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I have been seeing a man since 04/08. I love him and he says he loves me. We've

been experiencing problems lately, because I feel he is being deliberately

distant. When I ask him what is going on, he tells me that nothing is wrong and

that he loves me. We haven't been spending any quality time together lately, and

when we get together, he is unnattentive. He refuses to talk about it, and says

everything is fine with him, even though I tell him it doesn't feel that way to

me. He dislikes ultimatums, but I gave him one today. To choose to make things

right with us, or say Good-Bye. He says if he is given an ultimatum, he will

always make the simplist choice, " because it's easier that way " . I told him this

was important to me, but he has chosen to give me no response. I feel this is

the same as choosing " Good-Bye " . Was I wrong to do this? Does he really love me,

and I've been too impatient and misunderstanding of how things are between us? I

just feel so unappreciated, because he never shows me in black and white, that

he really loves me. My heart is broken………. where do I go from here? I will

include our birth data if that will help give me direction. Thank you so much

for your time and help…..Denise

 

Denise … 04/24/63 … 8:13 pm … Phillipsburg, NJ (Warren Cty)

Andres … 10/29/66 … 9:15 pm … Flushing, NY (Queens)