik people.Language does not come

in the way as skills have intrinsic value and preferrences.

>

>

> Vattem Krishnan

> Cyber Jyotish Services

> (For all counseling services)

> Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

>  

>

> --- On Thu, 1/21/10, Lilly <tigresslilly2005 wrote:

>

>

> Lilly <tigresslilly2005

> Kanya from the west!

>

> Thursday, January 21, 2010, 12:55 PM

>

>

>  

>

>

>

> Not too long ago PAPA from the west, happily performed Kanya-daan of their

daughters to the " brahmins of the east " .. For some reason(not know to me)

eastern brahmins were highly sought after for marriage purpose, even though they

spoke a foreign language and had different dietary needs..So when the freshly

married Kanya arrived at the door-step of her newly adopted family, and despite

not able to speak a lick of her new family language, or even tasted their food

was still highly entertained from her In-laws.

> Kanya quickly adapted & adjusted well to the her new clan, and all this

without even matching the horoscope!!!

>

> Lilly

>

> , Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99@ ..>

wrote:

> >

> > Sir,

> > It is not always through parents and the adult individuals as per their wish

canadopt for Institutional tie up by way of a traditional/ vedic Kalyanam or by

way solemnising in a holy place b4 priests(church/ Koil/Mushraf)

> >

> > Vattem Krishnan

> > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > (For all counseling services)

> > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> >  

> >

> > --- On Thu, 1/21/10, K Gopu <kgopu_24@ .> wrote:

> >

> >

> > K Gopu <kgopu_24@ .>

> > Re: Re: query - bhakut dosha

> >

> > Thursday, January 21, 2010, 12:58 AM

> >

> >

> >  

> >

> >

> >

> > dear shri krishnaji,

> > Very nicely explained. If there is mental compatability all the negative

> > factors of the chart gets reduced and the couple' s marital life is

> > harmonious. Sometimes marriages not arranged by parents also

> > cliks and they live a happy life.

> >  

> >  

> > regards,

> > k.gopu

> >

> > --- On Wed, 1/20/10, Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 > wrote:

> >

> > Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 >

> > Re: Re: query - bhakut dosha

> >

> > Wednesday, January 20, 2010, 12:01 PM

> >

> >  

> >

> > Rohini Ji,

> > Marraige as per conventions and as per socital limitations is one and only

kind of arrangements between hetero sexuals with the sole aim of  sharing of

concerns,live togther happily and promote progeny by fulfilling desires.

> > Marriaged if arranged(not out of one's own choice) can last as long if the

two individuals feel comfortable able to have same wave length.Mutual respect of

feelings,comforts and have prominence and respect.When ever these basics(of any

marraige) are flouted,they lead to collapse.This comes out of discord ,loss of

trust and even conceit.

> > As long as these basics are born in mind by the two people,all doshas get

cancelled and harmony prevails.if any one at any time ignores,disrespects ,toys

with ego,they are bound to fall through.Every thing has a limit.This limit is

the Lakshmana Rekha.when not crossed,it is a life full of duets.

> > Considering the social situations ,Marriage is an arrangement between two

persons.Today the geneder basis also is not a matter.In that context arranged

arrangements can last as long the two individuals would like to continue to

have.Their longevity can be anything depending the emotional quotient.

> >

> > Vattem Krishnan

> > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > (For all counseling services)

> > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> >  

> >

> > --- On Tue, 1/19/10, rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ hotmail.com> wrote:

> >

> > rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ hotmail.com>

> > Re: query - bhakut dosha

> >

> > Tuesday, January 19, 2010, 10:04 PM

> >

> >  

> >

> > Krishnan ji,

> >

> > Seriously -- how long do we think, ARRANGED MARRIAGES are going to last in

Human Society? I mean the entire world, of course!

> >

> > Not a challenge, but just something to take a deep breath and realistically

ponder about!

> >

> > RR_,

> >

> > , Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99@ ..>

wrote:

> > >

> > > Dear Members,

> > > Some issues like this were widely discussed and opined .v r in favour or

against for such doshas.probably the decison to atke the firm view is left to

the one who has to finally decide good or bad.

