Guest guest Posted April 6, 2010 Report Share Posted April 6, 2010 Dear Madam jee, From these charts no divorce or separation is indicated. Inder , Manu Shree <manushree wrote: > > Hi All, > > Please help me by advising what to do as I have a lot problems with my spouse. The following are my details: > > 14-11-1969, 1:35 PM > New Delhi. > > My husband's: > > 9-2-1965, 1:00 AM > New Delhi. > > Concern: Divorce or Separation? > > Regards, > Manu > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2010 Report Share Posted April 6, 2010 Thanks Inder Ji. Why do we have constant fights? He hardly talks to me. Regards, Manu ________________________________ inder <indervohra2001 Tue, 6 April, 2010 2:55:29 PM Re: Stress from all the sides  Dear Madam jee, From these charts no divorce or separation is indicated. Inder , Manu Shree <manushree@. ..> wrote: > > Hi All, > >   Please help me by advising what to do as I have a lot problems with my spouse. The following are my details: > > 14-11-1969, 1:35 PM > New Delhi. > > My husband's: > > 9-2-1965, 1:00 AM > New Delhi. > > Concern: Divorce or Separation? > > Regards, > Manu > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2010 Report Share Posted April 6, 2010 Dear Manu shree, How can you fight without talking? Actually your husband is quite aggressive, argumentative, atrocious and very ambitious.Moon in Aries-martian effects. You are also argumentative, boasting and determined. Sat in Aries Martian but low effects. His chart also show he is also in mental agony[as you are] and loss of mental peace situation. I hope in the coming Jupiter dasa things will vastly improve your health. You may quit the job or may go for a very easy self employment. This will certainly give you great mental relief and health benrfits. Go for Ayurvedic or Homeopathic tonics, messaage, spa, yoga etc for enhancement of libido, glow of skin, vigour in the body.Join gym and also go for some astrology learning. Things will improve. Wish you good luck Inder , Manu Shree <manushree wrote: > > Thanks Inder Ji. > > Why do we have constant fights? He hardly talks to me. > > Regards, > Manu > > > > > ________________________________ > inder <indervohra2001 > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 2:55:29 PM > Re: Stress from all the sides > > Â > Dear Madam jee, > From these charts no divorce or separation is indicated. > Inder > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ ..> wrote: > > > > Hi All, > > > > Â Â Please help me by advising what to do as I have a lot problems with my spouse. The following are my details: > > > > 14-11-1969, 1:35 PM > > New Delhi. > > > > My husband's: > > > > 9-2-1965, 1:00 AM > > New Delhi. > > > > Concern: Divorce or Separation? > > > > Regards, > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2010 Report Share Posted April 6, 2010 Inder Ji,  Thanks for the analysis. When will he change towards being a normal individual? Regards, Manu ________________________________ inder <indervohra2001 Tue, 6 April, 2010 11:04:38 PM Re: Stress from all the sides  Dear Manu shree, How can you fight without talking? Actually your husband is quite aggressive, argumentative, atrocious and very ambitious.Moon in Aries-martian effects. You are also argumentative, boasting and determined. Sat in Aries Martian but low effects. His chart also show he is also in mental agony[as you are] and loss of mental peace situation. I hope in the coming Jupiter dasa things will vastly improve your health. You may quit the job or may go for a very easy self employment. This will certainly give you great mental relief and health benrfits. Go for Ayurvedic or Homeopathic tonics, messaage, spa, yoga etc for enhancement of libido, glow of skin, vigour in the body.Join gym and also go for some astrology learning. Things will improve. Wish you good luck Inder , Manu Shree <manushree@. ..> wrote: > > Thanks Inder Ji. > > Why do we have constant fights? He hardly talks to me. > > Regards, > Manu > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > inder <indervohra2001@ ...> > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 2:55:29 PM > Re: Stress from all the sides > >  > Dear Madam jee, > From these charts no divorce or separation is indicated. > Inder > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ ..> wrote: > > > > Hi All, > > > >   Please help me by advising what to do as I have a lot problems with my spouse. The following are my details: > > > > 14-11-1969, 1:35 PM > > New Delhi. > > > > My husband's: > > > > 9-2-1965, 1:00 AM > > New Delhi. > > > > Concern: Divorce or Separation? > > > > Regards, > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2010 Report Share Posted April 7, 2010 Dear Manu, I have been studying both the charts. I would now add further to what Inder has written for you. You know Rani Laxmi Bai of Jhansi was called Manu in her childhod? So I will begin with what I observe from your chart,call it as your inner traits or nature,which are perceived in general by others ,who can oserve you generally and also with very keen eyes. " Your eyes will be bright and with a magnetic look. Your eyes will be bright and large. Beautiful countenance, with somewhat broad forehead. You may appear to be very calm and quite, but capable of getting your work done, most of the time un-noticed. There is a saying that even Devatas cannot change your adamant attitude. So you are basically have a very strange kind of stubbornness. generally fond of music and interested in literary pursuits. Period up to his 30th years of age will be full of struggle Have you been subjected to neglect by your own family members due to your adamant behavior. Could you derive the affection from your father and co-born ,which was expected ; and the care that was required from them ?Have you got maximum help from maternal uncles. Has also great amount of help came to you from those who are outside the family circle ? You will remain faithful to those who love you and help you and will not hesitate to sacrifice anything for them. You can be the best friend in need, provided others are able to understand you. You do have the capacity to keep your patience even at the time of greatest perils. But it will be a Herculean effort to console when you choose to go berserk. You would the best advisor to the persons in agony. But will deeply resent and have fear from criticism and will think the uggestions from others, as a frightening attempt at manipulation. You take own time to do any work. Your actions may be slow but well thought. You will normally not jump upon any matter without examining prose and cons of each item of work. Having decided, you cannot be easily influenced, when you begin