when sweet turns sour

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Dear All,In the special navratri days, our collective effort should be to bring all-round peace and happiness. This post is my humble attempt to start peace-making at the grassroots level.

Marriage is one of the most important aspects of human life, and we all become familiar with it, and experience the phenomenon through marriage of self, parents, siblings, friends, children, etc. We witness various shades of this social bonding at all times in our lives. And with our divya chakshus, we are supposed to see a little extra… with people in distress coming for solutions, we do get that extra exposure to marriage-related happenings…

Whatever may be the type and status of marriage, no one can deny that disagreements and discords are common place in any marriage, even between the most understanding partners, due to various reasons. In fact, to take the argument forward, sometimes bitter communication appears to be better than no communication. These discords may not be a threat to an otherwise healthy marriage, but do become a cause for discomfort for sometime or some days to come. And to a marriage already standing on one leg, they may give the last push…

Can we identify such periods from a horoscope, and study their intensity whether they are normal, or mild shakers or earthquakes and whether we can develop some warning signals for such happenings.

I am giving here my own observations on this and invite learned members for their valuable opinions.The 2/6/10 trine and the dashas related to 2H, 6H and 10H of a chart throw up challenges in the marriage, and become a cause of discord between the partners. Whether the discord is mild or severe, temporary or permanent, or how long will it last, can be judged by applying the normal astrological techniques. Where the lords (LL and 7L) sulk in the chart when this happens, is also important. (please note that we are not looking for divorce or end of marriage, though in certain cases, it may be linked...)

If both partners are running the 2/6/10 activity, then it becomes Allah bharose...From the 7H, these are the 4/8/12 houses and denote the emotions and sensitivity and play of psyche in the marriage.

2H is 8H of marriage and for self it is the 2H house of verbosity, speech, niyam, food etc. 6H is 12H of marriage and for self it is the house of quarrels and disputes.10H is 4H of marital happiness and it is the 10H of karma for self.

Do we see a dispute due to one partner being vocally harsh on another, with his/her karma supporting it (karela aur neem chadha…) to disturb the happiness of marriage and the dispute ensuing from 6H, at the expense of 7H of marriage. We can get into the reasons of verbal brawls by further examination and associations in these houses, even to the extent when biwi denies food and husband goes without eating.

2H is also the house of income6H is the house of work-related strife10H is professionDoes one get engrossed in professional activities with day-to-day work and focuses more on wealth and income than the spouse/partner (kaam aur paisa…) again at the expense of 7H?

There can be many more such interpretations, all related to 2/6/10 and marriage. Do we see any overactivity (malefic) of these houses for couples who tend to have more than normal disagreements/discords/arguments?

Or conversly, if I may say, do we see any role of these houses (2/6/10) in making any marriage mostly a happy one? 2H is also acquisition of gems and jewellery... does it show happy marriage in her chart if you gift diamonds to wife?

I invite learned members for discussion on this, and if possible with examples. RegardsNeelam