> > > Aditi was informed of theory as put in texts and it;s practical impct of

good and bad has lot of vascillation from true to false.

> > > V have done our things by giving theoritical implications and left to the

native to have good faith and all consequences to count but not to falme the old

version nor the one who judgesd and made a positive suggestion.

> > > The bhakoota dosha is just coined,perhaps to  " prevent " some thing

may happen.In fact all doshas have some base in our texts.Some tool courage and

challenged and r happy and few were also quarrentined for their revolt against

Dharam/Sastras or what ever.

> > > This also reminds me a recent query dealing with marriage problem and in

which,the girls parents came up with a stern attitude that astrologically this

relationship acn not end up in meaning marraige.

> > >

> > >

> > > Vattem Krishnan

> > > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > > (For all counseling services)

> > > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can

Control Them "

> > > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> > >  

> > >

> > > --- On Tue, 1/19/10, rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ ...> wrote:

> > >

> > >

> > > rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ ...>

> > > Re: query - bhakut dosha

> > >

> > > Tuesday, January 19, 2010, 9:27 PM

> > >

> > >

> > >  

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Dear Aditi,

> > >

> > > Jyotish is a very 'empirical' subject that also has a rather HEAVY

didactic end! If you take up any traditional, classical text on Jyotish, you

will find that it is choc-full of rules and yogas and so on, but other than one

or two text-books (out of the few dozens that you hear of on Jyotish fora --

BPHS, Vrihajjataka, Phaladeepika, Deve Keralam, Uttarkalamrita, ad infinitud...

) NO EXAMPLES are provided! One can only deduce that the 'workbooks' with

examples and so on somehow miraculously got destroyed or were only provided in

Gurukool type settings (after one enrolled in the academy which was not easy

from what I hear!).

> > >

> > > Before you make a decision that could affect human lives, whether it is

Bhakoot or NBRY -- please make sure that you follow-up the theory with examples!

Or else you would end up blaming Jyotish!

> > >

> > > Also, please remember: One robin does not signal the spring and one locust

(TIDDA) does not warn of a famine!

> > >

> > > Take care...!

> > >

> > > Rohiniranjan

> > >

> > > , aditi budhiraja

<aditi_budhiraja@ ...> wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Hello/ Namaste,

> > > >

> > > > Please could all the respected astrologers make me understand what is

bhakut dosha?

> > > >

> > > > Also, how dangerous it is when considered from the match making point of

view?

> > > >

> > > > Best Regards,

> > > > Aditi Budhiraja

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > The INTERNET now has a personality. YOURS! See your Homepage.

http://in.. com/

> > > >

> > > >

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Heaven happends to be one end and the other extreem end cited was Hell with

Earth forming a 3 D context.

Marraige is an accepted arrangement between two hetrosexuals(only in the context

of happy receprocations) have been adored and respected in terms of Heaven.

The issues coming out of livelihood and insecurity posing a threat to the

accepted arrangement and survival by way of dominance becomes a factor.Earth,the

third dimension is not so sapcious as the two far off remote and conceptual

world of extreemities.

It is in this marraiges endorses a concept of responsibilty,to make the

place(Earth) where the livelihood is to make them as Heaven or Hell by their

endorsement of mutuality and respect.

Now the various equations made by the human being through their mind,action and

reciprocal beahviours have all elements to succeed and fail.These issues are the

real concerns to validate the present times often termed as Kailyuga.The ratios

of tamsic,rajsic and satwic are only meant for understanding behavior patterns

for a pleasent,happy,memoroable and successful association of Mankind.Here East

and West perspective have no difference.

 

 

Vattem Krishnan

Cyber Jyotish Services

(For all counseling services)

Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

 

 

--- On Fri, 1/22/10, rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani wrote:

 

 

rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani

Re: Kanya from the west!

 

Friday, January 22, 2010, 6:12 PM

 

 

 

 

 

 

Satvik by birth or satwic by Manasa, Vacha, Karmana, Dada ;-)

 

On the other hand, is it not a good idea for marriages to remain somewhat

samadharmi? What would be the outcome of bringing a satwic to marry a tamasica

-- on both partners?

