Problem with M I L seema sharma

[Guest guest]

Dear Seema,

 

Be on your own. You do not have to take any body's word, including

mine, as final as far as your life is concerned.

 

I appreciate your honesty in being strait forward about your

relations with your Mother-in-Law { M I L}. I can accept that some

of us become a bit unreasonable at our age { 60 + }, but then slight

affection from you could make all the difference.

 

I know you do not like your M I L , but a small gift to her now and

then would make a lot of difference in your relationship. The winter

is approaching, how about gifting her a nice warm and cozy shawl

just to break the ice.

 

If you believe that the miscarriage was due to her curse, think how

much upset she would have been to curse you.I can imagine how pained

your mother-in-law would have been to curse her own unborn

grandchild.

 

Seema, just be considerate to your mother-in-law. Old people need

emotional support from the younger people, even if they are

financially sound.

 

You are such a sweet lady. May God bless you.

 

Affectionately,

 

Bhooshan

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

, " seemasharma2010 "

<seemasharma2010 wrote:

>

> namskar guru ji

>

> Lots of thanks for ur quick reply always.i take ur words as final

in my

> life since the time i have started ur upayas.

>

> guru ji

>

> I want to tell u something.I have already shared it with u before.

as u

> know my mother in law and i live separately because of a very bad

fight

> between us. she said that day that the son u are carrying in ur

lap

> will throw u out of ur house. and her words always torture me.

will

> that be true. u can check from my horoscope that i can not hurt

> anybody. but yes i said ill words to my mother in law in response

to

> her ill words on the day we had a big fight. wo mujhe shraap dekar

gayi

> hain ki tere saath sab bura hi hoga. i had a miscarriage last

month and

> i find it as a result of her shraap. what should i do. i dont

want to

> see her face. how can i respect her. i dont want to and cant touch

her

> feet.is this my manda karam.

>

> i can respect anybody in the world except my mother in law.i hope

u

> will understand

>

> thank u so much . May god give u good health and long long life.

meri

> umar bhi aap ko lag jaaye.

> charanvandana

> seema

>