Sleekhaji. please help. suicidal situation

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I've been following the advice you've given to a lot of members.

Could you

please guide me so that I may also be able to sort out some of my

problems. My

details are as follows:

D.O.B: 23 Dec 1972

T.O.B : 02:45 AM

P.O.B : New Delhi

 

Husband's details:

D.O.B : 3 Sep 1970

T.O.B : 05:50 PM

P.O.B : LUCKNOW

 

My questions are:

1. it is a second marriage for both of us. a love marriage. i had an

affair with

my husband before he married his 1st wife for 5 years (1990-1995)

but we could

not get married then. We got married on 3 feb 2004. I found out in

2005 that he

has not yet divorced his 1st wife. Now he spends alternate days in

both houses.

I know he is not physical with his 1st wife but he cannot bring

himself to leave

his children. neither can he leave me. I don't want to divorce him

either.

Kindly suggest how I can have a normal married life where he stays

with me

everyday and I do not have to share him. I know this is selfish on

my part but I

donot know what to do. I'm almost suicidal but I cannot leave him.

 

2. We have been trying to concieve for 2 years now without success.

Medically

both of us are fit. Somebody told me my Saturn is in 8th house, so I

cannot have

children. Please advice.

 

Your suggestions in the above matter shall be highly appreciated and

religiously

adhered to.

Thanks a million.

Regards

Ruchi Sharma