 

Is it even something to worry about, because, aren't all marriage made in

heaven, melapak or not? Then Divorces were perhaps made in Heaven too!

 

One can't have it both ways -- have your cake and eat it too!

 

Some say that marriages are made in heaven but broken on Earth. I think that is

like bending the rules to one's liking and convenience! When it serves our

argument we call everything destined, but then when we need to argue against

something we use the opposite stance.

 

At least I have been consistent and honest about destiny and free-will! Or my

views about those!

 

RR_,

 

, Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99@. ..>

wrote:

>

> Members,

> We have been informing that predective tools avaialble in jyotish are of

immense value and available for those who wants to prevent/avoid emberassment in

life.It provides prior understanding and paves way to handle issues without

loosing hearts in crisis times.

> ''Matching of the Horoscopes " is for people knowing language and it helps in

enlightenment evn if ambiguous.

> When happiness is there between them better we complements for their element

of decisiveness and clinch the issue in favour of Kanya from west.

> Satwicks are preferred over Rajasik and Tamsik people.Language does not come

in the way as skills have intrinsic value and preferrences.

>

>

> Vattem Krishnan

> Cyber Jyotish Services

> (For all counseling services)

> Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

>  

>

> --- On Thu, 1/21/10, Lilly <tigresslilly2005@ ...> wrote:

>

>

> Lilly <tigresslilly2005@ ...>

> Kanya from the west!

>

> Thursday, January 21, 2010, 12:55 PM

>

>

>  

>

>

>

> Not too long ago PAPA from the west, happily performed Kanya-daan of their

daughters to the " brahmins of the east " .. For some reason(not know to me)

eastern brahmins were highly sought after for marriage purpose, even though they

spoke a foreign language and had different dietary needs..So when the freshly

married Kanya arrived at the door-step of her newly adopted family, and despite

not able to speak a lick of her new family language, or even tasted their food

was still highly entertained from her In-laws.

> Kanya quickly adapted & adjusted well to the her new clan, and all this

without even matching the horoscope!!!

>

> Lilly

>

> , Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99@ ..>

wrote:

> >

> > Sir,

> > It is not always through parents and the adult individuals as per their wish

canadopt for Institutional tie up by way of a traditional/ vedic Kalyanam or by

way solemnising in a holy place b4 priests(church/ Koil/Mushraf)

> >

> > Vattem Krishnan

> > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > (For all counseling services)

> > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control

Them "

> > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> >  

> >

> > --- On Thu, 1/21/10, K Gopu <kgopu_24@ .> wrote:

> >

> >

> > K Gopu <kgopu_24@ .>

> > Re: Re: query - bhakut dosha

> >

> > Thursday, January 21, 2010, 12:58 AM

> >

> >

> >  

> >

> >

> >

> > dear shri krishnaji,

> > Very nicely explained. If there is mental compatability all the negative

> > factors of the chart gets reduced and the couple' s marital life is

> > harmonious. Sometimes marriages not arranged by parents also

> > cliks and they live a happy life.

> >  

> >  

> > regards,

> > k.gopu

> >

> > --- On Wed, 1/20/10, Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 > wrote:

> >

> > Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99 >

> > Re: Re: query - bhakut dosha

> >

> > Wednesday, January 20, 2010, 12:01 PM

> >

> >  

> >

> > Rohini Ji,

> > Marraige as per conventions and as per socital limitations is one and only

kind of arrangements between hetero sexuals with the sole aim of 

sharing of concerns,live togther happily and promote progeny by fulfilling

desires.

> > Marriaged if arranged(not out of one's own choice) can last as long if the

two individuals feel comfortable able to have same wave length.Mutual respect of

feelings,comforts and have prominence and respect.When ever these basics(of any

marraige) are flouted,they lead to collapse.This comes out of discord ,loss of

trust and even conceit.

> > As long as these basics are born in mind by the two people,all doshas get

cancelled and harmony prevails.if any one at any time ignores,disrespects ,toys

with ego,they are bound to fall through.Every thing has a limit.This limit is

the Lakshmana Rekha.when not crossed,it is a life full of duets.

