Guest guest Posted February 2, 2010 Report Share Posted February 2, 2010 Should have added this MODERN wrinkle to my reply to Lilly in the first-pass! Oh, by the way -- I am not sure how SOLID the data are on these links, but this is going to throw a MONKEY wrench into the marital plans of many folks...! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_sex_ratio , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani wrote: > > But I hate travelling, Lilly! And what I possibly miss (if anything at all!) is all right here, is it not ;-) > > I know all about that adage about CONSTANT which is really spelled as C-H-A-N-G-E! > > Poor President OBama!! > > Rohiniranjan > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > Please do visit Bharatvarsh when you do get a chance, and try catching up to those lost 20 years,Sir :-)! > > Lots has changed, while the fundamentals have remained the same! > > > > True that India is quite diverse, but if we look at the opinions of masses there is still a stigma attached to the idea of divorce..And it's not just the Indian government that makes it extremely difficult to get one..And once the divorce does get granted, many still have a hard time finding a suitable marriage partner even in a country of 1 billion! > > > > > > Lilly > > > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > > > Bharatvarsh, Lilly_jee is a BILLION-STRONG and counting...! There is no way that this GREATEST DEMOCRACY on EARTH can be rolled into one neat little STEREOTYPCIAL Package, won't you agree...? It is true that I have not had the good fortune of visiting India for now more than 20 years, but even the few decades that I lived and grew up remind me of the futility of trying to fit its diversity, cultural richess and its POTENTIAL to SURPRISE the WORLD into a simple and plain BRAND! I think it is WAY MORE DIVERSE than the entire EUROPE! :-) > > > > > > Yes there may be certain 'common markers' that deceptively can mislead one to think of it as one country, one culture etc, but truly speaking, it never was, and never will be predictable or simple to take in by anyone, up close or even from a distance! > > > > > > The thing with diversity -- particularly diversity which is not simply created by shades of grey, but by vibrant contrasting patterns of colours, like in a Rangoli or at Holi -- is that one can get so enticed by one colour or shape that one can take an easier approach in trying to roll it all into one mélange! > > > > > > It is like looking at the sky on a clear amavasya night! All those stars, making random patterns but as we continue to look at those and really begin to take in the PICTURE, distinct patterns and shapes emerge! These were all there, already for centuries -- if not ALWAYS -- even if we just began to realize that they have a personal message for us despite the distance and variety! > > > > > > Sorry if I am boring you with my *blog*...! ;-) > > > > > > Rohiniranjan > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > On a second thought.. > > > > While some cultures understand and accept the frailty of human life, I don't think our great Bharatvarsh quite readily embraces recycled goods, yet! Unless, Of-course the Kanya herself is a damaged good! But then again,it is the demand and supply within the marketplace that dictate " Who gets What " in the end! And One might just get lucky by being in the " right place at the right time " and thank his LUCKY STARS! > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am sure your brother will be able to find a good girl with high morals in no time!! Have faith and it will all get better..In astrology, 8th house is examined for ending of relationship..It also stands for " loss of dharma " as it 12th from 9th house..Loss, it is because we fell short of our duty/ dharma and betrayed our partner's trust.. > > > > > Whether our love is in a form of holy matrimony, or we just remain lovers of someone, all of us really demand utmost loyalty in a relationship, which comes with a heavy price tag!! When two lovers are deeply in love, and one partner feels betrayed, or suspects their lover is secretly entertaining someone else either in practical or just in their head, there is bound to be a problem..The minute this thought enters in their head, the love that they have honored it for so long gets diluted, and is no longer pure..For relationship to be sustained over a period of time it needs to pass through many test..Gateway to love is no easy task as you can come any time you wish, but can never leave. In most cased divorce happens mostly due to infinitely, and loss of trust with their partner in a marriage. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " kiran " <sikhwalkiran@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > namaste acharyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > very pleased with your prompt reply and gives me a little breath. > > > > > > > > > > > > talking about his intrinsic traits, he is fighter kind of person. he has interests in science wanted to be doctor but father persuaded him to be c.a. he has no degree in computers but he can win in creativity to debate an intel engineer in electronics. no field of mechanics or elctric or electronic to the gis or gps systems exists where he has no interests or knows less. he is most brightest amongst us > > > > > > > > > > > > where he lacks is like kind of " haazir jawab " . he is not that man. his memory are strongest amongst most of indians. won 7 medals in memory competitions. > > > > > > > > > > > > he is great accountant, law kind of stuffs are at his tongues. greatest of mathematician in his schools. always 100/100. > > > > > > > > > > > > with physice he use to thin and bad but he worked out gyms and he is as fit as 17 year old boy. very active and fit. he is handsome as well. if he is attending marriage every girl will strive for his one eye. > > > > > > > > > > > > now i will talk on what he says about his wife and why he justifies himself for divorce. > > > > > > > > > > > > he says this girl always on numerous occassions have intention to cheat him rather than being crystal clear true lover. he strongly suspects that lady use to have past several affairs, and will keep on doing in future as well, as she uses power of her beauty to get people do her stuff. her image before marriage was that of sita while after staying together he finds that she is putna. > > > > > > > > > > > > she has physcological issues such as paranoia, hallucinations and hysterial paranoia, where she loses total control on her hands and legs and this has been since she was in 7th class in schools. parents have been too hiding it from community. she had numerous physciatrist working on her problems, one of them suggested her early marriage will solve problem after talking to her in private. > > > > > > > > > > > > this guys have definately strong standing in community and so wise they using it politicaly and with insane behaviour. > > > > > > > > > > > > now my point is acharyaji, can this had been possible that this girl is no good form moral nature and character specifically and will never be in future as well ? i also want to know what basis from her kundli went unnoticed when my brother had several consultancies before marrying this lady and falling in love with her. > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Suresh Babu.A.G " <sureshbabuag@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Jyoti, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I could write about many factors in these charts that may or may not help (mostly may not). However, life is a serious affair, which we all already know. So may I ask if these couples had a family counseling by professional counselors / phsycologists? I am asking this question only because, it is easy to break bonds but difficult to make them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I could enumerate the compatability checking and declare that there is no compatability. But the question that pricks my mind is why is then the god willed their union. What is the astrological factor that enabled their marriage. It was not too difficult to find out. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Pardon me, I haven't gone into his future - that need more understanding - about myself - whether I am doing this in the right sense. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To me, though his chart seems to be of a person who is a satwic with Jupiter + Mercury in the lagna of Dhanu, The Chandra lagna being that of Taurus seems to be of a person who is in conflict with himself - Jupiter as lagna lord & Venus as chandra lord - ruling the atma & mind, with the chandra lord moving to the 12th house and saturn aspecting the lagna. This apart, Venus in the 7th of moon in parivarthana with mars indicates some intrinsic traits. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > So before moving any further, I would advice you to explore the above step (if not already done) very seriously and avoid the relatives at all costs (don't take in negative sense). > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Further this is definetly not a good time to move over to australia in the wake of several killings of Indians happening there. Yesterday Govt of India has issued a directive ( forced to admit at last) - not to go for studies / job in Australia. I hope you have seen it and take it seriously. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >   > > > > > > > > > > > > > >  A.G.Suresh Babu Shenoy > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > > > > kiran <sikhwalkiran@> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sat, January 30, 2010 9:30:06 AM > > > > > > > About my brother's marriage > > > > > > > > > > > > > >  > > > > > > > Hello All gurujans, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > respected people I need some help from you knowledagble ones. my brother's marriage has become a hell for him as well as we all family members. we family members want him to get divorced and marry another girl. he is quite handsome and trying to get settled. but problem is neither his wife or any relatives want to keep relation nor they ready to give divorce. alimony money as wanted has been offered but they just want to ruin my brothers life. please check out when his second marriage will be possible. due to all this factors he is suffering high anxiety and nervousness even after one year. after the problems his wife was already pregnant. he is starving to see his daughter or hear about her. his life in going in ruins. parents are in favour that such girl will never let him leave with peace. so i have two questions for you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 1. when will divorce be possible or his in laws just want a salve for their daughter and will never give him divorce ?? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. will he get good loyal, modest, traditional and beautiful girl as to match him again ??? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > his birth details are as follows:- > > > > > > > dob 16th january 1984 > > > > > > > name omprakash tiwari > > > > > > > time 07:12 am > > > > > > > place bhilwara/ rajasthan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > his wife details > > > > > > > dob 12th august 1987 > > > > > > > name preety (durgeshnandini) > > > > > > > time 00:30 am > > > > > > > place merta city/ rajasthan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > please suggest what is most probable to happen with him. he is also struggling very hard in his career front. he had to move to australia because of home financial position leaving his c.a incompleted. he is bright and intelligent handsome man but all conditions are so bad for him we all feel pity on him. please say something about his marriage, his career and above two questions please suggest something. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > regards, > > > > > > > Jyoti. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 2, 2010 Report Share Posted February 2, 2010 Historically, we have had more cultures practice polygamy then the other way around..So I am bit doubtful about the stats from your link RR_Ji! Lilly , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani wrote: > > Should have added this MODERN wrinkle to my reply to Lilly in the first-pass! > > Oh, by the way -- I am not sure how SOLID the data are on these links, but this is going to throw a MONKEY wrench into the marital plans of many folks...! > > > http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio > > http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_sex_ratio > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > But I hate travelling, Lilly! And what I possibly miss (if anything at all!) is all right here, is it not ;-) > > > > I know all about that adage about CONSTANT which is really spelled as C-H-A-N-G-E! > > > > Poor President OBama!! > > > > Rohiniranjan > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > Please do visit Bharatvarsh when you do get a chance, and try catching up to those lost 20 years,Sir :-)! > > > Lots has changed, while the fundamentals have remained the same! > > > > > > True that India is quite diverse, but if we look at the opinions of masses there is still a stigma attached to the idea of divorce..And it's not just the Indian government that makes it extremely difficult to get one..And once the divorce does get granted, many still have a hard time finding a suitable marriage partner even in a country of 1 billion! > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Bharatvarsh, Lilly_jee is a BILLION-STRONG and counting...! There is no way that this GREATEST DEMOCRACY on EARTH can be rolled into one neat little STEREOTYPCIAL Package, won't you agree...? It is true that I have not had the good fortune of visiting India for now more than 20 years, but even the few decades that I lived and grew up remind me of the futility of trying to fit its diversity, cultural richess and its POTENTIAL to SURPRISE the WORLD into a simple and plain BRAND! I think it is WAY MORE DIVERSE than the entire EUROPE! :-) > > > > > > > > Yes there may be certain 'common markers' that deceptively can mislead one to think of it as one country, one culture etc, but truly speaking, it never was, and never will be predictable or simple to take in by anyone, up close or even from a distance! > > > > > > > > The thing with diversity -- particularly diversity which is not simply created by shades of grey, but by vibrant contrasting patterns of colours, like in a Rangoli or at Holi -- is that one can get so enticed by one colour or shape that one can take an easier approach in trying to roll it all into one mélange! > > > > > > > > It is like looking at the sky on a clear amavasya night! All those stars, making random patterns but as we continue to look at those and really begin to take in the PICTURE, distinct patterns and shapes emerge! These were all there, already for centuries -- if not ALWAYS -- even if we just began to realize that they have a personal message for us despite the distance and variety! > > > > > > > > Sorry if I am boring you with my *blog*...! ;-) > > > > > > > > Rohiniranjan > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > On a second thought.. > > > > > While some cultures understand and accept the frailty of human life, I don't think our great Bharatvarsh quite readily embraces recycled goods, yet! Unless, Of-course the Kanya herself is a damaged good! But then again,it is the demand and supply within the marketplace that dictate " Who gets What " in the end! And One might just get lucky by being in the " right place at the right time " and thank his LUCKY STARS! > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am sure your brother will be able to find a good girl with high morals in no time!! Have faith and it will all get better..In astrology, 8th house is examined for ending of relationship..It also stands for " loss of dharma " as it 12th from 9th house..Loss, it is because we fell short of our duty/ dharma and betrayed our partner's trust.. > > > > > > Whether our love is in a form of holy matrimony, or we just remain lovers of someone, all of us really demand utmost loyalty in a relationship, which comes with a heavy price tag!! When two lovers are deeply in love, and one partner feels betrayed, or suspects their lover is secretly entertaining someone else either in practical or just in their head, there is bound to be a problem..The minute this thought enters in their head, the love that they have honored it for so long gets diluted, and is no longer pure..For relationship to be sustained over a period of time it needs to pass through many test..Gateway to love is no easy task as you can come any time you wish, but can never leave. In most cased divorce happens mostly due to infinitely, and loss of trust with their partner in a marriage. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " kiran " <sikhwalkiran@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > namaste acharyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > very pleased with your prompt reply and gives me a little breath. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > talking about his intrinsic traits, he is fighter kind of person. he has interests in science wanted to be doctor but father persuaded him to be c.a. he has no degree in computers but he can win in creativity to debate an intel engineer in electronics. no field of mechanics or elctric or electronic to the gis or gps systems exists where he has no interests or knows less. he is most brightest amongst us > > > > > > > > > > > > > > where he lacks is like kind of " haazir jawab " . he is not that man. his memory are strongest amongst most of indians. won 7 medals in memory competitions. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > he is great accountant, law kind of stuffs are at his tongues. greatest of mathematician in his schools. always 100/100. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > with physice he use to thin and bad but he worked out gyms and he is as fit as 17 year old boy. very active and fit. he is handsome as well. if he is attending marriage every girl will strive for his one eye. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > now i will talk on what he says about his wife and why he justifies himself for divorce. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > he says this girl always on numerous occassions have intention to cheat him rather than being crystal clear true lover. he strongly suspects that lady use to have past several affairs, and will keep on doing in future as well, as she uses power of her beauty to get people do her stuff. her image before marriage was that of sita while after staying together he finds that she is putna. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > she has physcological issues such as paranoia, hallucinations and hysterial paranoia, where she loses total control on her hands and legs and this has been since she was in 7th class in schools. parents have been too hiding it from community. she had numerous physciatrist working on her problems, one of them suggested her early marriage will solve problem after talking to her in private. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > this guys have definately strong standing in community and so wise they using it politicaly and with insane behaviour. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > now my point is acharyaji, can this had been possible that this girl is no good form moral nature and character specifically and will never be in future as well ? i also want to know what basis from her kundli went unnoticed when my brother had several consultancies before marrying this lady and falling in love with her. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Suresh Babu.A.G " <sureshbabuag@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Jyoti, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I could write about many factors in these charts that may or may not help (mostly may not). However, life is a serious affair, which we all already know. So may I ask if these couples had a family counseling by professional counselors / phsycologists? I am asking this question only because, it is easy to break bonds but difficult to make them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I could enumerate the compatability checking and declare that there is no compatability. But the question that pricks my mind is why is then the god willed their union. What is the astrological factor that enabled their marriage. It was not too difficult to find out. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Pardon me, I haven't gone into his future - that need more understanding - about myself - whether I am doing this in the right sense. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To me, though his chart seems to be of a person who is a satwic with Jupiter + Mercury in the lagna of Dhanu, The Chandra lagna being that of Taurus seems to be of a person who is in conflict with himself - Jupiter as lagna lord & Venus as chandra lord - ruling the atma & mind, with the chandra lord moving to the 12th house and saturn aspecting the lagna. This apart, Venus in the 7th of moon in parivarthana with mars indicates some intrinsic traits. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > So before moving any further, I would advice you to explore the above step (if not already done) very seriously and avoid the relatives at all costs (don't take in negative sense). > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Further this is definetly not a good time to move over to australia in the wake of several killings of Indians happening there. Yesterday Govt of India has issued a directive ( forced to admit at last) - not to go for studies / job in Australia. I hope you have seen it and take it seriously. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >   > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >  A.G.Suresh Babu Shenoy > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > > > > > kiran <sikhwalkiran@> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sat, January 30, 2010 9:30:06 AM > > > > > > > > About my brother's marriage > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >  > > > > > > > > Hello All gurujans, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > respected people I need some help from you knowledagble ones. my brother's marriage has become a hell for him as well as we all family members. we family members want him to get divorced and marry another girl. he is quite handsome and trying to get settled. but problem is neither his wife or any relatives want to keep relation nor they ready to give divorce. alimony money as wanted has been offered but they just want to ruin my brothers life. please check out when his second marriage will be possible. due to all this factors he is suffering high anxiety and nervousness even after one year. after the problems his wife was already pregnant. he is starving to see his daughter or hear about her. his life in going in ruins. parents are in favour that such girl will never let him leave with peace. so i have two questions for you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 1. when will divorce be possible or his in laws just want a salve for their daughter and will never give him divorce ?? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. will he get good loyal, modest, traditional and beautiful girl as to match him again ??? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > his birth details are as follows:- > > > > > > > > dob 16th january 1984 > > > > > > > > name omprakash tiwari > > > > > > > > time 07:12 am > > > > > > > > place bhilwara/ rajasthan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > his wife details > > > > > > > > dob 12th august 1987 > > > > > > > > name preety (durgeshnandini) > > > > > > > > time 00:30 am > > > > > > > > place merta city/ rajasthan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > please suggest what is most probable to happen with him. he is also struggling very hard in his career front. he had to move to australia because of home financial position leaving his c.a incompleted. he is bright and intelligent handsome man but all conditions are so bad for him we all feel pity on him. please say something about his marriage, his career and above two questions please suggest something. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > regards, > > > > > > > > Jyoti. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 2, 2010 Report Share Posted February 2, 2010 These are not 'my' links Lilly! When cultures and countries continue to discard female-children some of them die, others get adopted -- generally by desperate childless folks in other countries! Either way, such countries continue to lose MAs! It is a simple reality! RR_, , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005 wrote: > > > Historically, we have had more cultures practice polygamy then the other way around..So I am bit doubtful about the stats from your link RR_Ji! > > > Lilly > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > Should have added this MODERN wrinkle to my reply to Lilly in the first-pass! > > > > Oh, by the way -- I am not sure how SOLID the data are on these links, but this is going to throw a MONKEY wrench into the marital plans of many folks...! > > > > > > http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio > > > > http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_sex_ratio > > > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > > > But I hate travelling, Lilly! And what I possibly miss (if anything at all!) is all right here, is it not ;-) > > > > > > I know all about that adage about CONSTANT which is really spelled as C-H-A-N-G-E! > > > > > > Poor President OBama!! > > > > > > Rohiniranjan > > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Please do visit Bharatvarsh when you do get a chance, and try catching up to those lost 20 years,Sir :-)! > > > > Lots has changed, while the fundamentals have remained the same! > > > > > > > > True that India is quite diverse, but if we look at the opinions of masses there is still a stigma attached to the idea of divorce..And it's not just the Indian government that makes it extremely difficult to get one..And once the divorce does get granted, many still have a hard time finding a suitable marriage partner even in a country of 1 billion! > > > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Bharatvarsh, Lilly_jee is a BILLION-STRONG and counting...! There is no way that this GREATEST DEMOCRACY on EARTH can be rolled into one neat little STEREOTYPCIAL Package, won't you agree...? It is true that I have not had the good fortune of visiting India for now more than 20 years, but even the few decades that I lived and grew up remind me of the futility of trying to fit its diversity, cultural richess and its POTENTIAL to SURPRISE the WORLD into a simple and plain BRAND! I think it is WAY MORE DIVERSE than the entire EUROPE! :-) > > > > > > > > > > Yes there may be certain 'common markers' that deceptively can mislead one to think of it as one country, one culture etc, but truly speaking, it never was, and never will be predictable or simple to take in by anyone, up close or even from a distance! > > > > > > > > > > The thing with diversity -- particularly diversity which is not simply created by shades of grey, but by vibrant contrasting patterns of colours, like in a Rangoli or at Holi -- is that one can get so enticed by one colour or shape that one can take an easier approach in trying to roll it all into one mélange! > > > > > > > > > > It is like looking at the sky on a clear amavasya night! All those stars, making random patterns but as we continue to look at those and really begin to take in the PICTURE, distinct patterns and shapes emerge! These were all there, already for centuries -- if not ALWAYS -- even if we just began to realize that they have a personal message for us despite the distance and variety! > > > > > > > > > > Sorry if I am boring you with my *blog*...! ;-) > > > > > > > > > > Rohiniranjan > > > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > On a second thought.. > > > > > > While some cultures understand and accept the frailty of human life, I don't think our great Bharatvarsh quite readily embraces recycled goods, yet! Unless, Of-course the Kanya herself is a damaged good! But then again,it is the demand and supply within the marketplace that dictate " Who gets What " in the end! And One might just get lucky by being in the " right place at the right time " and thank his LUCKY STARS! > > > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am sure your brother will be able to find a good girl with high morals in no time!! Have faith and it will all get better..In astrology, 8th house is examined for ending of relationship..It also stands for " loss of dharma " as it 12th from 9th house..Loss, it is because we fell short of our duty/ dharma and betrayed our partner's trust.. > > > > > > > Whether our love is in a form of holy matrimony, or we just remain lovers of someone, all of us really demand utmost loyalty in a relationship, which comes with a heavy price tag!! When two lovers are deeply in love, and one partner feels betrayed, or suspects their lover is secretly entertaining someone else either in practical or just in their head, there is bound to be a problem..The minute this thought enters in their head, the love that they have honored it for so long gets diluted, and is no longer pure..For relationship to be sustained over a period of time it needs to pass through many test..Gateway to love is no easy task as you can come any time you wish, but can never leave. In most cased divorce happens mostly due to infinitely, and loss of trust with their partner in a marriage. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " kiran " <sikhwalkiran@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > namaste acharyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > very pleased with your prompt reply and gives me a little breath. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > talking about his intrinsic traits, he is fighter kind of person. he has interests in science wanted to be doctor but father persuaded him to be c.a. he has no degree in computers but he can win in creativity to debate an intel engineer in electronics. no field of mechanics or elctric or electronic to the gis or gps systems exists where he has no interests or knows less. he is most brightest amongst us > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > where he lacks is like kind of " haazir jawab " . he is not that man. his memory are strongest amongst most of indians. won 7 medals in memory competitions. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > he is great accountant, law kind of stuffs are at his tongues. greatest of mathematician in his schools. always 100/100. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > with physice he use to thin and bad but he worked out gyms and he is as fit as 17 year old boy. very active and fit. he is handsome as well. if he is attending marriage every girl will strive for his one eye. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > now i will talk on what he says about his wife and why he justifies himself for divorce. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > he says this girl always on numerous occassions have intention to cheat him rather than being crystal clear true lover. he strongly suspects that lady use to have past several affairs, and will keep on doing in future as well, as she uses power of her beauty to get people do her stuff. her image before marriage was that of sita while after staying together he finds that she is putna. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > she has physcological issues such as paranoia, hallucinations and hysterial paranoia, where she loses total control on her hands and legs and this has been since she was in 7th class in schools. parents have been too hiding it from community. she had numerous physciatrist working on her problems, one of them suggested her early marriage will solve problem after talking to her in private. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > this guys have definately strong standing in community and so wise they using it politicaly and with insane behaviour. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > now my point is acharyaji, can this had been possible that this girl is no good form moral nature and character specifically and will never be in future as well ? i also want to know what basis from her kundli went unnoticed when my brother had several consultancies before marrying this lady and falling in love with her. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Suresh Babu.A.G " <sureshbabuag@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Jyoti, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I could write about many factors in these charts that may or may not help (mostly may not). However, life is a serious affair, which we all already know. So may I ask if these couples had a family counseling by professional counselors / phsycologists? I am asking this question only because, it is easy to break bonds but difficult to make them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I could enumerate the compatability checking and declare that there is no compatability. But the question that pricks my mind is why is then the god willed their union. What is the astrological factor that enabled their marriage. It was not too difficult to find out. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Pardon me, I haven't gone into his future - that need more understanding - about myself - whether I am doing this in the right sense. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To me, though his chart seems to be of a person who is a satwic with Jupiter + Mercury in the lagna of Dhanu, The Chandra lagna being that of Taurus seems to be of a person who is in conflict with himself - Jupiter as lagna lord & Venus as chandra lord - ruling the atma & mind, with the chandra lord moving to the 12th house and saturn aspecting the lagna. This apart, Venus in the 7th of moon in parivarthana with mars indicates some intrinsic traits. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > So before moving any further, I would advice you to explore the above step (if not already done) very seriously and avoid the relatives at all costs (don't take in negative sense). > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Further this is definetly not a good time to move over to australia in the wake of several killings of Indians happening there. Yesterday Govt of India has issued a directive ( forced to admit at last) - not to go for studies / job in Australia. I hope you have seen it and take it seriously. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >   > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >  A.G.Suresh Babu Shenoy > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > > > > > > kiran <sikhwalkiran@> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sat, January 30, 2010 9:30:06 AM > > > > > > > > > About my brother's marriage > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >  > > > > > > > > > Hello All gurujans, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > respected people I need some help from you knowledagble ones. my brother's marriage has become a hell for him as well as we all family members. we family members want him to get divorced and marry another girl. he is quite handsome and trying to get settled. but problem is neither his wife or any relatives want to keep relation nor they ready to give divorce. alimony money as wanted has been offered but they just want to ruin my brothers life. please check out when his second marriage will be possible. due to all this factors he is suffering high anxiety and nervousness even after one year. after the problems his wife was already pregnant. he is starving to see his daughter or hear about her. his life in going in ruins. parents are in favour that such girl will never let him leave with peace. so i have two questions for you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 1. when will divorce be possible or his in laws just want a salve for their daughter and will never give him divorce ?? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. will he get good loyal, modest, traditional and beautiful girl as to match him again ??? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > his birth details are as follows:- > > > > > > > > > dob 16th january 1984 > > > > > > > > > name omprakash tiwari > > > > > > > > > time 07:12 am > > > > > > > > > place bhilwara/ rajasthan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > his wife details > > > > > > > > > dob 12th august 1987 > > > > > > > > > name preety (durgeshnandini) > > > > > > > > > time 00:30 am > > > > > > > > > place merta city/ rajasthan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > please suggest what is most probable to happen with him. he is also struggling very hard in his career front. he had to move to australia because of home financial position leaving his c.a incompleted. he is bright and intelligent handsome man but all conditions are so bad for him we all feel pity on him. please say something about his marriage, his career and above two questions please suggest something. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > regards, > > > > > > > > > Jyoti. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 2, 2010 Report Share Posted February 2, 2010 Your post just reminded me about my own desire to adopt those children from the orphanage that I have been wanting for sometime now ..By the way you never got back to me about it..I seriously have to get on it this year when I settle down a bit.. Lilly , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani wrote: > > These are not 'my' links Lilly! > When cultures and countries continue to discard female-children some of them die, others get adopted -- generally by desperate childless folks in other countries! > > Either way, such countries continue to lose MAs! It is a simple reality! > > RR_, > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > Historically, we have had more cultures practice polygamy then the other way around..So I am bit doubtful about the stats from your link RR_Ji! > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > > > Should have added this MODERN wrinkle to my reply to Lilly in the first-pass! > > > > > > Oh, by the way -- I am not sure how SOLID the data are on these links, but this is going to throw a MONKEY wrench into the marital plans of many folks...! > > > > > > > > > http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio > > > > > > http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_sex_ratio > > > > > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > > > > > But I hate travelling, Lilly! And what I possibly miss (if anything at all!) is all right here, is it not ;-) > > > > > > > > I know all about that adage about CONSTANT which is really spelled as C-H-A-N-G-E! > > > > > > > > Poor President OBama!! > > > > > > > > Rohiniranjan > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Please do visit Bharatvarsh when you do get a chance, and try catching up to those lost 20 years,Sir :-)! > > > > > Lots has changed, while the fundamentals have remained the same! > > > > > > > > > > True that India is quite diverse, but if we look at the opinions of masses there is still a stigma attached to the idea of divorce..And it's not just the Indian government that makes it extremely difficult to get one..And once the divorce does get granted, many still have a hard time finding a suitable marriage partner even in a country of 1 billion! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Bharatvarsh, Lilly_jee is a BILLION-STRONG and counting...! There is no way that this GREATEST DEMOCRACY on EARTH can be rolled into one neat little STEREOTYPCIAL Package, won't you agree...? It is true that I have not had the good fortune of visiting India for now more than 20 years, but even the few decades that I lived and grew up remind me of the futility of trying to fit its diversity, cultural richess and its POTENTIAL to SURPRISE the WORLD into a simple and plain BRAND! I think it is WAY MORE DIVERSE than the entire EUROPE! :-) > > > > > > > > > > > > Yes there may be certain 'common markers' that deceptively can mislead one to think of it as one country, one culture etc, but truly speaking, it never was, and never will be predictable or simple to take in by anyone, up close or even from a distance! > > > > > > > > > > > > The thing with diversity -- particularly diversity which is not simply created by shades of grey, but by vibrant contrasting patterns of colours, like in a Rangoli or at Holi -- is that one can get so enticed by one colour or shape that one can take an easier approach in trying to roll it all into one mélange! > > > > > > > > > > > > It is like looking at the sky on a clear amavasya night! All those stars, making random patterns but as we continue to look at those and really begin to take in the PICTURE, distinct patterns and shapes emerge! These were all there, already for centuries -- if not ALWAYS -- even if we just began to realize that they have a personal message for us despite the distance and variety! > > > > > > > > > > > > Sorry if I am boring you with my *blog*...! ;-) > > > > > > > > > > > > Rohiniranjan > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On a second thought.. > > > > > > > While some cultures understand and accept the frailty of human life, I don't think our great Bharatvarsh quite readily embraces recycled goods, yet! Unless, Of-course the Kanya herself is a damaged good! But then again,it is the demand and supply within the marketplace that dictate " Who gets What " in the end! And One might just get lucky by being in the " right place at the right time " and thank his LUCKY STARS! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am sure your brother will be able to find a good girl with high morals in no time!! Have faith and it will all get better..In astrology, 8th house is examined for ending of relationship..It also stands for " loss of dharma " as it 12th from 9th house..Loss, it is because we fell short of our duty/ dharma and betrayed our partner's trust.. > > > > > > > > Whether our love is in a form of holy matrimony, or we just remain lovers of someone, all of us really demand utmost loyalty in a relationship, which comes with a heavy price tag!! When two lovers are deeply in love, and one partner feels betrayed, or suspects their lover is secretly entertaining someone else either in practical or just in their head, there is bound to be a problem..The minute this thought enters in their head, the love that they have honored it for so long gets diluted, and is no longer pure..For relationship to be sustained over a period of time it needs to pass through many test..Gateway to love is no easy task as you can come any time you wish, but can never leave. In most cased divorce happens mostly due to infinitely, and loss of trust with their partner in a marriage. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " kiran " <sikhwalkiran@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > namaste acharyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > very pleased with your prompt reply and gives me a little breath. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > talking about his intrinsic traits, he is fighter kind of person. he has interests in science wanted to be doctor but father persuaded him to be c.a. he has no degree in computers but he can win in creativity to debate an intel engineer in electronics. no field of mechanics or elctric or electronic to the gis or gps systems exists where he has no interests or knows less. he is most brightest amongst us > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > where he lacks is like kind of " haazir jawab " . he is not that man. his memory are strongest amongst most of indians. won 7 medals in memory competitions. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > he is great accountant, law kind of stuffs are at his tongues. greatest of mathematician in his schools. always 100/100. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > with physice he use to thin and bad but he worked out gyms and he is as fit as 17 year old boy. very active and fit. he is handsome as well. if he is attending marriage every girl will strive for his one eye. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > now i will talk on what he says about his wife and why he justifies himself for divorce. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > he says this girl always on numerous occassions have intention to cheat him rather than being crystal clear true lover. he strongly suspects that lady use to have past several affairs, and will keep on doing in future as well, as she uses power of her beauty to get people do her stuff. her image before marriage was that of sita while after staying together he finds that she is putna. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > she has physcological issues such as paranoia, hallucinations and hysterial paranoia, where she loses total control on her hands and legs and this has been since she was in 7th class in schools. parents have been too hiding it from community. she had numerous physciatrist working on her problems, one of them suggested her early marriage will solve problem after talking to her in private. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > this guys have definately strong standing in community and so wise they using it politicaly and with insane behaviour. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > now my point is acharyaji, can this had been possible that this girl is no good form moral nature and character specifically and will never be in future as well ? i also want to know what basis from her kundli went unnoticed when my brother had several consultancies before marrying this lady and falling in love with her. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Suresh Babu.A.G " <sureshbabuag@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Jyoti, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I could write about many factors in these charts that may or may not help (mostly may not). However, life is a serious affair, which we all already know. So may I ask if these couples had a family counseling by professional counselors / phsycologists? I am asking this question only because, it is easy to break bonds but difficult to make them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I could enumerate the compatability checking and declare that there is no compatability. But the question that pricks my mind is why is then the god willed their union. What is the astrological factor that enabled their marriage. It was not too difficult to find out. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Pardon me, I haven't gone into his future - that need more understanding - about myself - whether I am doing this in the right sense. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To me, though his chart seems to be of a person who is a satwic with Jupiter + Mercury in the lagna of Dhanu, The Chandra lagna being that of Taurus seems to be of a person who is in conflict with himself - Jupiter as lagna lord & Venus as chandra lord - ruling the atma & mind, with the chandra lord moving to the 12th house and saturn aspecting the lagna. This apart, Venus in the 7th of moon in parivarthana with mars indicates some intrinsic traits. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > So before moving any further, I would advice you to explore the above step (if not already done) very seriously and avoid the relatives at all costs (don't take in negative sense). > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Further this is definetly not a good time to move over to australia in the wake of several killings of Indians happening there. Yesterday Govt of India has issued a directive ( forced to admit at last) - not to go for studies / job in Australia. I hope you have seen it and take it seriously. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >   > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >  A.G.Suresh Babu Shenoy > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > > > > > > > kiran <sikhwalkiran@> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sat, January 30, 2010 9:30:06 AM > > > > > > > > > > About my brother's marriage > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >  > > > > > > > > > > Hello All gurujans, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > respected people I need some help from you knowledagble ones. my brother's marriage has become a hell for him as well as we all family members. we family members want him to get divorced and marry another girl. he is quite handsome and trying to get settled. but problem is neither his wife or any relatives want to keep relation nor they ready to give divorce. alimony money as wanted has been offered but they just want to ruin my brothers life. please check out when his second marriage will be possible. due to all this factors he is suffering high anxiety and nervousness even after one year. after the problems his wife was already pregnant. he is starving to see his daughter or hear about her. his life in going in ruins. parents are in favour that such girl will never let him leave with peace. so i have two questions for you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 1. when will divorce be possible or his in laws just want a salve for their daughter and will never give him divorce ?? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. will he get good loyal, modest, traditional and beautiful girl as to match him again ??? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > his birth details are as follows:- > > > > > > > > > > dob 16th january 1984 > > > > > > > > > > name omprakash tiwari > > > > > > > > > > time 07:12 am > > > > > > > > > > place bhilwara/ rajasthan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > his wife details > > > > > > > > > > dob 12th august 1987 > > > > > > > > > > name preety (durgeshnandini) > > > > > > > > > > time 00:30 am > > > > > > > > > > place merta city/ rajasthan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > please suggest what is most probable to happen with him. he is also struggling very hard in his career front. he had to move to australia because of home financial position leaving his c.a incompleted. he is bright and intelligent handsome man but all conditions are so bad for him we all feel pity on him. please say something about his marriage, his career and above two questions please suggest something. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > regards, > > > > > > > > > > Jyoti. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 2, 2010 Report Share Posted February 2, 2010 I do not think I ever received your request that you speak about, Lilly, namely, " By the way you never got back to me about it..I seriously have to get on it this year when I settle down a bit.. " But not to worry -- You are in the right place! Someone for sure will pick up your request for a reading and remedies. Rohiniranjan , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005 wrote: > > Your post just reminded me about my own desire to adopt those children from the orphanage that I have been wanting for sometime now ..By the way you never got back to me about it..I seriously have to get on it this year when I settle down a bit.. > > > Lilly > > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > These are not 'my' links Lilly! > > When cultures and countries continue to discard female-children some of them die, others get adopted -- generally by desperate childless folks in other countries! > > > > Either way, such countries continue to lose MAs! It is a simple reality! > > > > RR_, > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Historically, we have had more cultures practice polygamy then the other way around..So I am bit doubtful about the stats from your link RR_Ji! > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Should have added this MODERN wrinkle to my reply to Lilly in the first-pass! > > > > > > > > Oh, by the way -- I am not sure how SOLID the data are on these links, but this is going to throw a MONKEY wrench into the marital plans of many folks...! > > > > > > > > > > > > http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio > > > > > > > > http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_sex_ratio > > > > > > > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > But I hate travelling, Lilly! And what I possibly miss (if anything at all!) is all right here, is it not ;-) > > > > > > > > > > I know all about that adage about CONSTANT which is really spelled as C-H-A-N-G-E! > > > > > > > > > > Poor President OBama!! > > > > > > > > > > Rohiniranjan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Please do visit Bharatvarsh when you do get a chance, and try catching up to those lost 20 years,Sir :-)! > > > > > > Lots has changed, while the fundamentals have remained the same! > > > > > > > > > > > > True that India is quite diverse, but if we look at the opinions of masses there is still a stigma attached to the idea of divorce..And it's not just the Indian government that makes it extremely difficult to get one..And once the divorce does get granted, many still have a hard time finding a suitable marriage partner even in a country of 1 billion! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Bharatvarsh, Lilly_jee is a BILLION-STRONG and counting...! There is no way that this GREATEST DEMOCRACY on EARTH can be rolled into one neat little STEREOTYPCIAL Package, won't you agree...? It is true that I have not had the good fortune of visiting India for now more than 20 years, but even the few decades that I lived and grew up remind me of the futility of trying to fit its diversity, cultural richess and its POTENTIAL to SURPRISE the WORLD into a simple and plain BRAND! I think it is WAY MORE DIVERSE than the entire EUROPE! :-) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Yes there may be certain 'common markers' that deceptively can mislead one to think of it as one country, one culture etc, but truly speaking, it never was, and never will be predictable or simple to take in by anyone, up close or even from a distance! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > The thing with diversity -- particularly diversity which is not simply created by shades of grey, but by vibrant contrasting patterns of colours, like in a Rangoli or at Holi -- is that one can get so enticed by one colour or shape that one can take an easier approach in trying to roll it all into one mélange! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > It is like looking at the sky on a clear amavasya night! All those stars, making random patterns but as we continue to look at those and really begin to take in the PICTURE, distinct patterns and shapes emerge! These were all there, already for centuries -- if not ALWAYS -- even if we just began to realize that they have a personal message for us despite the distance and variety! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sorry if I am boring you with my *blog*...! ;-) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Rohiniranjan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On a second thought.. > > > > > > > > While some cultures understand and accept the frailty of human life, I don't think our great Bharatvarsh quite readily embraces recycled goods, yet! Unless, Of-course the Kanya herself is a damaged good! But then again,it is the demand and supply within the marketplace that dictate " Who gets What " in the end! And One might just get lucky by being in the " right place at the right time " and thank his LUCKY STARS! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am sure your brother will be able to find a good girl with high morals in no time!! Have faith and it will all get better..In astrology, 8th house is examined for ending of relationship..It also stands for " loss of dharma " as it 12th from 9th house..Loss, it is because we fell short of our duty/ dharma and betrayed our partner's trust.. > > > > > > > > > Whether our love is in a form of holy matrimony, or we just remain lovers of someone, all of us really demand utmost loyalty in a relationship, which comes with a heavy price tag!! When two lovers are deeply in love, and one partner feels betrayed, or suspects their lover is secretly entertaining someone else either in practical or just in their head, there is bound to be a problem..The minute this thought enters in their head, the love that they have honored it for so long gets diluted, and is no longer pure..For relationship to be sustained over a period of time it needs to pass through many test..Gateway to love is no easy task as you can come any time you wish, but can never leave. In most cased divorce happens mostly due to infinitely, and loss of trust with their partner in a marriage. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " kiran " <sikhwalkiran@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > namaste acharyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > very pleased with your prompt reply and gives me a little breath. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > talking about his intrinsic traits, he is fighter kind of person. he has interests in science wanted to be doctor but father persuaded him to be c.a. he has no degree in computers but he can win in creativity to debate an intel engineer in electronics. no field of mechanics or elctric or electronic to the gis or gps systems exists where he has no interests or knows less. he is most brightest amongst us > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > where he lacks is like kind of " haazir jawab " . he is not that man. his memory are strongest amongst most of indians. won 7 medals in memory competitions. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > he is great accountant, law kind of stuffs are at his tongues. greatest of mathematician in his schools. always 100/100. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > with physice he use to thin and bad but he worked out gyms and he is as fit as 17 year old boy. very active and fit. he is handsome as well. if he is attending marriage every girl will strive for his one eye. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > now i will talk on what he says about his wife and why he justifies himself for divorce. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > he says this girl always on numerous occassions have intention to cheat him rather than being crystal clear true lover. he strongly suspects that lady use to have past several affairs, and will keep on doing in future as well, as she uses power of her beauty to get people do her stuff. her image before marriage was that of sita while after staying together he finds that she is putna. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > she has physcological issues such as paranoia, hallucinations and hysterial paranoia, where she loses total control on her hands and legs and this has been since she was in 7th class in schools. parents have been too hiding it from community. she had numerous physciatrist working on her problems, one of them suggested her early marriage will solve problem after talking to her in private. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > this guys have definately strong standing in community and so wise they using it politicaly and with insane behaviour. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > now my point is acharyaji, can this had been possible that this girl is no good form moral nature and character specifically and will never be in future as well ? i also want to know what basis from her kundli went unnoticed when my brother had several consultancies before marrying this lady and falling in love with her. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Suresh Babu.A.G " <sureshbabuag@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Jyoti, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I could write about many factors in these charts that may or may not help (mostly may not). However, life is a serious affair, which we all already know. So may I ask if these couples had a family counseling by professional counselors / phsycologists? I am asking this question only because, it is easy to break bonds but difficult to make them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I could enumerate the compatability checking and declare that there is no compatability. But the question that pricks my mind is why is then the god willed their union. What is the astrological factor that enabled their marriage. It was not too difficult to find out. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Pardon me, I haven't gone into his future - that need more understanding - about myself - whether I am doing this in the right sense. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To me, though his chart seems to be of a person who is a satwic with Jupiter + Mercury in the lagna of Dhanu, The Chandra lagna being that of Taurus seems to be of a person who is in conflict with himself - Jupiter as lagna lord & Venus as chandra lord - ruling the atma & mind, with the chandra lord moving to the 12th house and saturn aspecting the lagna. This apart, Venus in the 7th of moon in parivarthana with mars indicates some intrinsic traits. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > So before moving any further, I would advice you to explore the above step (if not already done) very seriously and avoid the relatives at all costs (don't take in negative sense). > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Further this is definetly not a good time to move over to australia in the wake of several killings of Indians happening there. Yesterday Govt of India has issued a directive ( forced to admit at last) - not to go for studies / job in Australia. I hope you have seen it and take it seriously. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >   > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >  A.G.Suresh Babu Shenoy > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > > > > > > > > kiran <sikhwalkiran@> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sat, January 30, 2010 9:30:06 AM > > > > > > > > > > > About my brother's marriage > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >  > > > > > > > > > > > Hello All gurujans, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > respected people I need some help from you knowledagble ones. my brother's marriage has become a hell for him as well as we all family members. we family members want him to get divorced and marry another girl. he is quite handsome and trying to get settled. but problem is neither his wife or any relatives want to keep relation nor they ready to give divorce. alimony money as wanted has been offered but they just want to ruin my brothers life. please check out when his second marriage will be possible. due to all this factors he is suffering high anxiety and nervousness even after one year. after the problems his wife was already pregnant. he is starving to see his daughter or hear about her. his life in going in ruins. parents are in favour that such girl will never let him leave with peace. so i have two questions for you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 1. when will divorce be possible or his in laws just want a salve for their daughter and will never give him divorce ?? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. will he get good loyal, modest, traditional and beautiful girl as to match him again ??? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > his birth details are as follows:- > > > > > > > > > > > dob 16th january 1984 > > > > > > > > > > > name omprakash tiwari > > > > > > > > > > > time 07:12 am > > > > > > > > > > > place bhilwara/ rajasthan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > his wife details > > > > > > > > > > > dob 12th august 1987 > > > > > > > > > > > name preety (durgeshnandini) > > > > > > > > > > > time 00:30 am > > > > > > > > > > > place merta city/ rajasthan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > please suggest what is most probable to happen with him. he is also struggling very hard in his career front. he had to move to australia because of home financial position leaving his c.a incompleted. he is bright and intelligent handsome man but all conditions are so bad for him we all feel pity on him. please say something about his marriage, his career and above two questions please suggest something. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > regards, > > > > > > > > > > > Jyoti. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 2, 2010 Report Share Posted February 2, 2010 Thanks, but I already got the answer!!I know I am going to adopt children but have to pass through rigorous hoops & many thorns on the way before I get it..I have made attempts in the past but the laws hasn't been on my favor, so far!! It's always much easier for a couple/family then a single person to adopt(what a shame when so many children with nothing)..But, that is not going to stop me from getting what I want!! Lilly , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani wrote: > > I do not think I ever received your request that you speak about, Lilly, namely, " By the way you never got back to me about it..I seriously have to get on it this year when I settle down a bit.. " > > But not to worry -- You are in the right place! Someone for sure will pick up your request for a reading and remedies. > > Rohiniranjan > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > Your post just reminded me about my own desire to adopt those children from the orphanage that I have been wanting for sometime now ..By the way you never got back to me about it..I seriously have to get on it this year when I settle down a bit.. > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > > > These are not 'my' links Lilly! > > > When cultures and countries continue to discard female-children some of them die, others get adopted -- generally by desperate childless folks in other countries! > > > > > > Either way, such countries continue to lose MAs! It is a simple reality! > > > > > > RR_, > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Historically, we have had more cultures practice polygamy then the other way around..So I am bit doubtful about the stats from your link RR_Ji! > > > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Should have added this MODERN wrinkle to my reply to Lilly in the first-pass! > > > > > > > > > > Oh, by the way -- I am not sure how SOLID the data are on these links, but this is going to throw a MONKEY wrench into the marital plans of many folks...! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio > > > > > > > > > > http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_sex_ratio > > > > > > > > > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > But I hate travelling, Lilly! And what I possibly miss (if anything at all!) is all right here, is it not ;-) > > > > > > > > > > > > I know all about that adage about CONSTANT which is really spelled as C-H-A-N-G-E! > > > > > > > > > > > > Poor President OBama!! > > > > > > > > > > > > Rohiniranjan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Please do visit Bharatvarsh when you do get a chance, and try catching up to those lost 20 years,Sir :-)! > > > > > > > Lots has changed, while the fundamentals have remained the same! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > True that India is quite diverse, but if we look at the opinions of masses there is still a stigma attached to the idea of divorce..And it's not just the Indian government that makes it extremely difficult to get one..And once the divorce does get granted, many still have a hard time finding a suitable marriage partner even in a country of 1 billion! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " rohinicrystal " <jyotish_vani@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Bharatvarsh, Lilly_jee is a BILLION-STRONG and counting...! There is no way that this GREATEST DEMOCRACY on EARTH can be rolled into one neat little STEREOTYPCIAL Package, won't you agree...? It is true that I have not had the good fortune of visiting India for now more than 20 years, but even the few decades that I lived and grew up remind me of the futility of trying to fit its diversity, cultural richess and its POTENTIAL to SURPRISE the WORLD into a simple and plain BRAND! I think it is WAY MORE DIVERSE than the entire EUROPE! :-) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Yes there may be certain 'common markers' that deceptively can mislead one to think of it as one country, one culture etc, but truly speaking, it never was, and never will be predictable or simple to take in by anyone, up close or even from a distance! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > The thing with diversity -- particularly diversity which is not simply created by shades of grey, but by vibrant contrasting patterns of colours, like in a Rangoli or at Holi -- is that one can get so enticed by one colour or shape that one can take an easier approach in trying to roll it all into one mélange! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > It is like looking at the sky on a clear amavasya night! All those stars, making random patterns but as we continue to look at those and really begin to take in the PICTURE, distinct patterns and shapes emerge! These were all there, already for centuries -- if not ALWAYS -- even if we just began to realize that they have a personal message for us despite the distance and variety! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sorry if I am boring you with my *blog*...! ;-) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Rohiniranjan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On a second thought.. > > > > > > > > > While some cultures understand and accept the frailty of human life, I don't think our great Bharatvarsh quite readily embraces recycled goods, yet! Unless, Of-course the Kanya herself is a damaged good! But then again,it is the demand and supply within the marketplace that dictate " Who gets What " in the end! And One might just get lucky by being in the " right place at the right time " and thank his LUCKY STARS! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Lilly " <tigresslilly2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am sure your brother will be able to find a good girl with high morals in no time!! Have faith and it will all get better..In astrology, 8th house is examined for ending of relationship..It also stands for " loss of dharma " as it 12th from 9th house..Loss, it is because we fell short of our duty/ dharma and betrayed our partner's trust.. > > > > > > > > > > Whether our love is in a form of holy matrimony, or we just remain lovers of someone, all of us really demand utmost loyalty in a relationship, which comes with a heavy price tag!! When two lovers are deeply in love, and one partner feels betrayed, or suspects their lover is secretly entertaining someone else either in practical or just in their head, there is bound to be a problem..The minute this thought enters in their head, the love that they have honored it for so long gets diluted, and is no longer pure..For relationship to be sustained over a period of time it needs to pass through many test..Gateway to love is no easy task as you can come any time you wish, but can never leave. In most cased divorce happens mostly due to infinitely, and loss of trust with their partner in a marriage. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Lilly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " kiran " <sikhwalkiran@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > namaste acharyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > very pleased with your prompt reply and gives me a little breath. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > talking about his intrinsic traits, he is fighter kind of person. he has interests in science wanted to be doctor but father persuaded him to be c.a. he has no degree in computers but he can win in creativity to debate an intel engineer in electronics. no field of mechanics or elctric or electronic to the gis or gps systems exists where he has no interests or knows less. he is most brightest amongst us > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > where he lacks is like kind of " haazir jawab " . he is not that man. his memory are strongest amongst most of indians. won 7 medals in memory competitions. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > he is great accountant, law kind of stuffs are at his tongues. greatest of mathematician in his schools. always 100/100. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > with physice he use to thin and bad but he worked out gyms and he is as fit as 17 year old boy. very active and fit. he is handsome as well. if he is attending marriage every girl will strive for his one eye. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > now i will talk on what he says about his wife and why he justifies himself for divorce. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > he says this girl always on numerous occassions have intention to cheat him rather than being crystal clear true lover. he strongly suspects that lady use to have past several affairs, and will keep on doing in future as well, as she uses power of her beauty to get people do her stuff. her image before marriage was that of sita while after staying together he finds that she is putna. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > she has physcological issues such as paranoia, hallucinations and hysterial paranoia, where she loses total control on her hands and legs and this has been since she was in 7th class in schools. parents have been too hiding it from community. she had numerous physciatrist working on her problems, one of them suggested her early marriage will solve problem after talking to her in private. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > this guys have definately strong standing in community and so wise they using it politicaly and with insane behaviour. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > now my point is acharyaji, can this had been possible that this girl is no good form moral nature and character specifically and will never be in future as well ? i also want to know what basis from her kundli went unnoticed when my brother had several consultancies before marrying this lady and falling in love with her. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " Suresh Babu.A.G " <sureshbabuag@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Jyoti, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I could write about many factors in these charts that may or may not help (mostly may not). However, life is a serious affair, which we all already know. So may I ask if these couples had a family counseling by professional counselors / phsycologists? I am asking this question only because, it is easy to break bonds but difficult to make them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I could enumerate the compatability checking and declare that there is no compatability. But the question that pricks my mind is why is then the god willed their union. What is the astrological factor that enabled their marriage. It was not too difficult to find out. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Pardon me, I haven't gone into his future - that need more understanding - about myself - whether I am doing this in the right sense. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To me, though his chart seems to be of a person who is a satwic with Jupiter + Mercury in the lagna of Dhanu, The Chandra lagna being that of Taurus seems to be of a person who is in conflict with himself - Jupiter as lagna lord & Venus as chandra lord - ruling the atma & mind, with the chandra lord moving to the 12th house and saturn aspecting the lagna. This apart, Venus in the 7th of moon in parivarthana with mars indicates some intrinsic traits. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > So before moving any further, I would advice you to explore the above step (if not already done) very seriously and avoid the relatives at all costs (don't take in negative sense). > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Further this is definetly not a good time to move over to australia in the wake of several killings of Indians happening there. Yesterday Govt of India has issued a directive ( forced to admit at last) - not to go for studies / job in Australia. I hope you have seen it and take it seriously. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >   > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >  A.G.Suresh Babu Shenoy > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > > > > > > > > > kiran <sikhwalkiran@> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sat, January 30, 2010 9:30:06 AM > > > > > > > > > > > > About my brother's marriage > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >  > > > > > > > > > > > > Hello All gurujans, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > respected people I need some help from you knowledagble ones. my brother's marriage has become a hell for him as well as we all family members. we family members want him to get divorced and marry another girl. he is quite handsome and trying to get settled. but problem is neither his wife or any relatives want to keep relation nor they ready to give divorce. alimony money as wanted has been offered but they just want to ruin my brothers life. please check out when his second marriage will be possible. due to all this factors he is suffering high anxiety and nervousness even after one year. after the problems his wife was already pregnant. he is starving to see his daughter or hear about her. his life in going in ruins. parents are in favour that such girl will never let him leave with peace. so i have two questions for you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 1. when will divorce be possible or his in laws just want a salve for their daughter and will never give him divorce ?? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. will he get good loyal, modest, traditional and beautiful girl as to match him again ??? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > his birth details are as follows:- > > > > > > > > > > > > dob 16th january 1984 > > > > > > > > > > > > name omprakash tiwari > > > > > > > > > > > > time 07:12 am > > > > > > > > > > > > place bhilwara/ rajasthan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > his wife details > > > > > > > > > > > > dob 12th august 1987 > > > > > > > > > > > > name preety (durgeshnandini) > > > > > > > > > > > > time 00:30 am > > > > > > > > > > > > place merta city/ rajasthan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > please suggest what is most probable to happen with him. he is also struggling very hard in his career front. he had to move to australia because of home financial position leaving his c.a incompleted. he is bright and intelligent handsome man but all conditions are so bad for him we all feel pity on him. please say something about his marriage, his career and above two questions please suggest something. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > regards, > > > > > > > > > > > > Jyoti. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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