Troubled life

[Guest guest]

Respected Sir,

 

My name is Preeti. I got married in Feb 2003, and came to USA. After

that I have not seen happiness even for a single day. I have thought

of

divorce several times, but, as advised by elders of my family they

ask

me to adjust with my husband. He shouts at me, makes me do house-hold

work like a maid, he has zero sympathy for me.

 

I am very well qualified and from a good family. I these 2.5 years, I

have tried all possible things to make my life better, like I care

for

him, I cook for him, almost everything which he likes.Unfortunate

part

is, he is overly good with his parents and sister. He sends them

money/gifts regularly. But, on me he is ready to spend a single

penny.

Seems like he is under some Jaadu-Tona.

 

Money/gifts is the least of my problems. But, there should be basic

understanding between husband-wife, which we do not have at all.

 

I plan to take strong (file for divorce)step after 2 months when we

go

to India.

 

Query: Can someone please tell if divorce is written in my destiny or

not. Why is it that God is so annoyed with me..?Why doesn't my

husband

treat me as a wife?

 

My name: Preeti

POB: Hoshiarpur (Lati:31.32 N, Longi: 75.57 E)

Date/Time of bith: April 28, 1979 / 10:04 pm (Raatri)

 

My husband's details:

Place of birth: Nangal (district Ropar, Punjab)

Date of birth: August 15, 1974

Time of birth: 3:35 pm

 

Sincere regards,

Preeti

[Guest guest]

I don't see any yoga for such hatred by husband. Neither I see so much of trouble. Nor I see any divorce. So I suspect the accuracy of the time of birth provided by you.

 

In Lal Kitab Venus+Mars+Mercury is not regarded good for marriage and child birth but I don't think that it can create such a big problem. The animosity among the planet in 5-10 and 6-10 may be another reason but as I am not sure, so I am not able to suggest any remedy. Hope other Senior members can help me in solving this puzzle and helping you.

 

Thanks & Regards,

 

Punit Pandey

On 9/8/05, preetipta <preetipta wrote:

Respected Sir,My name is Preeti. I got married in Feb 2003, and came to USA. Afterthat I have not seen happiness even for a single day. I have thought

ofdivorce several times, but, as advised by elders of my family theyaskme to adjust with my husband. He shouts at me, makes me do house-holdwork like a maid, he has zero sympathy for me.I am very well qualified and from a good family. I these 2.5 years, Ihave tried all possible things to make my life better, like I careforhim, I cook for him, almost everything which he likes.Unfortunatepartis, he is overly good with his parents and sister. He sends them

money/gifts regularly. But, on me he is ready to spend a singlepenny.Seems like he is under some Jaadu-Tona.Money/gifts is the least of my problems. But, there should be basicunderstanding between husband-wife, which we do not have at all.

I plan to take strong (file for divorce)step after 2 months when wegoto India.Query: Can someone please tell if divorce is written in my destiny ornot. Why is it that God is so annoyed with me..?Why doesn't my

husbandtreat me as a wife?My name: PreetiPOB: Hoshiarpur (Lati:31.32 N, Longi: 75.57 E)Date/Time of bith: April 28, 1979 / 10:04 pm (Raatri)My husband's details:Place of birth: Nangal (district Ropar, Punjab)

Date of birth: August 15, 1974Time of birth: 3:35 pmSincere regards,Preeti

[Guest guest]

Details such as Date of Birth etc are correct for sure.

 

There are more problems like, I am allowed to meet my parents/siblings when we go to India. I am not allowed to talk to them on phone regularly. Reason given by my husband and inlaws is, after marriage, a girl is not supposed to mingle with her people. It is always son's responsiblity to take care of his parents. And, I my case, my brother is very young, he is just in Class 11th.

This kind of isolation leaves me with pain.

Rather than going for divorce directly, my parents plan to sit with my in-laws first and get some clarity on their behavior.

 

Regards,

Preeti

Punit Pandey <punitp wrote:

 

I don't see any yoga for such hatred by husband. Neither I see so much of trouble. Nor I see any divorce. So I suspect the accuracy of the time of birth provided by you.

 

In Lal Kitab Venus+Mars+Mercury is not regarded good for marriage and child birth but I don't think that it can create such a big problem. The animosity among the planet in 5-10 and 6-10 may be another reason but as I am not sure, so I am not able to suggest any remedy. Hope other Senior members can help me in solving this puzzle and helping you.