carrying out an action or work, whether it is good or bad, right or wrong, you will stick to what you have done, come what may. You can be a firm believer of God. But there is no room for religious or other sentiments. You can be an orthodox in new style i.e., you do believe in modernization of orthodox method and beliefs. Even though you are quite intelligent, at times you will makes mountain of even smallest matters. This leads you in a state of lack of mental peace and will always be in desperate mood. You have the knack of bringing anybody near to you with her sweet speech, and are also having capacity to maintains utmost patience. You could have tendency to enjoy great soothing feelings at physical plane .One more thing stands out in you is that you maintain the tradition of respecting elders. You are a good earning professional. But, you may suddenly become disinterested in the profession ,after 50 years of age and may quit the job or seek voluntary retirement. It is not a negative point. Though, you will do so , as your financial or other conditions would have improved by then and perhaps you will no longer require any work for your livelihood. She will thereafter devote herself yourself either to the welfare of the family and to some extent do some social work. Your married life will generally be on rocks. Therein the fear of and the possibility of separation from the husband for long time due to unforeseen circumstances or divorce cannot be ruled out completely. Your health will generally be good. Urinary and uterus disorders, colic troubles and chest pain are the general indications. However,maiin cause of your ailments is unnecessary mental worry and anxiety. In some cases, when such worry or anxiety goes beyond control, there can be fear of the brain disorder of mild type, late in life. You should always be careful while cooking or while handling fire or while driving Now, how you and people in general perceive your husband :- " He has a lean body. He can be recognized or identified even from a crowd of hundreds of people through his magnificent dealings and expressions. He is very very intelligent and generally peace loving. He will not hesitate to go to any extreme for the sake of selfish benefits. There is a hidden inherent Godly gift in him i.e., the ideas or opinions or advice expressed by him may initially appear to be sheer nonsense but later on the same idea or opinion or advice will only prevail upon. There is also an inherent gift of intuition in him. Hence he is the type of person who is very much fit for the Astrological profession where intuition is very much needed.In some cases, it is also noticed that the native quite often see a lot of dreams which are actually becoming true. This would indirectly indicate that a divine power is automatically installed in the brain of Citra born. He is the type of person who is not bothered about the sentiments of others nor is he selfish to others. But in spite of this adamant attitude his dealings with the poorer section of the society will be very cordial and full of kindness. Quite often he is mistaken by others that he is very rude and stingy. He has a tendency of giving reply on any matter without forethought and he wakes up at the eleventh hour and tries to rectify his utterances , but then it is too late. He has to confront his enemies at every step but he is capable of escaping any conspiracy. He has soft corner for the down trodden people and likes to devote his time and energy for the uplift of this section of the society. But one of the hidden factors is that initially his approach to the down trodden will be without any selfish motive, but later on culminates into selfish motive. Obstacles in the life is not a hurdle for the advancement for him. He can overtake all these hurdles with his courage and hard work. One of the redeeming features of Citra born is that he gets help and reward from unexpected quarters without putting much efforts. Family life : While on the one hand he sincerely loves his co-born, and parents, on the other hand he suspects the activities of the all of them. Like you, he may have also not enjoyed the benefit, love and affection from his father. His father may have faced a separated life. Thus your husband may appear to be lot away from his father. He is more attached to his mother and enjoys benefits from the maternal side. He may have left his house and settle down somewhere else or the house he is born itself will be sold or destroyed. In other words, he will be settling down in an unknown and distant place away from his native house. Normally he cannot enjoy a happy married life. It may look stable but the relationship between both of you will not be cordial leading to frequent friction on small matters. He has to shoulder lot of responsibilities and face lot of criticisms throughout his life. Like his father, he may also be forced by circumstances to lead a lonely life. His general health will be OK but for Inflammation of kidney and bladder, brain fever, diseases connected with worms. Abdominal tumors or appendicitis (watch the few similarities) . From the present mahadashas of both of you and other related dashas etc, it appears quite a hard task for both of you to save your marriage. If both of you can instill few very strong traits and are willing to change for harmony in relationshi, at least in in 3 months, the times ahead will be very very testing and challenging. I will better leave it the destiny of both of you. It is only BOTH of you who can think how to save yourself from separation. I am not in a position to suggest any stone/gem or methods of propitiation. If I suggest, I will be a liar. WILLPOWER can only work for both of you. But it is certainly not a doomsday! Raj Bhardwaj , Manu Shree <manushree wrote: > > Inder Ji, > >  Thanks for the analysis. When will he change towards being a normal individual? > > Regards, > Manu > > > > > ________________________________ > inder indervohra2001 > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 11:04:38 PM > Re: Stress from all the sides > >  > Dear Manu shree, > > How can you fight without talking? > > Actually your husband is quite aggressive, argumentative, atrocious and very ambitious.Moon in Aries-martian effects. > > You are also argumentative, boasting and determined. Sat in Aries Martian but low effects. > > His chart also show he is also in mental agony[as you are] and loss of mental peace situation. > > I hope in the coming Jupiter dasa things will vastly improve your health. > You may quit the job or may go for a very easy self employment. > This will certainly give you great mental relief and health benrfits. > > Go for Ayurvedic or Homeopathic tonics, messaage, spa, yoga etc for enhancement of libido, glow of skin, vigour in the body.Join gym and also go for some astrology learning. Things will improve. > > Wish you good luck > > Inder > > , Manu Shree manushree@ ..