Guest guest Posted November 7, 2006 Report Share Posted November 7, 2006 Dear Seema, Do this upaya which might help in the conflict with your mother-in- law. Every day, for 13 days regularly, fill half a bowl with dahi { curds } and cover the dahi with a cotton cloth. Put a little ash over the cloth and press it gently so that it soaks up the water content of the dahi. Leave the bowl for the over night. In the morning, collect the ash in an earthen pot, while offer the dahi at any temple. At the end of the 13th day immerse the earthen pot along with the ash into a river or sea. The cloth you select, to cover the dahi with, should be porous enough to soak the water through. The ash should be preferably of `upale' {dung cake} or wood charcoal { kachcha koyala } so that it could soak up the water. Sincerely, Priya , " seemasharma2010 " <seemasharma2010 wrote: > > respected priya ji > namskar > > I am doing almost all the upayas you have told me earlier > but a sudden problem has come > i am married for last 6 years.it was a love marriage. but my mother > in law turned it into a bad marriage. she is very greedy and used to > stay with us. in 5 and a half years she tortured me mentally. as u > know i am already suffering from a mental disease her behaviour > increased my disease.y husband never used to say anything to her > mother although he always knew that his mother is wrong.we got > married on 6th december 2000 and on 28th april 2006 i had a big fight > with my mother in law. that day she abused me physically also. she > said all sorts of ill words to me. my husband still did not say > anything to her. then i took my 2 year old kid and left the home. > since my husband loves our son very much hence he came to bring both > of us back. after that my mother in law started staying in her > village. but my husband did not show any anger towards his mother > that why doid you do this to my wife. now after 6 months she is > coming back and my depression has started. she always created > problems between me and my husband. my relations with my mother in > law are so bad that i will never patch up with her till i am alive > not even in my next birth. my sister in law is also like her mother. > i dont know what thay have done to my husband that he does not say > anything to them. and he meets all their demands. both mother in law > and sister in law wantmoney money and money. what should i do i am > very tensed . how should i improve my relations with my husband as my > mother in law always tries to break it. even she wants to snatch my > baby from me. > my husband's birth details are > > 12 july,1974 > delhi > 8 pm > and my birth details is > > 16 april 1975 > kangra(hp) > 8 pm > we got married on 6 dec, 2000 > pls tell me upayas so that my relations with my husband improve. i > am doing that buner extinguish wala upaya.eating honey upaya, eating > neem leaf.wearing ashtdhatu kara.kept haldi in silver dibbi. > > thank u so much > seema > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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