 

Thanks & Regards,

 

Punit Pandey

On 9/8/05, preetipta <preetipta wrote: Respected Sir,My name is Preeti. I got married in Feb 2003, and came to USA. Afterthat I have not seen happiness even for a single day. I have thought ofdivorce several times, but, as advised by elders of my family theyaskme to adjust with my husband. He shouts at me, makes me do house-holdwork like a maid, he has zero sympathy for me.I am very well qualified and from a good family. I these 2.5 years, Ihave tried all possible things to make my life better, like I careforhim, I cook for him, almost everything which he likes.Unfortunatepartis, he is overly good with his parents and sister. He sends them money/gifts regularly. But, on me he is ready to spend a singlepenny.Seems like he is under some Jaadu-Tona.Money/gifts is the least of my problems. But, there should be basicunderstanding

between husband-wife, which we do not have at all. I plan to take strong (file for divorce)step after 2 months when wegoto India.Query: Can someone please tell if divorce is written in my destiny ornot. Why is it that God is so annoyed with me..?Why doesn't my husbandtreat me as a wife?My name: PreetiPOB: Hoshiarpur (Lati:31.32 N, Longi: 75.57 E)Date/Time of bith: April 28, 1979 / 10:04 pm (Raatri)My husband's details:Place of birth: Nangal (district Ropar, Punjab) Date of birth: August 15, 1974Time of birth: 3:35 pmSincere regards,Preeti

[Guest guest]

--- PREETI GUPTA <preetipta wrote:

 

> you have make your husband,to love u so i am give a

small tip one good day u write the names of u r

husband and u

on a paper and bury between two graves

 

 

 

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[Guest guest]

Preeti Ji,

In your chart four planets (Venus,Sun,Moon and Jupiter) are

exalted.Your chart is very good in many aspects but here I am

concentrating only on problem area in brief.

(1)Most unfortunate yoga in your chart is Rahu- Saturn conjunction.In

astrology this is called Shapit Yoga,Tamas Yoga etc.Generally this

yoga creates such type of problems,and fructifies during Rahu,Saturn

dasha,antardasha.Currently you are running through Rahu dasha.Note

that same yoga(Rahu+Saturn) was present at the time of your marriage.

(2) Upapada Lagna (UL)says about spouse here in your chart UL is leo

(10th house).UL is occupied by Rahu and Saturn,and UL lord Sun is

placed in 6th house.That is not good for happy married life.

(3) Arudha Lagna(AL) is cancer (9th house).So relation between AL:UL

is 2:12.Which is causing friction in family.

(4) Saturn from 10th house and enemy sign leo aspects 12th house

(house of bed pleasure)and 7th house (house of

marriage,spouse) .Which is not good for marital smooth sailing.

Longevity of married life is seen from 8th of UL,Which is occupied by

Mercury,Mars and exlated Venus,and lord of this house is Jupiter

which is exalted in 9th house.Jupiter is also kalatra karak in your

chart.Jupiter has got sufficient strength in shadbal.Again 7th house

is occupied by exalted Moon which is 9th lord,and 7th lord Venus is

exalted and placed in 5th house.In your husband's chart 7th house

is

aspected by Jupiter.So this marriage will not break.

Currently you are running through Rahu dasha and Mercury antardasha

(till 8th Nov 2005).Mercury has highest percentage of Kashta fal in

your chart(Ishtafal 6.26,Kashtafal 36.37).After 8th Nov 2005 Ketu

antardasha will start that will give you good relief.Currently all

major transits (Sat,Rahu,Jup)are favourable Sat in 3rd,Rahu in

11th,and Jup in 5th from natal moon.But on 29th sept ,this year

Jupiter will change sign.Jup will be running through 6th from your

natal moon.That will create tension,enemity.

To resolve all the problems amicably do the following,the things will

change in positive direction miraculously.

*Read Pawman Sukta daily.(Pawman Sukta is described in Pappilad

Samhita of Atharvaved)

*Observe fast on UL days i.e Sundays,and recite Aditya Hridaya Stotra

daily.

*Worship Lord Vishnu and chant OM NAMO NAARAAYANAAYA 108 times daily.

You have decided to move for strong step after two months,but if you

will perform those things will full devotion then there will be no

need for such extreme step.

In this mean time patience,tolerance and little give and take policy

would definitely help.

 

With Best Wishes & Regards

Ajay

 

 

 

lalkitab , " preetipta " <preetipta> wrote:

> Respected Sir,

>

> My name is Preeti. I got married in Feb 2003, and came to USA.

After

> that I have not seen happiness even for a single day. I have thought

> of

> divorce several times, but, as advised by elders of my family they

> ask

> me to adjust with my husband. He shouts at me, makes me do house-

hold

> work like a maid, he has zero sympathy for me.

>

> I am very well qualified and from a good family. I these 2.5 years,

I

> have tried all possible things to make my life better, like I care

> for

> him, I cook for him, almost everything which he likes.Unfortunate

> part

> is, he is overly good with his parents and sister. He sends them

> money/gifts regularly. But, on me he is ready to spend a single

> penny.

> Seems like he is under some Jaadu-Tona.

>

> Money/gifts is the least of my problems. But, there should be basic

> understanding between husband-wife, which we do not have at all.

>

> I plan to take strong (file for divorce)step after 2 months when we

> go

> to India.

>

> Query: Can someone please tell if divorce is written in my destiny

or

> not. Why is it that God is so annoyed with me..?Why doesn't my

> husband

> treat me as a wife?