> wrote: > > > > Thanks Inder Ji. > > > > Why do we have constant fights? He hardly talks to me. > > > > Regards, > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > > inder <indervohra2001@ ...> > > > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 2:55:29 PM > > Re: Stress from all the sides > > > >  > > Dear Madam jee, > > From these charts no divorce or separation is indicated. > > Inder > > > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ ...> wrote: > > > > > > Hi All, > > > > > >   Please help me by advising what to do as I have a lot problems with my spouse. The following are my details: > > > > > > 14-11-1969, 1:35 PM > > > New Delhi. > > > > > > My husband's: > > > > > > 9-2-1965, 1:00 AM > > > New Delhi. > > > > > > Concern: Divorce or Separation? > > > > > > Regards, > > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 Thanks Raj Ji. You have devoted a lot of time to do the analysis. Which is very close to reality. Hats off to you. Although I know, that my husband wants to hurt me that is why he behaves in such a manner: Heavy drinking, no spiritual routine, ogling at young girls, visiting pubs, staying out late at night, not having any meal at home. Listens to his mother all the time. Bring in black-magic stuff: locks of hair, scissors, screw driver, hammer, nails, needles and weird looking idols. All these things are found under my bed. I think he tries to control me by all these things. What would do you suggest? Regards, Manu ________________________________ Raj <rajbhardwaj1949 Thu, 8 April, 2010 4:28:33 AM Re: Stress from all the sides  Dear Manu, I have been studying both the charts. I would now add further to what Inder has written for you. You know Rani Laxmi Bai of Jhansi was called Manu in her childhod? So I will begin with what I observe from your chart,call it as your inner traits or nature,which are perceived in general by others ,who can oserve you generally and also with very keen eyes. " Your eyes will be bright and with a magnetic look. Your eyes will be bright and large. Beautiful countenance, with somewhat broad forehead. You may appear to be very calm and quite, but capable of getting your work done, most of the time un-noticed. There is a saying that even Devatas cannot change your adamant attitude. So you are basically have a very strange kind of stubbornness. generally fond of music and interested in literary pursuits. Period up to his 30th years of age will be full of struggle Have you been subjected to neglect by your own family members due to your adamant behavior. Could you derive the affection from your father and co-born ,which was expected ; and the care that was required from them ?Have you got maximum help from maternal uncles. Has also great amount of help came to you from those who are outside the family circle ? You will remain faithful to those who love you and help you and will not hesitate to sacrifice anything for them. You can be the best friend in need, provided others are able to understand you. You do have the capacity to keep your patience even at the time of greatest perils. But it will be a Herculean effort to console when you choose to go berserk. You would the best advisor to the persons in agony. But will deeply resent and have fear from criticism and will think the uggestions from others, as a frightening attempt at manipulation. You take own time to do any work. Your actions may be slow but well thought. You will normally not jump upon any matter without examining prose and cons of each item of work. Having decided, you cannot be easily influenced, when you begin carrying out an action or work, whether it is good or bad, right or wrong, you will stick to what you have done, come what may. You can be a firm believer of God. But there is no room for religious or other sentiments. You can be an orthodox in new style i.e., you do believe in modernization of orthodox method and beliefs. Even though you are quite intelligent, at times you will makes mountain of even smallest matters. This leads you in a state of lack of mental peace and will always be in desperate mood. You have the knack of bringing anybody near to you with her sweet speech, and are also having capacity to maintains utmost patience. You could have tendency to enjoy great soothing feelings at physical plane .One more thing stands out in you is that you maintain the tradition of respecting elders. You are a good earning professional. But, you may suddenly become disinterested in the profession ,after 50 years of age and may quit the job or seek voluntary retirement. It is not a negative point. Though, you will do so , as your financial or other conditions would have improved by then and perhaps you will no longer require any work for your livelihood. She will thereafter devote herself yourself either to the welfare of the family and to some extent do some social work. Your married life will generally be on rocks. Therein the fear of and the possibility of separation from the husband for long time due to unforeseen circumstances or divorce cannot be ruled out completely. Your health will generally be good. Urinary and uterus disorders, colic troubles and chest pain are the general indications. However,maiin cause of your ailments is unnecessary mental worry and anxiety. In some cases, when such worry or anxiety goes beyond control, there can be fear of the brain disorder of mild type, late in life. You should always be careful while cooking or while handling fire or while driving Now, how you and people in general perceive your husband :- " He has a lean body. He can be recognized or identified even from a crowd of hundreds of people through his magnificent dealings and expressions. He is very very intelligent and generally peace loving. He will not hesitate to go to any extreme for the sake of selfish benefits. There is a hidden inherent Godly gift in him i.e., the ideas or opinions or advice expressed by him may initially appear to be sheer nonsense but later on the same idea or opinion or advice will only prevail upon. There is also an inherent gift of intuition in him. Hence he is the type of person who is very much fit for the Astrological profession where intuition is very much needed.In some cases, it is also noticed that the native quite often see a lot of dreams which are actually becoming true. This would indirectly indicate that a divine power is automatically installed in the brain of Citra born. He is the type of person who is not bothered