> > Considering the social situations ,Marriage is an arrangement between two

persons.Today the geneder basis also is not a matter.In that context arranged

arrangements can last as long the two individuals would like to continue to

have.Their longevity can be anything depending the emotional quotient.

> >

> > Vattem Krishnan

> > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > (For all counseling services)

> > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets While  Wisemen Can Control

Them "

> > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> >  

> >

> > --- On Tue, 1/19/10, rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ hotmail.com> wrote:

> >

> > rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ hotmail.com>

> > Re: query - bhakut dosha

> >

> > Tuesday, January 19, 2010, 10:04 PM

> >

> >  

> >

> > Krishnan ji,

> >

> > Seriously -- how long do we think, ARRANGED MARRIAGES are going to last in

Human Society? I mean the entire world, of course!

> >

> > Not a challenge, but just something to take a deep breath and realistically

ponder about!

> >

> > RR_,

> >

> > , Vattem Krishnan <bursar_99@ ...>

wrote:

> > >

> > > Dear Members,

> > > Some issues like this were widely discussed and opined .v r in favour or

against for such doshas.probably the decison to atke the firm view is left to

the one who has to finally decide good or bad.

> > > Aditi was informed of theory as put in texts and it;s practical impct of

good and bad has lot of vascillation from true to false.

> > > V have done our things by giving theoritical implications and left to the

native to have good faith and all consequences to count but not to falme the old

version nor the one who judgesd and made a positive suggestion.

> > > The bhakoota dosha is just coined,perhaps to  " prevent "

some thing may happen.In fact all doshas have some base in our texts.Some tool

courage and challenged and r happy and few were also quarrentined for their

revolt against Dharam/Sastras or what ever.

> > > This also reminds me a recent query dealing with marriage problem and in

which,the girls parents came up with a stern attitude that astrologically this

relationship acn not end up in meaning marraige.

> > >

> > >

> > > Vattem Krishnan

> > > Cyber Jyotish Services

> > > (For all counseling services)

> > > Dr.B.V.Raman " Fools Obey Planets

While  Wisemen Can Control Them "

> > > Planets are neutral Controllers of Mans Karma

> > >  

> > >

> > > --- On Tue, 1/19/10, rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ ...> wrote:

> > >

> > >

> > > rohinicrystal <jyotish_vani@ ...>

> > > Re: query - bhakut dosha

> > >

> > > Tuesday, January 19, 2010, 9:27 PM

> > >

> > >

> > >  

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Dear Aditi,

> > >

> > > Jyotish is a very 'empirical' subject that also has a rather HEAVY

didactic end! If you take up any traditional, classical text on Jyotish, you

will find that it is choc-full of rules and yogas and so on, but other than one

or two text-books (out of the few dozens that you hear of on Jyotish fora --

BPHS, Vrihajjataka, Phaladeepika, Deve Keralam, Uttarkalamrita, ad infinitud...

) NO EXAMPLES are provided! One can only deduce that the 'workbooks' with

examples and so on somehow miraculously got destroyed or were only provided in

Gurukool type settings (after one enrolled in the academy which was not easy

from what I hear!).

> > >

> > > Before you make a decision that could affect human lives, whether it is

Bhakoot or NBRY -- please make sure that you follow-up the theory with examples!

Or else you would end up blaming Jyotish!

> > >

> > > Also, please remember: One robin does not signal the spring and one locust

(TIDDA) does not warn of a famine!

> > >

> > > Take care...!

> > >

> > > Rohiniranjan

> > >

> > > , aditi budhiraja

<aditi_budhiraja@ ...> wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Hello/ Namaste,

> > > >

> > > > Please could all the respected astrologers make me understand what is

bhakut dosha?

> > > >

> > > > Also, how dangerous it is when considered from the match making point of

view?

> > > >

> > > > Best Regards,

> > > > Aditi Budhiraja

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > The INTERNET now has a personality. YOURS! See your Homepage..

http://in.. com/

> > > >

> > > >

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