Guest guest Posted March 6, 2005 Report Share Posted March 6, 2005 Dear Anshev, Sun , Mercury and Venus combination invariably causes marital unhappiness specially if the marriage is done between the ages of 17 – 34 and there is no help from benefic ketu to mercury . It becomes all the more miserable if these planets are placed in the 8th house. If you were married during this time period then there will always be a danger of accident to your wife for at least three years after marriage. If a daughter is born the marital miseries are likely to increase , mostly because of her bad temper and language, and her objectionable behavior. You should avoid entertaining or developing close relationship with any of her male relations , such an affinity might cause pain and misery. To get over these possibilities two upaya are to be done during the daylight hours. [ 1 ] Take a copper ghara , bigger the better , with a copper lid. Fill this copper pitcher with sabut moong { whole moong } and throw it into a river or a canal { jal-pravah } [ 2 ] Ask any of your blood relations { parents if possible } in India to gift seven roti { together at a time } to a faqir or a sadhu . Caution : If you have any pooja idols at home , remove them to a temple. If you have any ropes or strings lying around in the house , rolled up in a bundle, either unroll it and use or remove it . I hope these upaya help you. Sincerely, Priya lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote: > > > Dear Priya ji, > > Agreed.. I have ordered some books but they are taking forever to > arrive...but thanks for giving some insights into your analysis. > > Meanwhile, would you be able to discuss/comment on this chart from > Lal Kitab point of view and suggest any remedies in order to have > happiness and stability in marriage. > > The native lives in Americas. Please keep that in mind while > suggesting any remedies. > > DOB: 11 Nov 1969 > Time: 3:00 PM (Approx) > Place of birth: Delhi, India > > Much appreciated, > Anshev > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Anshev ji, > > > > I think you should read the Lal Kitab { and not only the e-book > > version }and a few good commentries on the book. You will soon get > > the hang of it. > > > > Affly, > > > > Priya > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 7, 2005 Report Share Posted March 7, 2005 Dear Priya ji, Thanks for your analysis and for suggesting remedies. You are very helpful for the needy and share your knowledge freely with those who would like to learn as well. May God bless you ! The native lives in America with his close relatives (parents and sister) living in the same city. Native married an American girl when he was around 30 years old. According to Lal Kitab, is there a possibility of separation/divorce? If so, would the remedies you suggested help overcome that possibility? I'm assuming the remedies you suggested need to be done only once (except the cautions Re: idols and ropes and strings). Is there something that can be done every once in a while for peace, happiness and harmony? Only uncles and aunts live in India. Can they perform the 7 rotis remedy on native's behalf ? Native also knows some Sanyasis who visit America every now and then. The rotis can also be donated to them. [1] The copper GhaDa (pitcher) remedy you suggested.. Does the lid need to snap on tightly or tied with a rope so the contents or Sabut Mung daal cannot come out when immersed in the river? [3] There is a shivling at native's house. That can be given to the native's parents who live in a separate section of the same house (duplex). Would that be Okay or all idols in the native's house as well as parent's house have to be removed to the temple ? Native also has some photographs of his guru at home. Would they be Ok ? [4] Ropes and strings that have been roller up and tied can be opened. Is there any such restriction for electrical cables (wires), water hoses (pipes), sewing threads and such? I know it's time consuming as well as takes energy but It'd be great if you could explain your rationale of analysis and remedies so others and I can learn from it as well. Regards, Anshev B Bhardwejj lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > Dear Anshev, > > > Sun , Mercury and Venus combination invariably causes marital > unhappiness specially if the marriage is done between the ages of 17 – > 34 and there is no help from benefic ketu to mercury . It becomes > all the more miserable if these planets are placed in the 8th house. > If you were married during this time period then there will always be > a danger of accident to your wife for at least three years after > marriage. If a daughter is born the marital miseries are likely to > increase , mostly because of her bad temper and language, and her > objectionable behavior. You should avoid entertaining or developing > close relationship with any of her male relations , such an affinity > might cause pain and misery. > > To get over these possibilities two upaya are to be done during the > daylight hours. > > [ 1 ] Take a copper ghara , bigger the better , with a copper lid. > Fill this copper pitcher with sabut moong { whole moong } and throw > it into a river or a canal { jal-pravah } > > [ 2 ] Ask any of your blood relations { parents if possible } in > India to gift seven roti { together at a time } to a faqir or a > sadhu . > > Caution : If you have any pooja idols at home , remove them to a > temple. If you have any ropes or strings lying around in the house , > rolled up in a bundle, either unroll it and use or remove it . > > I hope these upaya help you. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Priya ji, > > > > Agreed.. I have ordered some books but they are taking forever to > > arrive...but thanks for giving some insights into your analysis. > > > > Meanwhile, would you be able to discuss/comment on this chart from > > Lal Kitab point of view and suggest any remedies in order to have > > happiness and stability in marriage. > > > > The native lives in Americas. Please keep that in mind while > > suggesting any remedies. > > > > DOB: 11 Nov 1969 > > Time: 3:00 PM (Approx) > > Place of birth: Delhi, India > > > > Much appreciated, > > Anshev > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Anshev ji, > > > > > > I think you should read the Lal Kitab { and not only the e- book > > > version }and a few good commentries on the book. You will soon > get > > > the hang of it. > > > > > > Affly, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 8, 2005 Report Share Posted March 8, 2005 Dear Anshev, I have written the answers in brackets after your query. Affly, Priya lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote: > > > Dear Priya ji, > > Thanks for your analysis and for suggesting remedies. You are very > helpful for the needy and share your knowledge freely with those who > would like to learn as well. May God bless you ! > > The native lives in America with his close relatives (parents and > sister) living in the same city. Native married an American girl > when he was around 30 years old. According to Lal Kitab, is there a > possibility of separation/divorce? If so, would the remedies you > suggested help overcome that possibility? > [ Since you seem to have already ordered the Lal Kitab book , you could read the section dealing with those three planets, and understand the implications. On my part, I have used some understatements . However, I donot think that the matters could go to that extreme. The remedy suggested should take care of all the eventualities , so I believe ] > I'm assuming the remedies you suggested need to be done only once > (except the cautions Re: idols and ropes and strings). Is there > something that can be done every once in a while for peace, > happiness and harmony? [ Yes. The upaya suggested is a one time upaya. If you think that matters are going out of control , you could do this upaya. At night after the food has been cooked , the gas burner fire should be extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That gas burner should not be used again till the next morning. ] > > Only uncles and aunts live in India. Can they perform the 7 rotis > remedy on native's behalf ? Native also knows some Sanyasis who > visit America every now and then. The rotis can also be donated to > them. [ Sure, you could do that ] > > [1] The copper GhaDa (pitcher) remedy you suggested.. Does the lid > need to snap on tightly or tied with a rope so the contents or Sabut > Mung daal cannot come out when immersed in the river? [ Yes, it would be better ] > > [3] There is a shivling at native's house. That can be given to the > native's parents who live in a separate section of the same house > (duplex). Would that be Okay or all idols in the native's house as > well as parent's house have to be removed to the temple ? Native > also has some photographs of his guru at home. Would they be Ok ? > [ There should be no idols in the area you live in, the parents can have them. There is no bar on photographs. ] > [4] Ropes and strings that have been roller up and tied can be > opened. Is there any such restriction for electrical cables (wires), > water hoses (pipes), sewing threads and such? [ There is a restriction on ropes ,niwar { used in cots} , but no harm if we extend it to cables and pipes; but not the sewing thread ] > > > I know it's time consuming as well as takes energy but It'd be great > if you could explain your rationale of analysis and remedies so > others and I can learn from it as well. > [ I avoid getting into it , because each Lal Kitab scholar has his own interpretation and rationale. In the past there has been a lot of bad blood in the group for these reasons. I would like to avoid that] > Regards, > Anshev B Bhardwejj > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Anshev, > > > > > > Sun , Mercury and Venus combination invariably causes marital > > unhappiness specially if the marriage is done between the ages of > 17 – > > 34 and there is no help from benefic ketu to mercury . It becomes > > all the more miserable if these planets are placed in the 8th > house. > > If you were married during this time period then there will always > be > > a danger of accident to your wife for at least three years after > > marriage. If a daughter is born the marital miseries are likely to > > increase , mostly because of her bad temper and language, and her > > objectionable behavior. You should avoid entertaining or > developing > > close relationship with any of her male relations , such an > affinity > > might cause pain and misery. > > > > To get over these possibilities two upaya are to be done during > the > > daylight hours. > > > > [ 1 ] Take a copper ghara , bigger the better , with a copper lid. > > Fill this copper pitcher with sabut moong { whole moong } and > throw > > it into a river or a canal { jal-pravah } > > > > [ 2 ] Ask any of your blood relations { parents if possible } in > > India to gift seven roti { together at a time } to a faqir or a > > sadhu . > > > > Caution : If you have any pooja idols at home , remove them to a > > temple. If you have any ropes or strings lying around in the > house , > > rolled up in a bundle, either unroll it and use or remove it . > > > > I hope these upaya help you. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Priya ji, > > > > > > Agreed.. I have ordered some books but they are taking forever > to > > > arrive...but thanks for giving some insights into your analysis. > > > > > > Meanwhile, would you be able to discuss/comment on this chart > from > > > Lal Kitab point of view and suggest any remedies in order to > have > > > happiness and stability in marriage. > > > > > > The native lives in Americas. Please keep that in mind while > > > suggesting any remedies. > > > > > > DOB: 11 Nov 1969 > > > Time: 3:00 PM (Approx) > > > Place of birth: Delhi, India > > > > > > Much appreciated, > > > Anshev > > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Anshev ji, > > > > > > > > I think you should read the Lal Kitab { and not only the e- > book > > > > version }and a few good commentries on the book. You will soon > > get > > > > the hang of it. > > > > > > > > Affly, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2005 Report Share Posted March 9, 2005 Namaskar Priya ji, Thanks for clarifying the dobts and for suggesting an SOS remedy. Re: the following remedy: [ ... At night after the food has been cooked , the gas burner fire should be extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That gas burner should not be used again till the next morning. ] It's certainly doable but we'd have to improvise on this one as there are no gas stoves but electrical stoves. After the knob has been turned off, few drops of milk can be sprinkled on the burner and left alone for the night. Hope that would suffice. Please confirm. Also, I understand that this remedy should only be done at night, not during the day. right ? Regards, Anshev lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > Dear Anshev, > > I have written the answers in brackets after your query. > > Affly, > > Priya > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Priya ji, > > > > Thanks for your analysis and for suggesting remedies. You are very > > helpful for the needy and share your knowledge freely with those > who > > would like to learn as well. May God bless you ! > > > > The native lives in America with his close relatives (parents and > > sister) living in the same city. Native married an American girl > > when he was around 30 years old. According to Lal Kitab, is there a > > possibility of separation/divorce? If so, would the remedies you > > suggested help overcome that possibility? > > > > [ Since you seem to have already ordered the Lal Kitab book , you > could read the section dealing with those three planets, and > understand the implications. On my part, I have used some > understatements . However, I donot think that the matters could go > to that extreme. The remedy suggested should take care of all the > eventualities , so I believe ] > I'm assuming the remedies you suggested need to be done only once > > (except the cautions Re: idols and ropes and strings). Is there > > something that can be done every once in a while for peace, > > happiness and harmony? > > [ Yes. The upaya suggested is a one time upaya. If you think that > matters are going out of control , you could do this upaya. At night > after the food has been cooked , the gas burner fire should be > extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That gas burner should > not be used again till the next morning. ] > > > > > > > Only uncles and aunts live in India. Can they perform the 7 rotis > > remedy on native's behalf ? Native also knows some Sanyasis who > > visit America every now and then. The rotis can also be donated to > > them. > > [ Sure, you could do that ] > > > > > > [1] The copper GhaDa (pitcher) remedy you suggested.. Does the lid > > need to snap on tightly or tied with a rope so the contents or > Sabut > > Mung daal cannot come out when immersed in the river? > > > [ Yes, it would be better ] > > > > > [3] There is a shivling at native's house. That can be given to the > > native's parents who live in a separate section of the same house > > (duplex). Would that be Okay or all idols in the native's house as > > well as parent's house have to be removed to the temple ? Native > > also has some photographs of his guru at home. Would they be Ok ? > > > > [ There should be no idols in the area you live in, the parents can > have them. There is no bar on photographs. ] > > > > > [4] Ropes and strings that have been roller up and tied can be > > opened. Is there any such restriction for electrical cables > (wires), > > water hoses (pipes), sewing threads and such? > > > [ There is a restriction on ropes ,niwar { used in cots} , but no > harm if we extend it to cables and pipes; but not the sewing thread ] > > > > > > > > > > I know it's time consuming as well as takes energy but It'd be > great > > if you could explain your rationale of analysis and remedies so > > others and I can learn from it as well. > > > > [ I avoid getting into it , because each Lal Kitab scholar has his > own interpretation and rationale. In the past there has been a lot of > bad blood in the group for these reasons. I would like to avoid that] > Regards, > > Anshev B Bhardwejj > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Anshev, > > > > > > > > > Sun , Mercury and Venus combination invariably causes marital > > > unhappiness specially if the marriage is done between the ages of > > 17 – > > > 34 and there is no help from benefic ketu to mercury . It > becomes > > > all the more miserable if these planets are placed in the 8th > > house. > > > If you were married during this time period then there will > always > > be > > > a danger of accident to your wife for at least three years after > > > marriage. If a daughter is born the marital miseries are likely > to > > > increase , mostly because of her bad temper and language, and her > > > objectionable behavior. You should avoid entertaining or > > developing > > > close relationship with any of her male relations , such an > > affinity > > > might cause pain and misery. > > > > > > To get over these possibilities two upaya are to be done during > > the > > > daylight hours. > > > > > > [ 1 ] Take a copper ghara , bigger the better , with a copper > lid. > > > Fill this copper pitcher with sabut moong { whole moong } and > > throw > > > it into a river or a canal { jal-pravah } > > > > > > [ 2 ] Ask any of your blood relations { parents if possible } in > > > India to gift seven roti { together at a time } to a faqir or a > > > sadhu . > > > > > > Caution : If you have any pooja idols at home , remove them to a > > > temple. If you have any ropes or strings lying around in the > > house , > > > rolled up in a bundle, either unroll it and use or remove it . > > > > > > I hope these upaya help you. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priya ji, > > > > > > > > Agreed.. I have ordered some books but they are taking forever > > to > > > > arrive...but thanks for giving some insights into your analysis. > > > > > > > > Meanwhile, would you be able to discuss/comment on this chart > > from > > > > Lal Kitab point of view and suggest any remedies in order to > > have > > > > happiness and stability in marriage. > > > > > > > > The native lives in Americas. Please keep that in mind while > > > > suggesting any remedies. > > > > > > > > DOB: 11 Nov 1969 > > > > Time: 3:00 PM (Approx) > > > > Place of birth: Delhi, India > > > > > > > > Much appreciated, > > > > Anshev > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > > > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Anshev ji, > > > > > > > > > > I think you should read the Lal Kitab { and not only the e- > > book > > > > > version }and a few good commentries on the book. You will > soon > > > get > > > > > the hang of it. > > > > > > > > > > Affly, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2005 Report Share Posted March 9, 2005 Dear Anshev, Yes , you could sprinkle a few drops of milk on the hot plate. And yes this is to be done at night. The remedy is an improvisation of ' dudh se chulha bujhana'. affly, priya lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote: > > Namaskar Priya ji, > > Thanks for clarifying the dobts and for suggesting an SOS remedy. > Re: the following remedy: > > [ ... At night after the food has been cooked , the gas burner fire > should be extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That gas > burner should not be used again till the next morning. ] > > It's certainly doable but we'd have to improvise on this one as > there are no gas stoves but electrical stoves. After the knob has > been turned off, few drops of milk can be sprinkled on the burner > and left alone for the night. Hope that would suffice. Please > confirm. > > Also, I understand that this remedy should only be done at night, > not during the day. right ? > > Regards, > Anshev > > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Anshev, > > > > I have written the answers in brackets after your query. > > > > Affly, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Priya ji, > > > > > > Thanks for your analysis and for suggesting remedies. You are > very > > > helpful for the needy and share your knowledge freely with those > > who > > > would like to learn as well. May God bless you ! > > > > > > The native lives in America with his close relatives (parents > and > > > sister) living in the same city. Native married an American girl > > > when he was around 30 years old. According to Lal Kitab, is > there a > > > possibility of separation/divorce? If so, would the remedies you > > > suggested help overcome that possibility? > > > > > > > [ Since you seem to have already ordered the Lal Kitab book , > you > > could read the section dealing with those three planets, and > > understand the implications. On my part, I have used some > > understatements . However, I donot think that the matters could > go > > to that extreme. The remedy suggested should take care of all the > > eventualities , so I believe ] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I'm assuming the remedies you suggested need to be done only > once > > > (except the cautions Re: idols and ropes and strings). Is there > > > something that can be done every once in a while for peace, > > > happiness and harmony? > > > > [ Yes. The upaya suggested is a one time upaya. If you think that > > matters are going out of control , you could do this upaya. At > night > > after the food has been cooked , the gas burner fire should be > > extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That gas burner > should > > not be used again till the next morning. ] > > > > > > > > > > > > Only uncles and aunts live in India. Can they perform the 7 > rotis > > > remedy on native's behalf ? Native also knows some Sanyasis who > > > visit America every now and then. The rotis can also be donated > to > > > them. > > > > [ Sure, you could do that ] > > > > > > > > > > [1] The copper GhaDa (pitcher) remedy you suggested.. Does the > lid > > > need to snap on tightly or tied with a rope so the contents or > > Sabut > > > Mung daal cannot come out when immersed in the river? > > > > > > [ Yes, it would be better ] > > > > > > > > [3] There is a shivling at native's house. That can be given to > the > > > native's parents who live in a separate section of the same > house > > > (duplex). Would that be Okay or all idols in the native's house > as > > > well as parent's house have to be removed to the temple ? Native > > > also has some photographs of his guru at home. Would they be Ok ? > > > > > > > [ There should be no idols in the area you live in, the parents > can > > have them. There is no bar on photographs. ] > > > > > > > > > [4] Ropes and strings that have been roller up and tied can be > > > opened. Is there any such restriction for electrical cables > > (wires), > > > water hoses (pipes), sewing threads and