Guest guest Posted October 17, 2006 Report Share Posted October 17, 2006 Dear Svetlana, Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a change. [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot. [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple for 13 days regularly. [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 pieces of lead { a metal }. Sincerely, Priya , " svetlana.shah " <svetlana.shah wrote: > > > Dear Priyaji, > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act of > ultimate generosity to us. > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the Sita Ashok > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the copper > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya on September > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the burners each > night. My situation is much the same. > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something terribly wrong > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based on my > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own nature that is > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary I am with > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd but it > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their attachment to > me. > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > Thank you. > > > ***************************************** > > Dear Svetlana, > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a few upaya > which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules of upaya > before doing them. > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by sprinkling a > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that particular burner > till the next morning. > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at the pooja > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with drooping > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other which grows > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge shady tree is > known as Sita Ashok. > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a sunday > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at any > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from the > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered by you. > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat or throw > them away. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many years with > my > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things have taken a > turn > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need your advice to > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, 1973; 1.29pm; > Moga, > > Punjab. > > > > Many thank-yous, > > Svetlana > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2006 Report Share Posted October 17, 2006 Dear Priyaji, Thank you so much. I had a few questions: 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does it have to be in a river only? 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk and butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any particular diety I should offer it to? 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will most likely just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is that okay? 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks like? Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that makes a knocking sound when you shake it?) With best regards. < wrote: Dear Svetlana,Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a change.[ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot.[ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple for 13 days regularly.[ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 pieces of lead { a metal }.Sincerely,Priya , "svetlana.shah" <svetlana.shah wrote:>> > Dear Priyaji,> > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act of > ultimate generosity to us.> > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the Sita Ashok > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the copper > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya on September > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the burners each > night. My situation is much the same.> > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something terribly wrong > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based on my > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own nature that is > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary I am with > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd but it > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their attachment to > me.> > I ask for your advice and blessings.> > Thank you.> > > *****************************************> > Dear Svetlana,> > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a few upaya> which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules of upaya> before doing them.> > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by sprinkling a> few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that particular burner> till the next morning.> > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at the pooja> sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with drooping> branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other which grows> into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge shady tree is> known as Sita Ashok.> > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a sunday> > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at any> temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from the> temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered by you.> Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat or throw> them away.> > Sincerely,> > Priya> > > > lalkitabremedies , "svetlana.shah"> <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> >> > Kindest Priyajee,> >> > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many years with> my> > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things have taken a> turn> > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need your advice to> > smoothen my love-life.> >> > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji.> >> > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, 1973; 1.29pm;> Moga,> > Punjab.> >> > Many thank-yous,> > Svetlana> Get your email and more, right on the new .com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2006 Report Share Posted October 18, 2006 Dear Svetlana, [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the sea. [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. Yes, place it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to the priest. Well what they with it afterwards is none of our concern. We offered it to the God in full faith. [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 days regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the same temple is not neccessary. [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking sound when shaken. Sincerely, Priya , Svetlana Shah <svetlana.shah wrote: > > > Dear Priyaji, > > Thank you so much. > > I had a few questions: > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does it have to be in a river only? > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk and butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any particular diety I should offer it to? > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will most likely just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is that okay? > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks like? Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that makes a knocking sound when you shake it?) > > With best regards. > > < wrote: > Dear Svetlana, > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a change. > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot. > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple for 13 > days regularly. > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 pieces of > lead { a metal }. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > , " svetlana.shah " > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act of > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the Sita > Ashok > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the copper > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya on > September > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the burners each > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something terribly > wrong > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based on my > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own nature that is > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary I am with > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd but it > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their attachment > to > > me. > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a few upaya > > which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules of upaya > > before doing them. > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by sprinkling a > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that particular > burner > > till the next morning. > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at the pooja > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with drooping > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other which > grows > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge shady tree > is > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a sunday > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at any > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from the > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered by > you. > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat or > throw > > them away. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many years with > > my > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things have taken a > > turn > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need your advice to > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, 1973; 1.29pm; > > Moga, > > > Punjab. > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > Svetlana > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2006 Report Share Posted October 18, 2006 Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and effort. In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I had one more question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular visit to the temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going continuously? With best regards. < wrote: Dear Svetlana,[ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the sea.[ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. Yes, place it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to the priest. Well what they with it afterwards is none of our concern. We offered it to the God in full faith.[ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 days regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the same temple is not neccessary.[ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking sound when shaken.Sincerely,Priya , Svetlana Shah <svetlana.shah wrote:>> > Dear Priyaji,> > Thank you so much.> > I had a few questions:> 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does it have to be in a river only?> 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk and butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any particular diety I should offer it to?> 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will most likely just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is that okay?> 4. Should I go to the same temple each day?> 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks like? Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that makes a knocking sound when you shake it?)> > With best regards.> > < wrote:> Dear Svetlana,> > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a change.> > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot.> [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple for 13 > days regularly.> [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 pieces of > lead { a metal }.> > Sincerely,> > Priya> > , "svetlana.shah" > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> >> > > > Dear Priyaji,> > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act of > > ultimate generosity to us.> > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the Sita > Ashok > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the copper > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya on > September > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the burners each > > night. My situation is much the same.> > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something terribly > wrong > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based on my > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own nature that is > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary I am with > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd but it > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their attachment > to > > me.> > > > I ask for your advice and blessings.> > > > Thank you.> > > > > > *****************************************> > > > Dear Svetlana,> > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a few upaya> > which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules of upaya> > before doing them.> > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by sprinkling a> > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that particular > burner> > till the next morning.> > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at the pooja> > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with drooping> > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other which > grows> > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge shady tree > is> > known as Sita Ashok.> > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a sunday> > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at any> > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from the> > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered by > you.> > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat or > throw> > them away.> > > > Sincerely,> > > > Priya> > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , "svetlana.shah"> > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > >> > > Kindest Priyajee,> > >> > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many years with> > my> > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things have taken a> > turn> > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need your advice to> > > smoothen my love-life.> > >> > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji.> > >> > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, 1973; 1.29pm;> > Moga,> > > Punjab.> > >> > > Many thank-yous,> > > Svetlana> >> > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com> How low will we go? Check out Messenger’s low PC-to-Phone call rates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 Dear Priyaji, Sorry, I thought of this question after I sent the last message. Can I start upayya #2 (i.e. the 13 days visit to temple with milk and butter) before I do upayya # 1 (the mushrooms in a pot)? The reason is that it will take me a few days to get the pot, whereas I can start the temple visits immediately. Thank you again, God's blessing s a very Happy Diwali to you. < wrote: Dear Svetlana,[ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the sea.[ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. Yes, place it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to the priest. Well what they with it afterwards is none of our concern. We offered it to the God in full faith.[ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 days regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the same temple is not neccessary.[ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking sound when shaken.Sincerely,Priya , Svetlana Shah <svetlana.shah wrote:>> > Dear Priyaji,> > Thank you so much.> > I had a few questions:> 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does it have to be in a river only?> 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk and butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any particular diety I should offer it to?> 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will most likely just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is that okay?> 4. Should I go to the same temple each day?> 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks like? Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that makes a knocking sound when you shake it?)> > With best regards.> > < wrote:> Dear Svetlana,> > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a change.> > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot.> [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple for 13 > days regularly.> [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 pieces of > lead { a metal }.> > Sincerely,> > Priya> > , "svetlana.shah" > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> >> > > > Dear Priyaji,> > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act of > > ultimate generosity to us.> > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the Sita > Ashok > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the copper > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya on > September > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the burners each > > night. My situation is much the same.> > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something terribly > wrong > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based on my > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own nature that is > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary I am with > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd but it > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their attachment > to > > me.> > > > I ask for your advice and blessings.> > > > Thank you.> > > > > > *****************************************> > > > Dear Svetlana,> > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a few upaya> > which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules of upaya> > before doing them.> > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by sprinkling a> > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that particular > burner> > till the next morning.> > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at the pooja> > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with drooping> > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other which > grows> > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge shady tree > is> > known as Sita Ashok.> > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a sunday> > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at any> > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from the> > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered by > you.> > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat or > throw> > them away.> > > > Sincerely,> > > > Priya> > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , "svetlana.shah"> > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > >> > > Kindest Priyajee,> > >> > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many years with> > my> > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things have taken a> > turn> > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need your advice to> > > smoothen my love-life.> > >> > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji.> > >> > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, 1973; 1.29pm;> > Moga,> > > Punjab.> > >> > > Many thank-yous,> > > Svetlana> >> > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com> Get on board. You're invited to try the new Mail. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 Dear Svetlana, [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you are not likely to have your periods. Sincerely, Priya , Svetlana Shah <svetlana.shah wrote: > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and effort. > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I had one more question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular visit to the temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going continuously? > > With best regards. > > > < wrote: > Dear Svetlana, > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the sea. > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. Yes, place > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to the priest. > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our concern. We offered > it to the God in full faith. > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 days > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the same temple > is not neccessary. > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking sound when > shaken. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > , Svetlana Shah > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > I had a few questions: > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does it have > to be in a river only? > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk and > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any particular > diety I should offer it to? > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will most likely > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is that > okay? > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks like? > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that makes a > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > With best regards. > > > > <@> wrote: > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a change. > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot. > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple for 13 > > days regularly. > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 pieces > of > > lead { a metal }. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act of > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the Sita > > Ashok > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the copper > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya on > > September > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the burners each > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something terribly > > wrong > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based on my > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own nature that > is > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary I am > with > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd but it > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their > attachment > > to > > > me. > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a few upaya > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules of upaya > > > before doing them. > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by sprinkling > a > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that particular > > burner > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at the > pooja > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with drooping > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other which > > grows > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge shady > tree > > is > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a sunday > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at any > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from the > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered by > > you. > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat or > > throw > > > them away. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many years > with > > > my > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things have taken > a > > > turn > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need your advice > to > > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, 1973; 1.29pm; > > > Moga, > > > > Punjab. > > > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com > > > How low will we go? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone call rates. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2006 Report Share Posted November 16, 2006 Respected Priyaji, I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms last Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize that the time when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it was "rahu kaal" time. Is that uppaya okay? I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya. I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with milk and butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, since the priests here are very particular about what you can leave in the temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it in front of Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the offering, but the initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay? Thank you so much in advance for your precious time and advice. < wrote: Dear Svetlana,[ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you are not likely to have your periods.Sincerely,Priya , Svetlana Shah <svetlana.shah wrote:>> > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and effort.> > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I had one more question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular visit to the temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going continuously?> > With best regards.> > > < wrote:> Dear Svetlana,> > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the sea.> [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. Yes, place > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to the priest. > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our concern. We offered > it to the God in full faith.> [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 days > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the same temple > is not neccessary.> [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking sound when > shaken.