about the sentiments of others nor is he selfish to others. But in spite of this adamant attitude his dealings with the poorer section of the society will be very cordial and full of kindness. Quite often he is mistaken by others that he is very rude and stingy. He has a tendency of giving reply on any matter without forethought and he wakes up at the eleventh hour and tries to rectify his utterances , but then it is too late. He has to confront his enemies at every step but he is capable of escaping any conspiracy. He has soft corner for the down trodden people and likes to devote his time and energy for the uplift of this section of the society. But one of the hidden factors is that initially his approach to the down trodden will be without any selfish motive, but later on culminates into selfish motive. Obstacles in the life is not a hurdle for the advancement for him. He can overtake all these hurdles with his courage and hard work. One of the redeeming features of Citra born is that he gets help and reward from unexpected quarters without putting much efforts. Family life : While on the one hand he sincerely loves his co-born, and parents, on the other hand he suspects the activities of the all of them. Like you, he may have also not enjoyed the benefit, love and affection from his father. His father may have faced a separated life. Thus your husband may appear to be lot away from his father. He is more attached to his mother and enjoys benefits from the maternal side. He may have left his house and settle down somewhere else or the house he is born itself will be sold or destroyed. In other words, he will be settling down in an unknown and distant place away from his native house. Normally he cannot enjoy a happy married life. It may look stable but the relationship between both of you will not be cordial leading to frequent friction on small matters. He has to shoulder lot of responsibilities and face lot of criticisms throughout his life. Like his father, he may also be forced by circumstances to lead a lonely life. His general health will be OK but for Inflammation of kidney and bladder, brain fever, diseases connected with worms. Abdominal tumors or appendicitis (watch the few similarities) . From the present mahadashas of both of you and other related dashas etc, it appears quite a hard task for both of you to save your marriage. If both of you can instill few very strong traits and are willing to change for harmony in relationshi, at least in in 3 months, the times ahead will be very very testing and challenging. I will better leave it the destiny of both of you. It is only BOTH of you who can think how to save yourself from separation. I am not in a position to suggest any stone/gem or methods of propitiation. If I suggest, I will be a liar. WILLPOWER can only work for both of you. But it is certainly not a doomsday! Raj Bhardwaj , Manu Shree <manushree@. ..> wrote: > > Inder Ji, > >  Thanks for the analysis. When will he change towards being a normal individual? > > Regards, > Manu > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > inder indervohra2001@ ... > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 11:04:38 PM > Re: Stress from all the sides > >  > Dear Manu shree, > > How can you fight without talking? > > Actually your husband is quite aggressive, argumentative, atrocious and very ambitious.Moon in Aries-martian effects. > > You are also argumentative, boasting and determined. Sat in Aries Martian but low effects. > > His chart also show he is also in mental agony[as you are] and loss of mental peace situation. > > I hope in the coming Jupiter dasa things will vastly improve your health. > You may quit the job or may go for a very easy self employment. > This will certainly give you great mental relief and health benrfits. > > Go for Ayurvedic or Homeopathic tonics, messaage, spa, yoga etc for enhancement of libido, glow of skin, vigour in the body.Join gym and also go for some astrology learning. Things will improve. > > Wish you good luck > > Inder > > , Manu Shree manushree@ ..> wrote: > > > > Thanks Inder Ji. > > > > Why do we have constant fights? He hardly talks to me. > > > > Regards, > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > > inder <indervohra2001@ ...> > > > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 2:55:29 PM > > Re: Stress from all the sides > > > >  > > Dear Madam jee, > > From these charts no divorce or separation is indicated. > > Inder > > > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ ...> wrote: > > > > > > Hi All, > > > > > >   Please help me by advising what to do as I have a lot problems with my spouse. The following are my details: > > > > > > 14-11-1969, 1:35 PM > > > New Delhi. > > > > > > My husband's: > > > > > > 9-2-1965, 1:00 AM > > > New Delhi. > > > > > > Concern: Divorce or Separation? > > > > > > Regards, > > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 Dear Manu, To make him change, major initiative have to be from your side. With the start of jupiter dasa when your health condition and job conditions[quitting job or very smooth sailing job] are likely to improve a lot, you can take good moves to improve married life. Dasa lord Jupiter is in star Shravana in Capricorn in 12th house.This can make you good planner sitting in safe and peaceful conditions.This also makes you pushful and successful, witty and humourous. On bad side, it can make you do some wicked things, secret bad planning,improper and unbecoming activities. As Mars aspects 7th house it will have effects on your husband in big way. As aspect is on Leo so it can be helpful as well. As I see, things largely are in your hands to improve the situation. good wishes Inder , Manu Shree <manushree wrote: > > Inder Ji, > >  Thanks for the analysis. When will he change towards being a normal individual? > > Regards, > Manu > > > > > ________________________________ > inder <indervohra2001 > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 11:04:38 PM > Re: Stress from all the sides > >  > Dear Manu shree, > > How can you fight without talking? > > Actually your husband is quite aggressive, argumentative, atrocious and very ambitious.Moon in Aries-martian effects. > > You are also argumentative, boasting and determined. Sat in Aries Martian but low effects. > > His chart also show he is also in mental agony[as you are] and loss of mental peace situation. > > I hope in the coming Jupiter dasa things will vastly improve your health. > You may quit the job or may go for a very easy self employment. > This will certainly give you great mental relief and health benrfits. > > Go for Ayurvedic or Homeopathic tonics, messaage, spa, yoga etc for enhancement of libido, glow of skin, vigour in the body.Join gym and also go for some astrology learning. Things will improve. > > Wish you good luck > > Inder > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ ..> wrote: > > > > Thanks Inder Ji. > > > > Why do we have constant fights? He hardly talks to me. > > > > Regards, > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > > inder <indervohra2001@ ...> > > > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 2:55:29 PM > > Re: Stress from all the sides > > > >  > > Dear Madam jee, > > From these charts no divorce or separation is indicated. > > Inder > > > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ ..> wrote: > > > > > > Hi All, > > > > > >   Please help me by advising what to do as I have a lot problems with my spouse. The following are my details: > > > > > > 14-11-1969, 1:35 PM > > > New Delhi. > > > > > > My husband's: > > > > > > 9-2-1965, 1:00 AM > > > New Delhi. > > > > > > Concern: Divorce or Separation? > > > > > > Regards, > > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 Thanks again Inder Ji. When you say it is from my side it appear sto be the case that i am at fault. Is it? In this marraige, am i at fault? Regards, Shachi ________________________________ inder <indervohra2001 Thu, 8 April, 2010 2:40:47 PM Re: Stress from all the sides  Dear Manu, To make him change, major initiative have to be from your side. With the start of jupiter dasa when your health condition and job conditions[quitting job or very smooth sailing job] are likely to improve a lot, you can take good moves to improve married life. Dasa lord Jupiter is in star Shravana in Capricorn in 12th house.This can make you good planner sitting in safe and peaceful conditions.This also makes you pushful and successful, witty and humourous. On bad side, it can make you do some wicked things, secret bad planning,improper and unbecoming activities. As Mars aspects 7th house it will have effects on your husband in big way. As aspect is on Leo so it can be helpful as well. As I see, things largely are in your hands to improve the situation. good wishes Inder , Manu Shree <manushree@. ..> wrote: > > Inder Ji, > >  Thanks for the analysis. When will he change towards being a normal individual? > > Regards, > Manu > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > inder <indervohra2001@ ...> > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 11:04:38 PM > Re: Stress from all the sides > >  > Dear Manu shree, > > How can you fight without talking? > > Actually your husband is quite aggressive, argumentative, atrocious and very ambitious.Moon in Aries-martian effects. > > You are also argumentative, boasting and determined. Sat in Aries Martian but low effects. > > His chart also show he is also in mental agony[as you are] and loss of mental peace situation. > > I hope in the coming Jupiter dasa things will vastly improve your health. > You may quit the job or may go for a very easy self employment. > This will certainly give you great mental relief and health benrfits. > > Go for Ayurvedic or Homeopathic tonics, messaage, spa, yoga etc for enhancement of libido, glow of skin, vigour in the body.Join gym and also go for some astrology learning. Things will improve. > > Wish you good luck > > Inder > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ ..> wrote: > > > > Thanks Inder Ji. > > > > Why do we have constant fights? He hardly talks to me. > > > > Regards, > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > > inder <indervohra2001@ ...> > > > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 2:55:29 PM > > Re: Stress from all the sides > > > >  > > Dear Madam jee, > > From these charts no divorce or separation is indicated. > > Inder > > > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ ..> wrote: > > > > > > Hi All, > > > > > >   Please help me by advising what to do as I have a lot problems with my spouse. The following are my details: > > > > > > 14-11-1969, 1:35 PM > > > New Delhi. > > > > > > My husband's: > > > > > > 9-2-1965, 1:00 AM > > > New Delhi. > > > > > > Concern: Divorce or Separation? > > > > > > Regards, > > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 Dear Madam Ji, Plz answer the following, 1. Is your mother in law is residing in same house in which you are.? 2.Is there any worship place like temple in your house with a brass bell in it. 3. Do you both use the same bed for taking rest at morning hours ? 4. Is there any problem of male child ? Regards, Rakesh Kumar The INTERNET now has a personality. YOURS! See your Homepage. http://in./ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 Rakesh, Do you think your questions are going to help in decreasing or increasing her stress level from ALL sides ? We all need to help the needy persons under stress, and not to pester them further with irrelevant and un-related questions. Hope you take it in positive sense! Raj Bhardwaj , Rakesh Kumar <rakesh_771119 wrote: > > Dear Madam Ji, > Plz answer the following, > > 1. Is your mother in law is residing in same house in which you are.? > 2.Is there any worship place like temple in your house with a brass bell in it. > 3. Do you both use the same bed for taking rest at morning hours ? > 4. Is there any problem of male child ? > > Regards, > Rakesh Kumar > > > > > > The INTERNET now has a personality. YOURS! See your Homepage. http://in./ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 1. No 2. Yes there was brass bell. But my in-laws keep sending a few things like brass or copper stuff to my husband and he keeps them in his office. 3. My husband sleeps on sofa but sometimes he uses my bed on St. ans Sun during the day. 4. I have two girls. Regards, Manu ________________________________ Rakesh Kumar <rakesh_771119 Thu, 8 April, 2010 9:30:08 PM Re: Stress from all the sides  Dear Madam Ji, Plz answer the following, 1. Is your mother in law is residing in same house in which you are.? 2.Is there any worship place like temple in your house with a brass bell in it. 3. Do you both use the same bed for taking rest at morning hours ? 