such? > > > > > > [ There is a restriction on ropes ,niwar { used in cots} , but no > > harm if we extend it to cables and pipes; but not the sewing > thread ] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I know it's time consuming as well as takes energy but It'd be > > great > > > if you could explain your rationale of analysis and remedies so > > > others and I can learn from it as well. > > > > > > > [ I avoid getting into it , because each Lal Kitab scholar has his > > own interpretation and rationale. In the past there has been a lot > of > > bad blood in the group for these reasons. I would like to avoid > that] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > Anshev B Bhardwejj > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Anshev, > > > > > > > > > > > > Sun , Mercury and Venus combination invariably causes marital > > > > unhappiness specially if the marriage is done between the ages > of > > > 17 – > > > > 34 and there is no help from benefic ketu to mercury . It > > becomes > > > > all the more miserable if these planets are placed in the 8th > > > house. > > > > If you were married during this time period then there will > > always > > > be > > > > a danger of accident to your wife for at least three years > after > > > > marriage. If a daughter is born the marital miseries are > likely > > to > > > > increase , mostly because of her bad temper and language, and > her > > > > objectionable behavior. You should avoid entertaining or > > > developing > > > > close relationship with any of her male relations , such an > > > affinity > > > > might cause pain and misery. > > > > > > > > To get over these possibilities two upaya are to be done > during > > > the > > > > daylight hours. > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Take a copper ghara , bigger the better , with a copper > > lid. > > > > Fill this copper pitcher with sabut moong { whole moong } and > > > throw > > > > it into a river or a canal { jal-pravah } > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Ask any of your blood relations { parents if possible } > in > > > > India to gift seven roti { together at a time } to a faqir or > a > > > > sadhu . > > > > > > > > Caution : If you have any pooja idols at home , remove them to > a > > > > temple. If you have any ropes or strings lying around in the > > > house , > > > > rolled up in a bundle, either unroll it and use or remove > it . > > > > > > > > I hope these upaya help you. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priya ji, > > > > > > > > > > Agreed.. I have ordered some books but they are taking > forever > > > to > > > > > arrive...but thanks for giving some insights into your > analysis. > > > > > > > > > > Meanwhile, would you be able to discuss/comment on this > chart > > > from > > > > > Lal Kitab point of view and suggest any remedies in order to > > > have > > > > > happiness and stability in marriage. > > > > > > > > > > The native lives in Americas. Please keep that in mind while > > > > > suggesting any remedies. > > > > > > > > > > DOB: 11 Nov 1969 > > > > > Time: 3:00 PM (Approx) > > > > > Place of birth: Delhi, India > > > > > > > > > > Much appreciated, > > > > > Anshev > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > > > > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Anshev ji, > > > > > > > > > > > > I think you should read the Lal Kitab { and not only the e- > > > book > > > > > > version }and a few good commentries on the book. You will > > soon > > > > get > > > > > > the hang of it. > > > > > > > > > > > > Affly, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2005 Report Share Posted March 12, 2005 Namaskar Priya ji, Re: the copper Ghara upaya you suggested, we're having trouble finding a copper ghara here, even in the Indian stores... It'd have to be special ordered from India or elsewhere and may take a while. Moreover, most of the rivers are frozen and canals have been stopped due to winter.. It'd be difficult to do this upaya at least until snow melts (until summer)... There is a canal near the native's house (running water) but only one small slot has been opened to let excess water out...so a small thing can be thrown (like coins, food items etc.) but a big Ghada cannot be thrown at the moment. Is there another alternative to this upaya that can be done in US/Canada ? Meanwhile, native's Chacha/Mausi can be asked to do these two upayas on native's behalf in Delhi (would that suffice?) 1. Copper Ghara filled with Sabut moong to be thrown in running water. 2. Giving 7 rotis to a sadhu/fakir. Anshev lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > Dear Anshev, > > Yes , you could sprinkle a few drops of milk on the hot plate. And > yes this is to be done at night. The remedy is an improvisation of ' > dudh se chulha bujhana'. > > affly, > > priya lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote: > > > > Namaskar Priya ji, > > > > Thanks for clarifying the dobts and for suggesting an SOS remedy. > > Re: the following remedy: > > > > [ ... At night after the food has been cooked , the gas burner fire > > should be extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That gas > > burner should not be used again till the next morning. ] > > > > It's certainly doable but we'd have to improvise on this one as > > there are no gas stoves but electrical stoves. After the knob has > > been turned off, few drops of milk can be sprinkled on the burner > > and left alone for the night. Hope that would suffice. Please > > confirm. > > > > Also, I understand that this remedy should only be done at night, > > not during the day. right ? > > > > Regards, > > Anshev > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Anshev, > > > > > > I have written the answers in brackets after your