>

> My name: Preeti

> POB: Hoshiarpur (Lati:31.32 N, Longi: 75.57 E)

> Date/Time of bith: April 28, 1979 / 10:04 pm (Raatri)

>

> My husband's details:

> Place of birth: Nangal (district Ropar, Punjab)

> Date of birth: August 15, 1974

> Time of birth: 3:35 pm

>

> Sincere regards,

> Preeti

[Guest guest]

Respected Sh Ajayji, Jagdishji, Rajeshji, Haroonji, Punitji

I am sincerely thankful to all you for trying to help me at the time

of need.

I have started some remedies like feeding birds. May be something

good is written for me..

Regards,

Preeti

 

lalkitab , " devoteeofganesh "

<devoteeofganesh> wrote:

> Preeti Ji,

> In your chart four planets (Venus,Sun,Moon and Jupiter) are

> exalted.Your chart is very good in many aspects but here I am

> concentrating only on problem area in brief.

> (1)Most unfortunate yoga in your chart is Rahu- Saturn

conjunction.In

> astrology this is called Shapit Yoga,Tamas Yoga etc.Generally this

> yoga creates such type of problems,and fructifies during

Rahu,Saturn

> dasha,antardasha.Currently you are running through Rahu dasha.Note

> that same yoga(Rahu+Saturn) was present at the time of your

marriage.

> (2) Upapada Lagna (UL)says about spouse here in your chart UL is

leo

> (10th house).UL is occupied by Rahu and Saturn,and UL lord Sun is

> placed in 6th house.That is not good for happy married life.

> (3) Arudha Lagna(AL) is cancer (9th house).So relation between

AL:UL

> is 2:12.Which is causing friction in family.

> (4) Saturn from 10th house and enemy sign leo aspects 12th house

> (house of bed pleasure)and 7th house (house of

> marriage,spouse) .Which is not good for marital smooth sailing.

> Longevity of married life is seen from 8th of UL,Which is occupied

by

> Mercury,Mars and exlated Venus,and lord of this house is Jupiter

> which is exalted in 9th house.Jupiter is also kalatra karak in your

> chart.Jupiter has got sufficient strength in shadbal.Again 7th

house

> is occupied by exalted Moon which is 9th lord,and 7th lord Venus is

> exalted and placed in 5th house.In your husband's chart 7th house

> is

> aspected by Jupiter.So this marriage will not break.

> Currently you are running through Rahu dasha and Mercury antardasha

> (till 8th Nov 2005).Mercury has highest percentage of Kashta fal in

> your chart(Ishtafal 6.26,Kashtafal 36.37).After 8th Nov 2005 Ketu

> antardasha will start that will give you good relief.Currently all

> major transits (Sat,Rahu,Jup)are favourable Sat in 3rd,Rahu in

> 11th,and Jup in 5th from natal moon.But on 29th sept ,this year

> Jupiter will change sign.Jup will be running through 6th from your

> natal moon.That will create tension,enemity.

> To resolve all the problems amicably do the following,the things

will

> change in positive direction miraculously.

> *Read Pawman Sukta daily.(Pawman Sukta is described in Pappilad

> Samhita of Atharvaved)

> *Observe fast on UL days i.e Sundays,and recite Aditya Hridaya

Stotra

> daily.

> *Worship Lord Vishnu and chant OM NAMO NAARAAYANAAYA 108 times

daily.

> You have decided to move for strong step after two months,but if

you

> will perform those things will full devotion then there will be no

> need for such extreme step.

> In this mean time patience,tolerance and little give and take

policy

> would definitely help.

>

> With Best Wishes & Regards

> Ajay

>

>

>

> lalkitab , " preetipta " <preetipta> wrote:

> > Respected Sir,

> >

> > My name is Preeti. I got married in Feb 2003, and came to USA.

> After

> > that I have not seen happiness even for a single day. I have

thought

> > of

> > divorce several times, but, as advised by elders of my family they

> > ask

> > me to adjust with my husband. He shouts at me, makes me do house-

> hold

> > work like a maid, he has zero sympathy for me.

> >

> > I am very well qualified and from a good family. I these 2.5

years,

> I

> > have tried all possible things to make my life better, like I care

> > for

> > him, I cook for him, almost everything which he likes.Unfortunate

> > part

> > is, he is overly good with his parents and sister. He sends them

> > money/gifts regularly. But, on me he is ready to spend a single

> > penny.

> > Seems like he is under some Jaadu-Tona.

> >

> > Money/gifts is the least of my problems. But, there should be

basic

> > understanding between husband-wife, which we do not have at all.

> >

> > I plan to take strong (file for divorce)step after 2 months when

we

> > go

> > to India.

> >

> > Query: Can someone please tell if divorce is written in my

destiny

> or

> > not. Why is it that God is so annoyed with me..?Why doesn't my

> > husband

> > treat me as a wife?

> >

> > My name: Preeti

> > POB: Hoshiarpur (Lati:31.32 N, Longi: 75.57 E)

> > Date/Time of bith: April 28, 1979 / 10:04 pm (Raatri)

> >

> > My husband's details:

> > Place of birth: Nangal (district Ropar, Punjab)

> > Date of birth: August 15, 1974

> > Time of birth: 3:35 pm

> >

> > Sincere regards,

> > Preeti