4. Is there any problem of male child ? Regards, Rakesh Kumar The INTERNET now has a personality. YOURS! See your Homepage. http://in.. com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 9, 2010 Report Share Posted April 9, 2010 Dear Manu, I have already given reply to your private msg. Hope it has reached you and you must be relaxed ! By the way, I had a great hunch yesterday, as Rohini had few days back given a hint about the " Spam " and how MA can help. Rohini will be surprised that ,yesterday was the first time when his advice flashed in my mind as I was about to " empty " the " spam " , but I opened it and noticed your very important private msg lying there. I retrieved it and sent you advice. Now, after reading your this msg, I think (on a hunch), perhaps my private reply could also be lying in the " Spam " ? Otherwise perhaps you could not have send this mail to the group. Please just check it and confirm the receipt in the group mail. With blessings to three of your,the real life triangle ,where the 4th angle is a " Spam " . Raj Bhardwaj , Manu Shree <manushree wrote: > > Thanks Raj Ji. > > You have devoted a lot of time to do the analysis. Which is very close to reality. Hats off to you. > > Although I know, that my husband wants to hurt me that is why he behaves in such a manner: > > Heavy drinking, no spiritual routine, ogling at young girls, visiting pubs, staying out late at night, not having any meal at home. > > Listens to his mother all the time. Bring in black-magic stuff: locks of hair, scissors, screw driver, hammer, nails, needles and weird looking idols. All these things are found under my bed. I think he tries to control me by all these things. > > > What would do you suggest? > > Regards, > Manu > > > > > ________________________________ > Raj <rajbhardwaj1949 > > Thu, 8 April, 2010 4:28:33 AM > Re: Stress from all the sides > >  > > Dear Manu, > > I have been studying both the charts. I would now add further to what > Inder has written for you. You know Rani Laxmi Bai of Jhansi was called > Manu in her childhod? So I will begin with what I observe from your > chart,call it as your inner traits or nature,which are perceived in > general by others ,who can oserve you generally and also with very keen > eyes. > > " Your eyes will be bright and with a magnetic look. Your eyes will be > bright and large. Beautiful countenance, with somewhat broad forehead. > You may appear to be very calm and quite, but capable of getting your > work done, most of the time un-noticed. There is a saying that even > Devatas cannot change your adamant attitude. So you are basically have > a very strange kind of stubbornness. generally fond of music and > interested in literary pursuits. Period up to his 30th years of age will > be full of struggle > > Have you been subjected to neglect by your own family members due to > your adamant behavior. Could you derive the affection from your father > and co-born ,which was expected ; and the care that was required from > them ?Have you got maximum help from maternal uncles. Has also great > amount of help came to you from those who are outside the family > circle ? > > You will remain faithful to those who love you and help you and will not > hesitate to sacrifice anything for them. You can be the best friend in > need, provided others are able to understand you. You do have the > capacity to keep your patience even at the time of greatest perils. But > it will be a Herculean effort to console when you choose to go berserk. > > You would the best advisor to the persons in agony. But will deeply > resent and have fear from criticism and will think the uggestions from > others, as a frightening attempt at manipulation. You take own time to > do any work. Your actions may be slow but well thought. You will > normally not jump upon any matter without examining prose and cons of > each item of work. Having decided, you cannot be easily influenced, when > you begin carrying out an action or work, whether it is good or bad, > right or wrong, you will stick to what you have done, come what may. > > You can be a firm believer of God. But there is no room for religious or > other sentiments. You can be an orthodox in new style i.e., you do > believe in modernization of orthodox method and beliefs. Even though > you are quite intelligent, at times you will makes mountain of even > smallest matters. This leads you in a state of lack of mental peace and > will always be in desperate mood. You have the knack of bringing > anybody near to you with her sweet speech, and are also having capacity > to maintains utmost patience. You could have tendency to enjoy great > soothing feelings at physical plane .One more thing stands out in you is > that you maintain the tradition of respecting elders. > > You are a good earning professional. But, you may suddenly become > disinterested in the profession ,after 50 years of age and may quit the > job or seek voluntary retirement. It is not a negative point. Though, > you will do so , as your financial or other conditions would have > improved by then and perhaps you will no longer require any work for > your livelihood. She will thereafter devote herself yourself either to > the welfare of the family and to some extent do some social work. > > Your married life will generally be on rocks. Therein the fear of and > the possibility of separation from the husband for long time due to > unforeseen circumstances or divorce cannot be ruled out completely. > > Your health will generally be good. Urinary and uterus disorders, colic > troubles and chest pain are the general indications. However,maiin cause > of your ailments is unnecessary mental worry and anxiety. In some > cases, when such worry or anxiety goes beyond control, there can be fear > of the brain disorder of mild type, late in life. You should always be > careful while cooking or while handling fire or while driving > > Now, how you and people in general perceive your husband :- > > " He has a lean body. He can be recognized or identified even from a > crowd of hundreds of people through his magnificent dealings and > expressions. He is very very intelligent and generally peace loving. He > will not hesitate to go to any extreme for the sake of selfish benefits. > There is a hidden inherent Godly gift in him i.e., the ideas or > opinions or advice expressed by him may initially appear to be sheer > nonsense but later on the same idea or opinion or advice will only > prevail upon. There is also an inherent gift of intuition in him. Hence > he is the type of person who is very much fit for the Astrological > profession where intuition is very much needed.In some cases, it is also > noticed that the native quite often see a lot of dreams which are > actually becoming true. This would indirectly indicate that a divine > power is automatically installed in the brain of Citra born. > > He is the type of person who is not bothered about the sentiments of > others nor is he selfish to others. But in spite of this adamant > attitude his dealings with the poorer section of the society will be > very cordial and full of kindness. Quite often he is mistaken by others > that he is very rude and stingy. He has a tendency of giving reply on > any matter without forethought and he wakes up at the eleventh hour