Praise, Appreciation, Acknowledgement

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I say "amen" to the last para of your mail. But then there are those people with very low self esteem and self confidence or perhaps egoistic who expect to be "appreciated" () for every little thing they do.....I am sure, you have come across some of that tribe in your life.Regards, Anita--- On Thu, 22/10/09, Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish wrote:Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish Praise, Appreciation, Acknowledgement Date: Thursday, 22 October, 2009, 4:20 AM

 

 

 

Dear friends,

 

At times "Praise, Appreciation, Acknowledgement" are good and

encouraging but for every mail one sends, this does not seem proper as

response. Many matters are understood with silence, and so can love and

devotion too.

 

I remember Lord Rama daily. The name of the Lord is the truth all will

agree. Translated in Hindi, this is spoken as "Ram Nama Satya Hai". But

try speaking this aloud 4 times in India where a marriage of a young

couple is held, and one would be thrown out of the marriage hall after a

good beating. That poor fellow was beaten for taking Gods name ? No, he

was beaten for uttering Gods name at a wrong place and time. That was no

time for uttering that Gods name is the Truth. Not that it was not

understood by all, the marriage party already knows that Gods name is

the truth. they need not be reminded of the same.

 

The 4th house when running its dasha will not give all results of the

4th house to the native. Will it ? Unless Mars is present, land will not

come, unless Moon is not present Mother will not figure in results,

unless Venus is not present a Car will not come to the native, unless

Mercury is not present good marks in maths will not come, etc. Will

every native with the 4th house dasha running get all benefits as above

? No. So one has to observe and then deduce.

 

Silence at time is Golden and giving peace and content, and at times is

deafening. When wife is shouting loudly a husband who can manage to just

keep his mouth shut with a smile, knowing well that this is a daily

affairm fr him the silence is peaceful and content giving. The same

husband when in the evening he visits the railway crossing at the

outskirts of the village, all alone in his car and waiting at the

crossing, and lights go off due to pwer cut, no sound of even a needle

fall in the atmoshphere, and not able to see even ones own palm in pitch

darkness, the sound of the silence would be deafening... ...

 

Praise, appreciations at times can be real, at times sarcastic, at times

a formality, and at times a diplomatic measure too..and at times also be

due to chamchagiri. .

 

best wishes,

 

Bhaskar.

 

 

 

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Anita Ji,

I think post had different target, kanhi pe nigahe kanhi pe nishana.

 

You are absolutely right in your idea bt there seems a set of ids, may be known

for long, they praise each other so loudly and some times without a substantial

cause, they ignore where some body needs improvement or some other membere was

more correct.

 

Bt, why to bother such things, going forward familiarity wd increase and so is

understanding.

 

Regards,

Utkal.

, Anita R <ash.rsh55 wrote:

>

> I say " amen " to the last para of your mail. But then there are those people

with very low self esteem and self confidence or perhaps egoistic who expect to

be " appreciated " () for every little thing they do.....I am sure, you have come

across some of that tribe in your life.

> Regards,

> Anita