query. > > > > > > Affly, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priya ji, > > > > > > > > Thanks for your analysis and for suggesting remedies. You are > > very > > > > helpful for the needy and share your knowledge freely with > those > > > who > > > > would like to learn as well. May God bless you ! > > > > > > > > The native lives in America with his close relatives (parents > > and > > > > sister) living in the same city. Native married an American > girl > > > > when he was around 30 years old. According to Lal Kitab, is > > there a > > > > possibility of separation/divorce? If so, would the remedies > you > > > > suggested help overcome that possibility? > > > > > > > > > > [ Since you seem to have already ordered the Lal Kitab book , > > you > > > could read the section dealing with those three planets, and > > > understand the implications. On my part, I have used some > > > understatements . However, I donot think that the matters could > > go > > > to that extreme. The remedy suggested should take care of all the > > > eventualities , so I believe ] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I'm assuming the remedies you suggested need to be done only > > once > > > > (except the cautions Re: idols and ropes and strings). Is there > > > > something that can be done every once in a while for peace, > > > > happiness and harmony? > > > > > > [ Yes. The upaya suggested is a one time upaya. If you think that > > > matters are going out of control , you could do this upaya. At > > night > > > after the food has been cooked , the gas burner fire should be > > > extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That gas burner > > should > > > not be used again till the next morning. ] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Only uncles and aunts live in India. Can they perform the 7 > > rotis > > > > remedy on native's behalf ? Native also knows some Sanyasis who > > > > visit America every now and then. The rotis can also be donated > > to > > > > them. > > > > > > [ Sure, you could do that ] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [1] The copper GhaDa (pitcher) remedy you suggested.. Does the > > lid > > > > need to snap on tightly or tied with a rope so the contents or > > > Sabut > > > > Mung daal cannot come out when immersed in the river? > > > > > > > > > [ Yes, it would be better ] > > > > > > > > > > > [3] There is a shivling at native's house. That can be given to > > the > > > > native's parents who live in a separate section of the same > > house > > > > (duplex). Would that be Okay or all idols in the native's house > > as > > > > well as parent's house have to be removed to the temple ? > Native > > > > also has some photographs of his guru at home. Would they be > Ok ? > > > > > > > > > > [ There should be no idols in the area you live in, the parents > > can > > > have them. There is no bar on photographs. ] > > > > > > > > > > > > > [4] Ropes and strings that have been roller up and tied can be > > > > opened. Is there any such restriction for electrical cables > > > (wires), > > > > water hoses (pipes), sewing threads and such? > > > > > > > > > [ There is a restriction on ropes ,niwar { used in cots} , but no > > > harm if we extend it to cables and pipes; but not the sewing > > thread ] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I know it's time consuming as well as takes energy but It'd be > > > great > > > > if you could explain your rationale of analysis and remedies so > > > > others and I can learn from it as well. > > > > > > > > > > [ I avoid getting into it , because each Lal Kitab scholar has > his > > > own interpretation and rationale. In the past there has been a > lot > > of > > > bad blood in the group for these reasons. I would like to avoid > > that] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > Anshev B Bhardwejj > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > > > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Anshev, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sun , Mercury and Venus combination invariably causes > marital > > > > > unhappiness specially if the marriage is done between the > ages > > of > > > > 17 – > > > > > 34 and there is no help from benefic ketu to mercury . It > > > becomes > > > > > all the more miserable if these planets are placed in the 8th > > > > house. > > > > > If you were married during this time period then there will > > > always > > > > be > > > > > a danger of accident to your wife for at least three years > > after > > > > > marriage. If a daughter is born the marital miseries are > > likely > > > to > > > > > increase , mostly because of her bad temper and language, and > > her > > > > > objectionable behavior. You should avoid entertaining or > > > > developing > > > > > close relationship with any of her male relations , such an > > > > affinity > > > > > might cause pain and misery. > > > > > > > > > > To get over these possibilities two upaya are to be done > > during > > > > the > > > > > daylight hours. > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Take a copper ghara , bigger the better , with a copper > > > lid. > > > > > Fill this copper pitcher with sabut moong { whole moong } > and > > > > throw > > > > > it into a river or a canal { jal-pravah } > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Ask any of your blood relations { parents if possible } > > in > > > > > India to gift seven roti { together at a time } to a faqir or > > a > > > > > sadhu . > > > > > > > > > > Caution : If you have any pooja idols at home , remove them > to > > a > > > > > temple. If you have any ropes or strings lying around in the > > > > house , > > > > > rolled up in a bundle, either unroll it and use or remove > > it . > > > > > > > > > > I hope these upaya help you. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priya ji, > > > > > > > > > > > > Agreed.. I have ordered some books but they are taking > > forever > > > > to > > > > > > arrive...but thanks for giving some insights into your > > analysis. > > > > > > > > > > > > Meanwhile, would you be able to discuss/comment on this > > chart > > > > from > > > > > > Lal Kitab point of view and suggest any remedies in order > to > > > > have > > > > > > happiness and stability in marriage. > > > > > > > > > > > > The native lives in Americas. Please keep that in mind > while > > > > > > suggesting any remedies. > > > > > > > > > > > > DOB: 11 Nov 1969 > > > > > > Time: 3:00 PM (Approx) > > > > > > Place of birth: Delhi, India > > > > > > > > > > > > Much appreciated, > > > > > > Anshev > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > > > > > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Anshev ji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I think you should read the Lal Kitab { and not only the > e- > > > > book > > > > > > > version }and a few good commentries on the book. You will > > > soon > > > > > get > > > > > > > the hang of it. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Affly, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2005 Report Share Posted March 13, 2005 Dear Anshev, I am afraid there is no alternative to these remedies. You could do them as and when possible. sincerely, Priya lalkitab , " Anshev B Bhardwejj " <anshevb> wrote: > > > Namaskar Priya ji, > > Re: the copper Ghara upaya you suggested, we're having trouble > finding a copper ghara here, even in the Indian stores... It'd have > to be special ordered from India or elsewhere and may take a while. > Moreover, most of the rivers are frozen and canals have been stopped > due to winter.. It'd be difficult to do this upaya at least until > snow melts (until summer)... > > There is a canal near the native's house (running water) but only > one small slot has been opened to let excess water out...so a small > thing can be thrown (like coins, food items etc.) but a big Ghada > cannot be thrown at the moment. > > Is there another alternative to this upaya that can be done in > US/Canada ? Meanwhile, native's Chacha/Mausi can be asked to do > these two upayas on native's behalf in Delhi (would that suffice?) > > 1. Copper Ghara filled with Sabut moong to be thrown in running > water. > 2. Giving 7 rotis to a sadhu/fakir. > > Anshev > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Anshev, > > > > Yes , you could sprinkle a few drops of milk on the hot plate. And > > yes this is to be done at night. The remedy is an improvisation > of ' > > dudh se chulha bujhana'. > > > > affly, > > > > priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote: > > > > > > Namaskar Priya ji, > > > > > > Thanks for clarifying the dobts and for suggesting an SOS > remedy. > > > Re: the following remedy: > > > > > > [ ... At night after the food has been cooked , the gas burner > fire > > > should be extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That > gas > > > burner should not be used again till the next morning. ] > > > > > > It's certainly doable but we'd have to improvise on this one as > > > there are no gas stoves but electrical stoves. After the knob > has > > > been turned off, few drops of milk can be sprinkled on the > burner > > > and left alone for the night. Hope that would suffice. Please > > > confirm. > > > > > > Also, I understand that this remedy should only be done at > night, > > > not during the day. right ? > > > > > > Regards, > > > Anshev > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Anshev, > > > > > > > > I have written the answers in brackets after your query. > > > > > > > > Affly, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priya ji, > > > > > > > > > > Thanks for your analysis and for suggesting remedies. You > are > > > very > > > > > helpful for the needy and share your knowledge freely with > > those > > > > who > > > > > would like to learn as well. May God bless you ! > > > > > > > > > > The native lives in America with his close relatives > (parents > > > and > > > > > sister) living in the same city. Native married an American > > girl > > > > > when he was around 30 years old. According to Lal Kitab, is > > > there a > > > > > possibility of separation/divorce? If so, would the remedies > > you > > > > > suggested help overcome that possibility? > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ Since you seem to have already ordered the Lal Kitab > book , > > > you > > > > could read the section dealing with those three planets, and > > > > understand the implications. On my part, I have used some > > > > understatements . However, I donot think that the matters > could > > > go > > > > to that extreme. The remedy suggested should take care of all > the > > > > eventualities , so I believe ] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I'm assuming the remedies you suggested need to be done only > > > once > > > > > (except the cautions Re: idols and ropes and strings). Is > there > > > > > something that can be done every once in a while for peace, > > > > > happiness and harmony? > > > > > > > > [ Yes. The upaya suggested is a one time upaya. If you think > that > > > > matters are going out of control , you could do this upaya. At > > > night > > > > after the food has been cooked , the gas burner fire should be > > > > extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That gas burner > > > should > > > > not be used again till the next morning. ] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Only uncles and aunts live in India. Can they perform the 7 > > > rotis > > > > > remedy on native's behalf ? Native also knows some Sanyasis > who > > > > > visit America every now and then. The rotis can also be > donated > > > to > > > > > them. > > > > > > > > [ Sure, you could do that ] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [1] The copper GhaDa (pitcher) remedy you suggested.. Does > the > > > lid > > > > > need to snap on tightly or tied with a rope so the contents > or > > > > Sabut > > > > > Mung daal cannot come out when immersed in the river? > > > > > > > > > > > > [ Yes, it would be better ] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [3] There is a shivling at native's house. That can be given > to > > > the > > > > > native's parents who live in a separate section of the same > > > house > > > > > (duplex). Would that be Okay or all idols in the native's > house > > > as > > > > > well as parent's house have to be removed to the temple ? > > Native > > > > > also has some photographs of his guru at home. Would they be > > Ok ? > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ There should be no idols in the area you live in, the > parents > > > can > > > > have them. There is no bar on photographs. ] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [4] Ropes and strings that have been roller up and tied can > be > > > > > opened. Is there any such restriction for electrical cables > > > > (wires), > > > > > water hoses (pipes), sewing threads and such? > > > > > > > > > > > > [ There is a restriction on ropes ,niwar { used in cots} , but > no > > > > harm if we extend it to cables and pipes; but not the sewing > > > thread ] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I know it's time consuming as well as takes energy but It'd > be > > > > great > > > > > if you could explain your rationale of analysis and remedies > so > > > > > others and I can learn from it as well. > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ I avoid getting into it , because each Lal Kitab scholar has > > his > > > > own interpretation and rationale. In the past there has been a > > lot > > > of > > > > bad blood in the group for these reasons. I would like to > avoid > > > that] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > Anshev B Bhardwejj > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > > > > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Anshev, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sun , Mercury and Venus combination invariably causes > > marital > > > > > > unhappiness specially if the marriage is done between the > > ages > > > of > > > > > 17 – > > > > > > 34 and there is no help from benefic ketu to mercury . It > > > > becomes > > > > > > all the more miserable if these planets are placed in the > 8th > > > > > house. > > > > > > If you were married during this time period then there > will > > > > always > > > > > be > > > > > > a danger of accident to your wife for at least three years > > > after > > > > > > marriage. If a daughter is born the marital miseries are > > > likely > > > > to > > > > > > increase , mostly because of her bad temper and language, > and > > > her > > > > > > objectionable behavior. You should avoid entertaining or > > > > > developing > > > > > > close relationship with any of her male relations , such > an > > > > > affinity > > > > > > might cause pain and misery. > > > > > > > > > > > > To get over these possibilities two upaya are to be done > > > during > > > > > the > > > > > > daylight hours. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Take a copper ghara , bigger the better , with a > copper > > > > lid. > > > > > > Fill this copper pitcher with sabut moong { whole moong } > > and > > > > > throw > > > > > > it into a river or a canal { jal-pravah } > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Ask any of your blood relations { parents if > possible } > > > in > > > > > > India to gift seven roti { together at a time } to a faqir > or > > > a > > > > > > sadhu . > > > > > > > > > > > > Caution : If you have any pooja idols at home , remove > them > > to > > > a > > > > > > temple. If you have any ropes or strings lying around in > the > > > > > house , > > > > > > rolled up in a bundle, either unroll it and use or remove > > > it . > > > > > > > > > > > > I hope these upaya help you. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> > > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priya ji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Agreed.. I have ordered some books but they are taking > > > forever > > > > > to > > > > > > > arrive...but thanks for giving some insights into your > > > analysis. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Meanwhile, would you be able to discuss/comment on this > > > chart > > > > > from > > > > > > > Lal Kitab point of view and suggest any remedies in > order > > to > > > > > have > > > > > > > happiness and stability in marriage. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > The native lives in Americas. Please keep that in mind > > while > > > > > > > suggesting any remedies. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > DOB: 11 Nov 1969 > > > > > > > Time: 3:00 PM (Approx) > > > > > > > Place of birth: Delhi, India > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Much appreciated, > > > > > > > Anshev > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya " > > > > > > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Anshev ji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I think you should read the Lal Kitab { and not only > the > > e- > > > > > book > > > > > > > > version }and a few good commentries on the book. You > will > > > > soon > > > > > > get > > > > > > > > the hang of it. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Affly, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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