and > tries to rectify his utterances , but then it is too late. > > He has to confront his enemies at every step but he is capable of > escaping any conspiracy. He has soft corner for the down trodden people > and likes to devote his time and energy for the uplift of this section > of the society. But one of the hidden factors is that initially his > approach to the down trodden will be without any selfish motive, but > later on culminates into selfish motive. > > Obstacles in the life is not a hurdle for the advancement for him. He > can overtake all these hurdles with his courage and hard work. One of > the redeeming features of Citra born is that he gets help and reward > from unexpected quarters without putting much efforts. > > Family life : While on the one hand he sincerely loves his co-born, and > parents, on the other hand he suspects the activities of the all of > them. Like you, he may have also not enjoyed the benefit, love and > affection from his father. His father may have faced a separated life. > Thus your husband may appear to be lot away from his father. He is more > attached to his mother and enjoys benefits from the maternal side. > > He may have left his house and settle down somewhere else or the house > he is born itself will be sold or destroyed. In other words, he will be > settling down in an unknown and distant place away from his native > house. > > Normally he cannot enjoy a happy married life. It may look stable but > the relationship between both of you will not be cordial leading to > frequent friction on small matters. He has to shoulder lot of > responsibilities and face lot of criticisms throughout his life. Like > his father, he may also be forced by circumstances to lead a lonely > life. > > His general health will be OK but for Inflammation of kidney and > bladder, brain fever, diseases connected with worms. Abdominal tumors or > appendicitis (watch the few similarities) . > > From the present mahadashas of both of you and other related dashas etc, > it appears quite a hard task for both of you to save your marriage. If > both of you can instill few very strong traits and are willing to change > for harmony in relationshi, at least in in 3 months, the times ahead > will be very very testing and challenging. I will better leave it the > destiny of both of you. It is only BOTH of you who can think how to save > yourself from separation. I am not in a position to suggest any > stone/gem or methods of propitiation. If I suggest, I will be a liar. > WILLPOWER can only work for both of you. But it is certainly not a > doomsday! > > Raj Bhardwaj > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ ..> > wrote: > > > > Inder Ji, > > > >  Thanks for the analysis. When will he change towards being a > normal individual? > > > > Regards, > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > > inder indervohra2001@ ... > > > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 11:04:38 PM > > Re: Stress from all the sides > > > >  > > Dear Manu shree, > > > > How can you fight without talking? > > > > Actually your husband is quite aggressive, argumentative, atrocious > and very ambitious.Moon in Aries-martian effects. > > > > You are also argumentative, boasting and determined. Sat in Aries > Martian but low effects. > > > > His chart also show he is also in mental agony[as you are] and loss of > mental peace situation. > > > > I hope in the coming Jupiter dasa things will vastly improve your > health. > > You may quit the job or may go for a very easy self employment. > > This will certainly give you great mental relief and health benrfits. > > > > Go for Ayurvedic or Homeopathic tonics, messaage, spa, yoga etc for > enhancement of libido, glow of skin, vigour in the body.Join gym and > also go for some astrology learning. Things will improve. > > > > Wish you good luck > > > > Inder > > > > , Manu Shree manushree@ ..> > wrote: > > > > > > Thanks Inder Ji. > > > > > > Why do we have constant fights? He hardly talks to me. > > > > > > Regards, > > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > > > inder <indervohra2001@ ...> > > > > > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 2:55:29 PM > > > Re: Stress from all the sides > > > > > >  > > > Dear Madam jee, > > > From these charts no divorce or separation is indicated. > > > Inder > > > > > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ > ..> wrote: > > > > > > > > Hi All, > > > > > > > >   Please help me by advising what to do as I have a > lot problems with my spouse. The following are my details: > > > > > > > > 14-11-1969, 1:35 PM > > > > New Delhi. > > > > > > > > My husband's: > > > > > > > > 9-2-1965, 1:00 AM > > > > New Delhi. > > > > > > > > Concern: Divorce or Separation? > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 9, 2010 Report Share Posted April 9, 2010 Dear Manu Shree, About the personality of your husband there are problems.Actually he has Moon in Bharni[same nakshtra name as in Malyali], and that gives his personality characterstics.People who are always after luxary and pleasures, new things in life, hardworking and healthy, loving sports but donot participate,constant thinking, sometimes can be cruel[cudgeller types], but also mostly truthful, clever and happy. Fortunately both charts [your and his] donot show extra marital relations and second marriage and any divorce/separation. Donot hate him if you cannot love him.Observe yourself and him. Go for learning meditation with Isha foundation or Art of Living. Go to church with punctuality and donate for poor.Take initiatives to improve relation with him. Good wishes.. Inder , Manu Shree <manushree wrote: > > Thanks again Inder Ji. > > When you say it is from my side it appear sto be the case that i am at fault. Is it? > > In this marraige, am i at fault? > > Regards, > Shachi > > > > > ________________________________ > inder <indervohra2001 > > Thu, 8 April, 2010 2:40:47 PM > Re: Stress from all the sides > >  > Dear Manu, > To make him change, major initiative have to be from your side. With the start of jupiter dasa when your health condition and job conditions[quitting job or very smooth sailing job] are likely to improve a lot, you can take good moves to improve married life. > > Dasa lord Jupiter is in star Shravana in Capricorn in 12th house.This can make you good planner sitting in safe and peaceful conditions.This also makes you pushful and successful, witty and humourous. On bad side, it can make you do some wicked things, secret bad planning,improper and unbecoming activities. As Mars aspects 7th house it will have effects on your husband in big way. As aspect is on Leo so it can be helpful as well. As I see, things largely are in your hands to improve the situation. > good wishes > Inder > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ ..> wrote: > > > > Inder Ji, > > > >  Thanks for the analysis. When will he change towards being a normal individual? > > > > Regards, > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > > inder <indervohra2001@ ...> > > > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 11:04:38 PM > > Re: Stress from all the sides > > > >  > > Dear Manu shree, > > > > How can you fight without talking? > > > > Actually your husband is quite aggressive, argumentative, atrocious and very ambitious.Moon in Aries-martian effects. > > > > You are also argumentative, boasting and determined. Sat in Aries Martian but low effects. > > > > His chart also show he is also in mental agony[as you are] and loss of mental peace situation. > > > > I hope in the coming Jupiter dasa things will vastly improve your health. > > You may quit the job or may go for a very easy self employment. > > This will certainly give you great mental relief and health benrfits. > > > > Go for Ayurvedic or Homeopathic tonics, messaage, spa, yoga etc for enhancement of libido, glow of skin, vigour in the body.Join gym and also go for some astrology learning. Things will improve. > > > > Wish you good luck > > > > Inder > > > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ ..> wrote: > > > > > > Thanks Inder Ji. > > > > > > Why do we have constant fights? He hardly talks to me. > > > > > > Regards, > > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > > > inder <indervohra2001@ ...> > > > > > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 2:55:29 PM > > > Re: Stress from all the sides > > > > > >  > > > Dear Madam jee, > > > From these charts no divorce or separation is indicated. > > > Inder > > > > > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ ..> wrote: > > > > > > > > Hi All, > > > > > > > >   Please help me by advising what to do as I have a lot problems with my spouse. The following are my details: > > > > > > > > 14-11-1969, 1:35 PM > > > > New Delhi. > > > > > > > > My husband's: > > > > > > > > 9-2-1965, 1:00 AM > > > > New Delhi. > > > > > > > > Concern: Divorce or Separation? > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 9, 2010 Report Share Posted April 9, 2010 Thanks a lot Inder Ji. I will try to follow your advice. Regards, Manu ________________________________ inder <indervohra2001 Fri, 9 April, 2010 3:43:05 PM Re: Stress from all the sides  Dear Manu Shree, About the personality of your husband there are problems.Actually he has Moon in Bharni[same nakshtra name as in Malyali], and that gives his personality characterstics. People who are always after luxary and pleasures, new things in life, hardworking and healthy, loving sports but donot participate, constant thinking, sometimes can be cruel[cudgeller types], but also mostly truthful, clever and happy. Fortunately both charts [your and his] donot show extra marital relations and second marriage and any divorce/separation. Donot hate him if you cannot love him.Observe yourself and him. Go for learning meditation with Isha foundation or Art of Living. Go to church with punctuality and donate for poor.Take initiatives to improve relation with him. Good wishes.. Inder , Manu Shree <manushree@. ..> wrote: > > Thanks again Inder Ji. > > When you say it is from my side it appear sto be the case that i am at fault. Is it? > > In this marraige, am i at fault? > > Regards, > Shachi > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > inder <indervohra2001@ ...> > > Thu, 8 April, 2010 2:40:47 PM > Re: Stress from all the sides > >  > Dear Manu, > To make him change, major initiative have to be from your side. With the start of jupiter dasa when your health condition and job conditions[quitting job or very smooth sailing job] are likely to improve a lot, you can take good moves to improve married life. > > Dasa lord Jupiter is in star Shravana in Capricorn in 12th house.This can make you good planner sitting in safe and peaceful conditions.This also makes you pushful and successful, witty and humourous. On bad side, it can make you do some wicked things, secret bad planning,improper and unbecoming activities. As Mars aspects 7th house it will have effects on your husband in big way. As aspect is on Leo so it can be helpful as well. As I see, things largely are in your hands to improve the situation. > good wishes > Inder > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ ..> wrote: > > > > Inder Ji, > > > >  Thanks for the analysis. When will he change towards being a normal individual? > > > > Regards, > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > > inder <indervohra2001@ ...> > > > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 11:04:38 PM > > Re: Stress from all the sides > > > >  > > Dear Manu shree, > > > > How can you fight without talking? > > > > Actually your husband is quite aggressive, argumentative, atrocious and very ambitious.Moon in Aries-martian effects. > > > > You are also argumentative, boasting and determined. Sat in Aries Martian but low effects. > > > > His chart also show he is also in mental agony[as you are] and loss of mental peace situation. > > > > I hope in the coming Jupiter dasa things will vastly improve your health. > > You may quit the job or may go for a very easy self employment. > > This will certainly give you great mental relief and health benrfits. > > > > Go for Ayurvedic or Homeopathic tonics, messaage, spa, yoga etc for enhancement of libido, glow of skin, vigour in the body.Join gym and also go for some astrology learning. Things will improve. > > > > Wish you good luck > > > > Inder > > > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ ..> wrote: > > > > > > Thanks Inder Ji. > > > > > > Why do we have constant fights? He hardly talks to me. > > > > > > Regards, > > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > > > inder <indervohra2001@ ...> > > > > > > Tue, 6 April, 2010 2:55:29 PM > > > Re: Stress from all the sides > > > > > >  > > > Dear Madam jee, > > > From these charts no divorce or separation is indicated. > > > Inder > > > > > > , Manu Shree <manushree@ ..> wrote: > > > > > > > > Hi All, > > > > > > > >   Please help me by advising what to do as I have a lot problems with my spouse. The following are my details: > > > > > > > > 14-11-1969, 1:35 PM > > > > New Delhi. > > > > > > > > My husband's: > > > > > > > > 9-2-1965, 1:00 AM > > > > New Delhi. > > > > > > > > Concern: Divorce or Separation? > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > Manu > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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