> > Sincerely,> > Priya> > , Svetlana Shah > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> >> > > > Dear Priyaji,> > > > Thank you so much.> > > > I had a few questions:> > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does it have > to be in a river only?> > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk and > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any particular > diety I should offer it to?> > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will most likely > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is that > okay?> > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day?> > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks like? > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that makes a > knocking sound when you shake it?)> > > > With best regards.> > > > <@> wrote:> > Dear Svetlana,> > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a change.> > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot.> > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple for 13 > > days regularly.> > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 pieces > of > > lead { a metal }.> > > > Sincerely,> > > > Priya> > > > , "svetlana.shah" > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > >> > > > > > Dear Priyaji,> > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act of > > > ultimate generosity to us.> > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the Sita > > Ashok > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the copper > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya on > > September > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the burners each > > > night. My situation is much the same.> > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something terribly > > wrong > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based on my > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own nature that > is > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary I am > with > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd but it > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their > attachment > > to > > > me.> > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings.> > > > > > Thank you.> > > > > > > > > *****************************************> > > > > > Dear Svetlana,> > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a few upaya> > > which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules of upaya> > > before doing them.> > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by sprinkling > a> > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that particular > > burner> > > till the next morning.> > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at the > pooja> > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with drooping> > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other which > > grows> > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge shady > tree > > is> > > known as Sita Ashok.> > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a sunday> > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at any> > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from the> > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered by > > you.> > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat or > > throw> > > them away.> > > > > > Sincerely,> > > > > > Priya> > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , "svetlana.shah"> > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > > >> > > > Kindest Priyajee,> > > >> > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many years > with> > > my> > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things have taken > a> > > turn> > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need your advice > to> > > > smoothen my love-life.> > > >> > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji.> > > >> > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, 1973; 1.29pm;> > > Moga,> > > > Punjab.> > > >> > > > Many thank-yous,> > > > Svetlana> > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com> >> > > > > > > > How low will we go? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone call rates.> Sponsored Link$420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/month - Think You Pay Too Much For Your Mortgage? Find Out! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2006 Report Share Posted November 16, 2006 Dear Svetlana, [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu kal doesn't effect the upaya. [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest and let him place it before the deity. It is not necessary that only you place it before the deity. Sincerely, Priya , Svetlana Shah <svetlana.shah wrote: > > > Respected Priyaji, > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms last Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize that the time when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it was " rahu kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya. > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with milk and butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, since the priests here are very particular about what you can leave in the temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it in front of Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the offering, but the initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay? > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious time and advice. > > > > < wrote: > Dear Svetlana, > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you are not likely > to have your periods. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > , Svetlana Shah > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and effort. > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I had one more > question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular visit to the > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going continuously? > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the sea. > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. Yes, > place > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to the priest. > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our concern. We > offered > > it to the God in full faith. > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 days > > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the same > temple > > is not neccessary. > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking sound when > > shaken. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does it have > > to be in a river only? > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk and > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any particular > > diety I should offer it to? > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will most likely > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is that > > okay? > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks like? > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that makes a > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a change. > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot. > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple for 13 > > > days regularly. > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 pieces > > of > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act of > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the Sita > > > Ashok > > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the > copper > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya on > > > September > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the burners > each > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something terribly > > > wrong > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based on my > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own nature > that > > is > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary I am > > with > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd but it > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their > > attachment > > > to > > > > me. > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a few upaya > > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules of > upaya > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by > sprinkling > > a > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that particular > > > burner > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at the > > pooja > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with drooping > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other which > > > grows > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge shady > > tree > > > is > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a sunday > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at any > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from the > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered > by > > > you. > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat or > > > throw > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many years > > with > > > > my > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things have > taken > > a > > > > turn > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need your > advice > > to > > > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, 1973; > 1.29pm; > > > > Moga, > > > > > Punjab. > > > > > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? 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Guest guest Posted November 20, 2006 Report Share Posted November 20, 2006 Thank you very much Priyaji. A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my nose pierced. I did not do it at that time, but I was recently reminded of it because of another posting last week in your group. Would you advice that it is something I should get done? If yes, is there any particular auspicious day for that? Should it be done with silver or gold stud/ring? Seeking your blessings. < wrote: Dear Svetlana,[ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu kal doesn't effect the upaya.[ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya.[ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest and let him place it before the deity. It is not necessary that only you place it before the deity.Sincerely,Priya , Svetlana Shah <svetlana.shah wrote:>> > Respected Priyaji,> > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms last Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize that the time when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it was "rahu kaal" time. Is that uppaya okay?> > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya.> > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with milk and butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, since the priests here are very particular about what you can leave in the temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it in front of Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the offering, but the initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay?> > Thank you so much in advance for your precious time and advice.> > > > < wrote:> Dear Svetlana,> > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you are not likely > to have your periods.> > Sincerely,> > Priya> > , Svetlana Shah > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> >> > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and effort.> > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I had one more > question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular visit to the > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going continuously?> > > > With best regards.> > > > > > <@> wrote:> > Dear Svetlana,> > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the sea.> > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. Yes, > place > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to the priest. > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our concern. We > offered > > it to the God in full faith.> > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 days > > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the same > temple > > is not neccessary.> > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking sound when > > shaken.> > > > Sincerely,> > > > Priya> > > > , Svetlana Shah > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > >> > > > > > Dear Priyaji,> > > > > > Thank you so much.> > > > > > I had a few questions:> > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does it have > > to be in a river only?> > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk and > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any particular > > diety I should offer it to?> > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will most likely > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is that > > okay?> > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day?> > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks like? > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that makes a > > knocking sound when you shake it?)> > > > > > With best regards.> > > > > > <@> wrote:> > > Dear Svetlana,> > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a change.> > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot.> > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple for 13 > > > days regularly.> > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 pieces > > of > > > lead { a metal }.> > > > > > Sincerely,> > > > > > Priya> > > > > > , "svetlana.shah" > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > > >> > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji,> > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act of > > > > ultimate generosity to us.> > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the Sita > > > Ashok > > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the > copper > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya on > > > September > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the burners > each > > > > night. My situation is much the same.> > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something terribly > > > wrong > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based on my > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own nature > that > > is > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary I am > > with > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd but it > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their > > attachment > > > to > > > > me.> > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings.> > > > > > > > Thank you.> > > > > > > > > > > > *****************************************> > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana,> > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a few upaya> > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules of > upaya> > > > before doing them.> > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by > sprinkling > > a> > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that particular > > > burner> > > > till the next morning.> > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at the > > pooja> > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with drooping> > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other which > > > grows> > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge shady > > tree > > > is> > > > known as Sita Ashok.> > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a sunday> > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at any> > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from the> > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered > by > > > you.> > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat or > > > throw> > > > them away.> > > > > > > > Sincerely,> > > > > > > > Priya> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , "svetlana.shah"> > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > > > >> > > > > Kindest Priyajee,> > > > >> > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many years > > with> > > > my> > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things have > taken > > a> > > > turn> > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need your > advice > > to> > > > > smoothen my love-life.> > > > >> > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji.> > > > >> > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, 1973; > 1.29pm;> > > > Moga,> > > > > Punjab.> > > > >> > > > > Many thank-yous,> > > > > Svetlana> > > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com> > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? 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Guest guest Posted November 22, 2006 Report Share Posted November 22, 2006 Dear Svetlana, Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud and not of gold. You can get it done on any day convenient to you. Sincerely, Priya , Svetlana Shah <svetlana.shah wrote: > > > Thank you very much Priyaji. > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my nose pierced. I did not do it at that time, but I was recently reminded of it because of another posting last week in your group. Would you advice that it is something I should get done? If yes, is there any particular auspicious day for that? Should it be done with silver or gold stud/ring? > > Seeking your blessings. > > > < wrote: > Dear Svetlana, > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu kal doesn't effect > the upaya. > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest and let him place > it before the deity. It is not necessary that only you place it > before the deity. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > , Svetlana Shah > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms last > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize that the time > when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it was " rahu > kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya. > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with milk and > butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, since the > priests here are very particular about what you can leave in the > temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it in front of > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the offering, but the > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay? > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious time and advice. > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you are not > likely > > to have your periods. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and effort. > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I had one more > > question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular visit to > the > > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going continuously? > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the sea. > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. Yes, > > place > > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to the > priest. > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our concern. We > > offered > > > it to the God in full faith. > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 days > > > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the same > > temple > > > is not neccessary. > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking sound when > > > shaken. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does it > have > > > to be in a river only? > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk and > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any > particular > > > diety I should offer it to? > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will most > likely > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is that > > > okay? > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks like? > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that makes a > > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a change. > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot. > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple for > 13 > > > > days regularly. > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 > pieces > > > of > > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act of > > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the > Sita > > > > Ashok > > > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the > > copper > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya on > > > > September > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the burners > > each > > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something > terribly > > > > wrong > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based on my > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own nature > > that > > > is > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary I am > > > with > > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd but > it > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their > > > attachment > > > > to > > > > > me. > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a few > upaya > > > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules of > > upaya > > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by > > sprinkling > > > a > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > particular > > > > burner > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at the > > > pooja > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with > drooping > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other > which > > > > grows > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge shady > > > tree > > > > is > > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a sunday > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at > any > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from > the > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered > > by > > > > you. > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat > or > > > > throw > > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many > years > > > with > > > > > my > > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things have > > taken > > > a > > > > > turn > > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need your > > advice > > > to > > > > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, 1973; > > 1.29pm; > > > > > Moga, > > > > > > Punjab. > > > > > > > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? Check out Messenger's low PC-to- Phone > > call rates. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsored Link > > > > $420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/month - Think You Pay Too Much For > Your Mortgage? Find Out! > > > Sponsored Link > > $420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/month - Think You Pay Too Much For Your Mortgage? Find Out! > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2006 Report Share Posted November 30, 2006 Dear Priyaji, Thank you so much for your reply. With God's blessings, all the upayas have been completed last week. I have a lot of faith in your remedies as you have helped my sister. I have not yet seen any improvement in his attitude after the completion of the upayas. So, I don't know if it is helpful, but I thought I would give the specific background of my situation. In 2000, I had a broken engagement. The boy changed his mind suddenly and with no reason other than "I don't feel like it". My parents and I kept looking, and in 2001, I met a guy who I started dating (we were both in the US). He was reluctant to get married, but he finally agreed and we got married in August 2002. There were many obvious problems with his nature (he is overly attached to his mother and has been spoiled by his parents as he is their only child and very smart). However, due to my bad experience of the broken engagement before, my parents and I thought that we should not be too picky, and hopefully he would improve after marriage. Immediately after marriage, he got a job offer in a very cold city in Canada. I left a very high paying job and my family in the US so we could both move there. When we got there, his nature started getting worse instead of better. He wanted to continue living as if he was still single. He did not meet with other women or anything, but he did not want to do anything as a couple like keeping a nice house, going out together, or even having any physical relations. My health deteriorated due to the extreme cold, and because I was sad at not having any friends or job there. By November 2003 I became very depressed and he asked me to leave and go back to the US as he could not handle the stress of the situation. I went back, and since then I have been visiting him every 2/3 months in order to try and keep the relationship intact, but there is not effort or desire from his side. Last year, he was really pushing for divorce, but I convinced him to give it another chance. My parents have always been very supportive, but it has been a very hard few years for us. My husband never visits me. All the effort is from my side and I have now been living alone for 3 years. My parents think I should get divorced, but I feel scared that if I left him I would remain single all my life. Respected Priyaji, my questions are: 1.is it my nature that is causing these problems? My husband says I am over-sensitive and argumentative. 2. Do you think this marriage can survive and is there any prospect of a happy married life for me with him or with anyone else? 3. Will these upayas help in increasing his attachment to me? Is there any way I can decrease the control by his mother? I do love him still. His birth details are: DOB: January 31, 1974 Place of birth: Providence, Rhode Island, USA Time of birth: 7.35 a.m. Sorry for the detailed message, and thank you once again. With best regards, Svetlana < wrote: Dear Svetlana,Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud and not of gold. You can get it done on any day convenient to you.Sincerely,Priya , Svetlana Shah <svetlana.shah wrote:>> > Thank you very much Priyaji.> > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my nose pierced. I did not do it at that time, but I was recently reminded of it because of another posting last week in your group. Would you advice that it is something I should get done? If yes, is there any particular auspicious day for that? Should it be done with silver or gold stud/ring?> > Seeking your blessings.> > > < wrote:> Dear Svetlana,> > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu kal doesn't effect > the upaya.> [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya.> [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest and let him place > it before the deity. It is not necessary that only you place it > before the deity.> > Sincerely,> > Priya> > , Svetlana Shah > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> >> > > > Respected Priyaji,> > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms last > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize that the time > when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it was "rahu > kaal" time. Is that uppaya okay?> > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya.> > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with milk and > butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, since the > priests here are very particular about what you can leave in the > temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it in front of > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the offering, but the > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay?> > > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious time and advice.> > > > > > > > <@> wrote:> > Dear Svetlana,> > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you are not > likely > > to have your periods.> > > > Sincerely,> > > > Priya> > > > , Svetlana Shah > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > >> > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and effort.> > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I had one more > > question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular visit to > the > > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going continuously?> > > > > > With best regards.> > > > > > > > > <@> wrote:> > > Dear Svetlana,> > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the sea.> > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. Yes, > > place > > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to the > priest. > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our concern. We > > offered > > > it to the God in full faith.> > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 days > > > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the same > > temple > > > is not neccessary.> > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking sound when > > > shaken.> > > > > > Sincerely,> > > > > > Priya> > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > > >> > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji,> > > > > > > > Thank you so much.> > > > > > > > I had a few questions:> > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does it > have > > > to be in a river only?> > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk and > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any > particular > > > diety I should offer it to?> > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will most > likely > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is that > > > okay?> > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day?> > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks like? > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that makes a > > > knocking sound when you shake it?)> > > > > > > > With best regards.> > > > > > > > <@> wrote:> > > > Dear Svetlana,> > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a change.> > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot.> > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple for > 13 > > > > days regularly.> > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 > pieces > > > of > > > > lead { a metal }.> > > > > > > > Sincerely,> > > > > > > > Priya> > > > > > > > , "svetlana.shah" > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > > > >> > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji,> > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act of > > > > > ultimate generosity to us.> > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the > Sita > > > > Ashok > > > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the > > copper > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya on > > > > September > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the burners > > each > > > > > night. My situation is much the same.> > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something > terribly > > > > wrong > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based on my > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own nature > > that > > > is > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary I am > > > with > > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd but > it > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their > > > attachment > > > > to > > > > > me.> > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings.> > > > > > > > > > Thank you.> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > *****************************************> > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana,> > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a few > upaya> > > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules of > > upaya> > > > > before doing them.> > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by > > sprinkling > > > a> > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > particular > > > > burner> > > > > till the next morning.> > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at the > > > pooja> > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with > drooping> > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other > which > > > > grows> > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge shady > > > tree > > > > is> > > > > known as Sita Ashok.> > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a sunday> > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at > any> > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from > the> > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered > > by > > > > you.> > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat > or > > > > throw> > > > > them away.> > > > > > > > > > Sincerely,> > > > > > > > > > Priya> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , "svetlana.shah"> > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > > > > >> > > > > > Kindest Priyajee,> > > > > >> > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many > years > > > with> > > > > my> > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things have > > taken > > > a> > > > > turn> > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need your > > advice > > > to> > > > > > smoothen my love-life.> > > > > >> > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji.> > > > > >> > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, 1973; > > 1.29pm;> > > > > Moga,> > > > > > Punjab.> > > > > >> > > > > > Many thank-yous,> > > > > > Svetlana> > > > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com> > > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone > > call rates.> > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsored Link> > > > $420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/month - Think You Pay Too Much For > Your Mortgage? Find Out!> >> > > > > > > > Sponsored Link> > $420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/month - Think You Pay Too Much For Your Mortgage? Find Out!> Everyone is raving about the all-new Mail beta. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2006 Report Share Posted December 1, 2006 Dear Svetlana , " shukra aurat ho kismat maari,aag grahasti jalataa ho " " lagan parayee aurat mandi, patang shukra ka banata ho " " chalan nali ho jab gandi, jail-khana tak paata ho " -- will destroy the married life and the wife will have a very unlucky and destitute, if he goes after other woman he might even be jailed for it. So says the Lal Kitab for one of the combinations in your husband's kundali. Your husband will not be willing to do any upaya therefore I do not see much hope in this relationship.Therefore you have to decide for yourself as to what you want to do. Now your queries : [ 1 ] No it is not your nature which has spoiled the relationship. [ 2 ] I do not think this marriage will survive. Yes, you will be happy with any one provided you get the horoscopes matched properly. [ 3 ] Your doing the upaya alone is not going to solve the problem. Actually the upaya have to be done by him. As regards his attachment to his mother, it is difficult to break it because he is very aggressively attached to his mother. Sincerely, Priya , Svetlana Shah <svetlana.shah wrote: > > > Dear Priyaji, > > Thank you so much for your reply. > > With God's blessings, all the upayas have been completed last week. > > I have a lot of faith in your remedies as you have helped my sister. I have not yet seen any improvement in his attitude after the completion of the upayas. So, I don't know if it is helpful, but I thought I would give the specific background of my situation. > > In 2000, I had a broken engagement. The boy changed his mind suddenly and with no reason other than " I don't feel like it " . My parents and I kept looking, and in 2001, I met a guy who I started dating (we were both in the US). He was reluctant to get married, but he finally agreed and we got married in August 2002. There were many obvious problems with his nature (he is overly attached to his mother and has been spoiled by his parents as he is their only child and very smart). However, due to my bad experience of the broken engagement before, my parents and I thought that we should not be too picky, and hopefully he would improve after marriage. Immediately after marriage, he got a job offer in a very cold city in Canada. I left a very high paying job and my family in the US so we could both move there. When we got there, his nature started getting worse instead of better. He wanted to continue living as if he was still single. He did not meet with other women or > anything, but he did not want to do anything as a couple like keeping a nice house, going out together, or even having any physical relations. My health deteriorated due to the extreme cold, and because I was sad at not having any friends or job there. By November 2003 I became very depressed and he asked me to leave and go back to the US as he could not handle the stress of the situation. I went back, and since then I have been visiting him every 2/3 months in order to try and keep the relationship intact, but there is not effort or desire from his side. Last year, he was really pushing for divorce, but I convinced him to give it another chance. > > My parents have always been very supportive, but it has been a very hard few years for us. My husband never visits me. All the effort is from my side and I have now been living alone for 3 years. My parents think I should get divorced, but I feel scared that if I left him I would remain single all my life. > > Respected Priyaji, my questions are: > 1.is it my nature that is causing these problems? My husband says I am over-sensitive and argumentative. > 2. Do you think this marriage can survive and is there any prospect of a happy married life for me with him or with anyone else? > 3. Will these upayas help in increasing his attachment to me? Is there any way I can decrease the control by his mother? I do love him still. > > His birth details are: > DOB: January 31, 1974 > Place of birth: Providence, Rhode Island, USA > Time of birth: 7.35 a.m. > > Sorry for the detailed message, and thank you once again. > > With best regards, > Svetlana > > < wrote: > Dear Svetlana, > > Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud and not of gold. > You can get it done on any day convenient to you. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > , Svetlana Shah > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > Thank you very much Priyaji. > > > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my nose pierced. > I did not do it at that time, but I was recently reminded of it > because of another posting last week in your group. Would you > advice that it is something I should get done? If yes, is there any > particular auspicious day for that? Should it be done with silver > or gold stud/ring? > > > > Seeking your blessings. > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu kal doesn't effect > > the upaya. > > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. > > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest and let him > place > > it before the deity. It is not necessary that only you place it > > before the deity. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, > > > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms last > > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize that the time > > when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it was " rahu > > kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya. > > > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with milk and > > butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, since the > > priests here are very particular about what you can leave in the > > temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it in front of > > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the offering, but the > > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay? > > > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious time and advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you are not > > likely > > > to have your periods. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and effort. > > > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I had one > more > > > question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular visit to > > the > > > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going > continuously? > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the sea. > > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. Yes, > > > place > > > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to the > > priest. > > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our concern. We > > > offered > > > > it to the God in full faith. > > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 days > > > > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the same > > > temple > > > > is not neccessary. > > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking sound when > > > > shaken. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does it > > have > > > > to be in a river only? > > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk and > > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any > > particular > > > > diety I should offer it to? > > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will most > > likely > > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is > that > > > > okay? > > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? > > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks > like? > > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that makes a > > > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a change. > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot. > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple > for > > 13 > > > > > days regularly. > > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 > > pieces > > > > of > > > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act > of > > > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the > > Sita > > > > > Ashok > > > > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the > > > copper > > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya on > > > > > September > > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the > burners > > > each > > > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something > > terribly > > > > > wrong > > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based on > my > > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own nature > > > that > > > > is > > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary I > am > > > > with > > > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd > but > > it > > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their > > > > attachment > > > > > to > > > > > > me. > > > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a few > > upaya > > > > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules > of > > > upaya > > > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by > > > sprinkling > > > > a > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > > particular > > > > > burner > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at > the > > > > pooja > > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with > > drooping > > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other > > which > > > > > grows > > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge > shady > > > > tree > > > > > is > > > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a > sunday > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at > > any > > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from > > the > > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those > offered > > > by > > > > > you. > > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should > eat > > or > > > > > throw > > > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many > > years > > > > with > > > > > > my > > > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things have > > > taken > > > > a > > > > > > turn > > > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need your > > > advice > > > > to > > > > > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, 1973; > > > 1.29pm; > > > > > > Moga, > > > > > > > Punjab. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? Check out Messenger's low PC-to- > Phone > > > call rates. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsored Link > > > > > > $420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/month - Think You Pay Too Much For > > Your Mortgage? Find Out! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsored Link > > > > $420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/month - Think You Pay Too Much For > Your Mortgage? 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Guest guest Posted December 24, 2006 Report Share Posted December 24, 2006 Dear Priyaji, I have thought long and hard about my situation, and it seems like the more I think about what I should do, the more confused I get. On the one hand, I have an intense fear of being alone all my life if I was to divorce him. Earlier in my life, I have been harshly let down in love and I have no confidence that any man will want to marry me. On the other hand, he gives me so much emotional pain in my day to day life. Priyaji, how do I make the right decision? I have been trying to make that decision for a few years now, and I have not been able to hear God's answer clearly. I asked my husband if he would be willing to do some upayas, and he said that he may consider doing some. Can you please suggest some upayas that I can easily get him to do? I am going to visit him and my in-laws in a few days. Also, if there is anything I can do regarding his attachment towards his mother, I would appreciate the advice. Perhaps if he will do the upayas, then something will change for the better. Regards, Sveta < wrote: Dear Svetlana ," shukra aurat ho kismat maari,aag grahasti jalataa ho"" lagan parayee aurat mandi, patang shukra ka banata ho"" chalan nali ho jab gandi, jail-khana tak paata ho"-- will destroy the married life and the wife will have a very unlucky and destitute, if he goes after other woman he might even be jailed for it.So says the Lal Kitab for one of the combinations in your husband's kundali.Your husband will not be willing to do any upaya therefore I do not see much hope in this relationship.Therefore you have to decide for yourself as to what you want to do.Now your queries :[ 1 ] No it is not your nature which has spoiled the relationship.[ 2 ] I do not think this marriage will survive. Yes, you will be happy with any one provided you get the horoscopes matched properly.[ 3 ] Your doing the upaya alone is not going to solve the problem. Actually the upaya have to be done by him. As regards his attachment to his mother, it is difficult to break it because he is very aggressively attached to his mother.Sincerely,Priya , Svetlana Shah <svetlana.shah wrote:>> > Dear Priyaji, > > Thank you so much for your reply. > > With God's blessings, all the upayas have been completed last week.> > I have a lot of faith in your remedies as you have helped my sister. I have not yet seen any improvement in his attitude after the completion of the upayas. So, I don't know if it is helpful, but I thought I would give the specific background of my situation.> > In 2000, I had a broken engagement. The boy changed his mind suddenly and with no reason other than "I don't feel like it". My parents and I kept looking, and in 2001, I met a guy who I started dating (we were both in the US). He was reluctant to get married, but he finally agreed and we got married in August 2002. There were many obvious problems with his nature (he is overly attached to his mother and has been spoiled by his parents as he is their only child and very smart). However, due to my bad experience of the broken engagement before, my parents and I thought that we should not be too picky, and hopefully he would improve after marriage. Immediately after marriage, he got a job offer in a very cold city in Canada. I left a very high paying job and my family in the US so we could both move there. When we got there, his nature started getting worse instead of better. He wanted to continue living as if he was still single. He did not meet with other women or> anything, but he did not want to do anything as a couple like keeping a nice house, going out together, or even having any physical relations. My health deteriorated due to the extreme cold, and because I was sad at not having any friends or job there. By November 2003 I became very depressed and he asked me to leave and go back to the US as he could not handle the stress of the situation. I went back, and since then I have been visiting him every 2/3 months in order to try and keep the relationship intact, but there is not effort or desire from his side. Last year, he was really pushing for divorce, but I convinced him to give it another chance. > > My parents have always been very supportive, but it has been a very hard few years for us. My husband never visits me. All the effort is from my side and I have now been living alone for 3 years. My parents think I should get divorced, but I feel scared that if I left him I would remain single all my life. > > Respected Priyaji, my questions are: > 1.is it my nature that is causing these problems? My husband says I am over-sensitive and argumentative. > 2. Do you think this marriage can survive and is there any prospect of a happy married life for me with him or with anyone else? > 3. Will these upayas help in increasing his attachment to me? Is there any way I can decrease the control by his mother? I do love him still.> > His birth details are: > DOB: January 31, 1974 > Place of birth: Providence, Rhode Island, USA > Time of birth: 7.35 a.m. > > Sorry for the detailed message, and thank you once again. > > With best regards, > Svetlana> > < wrote:> Dear Svetlana,> > Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud and not of gold. > You can get it done on any day convenient to you.> > Sincerely,> > Priya> > , Svetlana Shah > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> >> > > > Thank you very much Priyaji.> > > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my nose pierced. > I did not do it at that time, but I was recently reminded of it > because of another posting last week in your group. Would you > advice that it is something I should get done? If yes, is there any > particular auspicious day for that? Should it be done with silver > or gold stud/ring?> > > > Seeking your blessings.> > > > > > <@> wrote:> > Dear Svetlana,> > > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu kal doesn't effect > > the upaya.> > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya.> > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest and let him > place > > it before the deity. It is not necessary that only you place it > > before the deity.> > > > Sincerely,> > > > Priya> > > > , Svetlana Shah > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > >> > > > > > Respected Priyaji,> > > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms last > > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize that the time > > when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it was "rahu > > kaal" time. Is that uppaya okay?> > > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya.> > > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with milk and > > butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, since the > > priests here are very particular about what you can leave in the > > temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it in front of > > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the offering, but the > > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay?> > > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious time and advice.> > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote:> > > Dear Svetlana,> > > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you are not > > likely > > > to have your periods.> > > > > > Sincerely,> > > > > > Priya> > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > > >> > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and effort.> > > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I had one > more > > > question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular visit to > > the > > > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going > continuously?> > > > > > > > With best regards.> > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote:> > > > Dear Svetlana,> > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the sea.> > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. Yes, > > > place > > > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to the > > priest. > > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our concern. We > > > offered > > > > it to the God in full faith.> > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 days > > > > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the same > > > temple > > > > is not neccessary.> > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking sound when > > > > shaken.> > > > > > > > Sincerely,> > > > > > > > Priya> > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > > > >> > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji,> > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much.> > > > > > > > > > I had a few questions:> > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does it > > have > > > > to be in a river only?> > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk and > > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any > > particular > > > > diety I should offer it to?> > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will most > > likely > > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is > that > > > > okay?> > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day?> > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks > like? > > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that makes a > > > > knocking sound when you shake it?)> > > > > > > > > > With best regards.> > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote:> > > > > Dear Svetlana,> > > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a change.> > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot.> > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple > for > > 13 > > > > > days regularly.> > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 > > pieces > > > > of > > > > > lead { a metal }.> > > > > > > > > > Sincerely,> > > > > > > > > > Priya> > > > > > > > > > , "svetlana.shah" > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > > > > >> > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji,> > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act > of > > > > > > ultimate generosity to us.> > > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the > > Sita > > > > > Ashok > > > > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the > > > copper > > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya on > > > > > September > > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the > burners > > > each > > > > > > night. My situation is much the same.> > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something > > terribly > > > > > wrong > > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based on > my > > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own nature > > > that > > > > is > > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary I > am > > > > with > > > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd > but > > it > > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their > > > > attachment > > > > > to > > > > > > me.> > > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings.> > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you.> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > *****************************************> > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana,> > > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a few > > upaya> > > > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules > of > > > upaya> > > > > > before doing them.> > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by > > > sprinkling > > > > a> > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > > particular > > > > > burner> > > > > > till the next morning.> > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at > the > > > > pooja> > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with > > drooping> > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other > > which > > > > > grows> > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge > shady > > > > tree > > > > > is> > > > > > known as Sita Ashok.> > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a > sunday> > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at > > any> > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from > > the> > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those > offered > > > by > > > > > you.> > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should > eat > > or > > > > > throw> > > > > > them away.> > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely,> > > > > > > > > > > > Priya> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , "svetlana.shah"> > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > > > > > >> > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee,> > > > > > >> > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many > > years > > > > with> > > > > > my> > > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things have > > > taken > > > > a> > > > > > turn> > > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need your > > > advice > > > > to> > > > > > > smoothen my love-life.> > > > > > >> > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji.> > > > > > >> > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, 1973; > > > 1.29pm;> > > > > > Moga,> > > > > > > Punjab.> > > > > > >> > > > > > > Many thank-yous,> > > > > > > Svetlana> > > > > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com> > > > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-> Phone > > > call rates.> > > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsored Link> > > > > > $420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/month - Think You Pay Too Much For > > Your Mortgage? Find Out!> > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsored Link> > > > $420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/month - Think You Pay Too Much For > Your Mortgage? 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Guest guest Posted December 25, 2006 Report Share Posted December 25, 2006 Dear Sveta, I am suggesting a few more upaya as a last attempt to save your marriage. If these upaya do not bring about a change, then I am afraid I can't do any thing more. [ 1 ] Immerse in a river/lake 9 mushrooms kept in an earthen pot. [ 2 ] Offer at a temple 5 whole almonds { with shell } each day for 10 days regularly. [ 3 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by sprinkling a few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that particular burner till the next morning. Sincerely, Priya , Svetlana Shah <svetlana.shah wrote: > > > Dear Priyaji, > > I have thought long and hard about my situation, and it seems like the more I think about what I should do, the more confused I get. On the one hand, I have an intense fear of being alone all my life if I was to divorce him. Earlier in my life, I have been harshly let down in love and I have no confidence that any man will want to marry me. On the other hand, he gives me so much emotional pain in my day to day life. > > Priyaji, how do I make the right decision? I have been trying to make that decision for a few years now, and I have not been able to hear God's answer clearly. > > I asked my husband if he would be willing to do some upayas, and he said that he may consider doing some. Can you please suggest some upayas that I can easily get him to do? I am going to visit him and my in-laws in a few days. Also, if there is anything I can do regarding his attachment towards his mother, I would appreciate the advice. Perhaps if he will do the upayas, then something will change for the better. > > Regards, > Sveta > > < wrote: > Dear Svetlana , > > " shukra aurat ho kismat maari,aag grahasti jalataa ho " > " lagan parayee aurat mandi, patang shukra ka banata ho " > " chalan nali ho jab gandi, jail-khana tak paata ho " > > -- will destroy the married life and the wife will have a very > unlucky and destitute, if he goes after other woman he might even be > jailed for it. > > So says the Lal Kitab for one of the combinations in your husband's > kundali. > > Your husband will not be willing to do any upaya therefore I do not > see much hope in this relationship.Therefore you have to decide for > yourself as to what you want to do. > > Now your queries : > > [ 1 ] No it is not your nature which has spoiled the relationship. > [ 2 ] I do not think this marriage will survive. Yes, you will be > happy with any one provided you get the horoscopes matched properly. > [ 3 ] Your doing the upaya alone is not going to solve the problem. > Actually the upaya have to be done by him. As regards his attachment > to his mother, it is difficult to break it because he is very > aggressively attached to his mother. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > , Svetlana Shah > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > Thank you so much for your reply. > > > > With God's blessings, all the upayas have been completed last week. > > > > I have a lot of faith in your remedies as you have helped my > sister. I have not yet seen any improvement in his attitude after > the completion of the upayas. So, I don't know if it is helpful, but > I thought I would give the specific background of my situation. > > > > In 2000, I had a broken engagement. The boy changed his mind > suddenly and with no reason other than " I don't feel like it " . My > parents and I kept looking, and in 2001, I met a guy who I started > dating (we were both in the US). He was reluctant to get married, > but he finally agreed and we got married in August 2002. There were > many obvious problems with his nature (he is overly attached to his > mother and has been spoiled by his parents as he is their only child > and very smart). However, due to my bad experience of the broken > engagement before, my parents and I thought that we should not be > too picky, and hopefully he would improve after marriage. > Immediately after marriage, he got a job offer in a very cold city > in Canada. I left a very high paying job and my family in the US so > we could both move there. When we got there, his nature started > getting worse instead of better. He wanted to continue living as if > he was still single. He did not meet with other women or > > anything, but he did not want to do anything as a couple like > keeping a nice house, going out together, or even having any > physical relations. My health deteriorated due to the extreme cold, > and because I was sad at not having any friends or job there. By > November 2003 I became very depressed and he asked me to leave and > go back to the US as he could not handle the stress of the > situation. I went back, and since then I have been visiting him > every 2/3 months in order to try and keep the relationship intact, > but there is not effort or desire from his side. Last year, he was > really pushing for divorce, but I convinced him to give it another > chance. > > > > My parents have always been very supportive, but it has been a > very hard few years for us. My husband never visits me. All the > effort is from my side and I have now been living alone for 3 > years. My parents think I should get divorced, but I feel scared > that if I left him I would remain single all my life. > > > > Respected Priyaji, my questions are: > > 1.is it my nature that is causing these problems? My husband says > I am over-sensitive and argumentative. > > 2. Do you think this marriage can survive and is there any > prospect of a happy married life for me with him or with anyone > else? > > 3. Will these upayas help in increasing his attachment to me? > Is there any way I can decrease the control by his mother? I do > love him still. > > > > His birth details are: > > DOB: January 31, 1974 > > Place of birth: Providence, Rhode Island, USA > > Time of birth: 7.35 a.m. > > > > Sorry for the detailed message, and thank you once again. > > > > With best regards, > > Svetlana > > > > <@> wrote: > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud and not of gold. > > You can get it done on any day convenient to you. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Thank you very much Priyaji. > > > > > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my nose pierced. > > I did not do it at that time, but I was recently reminded of it > > because of another posting last week in your group. Would you > > advice that it is something I should get done? If yes, is there > any > > particular auspicious day for that? Should it be done with silver > > or gold stud/ring? > > > > > > Seeking your blessings. > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu kal doesn't > effect > > > the upaya. > > > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. > > > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest and let him > > place > > > it before the deity. It is not necessary that only you place it > > > before the deity. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, > > > > > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms last > > > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize that the > time > > > when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it was " rahu > > > kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > > > > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya. > > > > > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with milk and > > > butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, since the > > > priests here are very particular about what you can leave in the > > > temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it in front > of > > > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the offering, but > the > > > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay? > > > > > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious time and advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you are not > > > likely > > > > to have your periods. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and effort. > > > > > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I had one > > more > > > > question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular visit > to > > > the > > > > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going > > continuously? > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the sea. > > > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. > Yes, > > > > place > > > > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to the > > > priest. > > > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our concern. We > > > > offered > > > > > it to the God in full faith. > > > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 days > > > > > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the > same > > > > temple > > > > > is not neccessary. > > > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking sound > when > > > > > shaken. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does > it > > > have > > > > > to be in a river only? > > > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk > and > > > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any > > > particular > > > > > diety I should offer it to? > > > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will most > > > likely > > > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is > > that > > > > > okay? > > > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? > > > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks > > like? > > > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that makes > a > > > > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a > change. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot. > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple > > for > > > 13 > > > > > > days regularly. > > > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 > > > pieces > > > > > of > > > > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act > > of > > > > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the > > > Sita > > > > > > Ashok > > > > > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the > > > > copper > > > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya > on > > > > > > September > > > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the > > burners > > > > each > > > > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something > > > terribly > > > > > > wrong > > > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based > on > > my > > > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own > nature > > > > that > > > > > is > > > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary > I > > am > > > > > with > > > > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd > > but > > > it > > > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their > > > > > attachment > > > > > > to > > > > > > > me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a > few > > > upaya > > > > > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules > > of > > > > upaya > > > > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by > > > > sprinkling > > > > > a > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > > > particular > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at > > the > > > > > pooja > > > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with > > > drooping > > > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other > > > which > > > > > > grows > > > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge > > shady > > > > > tree > > > > > > is > > > > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a > > sunday > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} > at > > > any > > > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home > from > > > the > > > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those > > offered > > > > by > > > > > > you. > > > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should > > eat > > > or > > > > > > throw > > > > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many > > > years > > > > > with > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things > have > > > > taken > > > > > a > > > > > > > turn > > > > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need your > > > > advice > > > > > to > > > > > > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, 1973; > > > > 1.29pm; > > > > > > > Moga, > > > > > > > > Punjab. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? Check out Messenger's low PC-to- > > Phone > > > > call rates. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsored Link > > > > > > > > $420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/month - Think You Pay Too Much > For > > > Your Mortgage? 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Guest guest Posted December 25, 2006 Report Share Posted December 25, 2006 Dear Priyaji, Thank you for your suggestions. I had completed these upayas last month, per your suggestions in October/November. Would you suggest that I do them again? In your last message of December 1, you had mentioned that you thought that my husband should also do some upayas. Can you please suggest some for him to do that might enhance the effects of my efforts? Regards, Svetlana , " " < wrote: > > Dear Sveta, > > I am suggesting a few more upaya as a last attempt to save your > marriage. If these upaya do not bring about a change, then I am > afraid I can't do any thing more. > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river/lake 9 mushrooms kept in an earthen pot. > [ 2 ] Offer at a temple 5 whole almonds { with shell } each day for > 10 days regularly. > [ 3 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by sprinkling a > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that particular burner > till the next morning. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > > , Svetlana Shah > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > I have thought long and hard about my situation, and it seems > like the more I think about what I should do, the more confused I > get. On the one hand, I have an intense fear of being alone all my > life if I was to divorce him. Earlier in my life, I have been > harshly let down in love and I have no confidence that any man will > want to marry me. On the other hand, he gives me so much emotional > pain in my day to day life. > > > > Priyaji, how do I make the right decision? I have been trying > to make that decision for a few years now, and I have not been able > to hear God's answer clearly. > > > > I asked my husband if he would be willing to do some upayas, and > he said that he may consider doing some. Can you please suggest > some upayas that I can easily get him to do? I am going to visit > him and my in-laws in a few days. Also, if there is anything I can > do regarding his attachment towards his mother, I would appreciate > the advice. Perhaps if he will do the upayas, then something will > change for the better. > > > > Regards, > > Sveta > > > > <@> wrote: > > Dear Svetlana , > > > > " shukra aurat ho kismat maari,aag grahasti jalataa ho " > > " lagan parayee aurat mandi, patang shukra ka banata ho " > > " chalan nali ho jab gandi, jail-khana tak paata ho " > > > > -- will destroy the married life and the wife will have a very > > unlucky and destitute, if he goes after other woman he might even > be > > jailed for it. > > > > So says the Lal Kitab for one of the combinations in your > husband's > > kundali. > > > > Your husband will not be willing to do any upaya therefore I do > not > > see much hope in this relationship.Therefore you have to decide > for > > yourself as to what you want to do. > > > > Now your queries : > > > > [ 1 ] No it is not your nature which has spoiled the relationship. > > [ 2 ] I do not think this marriage will survive. Yes, you will be > > happy with any one provided you get the horoscopes matched > properly. > > [ 3 ] Your doing the upaya alone is not going to solve the > problem. > > Actually the upaya have to be done by him. As regards his > attachment > > to his mother, it is difficult to break it because he is very > > aggressively attached to his mother. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > Thank you so much for your reply. > > > > > > With God's blessings, all the upayas have been completed last > week. > > > > > > I have a lot of faith in your remedies as you have helped my > > sister. I have not yet seen any improvement in his attitude after > > the completion of the upayas. So, I don't know if it is helpful, > but > > I thought I would give the specific background of my situation. > > > > > > In 2000, I had a broken engagement. The boy changed his mind > > suddenly and with no reason other than " I don't feel like it " . My > > parents and I kept looking, and in 2001, I met a guy who I started > > dating (we were both in the US). He was reluctant to get married, > > but he finally agreed and we got married in August 2002. There > were > > many obvious problems with his nature (he is overly attached to > his > > mother and has been spoiled by his parents as he is their only > child > > and very smart). However, due to my bad experience of the broken > > engagement before, my parents and I thought that we should not be > > too picky, and hopefully he would improve after marriage. > > Immediately after marriage, he got a job offer in a very cold city > > in Canada. I left a very high paying job and my family in the US > so > > we could both move there. When we got there, his nature started > > getting worse instead of better. He wanted to continue living as > if > > he was still single. He did not meet with other women or > > > anything, but he did not want to do anything as a couple like > > keeping a nice house, going out together, or even having any > > physical relations. My health deteriorated due to the extreme > cold, > > and because I was sad at not having any friends or job there. By > > November 2003 I became very depressed and he asked me to leave and > > go back to the US as he could not handle the stress of the > > situation. I went back, and since then I have been visiting him > > every 2/3 months in order to try and keep the relationship intact, > > but there is not effort or desire from his side. Last year, he was > > really pushing for divorce, but I convinced him to give it another > > chance. > > > > > > My parents have always been very supportive, but it has been a > > very hard few years for us. My husband never visits me. All the > > effort is from my side and I have now been living alone for 3 > > years. My parents think I should get divorced, but I feel scared > > that if I left him I would remain single all my life. > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, my questions are: > > > 1.is it my nature that is causing these problems? My husband > says > > I am over-sensitive and argumentative. > > > 2. Do you think this marriage can survive and is there any > > prospect of a happy married life for me with him or with anyone > > else? > > > 3. Will these upayas help in increasing his attachment to me? > > Is there any way I can decrease the control by his mother? I do > > love him still. > > > > > > His birth details are: > > > DOB: January 31, 1974 > > > Place of birth: Providence, Rhode Island, USA > > > Time of birth: 7.35 a.m. > > > > > > Sorry for the detailed message, and thank you once again. > > > > > > With best regards, > > > Svetlana > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud and not of > gold. > > > You can get it done on any day convenient to you. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you very much Priyaji. > > > > > > > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my nose pierced. > > > I did not do it at that time, but I was recently reminded of it > > > because of another posting last week in your group. Would you > > > advice that it is something I should get done? If yes, is there > > any > > > particular auspicious day for that? Should it be done with > silver > > > or gold stud/ring? > > > > > > > > Seeking your blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu kal doesn't > > effect > > > > the upaya. > > > > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. > > > > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest and let him > > > place > > > > it before the deity. It is not necessary that only you place > it > > > > before the deity. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms last > > > > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize that the > > time > > > > when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it > was " rahu > > > > kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > > > > > > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya. > > > > > > > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with milk and > > > > butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, since the > > > > priests here are very particular about what you can leave in > the > > > > temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it in > front > > of > > > > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the offering, but > > the > > > > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay? > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious time and > advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you are not > > > > likely > > > > > to have your periods. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and effort. > > > > > > > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I had > one > > > more > > > > > question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular > visit > > to > > > > the > > > > > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going > > > continuously? > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the sea. > > > > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. > > Yes, > > > > > place > > > > > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to the > > > > priest. > > > > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our concern. > We > > > > > offered > > > > > > it to the God in full faith. > > > > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 > days > > > > > > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the > > same > > > > > temple > > > > > > is not neccessary. > > > > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking sound > > when > > > > > > shaken. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does > > it > > > > have > > > > > > to be in a river only? > > > > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk > > and > > > > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any > > > > particular > > > > > > diety I should offer it to? > > > > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will > most > > > > likely > > > > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is > > > that > > > > > > okay? > > > > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? > > > > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks > > > like? > > > > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that > makes > > a > > > > > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a > > change. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot. > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any > temple > > > for > > > > 13 > > > > > > > days regularly. > > > > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with > 4 > > > > pieces > > > > > > of > > > > > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an > act > > > of > > > > > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for > the > > > > Sita > > > > > > > Ashok > > > > > > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did > the > > > > > copper > > > > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya > > on > > > > > > > September > > > > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the > > > burners > > > > > each > > > > > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something > > > > terribly > > > > > > > wrong > > > > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based > > on > > > my > > > > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own > > nature > > > > > that > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how > weary > > I > > > am > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very > odd > > > but > > > > it > > > > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a > > few > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read the > rules > > > of > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by > > > > > sprinkling > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > > > > particular > > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it > at > > > the > > > > > > pooja > > > > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with > > > > drooping > > > > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the > other > > > > which > > > > > > > grows > > > > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge > > > shady > > > > > > tree > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a > > > sunday > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with > shell} > > at > > > > any > > > > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home > > from > > > > the > > > > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those > > > offered > > > > > by > > > > > > > you. > > > > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one > should > > > eat > > > > or > > > > > > > throw > > > > > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so > many > > > > years > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things > > have > > > > > taken > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > turn > > > > > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need > your > > > > > advice > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, > 1973; > > > > > 1.29pm; > > > > > > > > Moga, > > > > > > > > > Punjab. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? Check out Messenger's low PC- to- > > > Phone > > > > > call rates. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsored Link > > > > > > > > > > $420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/month - Think You Pay Too Much > > For > > > > Your Mortgage? 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Guest guest Posted December 25, 2006 Report Share Posted December 25, 2006 Dear Svet, If you can make him do the upaya, then ask him to : [ 1 ] Get from his grand father / father a little curds { dahi } as a gift and let him offer this dahi at any temple. He could get the dahi from any elderly person who loves him like a father. [ 2 ] Pour a few drops of cow urine onto the bare ground, every day for 43 days regularly. [ 3 ] Keep in the South West corner of the house a handful of Juar { millets }in an iron bowl. Sincerely, Priya , " svetlana.shah " <svetlana.shah wrote: > > > Dear Priyaji, > > Thank you for your suggestions. I had completed these upayas last > month, per your suggestions in October/November. Would you suggest > that I do them again? > > In your last message of December 1, you had mentioned that you > thought that my husband should also do some upayas. Can you please > suggest some for him to do that might enhance the effects of my > efforts? > > Regards, > Svetlana > > , " " > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Sveta, > > > > I am suggesting a few more upaya as a last attempt to save your > > marriage. If these upaya do not bring about a change, then I am > > afraid I can't do any thing more. > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river/lake 9 mushrooms kept in an earthen pot. > > [ 2 ] Offer at a temple 5 whole almonds { with shell } each day > for > > 10 days regularly. > > [ 3 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by sprinkling a > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that particular > burner > > till the next morning. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > I have thought long and hard about my situation, and it seems > > like the more I think about what I should do, the more confused I > > get. On the one hand, I have an intense fear of being alone all > my > > life if I was to divorce him. Earlier in my life, I have been > > harshly let down in love and I have no confidence that any man > will > > want to marry me. On the other hand, he gives me so much > emotional > > pain in my day to day life. > > > > > > Priyaji, how do I make the right decision? I have been trying > > to make that decision for a few years now, and I have not been > able > > to hear God's answer clearly. > > > > > > I asked my husband if he would be willing to do some upayas, > and > > he said that he may consider doing some. Can you please suggest > > some upayas that I can easily get him to do? I am going to visit > > him and my in-laws in a few days. Also, if there is anything I > can > > do regarding his attachment towards his mother, I would appreciate > > the advice. Perhaps if he will do the upayas, then something will > > change for the better. > > > > > > Regards, > > > Sveta > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > Dear Svetlana , > > > > > > " shukra aurat ho kismat maari,aag grahasti jalataa ho " > > > " lagan parayee aurat mandi, patang shukra ka banata ho " > > > " chalan nali ho jab gandi, jail-khana tak paata ho " > > > > > > -- will destroy the married life and the wife will have a very > > > unlucky and destitute, if he goes after other woman he might > even > > be > > > jailed for it. > > > > > > So says the Lal Kitab for one of the combinations in your > > husband's > > > kundali. > > > > > > Your husband will not be willing to do any upaya therefore I do > > not > > > see much hope in this relationship.Therefore you have to decide > > for > > > yourself as to what you want to do. > > > > > > Now your queries : > > > > > > [ 1 ] No it is not your nature which has spoiled the > relationship. > > > [ 2 ] I do not think this marriage will survive. Yes, you will > be > > > happy with any one provided you get the horoscopes matched > > properly. > > > [ 3 ] Your doing the upaya alone is not going to solve the > > problem. > > > Actually the upaya have to be done by him. As regards his > > attachment > > > to his mother, it is difficult to break it because he is very > > > aggressively attached to his mother. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your reply. > > > > > > > > With God's blessings, all the upayas have been completed last > > week. > > > > > > > > I have a lot of faith in your remedies as you have helped my > > > sister. I have not yet seen any improvement in his attitude > after > > > the completion of the upayas. So, I don't know if it is helpful, > > but > > > I thought I would give the specific background of my situation. > > > > > > > > In 2000, I had a broken engagement. The boy changed his mind > > > suddenly and with no reason other than " I don't feel like it " . > My > > > parents and I kept looking, and in 2001, I met a guy who I > started > > > dating (we were both in the US). He was reluctant to get > married, > > > but he finally agreed and we got married in August 2002. There > > were > > > many obvious problems with his nature (he is overly attached to > > his > > > mother and has been spoiled by his parents as he is their only > > child > > > and very smart). However, due to my bad experience of the broken > > > engagement before, my parents and I thought that we should not > be > > > too picky, and hopefully he would improve after marriage. > > > Immediately after marriage, he got a job offer in a very cold > city > > > in Canada. I left a very high paying job and my family in the US > > so > > > we could both move there. When we got there, his nature started > > > getting worse instead of better. He wanted to continue living as > > if > > > he was still single. He did not meet with other women or > > > > anything, but he did not want to do anything as a couple like > > > keeping a nice house, going out together, or even having any > > > physical relations. My health deteriorated due to the extreme > > cold, > > > and because I was sad at not having any friends or job there. By > > > November 2003 I became very depressed and he asked me to leave > and > > > go back to the US as he could not handle the stress of the > > > situation. I went back, and since then I have been visiting him > > > every 2/3 months in order to try and keep the relationship > intact, > > > but there is not effort or desire from his side. Last year, he > was > > > really pushing for divorce, but I convinced him to give it > another > > > chance. > > > > > > > > My parents have always been very supportive, but it has been a > > > very hard few years for us. My husband never visits me. All the > > > effort is from my side and I have now been living alone for 3 > > > years. My parents think I should get divorced, but I feel scared > > > that if I left him I would remain single all my life. > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, my questions are: > > > > 1.is it my nature that is causing these problems? My husband > > says > > > I am over-sensitive and argumentative. > > > > 2. Do you think this marriage can survive and is there any > > > prospect of a happy married life for me with him or with anyone > > > else? > > > > 3. Will these upayas help in increasing his attachment to me? > > > Is there any way I can decrease the control by his mother? I do > > > love him still. > > > > > > > > His birth details are: > > > > DOB: January 31, 1974 > > > > Place of birth: Providence, Rhode Island, USA > > > > Time of birth: 7.35 a.m. > > > > > > > > Sorry for the detailed message, and thank you once again. > > > > > > > > With best regards, > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud and not of > > gold. > > > > You can get it done on any day convenient to you. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you very much Priyaji. > > > > > > > > > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my nose > pierced. > > > > I did not do it at that time, but I was recently reminded of > it > > > > because of another posting last week in your group. Would you > > > > advice that it is something I should get done? If yes, is > there > > > any > > > > particular auspicious day for that? Should it be done with > > silver > > > > or gold stud/ring? > > > > > > > > > > Seeking your blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu kal doesn't > > > effect > > > > > the upaya. > > > > > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. > > > > > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest and let > him > > > > place > > > > > it before the deity. It is not necessary that only you place > > it > > > > > before the deity. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms last > > > > > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize that > the > > > time > > > > > when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it > > was " rahu > > > > > kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with milk > and > > > > > butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, since > the > > > > > priests here are very particular about what you can leave in > > the > > > > > temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it in > > front > > > of > > > > > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the offering, > but > > > the > > > > > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious time and > > advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you are > not > > > > > likely > > > > > > to have your periods. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and effort. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I had > > one > > > > more > > > > > > question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular > > visit > > > to > > > > > the > > > > > > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going > > > > continuously? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the > sea. > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. > > > Yes, > > > > > > place > > > > > > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to > the > > > > > priest. > > > > > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our > concern. > > We > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > it to the God in full faith. > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 > > days > > > > > > > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the > > > same > > > > > > temple > > > > > > > is not neccessary. > > > > > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking > sound > > > when > > > > > > > shaken. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > > > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or > does > > > it > > > > > have > > > > > > > to be in a river only? > > > > > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the > milk > > > and > > > > > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any > > > > > particular > > > > > > > diety I should offer it to? > > > > > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will > > most > > > > > likely > > > > > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. > Is > > > > that > > > > > > > okay? > > > > > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? > > > > > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal > looks > > > > like? > > > > > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that > > makes > > > a > > > > > > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a > > > change. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot. > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any > > temple > > > > for > > > > > 13 > > > > > > > > days regularly. > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along > with > > 4 > > > > > pieces > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an > > act > > > > of > > > > > > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for > > the > > > > > Sita > > > > > > > > Ashok > > > > > > > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did > > the > > > > > > copper > > > > > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam > upayya > > > on > > > > > > > > September > > > > > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the > > > > burners > > > > > > each > > > > > > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something > > > > > terribly > > > > > > > > wrong > > > > > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? > Based > > > on > > > > my > > > > > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own > > > nature > > > > > > that > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how > > weary > > > I > > > > am > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very > > odd > > > > but > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses > their > > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting > a > > > few > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read the > > rules > > > > of > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire > by > > > > > > sprinkling > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep > it > > at > > > > the > > > > > > > pooja > > > > > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One > with > > > > > drooping > > > > > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the > > other > > > > > which > > > > > > > > grows > > > > > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a > huge > > > > shady > > > > > > > tree > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on > a > > > > sunday > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with > > shell} > > > at > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back > home > > > from > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those > > > > offered > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > you. > > > > > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one > > should > > > > eat > > > > > or > > > > > > > > throw > > > > > > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so > > many > > > > > years > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. > Things > > > have > > > > > > taken > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > turn > > > > > > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need > > your > > > > > > advice > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, > > 1973; > > > > > > 1.29pm; > > > > > > > > > Moga, > > > > > > > > > > Punjab. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? 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Guest guest Posted December 28, 2006 Report Share Posted December 28, 2006 Dear Priyaji, Thank you so much for your time and counsel. I will do my best to try and make it work. God Bless You for your kindnesses to everyone in this group, and a very Happy New Year! Regards, Sweta , " " < wrote: > > Dear Svet, > > If you can make him do the upaya, then ask him to : > > [ 1 ] Get from his grand father / father a little curds { dahi } as > a gift and let him offer this dahi at any temple. He could get the > dahi from any elderly person who loves him like a father. > [ 2 ] Pour a few drops of cow urine onto the bare ground, every day > for 43 days regularly. > [ 3 ] Keep in the South West corner of the house a handful of Juar { > millets }in an iron bowl. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > > , " svetlana.shah " > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > Thank you for your suggestions. I had completed these upayas last > > month, per your suggestions in October/November. Would you > suggest > > that I do them again? > > > > In your last message of December 1, you had mentioned that you > > thought that my husband should also do some upayas. Can you > please > > suggest some for him to do that might enhance the effects of my > > efforts? > > > > Regards, > > Svetlana > > > > , " " > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Sveta, > > > > > > I am suggesting a few more upaya as a last attempt to save your > > > marriage. If these upaya do not bring about a change, then I am > > > afraid I can't do any thing more. > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river/lake 9 mushrooms kept in an earthen > pot. > > > [ 2 ] Offer at a temple 5 whole almonds { with shell } each day > > for > > > 10 days regularly. > > > [ 3 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by sprinkling > a > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that particular > > burner > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > I have thought long and hard about my situation, and it > seems > > > like the more I think about what I should do, the more confused > I > > > get. On the one hand, I have an intense fear of being alone all > > my > > > life if I was to divorce him. Earlier in my life, I have been > > > harshly let down in love and I have no confidence that any man > > will > > > want to marry me. On the other hand, he gives me so much > > emotional > > > pain in my day to day life. > > > > > > > > Priyaji, how do I make the right decision? I have been > trying > > > to make that decision for a few years now, and I have not been > > able > > > to hear God's answer clearly. > > > > > > > > I asked my husband if he would be willing to do some upayas, > > and > > > he said that he may consider doing some. Can you please suggest > > > some upayas that I can easily get him to do? I am going to > visit > > > him and my in-laws in a few days. Also, if there is anything I > > can > > > do regarding his attachment towards his mother, I would > appreciate > > > the advice. Perhaps if he will do the upayas, then something > will > > > change for the better. > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > Sveta > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Svetlana , > > > > > > > > " shukra aurat ho kismat maari,aag grahasti jalataa ho " > > > > " lagan parayee aurat mandi, patang shukra ka banata ho " > > > > " chalan nali ho jab gandi, jail-khana tak paata ho " > > > > > > > > -- will destroy the married life and the wife will have a very > > > > unlucky and destitute, if he goes after other woman he might > > even > > > be > > > > jailed for it. > > > > > > > > So says the Lal Kitab for one of the combinations in your > > > husband's > > > > kundali. > > > > > > > > Your husband will not be willing to do any upaya therefore I > do > > > not > > > > see much hope in this relationship.Therefore you have to > decide > > > for > > > > yourself as to what you want to do. > > > > > > > > Now your queries : > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] No it is not your nature which has spoiled the > > relationship. > > > > [ 2 ] I do not think this marriage will survive. Yes, you will > > be > > > > happy with any one provided you get the horoscopes matched > > > properly. > > > > [ 3 ] Your doing the upaya alone is not going to solve the > > > problem. > > > > Actually the upaya have to be done by him. As regards his > > > attachment > > > > to his mother, it is difficult to break it because he is very > > > > aggressively attached to his mother. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your reply. > > > > > > > > > > With God's blessings, all the upayas have been completed > last > > > week. > > > > > > > > > > I have a lot of faith in your remedies as you have helped my > > > > sister. I have not yet seen any improvement in his attitude > > after > > > > the completion of the upayas. So, I don't know if it is > helpful, > > > but > > > > I thought I would give the specific background of my situation. > > > > > > > > > > In 2000, I had a broken engagement. The boy changed his mind > > > > suddenly and with no reason other than " I don't feel like it " . > > My > > > > parents and I kept looking, and in 2001, I met a guy who I > > started > > > > dating (we were both in the US). He was reluctant to get > > married, > > > > but he finally agreed and we got married in August 2002. There > > > were > > > > many obvious problems with his nature (he is overly attached > to > > > his > > > > mother and has been spoiled by his parents as he is their only > > > child > > > > and very smart). However, due to my bad experience of the > broken > > > > engagement before, my parents and I thought that we should not > > be > > > > too picky, and hopefully he would improve after marriage. > > > > Immediately after marriage, he got a job offer in a very cold > > city > > > > in Canada. I left a very high paying job and my family in the > US > > > so > > > > we could both move there. When we got there, his nature > started > > > > getting worse instead of better. He wanted to continue living > as > > > if > > > > he was still single. He did not meet with other women or > > > > > anything, but he did not want to do anything as a couple > like > > > > keeping a nice house, going out together, or even having any > > > > physical relations. My health deteriorated due to the extreme > > > cold, > > > > and because I was sad at not having any friends or job there. > By > > > > November 2003 I became very depressed and he asked me to leave > > and > > > > go back to the US as he could not handle the stress of the > > > > situation. I went back, and since then I have been visiting > him > > > > every 2/3 months in order to try and keep the relationship > > intact, > > > > but there is not effort or desire from his side. Last year, he > > was > > > > really pushing for divorce, but I convinced him to give it > > another > > > > chance. > > > > > > > > > > My parents have always been very supportive, but it has been > a > > > > very hard few years for us. My husband never visits me. All > the > > > > effort is from my side and I have now been living alone for 3 > > > > years. My parents think I should get divorced, but I feel > scared > > > > that if I left him I would remain single all my life. > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, my questions are: > > > > > 1.is it my nature that is causing these problems? My husband > > > says > > > > I am over-sensitive and argumentative. > > > > > 2. Do you think this marriage can survive and is there any > > > > prospect of a happy married life for me with him or with > anyone > > > > else? > > > > > 3. Will these upayas help in increasing his attachment to > me? > > > > Is there any way I can decrease the control by his mother? I > do > > > > love him still. > > > > > > > > > > His birth details are: > > > > > DOB: January 31, 1974 > > > > > Place of birth: Providence, Rhode Island, USA > > > > > Time of birth: 7.35 a.m. > > > > > > > > > > Sorry for the detailed message, and thank you once again. > > > > > > > > > > With best regards, > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud and not of > > > gold. > > > > > You can get it done on any day convenient to you. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you very much Priyaji. > > > > > > > > > > > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my nose > > pierced. > > > > > I did not do it at that time, but I was recently reminded of > > it > > > > > because of another posting last week in your group. Would > you > > > > > advice that it is something I should get done? If yes, is > > there > > > > any > > > > > particular auspicious day for that? Should it be done with > > > silver > > > > > or gold stud/ring? > > > > > > > > > > > > Seeking your blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu kal > doesn't > > > > effect > > > > > > the upaya. > > > > > > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. > > > > > > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest and let > > him > > > > > place > > > > > > it before the deity. It is not necessary that only you > place > > > it > > > > > > before the deity. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms > last > > > > > > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize that > > the > > > > time > > > > > > when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it > > > was " rahu > > > > > > kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with milk > > and > > > > > > butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, since > > the > > > > > > priests here are very particular about what you can leave > in > > > the > > > > > > temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it in > > > front > > > > of > > > > > > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the offering, > > but > > > > the > > > > > > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious time and > > > advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you are > > not > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > to have your periods. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and > effort. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I > had > > > one > > > > > more > > > > > > > question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular > > > visit > > > > to > > > > > > the > > > > > > > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going > > > > > continuously? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the > > sea. > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before > offering. > > > > Yes, > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to > > the > > > > > > priest. > > > > > > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our > > concern. > > > We > > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > it to the God in full faith. > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 > > > days > > > > > > > > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to > the > > > > same > > > > > > > temple > > > > > > > > is not neccessary. > > > > > > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking > > sound > > > > when > > > > > > > > shaken. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > Shah > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > > > > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or > > does > > > > it > > > > > > have > > > > > > > > to be in a river only? > > > > > > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the > > milk > > > > and > > > > > > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there > any > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > diety I should offer it to? > > > > > > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will > > > most > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the > day. > > Is > > > > > that > > > > > > > > okay? > > > > > > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? > > > > > > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal > > looks > > > > > like? > > > > > > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that > > > makes > > > > a > > > > > > > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in > a > > > > change. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen > pot. > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any > > > temple > > > > > for > > > > > > 13 > > > > > > > > > days regularly. > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along > > with > > > 4 > > > > > > pieces > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is > an > > > act > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except > for > > > the > > > > > > Sita > > > > > > > > > Ashok > > > > > > > > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I > did > > > the > > > > > > > copper > > > > > > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam > > upayya > > > > on > > > > > > > > > September > > > > > > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on > the > > > > > burners > > > > > > > each > > > > > > > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there > something > > > > > > terribly > > > > > > > > > wrong > > > > > > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? > > Based > > > > on > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my > own > > > > nature > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how > > > weary > > > > I > > > > > am > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it > very > > > odd > > > > > but > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses > > their > > > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am > suggesting > > a > > > > few > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read the > > > rules > > > > > of > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire > > by > > > > > > > sprinkling > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep > > it > > > at > > > > > the > > > > > > > > pooja > > > > > > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One > > with > > > > > > drooping > > > > > > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the > > > other > > > > > > which > > > > > > > > > grows > > > > > > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a > > huge > > > > > shady > > > > > > > > tree > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes > on > > a > > > > > sunday > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with > > > shell} > > > > at > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back > > home > > > > from > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of > those > > > > > offered > > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > you. > > > > > > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one > > > should > > > > > eat > > > > > > or > > > > > > > > > throw > > > > > > > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for > so > > > many > > > > > > years > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > personal relationships. 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Guest guest Posted January 4, 2007 Report Share Posted January 4, 2007 Dear Priyaji, Pranam. You were right, my husband is not taking any interest in doing the upayas. Things are pretty bad between us and I have almost decided to get a divorce. One guy who I have known for many years has approached my family, saying that he will marry me if I get divorced soon. a. Is is wrong for us to even consider this? b. Would it be a good match? His birth details are as follows: September 14th 6.20 p.m. Cheverly, Maryland, USA c. Is there an indication of a second marriage in my horoscope and when will that likely be? Regards, Svetlana , " svetlana.shah " <svetlana.shah wrote: > > > Dear Priyaji, > > Thank you so much for your time and counsel. I will do my best to > try and make it work. > > God Bless You for your kindnesses to everyone in this group, and a > very Happy New Year! > > Regards, > Sweta > , " " > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Svet, > > > > If you can make him do the upaya, then ask him to : > > > > [ 1 ] Get from his grand father / father a little curds { dahi } as > > a gift and let him offer this dahi at any temple. He could get the > > dahi from any elderly person who loves him like a father. > > [ 2 ] Pour a few drops of cow urine onto the bare ground, every day > > for 43 days regularly. > > [ 3 ] Keep in the South West corner of the house a handful of Juar > { > > millets }in an iron bowl. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > Thank you for your suggestions. I had completed these upayas > last > > > month, per your suggestions in October/November. Would you > > suggest > > > that I do them again? > > > > > > In your last message of December 1, you had mentioned that you > > > thought that my husband should also do some upayas. Can you > > please > > > suggest some for him to do that might enhance the effects of my > > > efforts? > > > > > > Regards, > > > Svetlana > > > > > > , " " > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Sveta, > > > > > > > > I am suggesting a few more upaya as a last attempt to save your > > > > marriage. If these upaya do not bring about a change, then I am > > > > afraid I can't do any thing more. > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river/lake 9 mushrooms kept in an earthen > > pot. > > > > [ 2 ] Offer at a temple 5 whole almonds { with shell } each day > > > for > > > > 10 days regularly. > > > > [ 3 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by > sprinkling > > a > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that particular > > > burner > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > I have thought long and hard about my situation, and it > > seems > > > > like the more I think about what I should do, the more confused > > I > > > > get. On the one hand, I have an intense fear of being alone > all > > > my > > > > life if I was to divorce him. Earlier in my life, I have been > > > > harshly let down in love and I have no confidence that any man > > > will > > > > want to marry me. On the other hand, he gives me so much > > > emotional > > > > pain in my day to day life. > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, how do I make the right decision? I have been > > trying > > > > to make that decision for a few years now, and I have not been > > > able > > > > to hear God's answer clearly. > > > > > > > > > > I asked my husband if he would be willing to do some > upayas, > > > and > > > > he said that he may consider doing some. Can you please > suggest > > > > some upayas that I can easily get him to do? I am going to > > visit > > > > him and my in-laws in a few days. Also, if there is anything I > > > can > > > > do regarding his attachment towards his mother, I would > > appreciate > > > > the advice. Perhaps if he will do the upayas, then something > > will > > > > change for the better. > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > Sveta > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > Dear Svetlana , > > > > > > > > > > " shukra aurat ho kismat maari,aag grahasti jalataa ho " > > > > > " lagan parayee aurat mandi, patang shukra ka banata ho " > > > > > " chalan nali ho jab gandi, jail-khana tak paata ho " > > > > > > > > > > -- will destroy the married life and the wife will have a > very > > > > > unlucky and destitute, if he goes after other woman he might > > > even > > > > be > > > > > jailed for it. > > > > > > > > > > So says the Lal Kitab for one of the combinations in your > > > > husband's > > > > > kundali. > > > > > > > > > > Your husband will not be willing to do any upaya therefore I > > do > > > > not > > > > > see much hope in this relationship.Therefore you have to > > decide > > > > for > > > > > yourself as to what you want to do. > > > > > > > > > > Now your queries : > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] No it is not your nature which has spoiled the > > > relationship. > > > > > [ 2 ] I do not think this marriage will survive. Yes, you > will > > > be > > > > > happy with any one provided you get the horoscopes matched > > > > properly. > > > > > [ 3 ] Your doing the upaya alone is not going to solve the > > > > problem. > > > > > Actually the upaya have to be done by him. As regards his > > > > attachment > > > > > to his mother, it is difficult to break it because he is very > > > > > aggressively attached to his mother. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your reply. > > > > > > > > > > > > With God's blessings, all the upayas have been completed > > last > > > > week. > > > > > > > > > > > > I have a lot of faith in your remedies as you have helped > my > > > > > sister. I have not yet seen any improvement in his attitude > > > after > > > > > the completion of the upayas. So, I don't know if it is > > helpful, > > > > but > > > > > I thought I would give the specific background of my > situation. > > > > > > > > > > > > In 2000, I had a broken engagement. The boy changed his > mind > > > > > suddenly and with no reason other than " I don't feel like > it " . > > > My > > > > > parents and I kept looking, and in 2001, I met a guy who I > > > started > > > > > dating (we were both in the US). He was reluctant to get > > > married, > > > > > but he finally agreed and we got married in August 2002. > There > > > > were > > > > > many obvious problems with his nature (he is overly attached > > to > > > > his > > > > > mother and has been spoiled by his parents as he is their > only > > > > child > > > > > and very smart). However, due to my bad experience of the > > broken > > > > > engagement before, my parents and I thought that we should > not > > > be > > > > > too picky, and hopefully he would improve after marriage. > > > > > Immediately after marriage, he got a job offer in a very cold > > > city > > > > > in Canada. I left a very high paying job and my family in the > > US > > > > so > > > > > we could both move there. When we got there, his nature > > started > > > > > getting worse instead of better. He wanted to continue living > > as > > > > if > > > > > he was still single. He did not meet with other women or > > > > > > anything, but he did not want to do anything as a couple > > like > > > > > keeping a nice house, going out together, or even having any > > > > > physical relations. My health deteriorated due to the extreme > > > > cold, > > > > > and because I was sad at not having any friends or job there. > > By > > > > > November 2003 I became very depressed and he asked me to > leave > > > and > > > > > go back to the US as he could not handle the stress of the > > > > > situation. I went back, and since then I have been visiting > > him > > > > > every 2/3 months in order to try and keep the relationship > > > intact, > > > > > but there is not effort or desire from his side. Last year, > he > > > was > > > > > really pushing for divorce, but I convinced him to give it > > > another > > > > > chance. > > > > > > > > > > > > My parents have always been very supportive, but it has > been > > a > > > > > very hard few years for us. My husband never visits me. All > > the > > > > > effort is from my side and I have now been living alone for 3 > > > > > years. My parents think I should get divorced, but I feel > > scared > > > > > that if I left him I would remain single all my life. > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, my questions are: > > > > > > 1.is it my nature that is causing these problems? My > husband > > > > says > > > > > I am over-sensitive and argumentative. > > > > > > 2. Do you think this marriage can survive and is there any > > > > > prospect of a happy married life for me with him or with > > anyone > > > > > else? > > > > > > 3. Will these upayas help in increasing his attachment to > > me? > > > > > Is there any way I can decrease the control by his mother? I > > do > > > > > love him still. > > > > > > > > > > > > His birth details are: > > > > > > DOB: January 31, 1974 > > > > > > Place of birth: Providence, Rhode Island, USA > > > > > > Time of birth: 7.35 a.m. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sorry for the detailed message, and thank you once again. > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards, > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud and not of > > > > gold. > > > > > > You can get it done on any day convenient to you. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you very much Priyaji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my nose > > > pierced. > > > > > > I did not do it at that time, but I was recently reminded > of > > > it > > > > > > because of another posting last week in your group. Would > > you > > > > > > advice that it is something I should get done? If yes, is > > > there > > > > > any > > > > > > particular auspicious day for that? Should it be done with > > > > silver > > > > > > or gold stud/ring? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Seeking your blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu kal > > doesn't > > > > > effect > > > > > > > the upaya. > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. > > > > > > > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest and let > > > him > > > > > > place > > > > > > > it before the deity. It is not necessary that only you > > place > > > > it > > > > > > > before the deity. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms > > last > > > > > > > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize that > > > the > > > > > time > > > > > > > when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it > > > > was " rahu > > > > > > > kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with > milk > > > and > > > > > > > butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, since > > > the > > > > > > > priests here are very particular about what you can leave > > in > > > > the > > > > > > > temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it in > > > > front > > > > > of > > > > > > > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the offering, > > > but > > > > > the > > > > > > > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious time and > > > > advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you > are > > > not > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > to have your periods. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and > > effort. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I > > had > > > > one > > > > > > more > > > > > > > > question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular > > > > visit > > > > > to > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going > > > > > > continuously? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the > > > sea. > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before > > offering. > > > > > Yes, > > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over > to > > > the > > > > > > > priest. > > > > > > > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our > > > concern. > > > > We > > > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > > it to the God in full faith. > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for > 5 > > > > days > > > > > > > > > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to > > the > > > > > same > > > > > > > > temple > > > > > > > > > is not neccessary. > > > > > > > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking > > > sound > > > > > when > > > > > > > > > shaken. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > > Shah > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > > > > > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or > > > does > > > > > it > > > > > > > have > > > > > > > > > to be in a river only? > > > > > > > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the > > > milk > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there > > any > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > diety I should offer it to? > > > > > > > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag > will > > > > most > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the > > day. > > > Is > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > okay? > > > > > > > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? > > > > > > > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal > > > looks > > > > > > like? > > > > > > > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut > that > > > > makes > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in > > a > > > > > change. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen > > pot. > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any > > > > temple > > > > > > for > > > > > > > 13 > > > > > > > > > > days regularly. > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along > > > with > > > > 4 > > > > > > > pieces > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is > > an > > > > act > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except > > for > > > > the > > > > > > > Sita > > > > > > > > > > Ashok > > > > > > > > > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I > > did > > > > the > > > > > > > > copper > > > > > > > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam > > > upayya > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > > September > > > > > > > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on > > the > > > > > > burners > > > > > > > > each > > > > > > > > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there > > something > > > > > > > terribly > > > > > > > > > > wrong > > > > > > > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? > > > Based > > > > > on > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my > > own > > > > > nature > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how > > > > weary > > > > > I > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it > > very > > > > odd > > > > > > but > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses > > > their > > > > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am > > suggesting > > > a > > > > > few > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read > the > > > > rules > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen > fire > > > by > > > > > > > > sprinkling > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use > that > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and > keep > > > it > > > > at > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > pooja > > > > > > > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One > > > with > > > > > > > drooping > > > > > > > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and > the > > > > other > > > > > > > which > > > > > > > > > > grows > > > > > > > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a > > > huge > > > > > > shady > > > > > > > > > tree > > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes > > on > > > a > > > > > > sunday > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with > > > > shell} > > > > > at > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back > > > home > > > > > from > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of > > those > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > > you. > > > > > > > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one > > > > should > > > > > > eat > > > > > > > or > > > > > > > > > > throw > > > > > > > > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for > > so > > > > many > > > > > > > years > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. > > > Things > > > > > have > > > > > > > > taken > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > turn > > > > > > > > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I > > need > > > > your > > > > > > > > advice > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th > November, > > > > 1973; > > > > > > > > 1.29pm; > > > > > > > > > > > Moga, > > > > > > > > > > > > Punjab. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? 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Guest guest Posted January 4, 2007 Report Share Posted January 4, 2007 Dear Priyaji, The DOB of the other person is September 14th, 1971 After I sent the last message, I thought I remembered that I did not include the DOB. Humbly seeking your help, Svetlana , " svetlana.shah " <svetlana.shah wrote: > > > Dear Priyaji, > > Thank you so much for your time and counsel. I will do my best to > try and make it work. > > God Bless You for your kindnesses to everyone in this group, and a > very Happy New Year! > > Regards, > Sweta > , " " > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Svet, > > > > If you can make him do the upaya, then ask him to : > > > > [ 1 ] Get from his grand father / father a little curds { dahi } as > > a gift and let him offer this dahi at any temple. He could get the > > dahi from any elderly person who loves him like a father. > > [ 2 ] Pour a few drops of cow urine onto the bare ground, every day > > for 43 days regularly. > > [ 3 ] Keep in the South West corner of the house a handful of Juar > { > > millets }in an iron bowl. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > Thank you for your suggestions. I had completed these upayas > last > > > month, per your suggestions in October/November. Would you > > suggest > > > that I do them again? > > > > > > In your last message of December 1, you had mentioned that you > > > thought that my husband should also do some upayas. Can you > > please > > > suggest some for him to do that might enhance the effects of my > > > efforts? > > > > > > Regards, > > > Svetlana > > > > > > , " " > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Sveta, > > > > > > > > I am suggesting a few more upaya as a last attempt to save your > > > > marriage. If these upaya do not bring about a change, then I am > > > > afraid I can't do any thing more. > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river/lake 9 mushrooms kept in an earthen > > pot. > > > > [ 2 ] Offer at a temple 5 whole almonds { with shell } each day > > > for > > > > 10 days regularly. > > > > [ 3 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by > sprinkling > > a > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that particular > > > burner > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > I have thought long and hard about my situation, and it > > seems > > > > like the more I think about what I should do, the more confused > > I > > > > get. On the one hand, I have an intense fear of being alone > all > > > my > > > > life if I was to divorce him. Earlier in my life, I have been > > > > harshly let down in love and I have no confidence that any man > > > will > > > > want to marry me. On the other hand, he gives me so much > > > emotional > > > > pain in my day to day life. > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, how do I make the right decision? I have been > > trying > > > > to make that decision for a few years now, and I have not been > > > able > > > > to hear God's answer clearly. > > > > > > > > > > I asked my husband if he would be willing to do some > upayas, > > > and > > > > he said that he may consider doing some. Can you please > suggest > > > > some upayas that I can easily get him to do? I am going to > > visit > > > > him and my in-laws in a few days. Also, if there is anything I > > > can > > > > do regarding his attachment towards his mother, I would > > appreciate > > > > the advice. Perhaps if he will do the upayas, then something > > will > > > > change for the better. > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > Sveta > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > Dear Svetlana , > > > > > > > > > > " shukra aurat ho kismat maari,aag grahasti jalataa ho " > > > > > " lagan parayee aurat mandi, patang shukra ka banata ho " > > > > > " chalan nali ho jab gandi, jail-khana tak paata ho " > > > > > > > > > > -- will destroy the married life and the wife will have a > very > > > > > unlucky and destitute, if he goes after other woman he might > > > even > > > > be > > > > > jailed for it. > > > > > > > > > > So says the Lal Kitab for one of the combinations in your > > > > husband's > > > > > kundali. > > > > > > > > > > Your husband will not be willing to do any upaya therefore I > > do > > > > not > > > > > see much hope in this relationship.Therefore you have to > > decide > > > > for > > > > > yourself as to what you want to do. > > > > > > > > > > Now your queries : > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] No it is not your nature which has spoiled the > > > relationship. > > > > > [ 2 ] I do not think this marriage will survive. Yes, you > will > > > be > > > > > happy with any one provided you get the horoscopes matched > > > > properly. > > > > > [ 3 ] Your doing the upaya alone is not going to solve the > > > > problem. > > > > > Actually the upaya have to be done by him. As regards his > > > > attachment > > > > > to his mother, it is difficult to break it because he is very > > > > > aggressively attached to his mother. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your reply. > > > > > > > > > > > > With God's blessings, all the upayas have been completed > > last > > > > week. > > > > > > > > > > > > I have a lot of faith in your remedies as you have helped > my > > > > > sister. I have not yet seen any improvement in his attitude > > > after > > > > > the completion of the upayas. So, I don't know if it is > > helpful, > > > > but > > > > > I thought I would give the specific background of my > situation. > > > > > > > > > > > > In 2000, I had a broken engagement. The boy changed his > mind > > > > > suddenly and with no reason other than " I don't feel like > it " . > > > My > > > > > parents and I kept looking, and in 2001, I met a guy who I > > > started > > > > > dating (we were both in the US). He was reluctant to get > > > married, > > > > > but he finally agreed and we got married in August 2002. > There > > > > were > > > > > many obvious problems with his nature (he is overly attached > > to > > > > his > > > > > mother and has been spoiled by his parents as he is their > only > > > > child > > > > > and very smart). However, due to my bad experience of the > > broken > > > > > engagement before, my parents and I thought that we should > not > > > be > > > > > too picky, and hopefully he would improve after marriage. > > > > > Immediately after marriage, he got a job offer in a very cold > > > city > > > > > in Canada. I left a very high paying job and my family in the > > US > > > > so > > > > > we could both move there. When we got there, his nature > > started > > > > > getting worse instead of better. He wanted to continue living > > as > > > > if > > > > > he was still single. He did not meet with other women or > > > > > > anything, but he did not want to do anything as a couple > > like > > > > > keeping a nice house, going out together, or even having any > > > > > physical relations. My health deteriorated due to the extreme > > > > cold, > > > > > and because I was sad at not having any friends or job there. > > By > > > > > November 2003 I became very depressed and he asked me to > leave > > > and > > > > > go back to the US as he could not handle the stress of the > > > > > situation. I went back, and since then I have been visiting > > him > > > > > every 2/3 months in order to try and keep the relationship > > > intact, > > > > > but there is not effort or desire from his side. Last year, > he > > > was > > > > > really pushing for divorce, but I convinced him to give it > > > another > > > > > chance. > > > > > > > > > > > > My parents have always been very supportive, but it has > been > > a > > > > > very hard few years for us. My husband never visits me. All > > the > > > > > effort is from my side and I have now been living alone for 3 > > > > > years. My parents think I should get divorced, but I feel > > scared > > > > > that if I left him I would remain single all my life. > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, my questions are: > > > > > > 1.is it my nature that is causing these problems? My > husband > > > > says > > > > > I am over-sensitive and argumentative. > > > > > > 2. Do you think this marriage can survive and is there any > > > > > prospect of a happy married life for me with him or with > > anyone > > > > > else? > > > > > > 3. Will these upayas help in increasing his attachment to > > me? > > > > > Is there any way I can decrease the control by his mother? I > > do > > > > > love him still. > > > > > > > > > > > > His birth details are: > > > > > > DOB: January 31, 1974 > > > > > > Place of birth: Providence, Rhode Island, USA > > > > > > Time of birth: 7.35 a.m. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sorry for the detailed message, and thank you once again. > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards, > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud and not of > > > > gold. > > > > > > You can get it done on any day convenient to you. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you very much Priyaji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my nose > > > pierced. > > > > > > I did not do it at that time, but I was recently reminded > of > > > it > > > > > > because of another posting last week in your group. Would > > you > > > > > > advice that it is something I should get done? If yes, is > > > there > > > > > any > > > > > > particular auspicious day for that? Should it be done with > > > > silver > > > > > > or gold stud/ring? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Seeking your blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu kal > > doesn't > > > > > effect > > > > > > > the upaya. > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. > > > > > > > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest and let > > > him > > > > > > place > > > > > > > it before the deity. It is not necessary that only you > > place > > > > it > > > > > > > before the deity. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms > > last > > > > > > > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize that > > > the > > > > > time > > > > > > > when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it > > > > was " rahu > > > > > > > kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with > milk > > > and > > > > > > > butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, since > > > the > > > > > > > priests here are very particular about what you can leave > > in > > > > the > > > > > > > temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it in > > > > front > > > > > of > > > > > > > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the offering, > > > but > > > > > the > > > > > > > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious time and > > > > advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you > are > > > not > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > to have your periods. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and > > effort. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I > > had > > > > one > > > > > > more > > > > > > > > question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular > > > > visit > > > > > to > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going > > > > > > continuously? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the > > > sea. > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before > > offering. > > > > > Yes, > > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over > to > > > the > > > > > > > priest. > > > > > > > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our > > > concern. > > > > We > > > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > > it to the God in full faith. > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for > 5 > > > > days > > > > > > > > > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to > > the > > > > > same > > > > > > > > temple > > > > > > > > > is not neccessary. > > > > > > > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking > > > sound > > > > > when > > > > > > > > > shaken. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > > Shah > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > > > > > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or > > > does > > > > > it > > > > > > > have > > > > > > > > > to be in a river only? > > > > > > > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the > > > milk > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there > > any > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > diety I should offer it to? > > > > > > > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag > will > > > > most > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the > > day. > > > Is > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > okay? > > > > > > > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? > > > > > > > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal > > > looks > > > > > > like? > > > > > > > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut > that > > > > makes > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in > > a > > > > > change. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen > > pot. > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any > > > > temple > > > > > > for > > > > > > > 13 > > > > > > > > > > days regularly. > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along > > > with > > > > 4 > > > > > > > pieces > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is > > an > > > > act > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except > > for > > > > the > > > > > > > Sita > > > > > > > > > > Ashok > > > > > > > > > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I > > did > > > > the > > > > > > > > copper > > > > > > > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam > > > upayya > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > > September > > > > > > > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on > > the > > > > > > burners > > > > > > > > each > > > > > > > > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there > > something > > > > > > > terribly > > > > > > > > > > wrong > > > > > > > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? > > > Based > > > > > on > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my > > own > > > > > nature > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how > > > > weary > > > > > I > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it > > very > > > > odd > > > > > > but > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses > > > their > > > > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am > > suggesting > > > a > > > > > few > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read > the > > > > rules > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen > fire > > > by > > > > > > > > sprinkling > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use > that > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and > keep > > > it > > > > at > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > pooja > > > > > > > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One > > > with > > > > > > > drooping > > > > > > > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and > the > > > > other > > > > > > > which > > > > > > > > > > grows > > > > > > > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a > > > huge > > > > > > shady > > > > > > > > > tree > > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes > > on > > > a > > > > > > sunday > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with > > > > shell} > > > > > at > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back > > > home > > > > > from > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of > > those > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > > you. > > > > > > > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one > > > > should > > > > > > eat > > > > > > > or > > > > > > > > > > throw > > > > > > > > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for > > so > > > > many > > > > > > > years > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. > > > Things > > > > > have > > > > > > > > taken > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > turn > > > > > > > > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I > > need > > > > your > > > > > > > > advice > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th > November, > > > > 1973; > > > > > > > > 1.29pm; > > > > > > > > > > > Moga, > > > > > > > > > > > > Punjab. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? 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Guest guest Posted January 5, 2007 Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 Dear Sweta, [ 1 ] You are perfectly justified in thinking in terms of leading your own life. [ 2 ] The kundali of the gentleman matches very well. Both of you match 27 gunas and there is no dosh either. Sincerely, Priya , " svetlana.shah " <svetlana.shah wrote: > > > Dear Priyaji, > > Pranam. > > You were right, my husband is not taking any interest in doing the > upayas. > > Things are pretty bad between us and I have almost decided to get a > divorce. One guy who I have known for many years has approached my > family, saying that he will marry me if I get divorced soon. > a. Is is wrong for us to even consider this? > b. Would it be a good match? His birth details are as follows: > September 14th > 6.20 p.m. > Cheverly, Maryland, USA > c. Is there an indication of a second marriage in my horoscope and > when will that likely be? > > Regards, > Svetlana > > , " svetlana.shah " > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > Thank you so much for your time and counsel. I will do my best to > > try and make it work. > > > > God Bless You for your kindnesses to everyone in this group, and a > > very Happy New Year! > > > > Regards, > > Sweta > > , " " > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Svet, > > > > > > If you can make him do the upaya, then ask him to : > > > > > > [ 1 ] Get from his grand father / father a little curds { dahi } > as > > > a gift and let him offer this dahi at any temple. He could get > the > > > dahi from any elderly person who loves him like a father. > > > [ 2 ] Pour a few drops of cow urine onto the bare ground, every > day > > > for 43 days regularly. > > > [ 3 ] Keep in the South West corner of the house a handful of > Juar > > { > > > millets }in an iron bowl. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > Thank you for your suggestions. I had completed these upayas > > last > > > > month, per your suggestions in October/November. Would you > > > suggest > > > > that I do them again? > > > > > > > > In your last message of December 1, you had mentioned that you > > > > thought that my husband should also do some upayas. Can you > > > please > > > > suggest some for him to do that might enhance the effects of > my > > > > efforts? > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > , " " > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Sveta, > > > > > > > > > > I am suggesting a few more upaya as a last attempt to save > your > > > > > marriage. If these upaya do not bring about a change, then I > am > > > > > afraid I can't do any thing more. > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river/lake 9 mushrooms kept in an > earthen > > > pot. > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer at a temple 5 whole almonds { with shell } each > day > > > > for > > > > > 10 days regularly. > > > > > [ 3 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by > > sprinkling > > > a > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > particular > > > > burner > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > I have thought long and hard about my situation, and it > > > seems > > > > > like the more I think about what I should do, the more > confused > > > I > > > > > get. On the one hand, I have an intense fear of being alone > > all > > > > my > > > > > life if I was to divorce him. Earlier in my life, I have > been > > > > > harshly let down in love and I have no confidence that any > man > > > > will > > > > > want to marry me. On the other hand, he gives me so much > > > > emotional > > > > > pain in my day to day life. > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, how do I make the right decision? I have been > > > trying > > > > > to make that decision for a few years now, and I have not > been > > > > able > > > > > to hear God's answer clearly. > > > > > > > > > > > > I asked my husband if he would be willing to do some > > upayas, > > > > and > > > > > he said that he may consider doing some. Can you please > > suggest > > > > > some upayas that I can easily get him to do? I am going to > > > visit > > > > > him and my in-laws in a few days. Also, if there is > anything I > > > > can > > > > > do regarding his attachment towards his mother, I would > > > appreciate > > > > > the advice. Perhaps if he will do the upayas, then > something > > > will > > > > > change for the better. > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > Sveta > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Svetlana , > > > > > > > > > > > > " shukra aurat ho kismat maari,aag grahasti jalataa ho " > > > > > > " lagan parayee aurat mandi, patang shukra ka banata ho " > > > > > > " chalan nali ho jab gandi, jail-khana tak paata ho " > > > > > > > > > > > > -- will destroy the married life and the wife will have a > > very > > > > > > unlucky and destitute, if he goes after other woman he > might > > > > even > > > > > be > > > > > > jailed for it. > > > > > > > > > > > > So says the Lal Kitab for one of the combinations in your > > > > > husband's > > > > > > kundali. > > > > > > > > > > > > Your husband will not be willing to do any upaya therefore > I > > > do > > > > > not > > > > > > see much hope in this relationship.Therefore you have to > > > decide > > > > > for > > > > > > yourself as to what you want to do. > > > > > > > > > > > > Now your queries : > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] No it is not your nature which has spoiled the > > > > relationship. > > > > > > [ 2 ] I do not think this marriage will survive. Yes, you > > will > > > > be > > > > > > happy with any one provided you get the horoscopes matched > > > > > properly. > > > > > > [ 3 ] Your doing the upaya alone is not going to solve the > > > > > problem. > > > > > > Actually the upaya have to be done by him. As regards his > > > > > attachment > > > > > > to his mother, it is difficult to break it because he is > very > > > > > > aggressively attached to his mother. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your reply. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With God's blessings, all the upayas have been completed > > > last > > > > > week. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have a lot of faith in your remedies as you have > helped > > my > > > > > > sister. I have not yet seen any improvement in his > attitude > > > > after > > > > > > the completion of the upayas. So, I don't know if it is > > > helpful, > > > > > but > > > > > > I thought I would give the specific background of my > > situation. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In 2000, I had a broken engagement. The boy changed his > > mind > > > > > > suddenly and with no reason other than " I don't feel like > > it " . > > > > My > > > > > > parents and I kept looking, and in 2001, I met a guy who I > > > > started > > > > > > dating (we were both in the US). He was reluctant to get > > > > married, > > > > > > but he finally agreed and we got married in August 2002. > > There > > > > > were > > > > > > many obvious problems with his nature (he is overly > attached > > > to > > > > > his > > > > > > mother and has been spoiled by his parents as he is their > > only > > > > > child > > > > > > and very smart). However, due to my bad experience of the > > > broken > > > > > > engagement before, my parents and I thought that we should > > not > > > > be > > > > > > too picky, and hopefully he would improve after marriage. > > > > > > Immediately after marriage, he got a job offer in a very > cold > > > > city > > > > > > in Canada. I left a very high paying job and my family in > the > > > US > > > > > so > > > > > > we could both move there. When we got there, his nature > > > started > > > > > > getting worse instead of better. He wanted to continue > living > > > as > > > > > if > > > > > > he was still single. He did not meet with other women or > > > > > > > anything, but he did not want to do anything as a couple > > > like > > > > > > keeping a nice house, going out together, or even having > any > > > > > > physical relations. My health deteriorated due to the > extreme > > > > > cold, > > > > > > and because I was sad at not having any friends or job > there. > > > By > > > > > > November 2003 I became very depressed and he asked me to > > leave > > > > and > > > > > > go back to the US as he could not handle the stress of the > > > > > > situation. I went back, and since then I have been > visiting > > > him > > > > > > every 2/3 months in order to try and keep the relationship > > > > intact, > > > > > > but there is not effort or desire from his side. Last > year, > > he > > > > was > > > > > > really pushing for divorce, but I convinced him to give it > > > > another > > > > > > chance. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My parents have always been very supportive, but it has > > been > > > a > > > > > > very hard few years for us. My husband never visits me. > All > > > the > > > > > > effort is from my side and I have now been living alone > for 3 > > > > > > years. My parents think I should get divorced, but I feel > > > scared > > > > > > that if I left him I would remain single all my life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, my questions are: > > > > > > > 1.is it my nature that is causing these problems? My > > husband > > > > > says > > > > > > I am over-sensitive and argumentative. > > > > > > > 2. Do you think this marriage can survive and is there > any > > > > > > prospect of a happy married life for me with him or with > > > anyone > > > > > > else? > > > > > > > 3. Will these upayas help in increasing his attachment > to > > > me? > > > > > > Is there any way I can decrease the control by his mother? > I > > > do > > > > > > love him still. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > His birth details are: > > > > > > > DOB: January 31, 1974 > > > > > > > Place of birth: Providence, Rhode Island, USA > > > > > > > Time of birth: 7.35 a.m. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sorry for the detailed message, and thank you once > again. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards, > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud and not > of > > > > > gold. > > > > > > > You can get it done on any day convenient to you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you very much Priyaji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my nose > > > > pierced. > > > > > > > I did not do it at that time, but I was recently > reminded > > of > > > > it > > > > > > > because of another posting last week in your group. > Would > > > you > > > > > > > advice that it is something I should get done? If yes, > is > > > > there > > > > > > any > > > > > > > particular auspicious day for that? Should it be done > with > > > > > silver > > > > > > > or gold stud/ring? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Seeking your blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu kal > > > doesn't > > > > > > effect > > > > > > > > the upaya. > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest and > let > > > > him > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > it before the deity. It is not necessary that only you > > > place > > > > > it > > > > > > > > before the deity. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > Shah > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms > > > last > > > > > > > > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize > that > > > > the > > > > > > time > > > > > > > > when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it > > > > > was " rahu > > > > > > > > kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with > > milk > > > > and > > > > > > > > butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, > since > > > > the > > > > > > > > priests here are very particular about what you can > leave > > > in > > > > > the > > > > > > > > temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it > in > > > > > front > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the > offering, > > > > but > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious time > and > > > > > advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you > > are > > > > not > > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > > to have your periods. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > Shah > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and > > > effort. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, > I > > > had > > > > > one > > > > > > > more > > > > > > > > > question: If I get my period during the 13 days > regular > > > > > visit > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep > going > > > > > > > continuously? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in > the > > > > sea. > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before > > > offering. > > > > > > Yes, > > > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it > over > > to > > > > the > > > > > > > > priest. > > > > > > > > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our > > > > concern. > > > > > We > > > > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > > > it to the God in full faith. > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day > for > > 5 > > > > > days > > > > > > > > > > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going > to > > > the > > > > > > same > > > > > > > > > temple > > > > > > > > > > is not neccessary. > > > > > > > > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a > knocking > > > > sound > > > > > > when > > > > > > > > > > shaken. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > > > > > > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, > or > > > > does > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > have > > > > > > > > > > to be in a river only? > > > > > > > > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put > the > > > > milk > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is > there > > > any > > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > > diety I should offer it to? > > > > > > > > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag > > will > > > > > most > > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the > > > day. > > > > Is > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > okay? > > > > > > > > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? > > > > > > > > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja > nariyal > > > > looks > > > > > > > like? > > > > > > > > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut > > that > > > > > makes > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring > in > > > a > > > > > > change. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an > earthen > > > pot. > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at > any > > > > > temple > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > 13 > > > > > > > > > > > days regularly. > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal > along > > > > with > > > > > 4 > > > > > > > > pieces > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice > is > > > an > > > > > act > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested > except > > > for > > > > > the > > > > > > > > Sita > > > > > > > > > > > Ashok > > > > > > > > > > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. > I > > > did > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > copper > > > > > > > > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the > badam > > > > upayya > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > > > September > > > > > > > > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk > on > > > the > > > > > > > burners > > > > > > > > > each > > > > > > > > > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there > > > something > > > > > > > > terribly > > > > > > > > > > > wrong > > > > > > > > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy > life? > > > > Based > > > > > > on > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in > my > > > own > > > > > > nature > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just > how > > > > > weary > > > > > > I > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it > > > very > > > > > odd > > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly > loses > > > > their > > > > > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am > > > suggesting > > > > a > > > > > > few > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read > > the > > > > > rules > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen > > fire > > > > by > > > > > > > > > sprinkling > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use > > that > > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and > > keep > > > > it > > > > > at > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > pooja > > > > > > > > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. > One > > > > with > > > > > > > > drooping > > > > > > > > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and > > the > > > > > other > > > > > > > > which > > > > > > > > > > > grows > > > > > > > > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows > into a > > > > huge > > > > > > > shady > > > > > > > > > > tree > > > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper > snakes > > > on > > > > a > > > > > > > sunday > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds > with > > > > > shell} > > > > > > at > > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring > back > > > > home > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of > > > those > > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > > > you. > > > > > > > > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No > one > > > > > should > > > > > > > eat > > > > > > > > or > > > > > > > > > > > throw > > > > > > > > > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling > for > > > so > > > > > many > > > > > > > > years > > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. > > > > Things > > > > > > have > > > > > > > > > taken > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > turn > > > > > > > > > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I > > > need > > > > > your > > > > > > > > > advice > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th > > November, > > > > > 1973; > > > > > > > > > 1.29pm; > > > > > > > > > > > > Moga, > > > > > > > > > > > > > Punjab. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > > > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new > .com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? 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Guest guest Posted February 17, 2007 Report Share Posted February 17, 2007 Dear Priyaji, I hope you had a good break. Here in the US, they do not allow silver studs, especially for 1st timers, due to the potential risk for infaction. They recommend surgical steel instead. Would it still be useful for me to get a piercing with steel? I am having trouble sleeping for the last few years. I sleep for about 4-5 hours, and then I wake up early in the morning. I feel tired the whole day. I am sure this is linked to my emotional state, but it has become a sort of vicious cycle, because I cannot seem to be able to tackle my issues without a good night's sleep, and I caanot get a good night's sleep without tackling my issues. Please advise. Thank you. Best regards, Sveta < wrote: Dear Svetlana,Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud and not of gold. You can get it done on any day convenient to you.Sincerely,Priya , Svetlana Shah <svetlana.shah wrote:>> > Thank you very much Priyaji.> > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my nose pierced. I did not do it at that time, but I was recently reminded of it because of another posting last week in your group. Would you advice that it is something I should get done? If yes, is there any particular auspicious day for that? Should it be done with silver or gold stud/ring?> > Seeking your blessings.> > > < wrote:> Dear Svetlana,> > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu kal doesn't effect > the upaya.> [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya.> [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest and let him place > it before the deity. It is not necessary that only you place it > before the deity.> > Sincerely,> > Priya> > , Svetlana Shah > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> >> > > > Respected Priyaji,> > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms last > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize that the time > when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it was "rahu > kaal" time. Is that uppaya okay?> > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya.> > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with milk and > butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, since the > priests here are very particular about what you can leave in the > temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it in front of > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the offering, but the > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay?> > > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious time and advice.> > > > > > > > <@> wrote:> > Dear Svetlana,> > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you are not > likely > > to have your periods.> > > > Sincerely,> > > > Priya> > > > , Svetlana Shah > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > >> > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and effort.> > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I had one more > > question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular visit to > the > > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going continuously?> > > > > > With best regards.> > > > > > > > > <@> wrote:> > > Dear Svetlana,> > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the sea.> > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. Yes, > > place > > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to the > priest. > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our concern. We > > offered > > > it to the God in full faith.> > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 days > > > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the same > > temple > > > is not neccessary.> > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking sound when > > > shaken.> > > > > > Sincerely,> > > > > > Priya> > > > > > --- In , Svetlana Shah > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > > >> > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji,> > > > > > > > Thank you so much.> > > > > > > > I had a few questions:> > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does it > have > > > to be in a river only?> > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk and > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any > particular > > > diety I should offer it to?> > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will most > likely > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is that > > > okay?> > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day?> > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks like? > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that makes a > > > knocking sound when you shake it?)> > > > > > > > With best regards.> > > > > > > > <@> wrote:> > > > Dear Svetlana,> > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a change.> > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot.> > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple for > 13 > > > > days regularly.> > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 > pieces > > > of > > > > lead { a metal }.> > > > > > > > Sincerely,> > > > > > > > Priya> > > > > > > > , "svetlana.shah" > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > > > >> > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji,> > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act of > > > > > ultimate generosity to us.> > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the > Sita > > > > Ashok > > > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the > > copper > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya on > > > > September > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the burners > > each > > > > > night. My situation is much the same.> > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something > terribly > > > > wrong > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based on my > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own nature > > that > > > is > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary I am > > > with > > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd but > it > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their > > > attachment > > > > to > > > > > me.> > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings.> > > > > > > > > > Thank you.> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > *****************************************> > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana,> > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a few > upaya> > > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules of > > upaya> > > > > before doing them.> > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by > > sprinkling > > > a> > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > particular > > > > burner> > > > > till the next morning.> > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at the > > > pooja> > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with > drooping> > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other > which > > > > grows> > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge shady > > > tree > > > > is> > > > > known as Sita Ashok.> > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a sunday> > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at > any> > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from > the> > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered > > by > > > > you.> > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat > or > > > > throw> > > > > them away.> > > > > > > > > > Sincerely,> > > > > > > > > > Priya> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , "svetlana.shah"> > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote:> > > > > >> > > > > > Kindest Priyajee,> > > > > >> > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many > years > > > with> > > > > my> > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things have > > taken > > > a> > > > > turn> > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. I need your > > advice > > > to> > > > > > smoothen my love-life.> > > > > >> > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji.> > > > > >> > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th November, 1973; > > 1.29pm;> > > > > Moga,> > > > > > Punjab.> > > > > >> > > > > > Many thank-yous,> > > > > > Svetlana> > > > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new .com> > > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone > > call rates.> > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsored Link> > > > $420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/month - Think You Pay Too Much For > Your Mortgage? Find Out!> >> > > > > > > > Sponsored Link> > $420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/month - Think You Pay Too Much For Your Mortgage? Find Out!> Get your own web address. Have a HUGE year through Small Business. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2007 Report Share Posted February 17, 2007 Dear Sveta, [ 1 ] No. Steel ring is not allowed. In case you can not have a silver stud or silver wire for your piercing, you could use a white silk thread for it and later switch over to silver wire. [ 2 ] Get a small thaili { pouch } made of red cloth. Fill it with a handful of saunf { ani seed }. While going to bed for the night keep it under your pillow. You can use the same thaili every day. Also keep a little water under or by the side of your bed towards the head for the night. In the morning throw this water into a flowerpot etc and not a drain. Do not drink this water. Both these upaya will make you have a sound sleep at night. Sincerely, Priya , Svetlana Shah <svetlana.shah wrote: > > > Dear Priyaji, > > I hope you had a good break. > > Here in the US, they do not allow silver studs, especially for 1st timers, due to the potential risk for infaction. They recommend surgical steel instead. Would it still be useful for me to get a piercing with steel? > > I am having trouble sleeping for the last few years. I sleep for about 4-5 hours, and then I wake up early in the morning. I feel tired the whole day. I am sure this is linked to my emotional state, but it has become a sort of vicious cycle, because I cannot seem to be able to tackle my issues without a good night's sleep, and I caanot get a good night's sleep without tackling my issues. Please advise. > > Thank you. > Best regards, > Sveta > > < wrote: > Dear Svetlana, > > Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud and not of gold. > You can get it done on any day convenient to you. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > , Svetlana Shah > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > Thank you very much Priyaji. > > > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my nose pierced. > I did not do it at that time, but I was recently reminded of it > because of another posting last week in your group. Would you > advice that it is something I should get done? If yes, is there any > particular auspicious day for that? Should it be done with silver > or gold stud/ring? > > > > Seeking your blessings. > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu kal doesn't effect > > the upaya. > > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. > > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest and let him > place > > it before the deity. It is not necessary that only you place it > > before the deity. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, > > > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with mushrooms last > > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I realize that the time > > when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, it was " rahu > > kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead uppaya. > > > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple with milk and > > butter. On the first day when I went to the temple, since the > > priests here are very particular about what you can leave in the > > temple, the priest took the mixture from me and put it in front of > > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the offering, but the > > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that okay? > > > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious time and advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when you are not > > likely > > > to have your periods. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time and effort. > > > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas correctly, I had one > more > > > question: If I get my period during the 13 days regular visit to > > the > > > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep going > continuously? > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms in the sea. > > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before offering. Yes, > > > place > > > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it over to the > > priest. > > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of our concern. We > > > offered > > > > it to the God in full faith. > > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each day for 5 days > > > > regularly. You can go to different temples. Going to the same > > > temple > > > > is not neccessary. > > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a knocking sound when > > > > shaken. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the sea, or does it > > have > > > > to be in a river only? > > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I put the milk and > > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is there any > > particular > > > > diety I should offer it to? > > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the bag will most > > likely > > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of the day. Is > that > > > > okay? > > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? > > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja nariyal looks > like? > > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the coconut that makes a > > > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should bring in a change. > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an earthen pot. > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter at any temple > for > > 13 > > > > > days regularly. > > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal along with 4 > > pieces > > > > of > > > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your advice is an act > of > > > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested except for the > > Sita > > > > > Ashok > > > > > > root one, which I should be getting next week. I did the > > > copper > > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the badam upayya on > > > > > September > > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the milk on the > burners > > > each > > > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there something > > terribly > > > > > wrong > > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy life? Based on > my > > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect in my own nature > > > that > > > > is > > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe just how weary I > am > > > > with > > > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. It it very odd > but > > it > > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly loses their > > > > attachment > > > > > to > > > > > > me. > > > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am suggesting a few > > upaya > > > > > > which might help you. Go to the files and read the rules > of > > > upaya > > > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by > > > sprinkling > > > > a > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > > particular > > > > > burner > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root and keep it at > the > > > > pooja > > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok tree. One with > > drooping > > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, and the other > > which > > > > > grows > > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows into a huge > shady > > > > tree > > > > > is > > > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper snakes on a > sunday > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at > > any > > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from > > the > > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those > offered > > > by > > > > > you. > > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should > eat > > or > > > > > throw > > > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been struggling for so many > > years > > > > with > > > > > > my > > > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can help. Things have > > > taken > > > > a > > > > > > turn > > > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and me. 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