Guest guest Posted February 18, 2010 Report Share Posted February 18, 2010 please give your own birth details and please confirm i) is there was any miscarriage in first 3 years of marriage. ii) is any of your bua or mausi are or were suffering from joint pains of headache problems. iii) is any memeber of your family not married since long. iv) do u follow any local guru v) have your family has given some land to some society. or some land dispute is going on; regards, leekha lalkitab , D S <didjns wrote: > > Respected Members, > > Ever since our childhood my brother and I have seen my parents fighting . > > My parents had a love marrage 36 yrs back .They are 1st cousins ( my mother's mother and my father's mother were sisters ) .Ever since they got married they are not happy . Just 20 days after her marriage , her father had paralysis and so she decided to keep silent and bear the hardships in her marriage . My mother is going through mental & physical torturer every day of her life since marriage .. > > My mother is a very simple lady and has taken care of the family since last 36 years as a devoted housewife and never complained of anything.She has also taken care of her old ailing mother in law till her end.Now she is taking care of my father's younger brother who is bed ridden with paralysis . BUT IN SPITE OF ALL HER KINDNESS , HARD WORK , NON COMPLAINING NATURE ,MY FATHER REMAINS UNKIND TO HER & ABUSES / CURSES HER DAILY AND HITS HER TIME AND AGAIN . > > AT THIS AGE SHE IS NOT KEEPING GOOD HEALTH . ON MANY OCCASSIONS WE HAVE FOUGHT WITH OUR FATHER BUT HE REFUSES TO UNDERSTAND AND CHANGE HIS BEHAVIOUR. HE ALSO HATES EVERYONE IN MY MOTHER'S FAMILY IN SPITE OF THE FACT THAT THEY ARE ALL SIMPLE GOD FEARING PEOPLE AND THEY DON'T INTERFERE IN HIS AFFAIRS .. > > MY MOTHER IS NOT ALLOWED TO VISIT OR SPEAK TO HER BROTHERS , SISTERS OR MOTHER .. > > WE ARE AT A LOSS AND WANT TO KNOW IF ANYTHING CAN BE DONE TO MAKE MY FATHER CHANGE HIS ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR TOWARDS MY MOTHER. > > My MOTHER'S d.o.b. is 14.06.1945 > Time : 5.13 p.m. > Place : ANEKAL ( NEAR BANGALORE ) 12° 42' 0 " N / 77° 42' 0 " E > > My FATHER'S d.o.b. is 16.02.1945 > Time : 9:40 am ( war time ) > Place : SURAT 20° 58' 0 " N / 72° 54' 0 " E > > DUE TO THIS NATURE OF MY FATHER , MY BROTHER , WHO IS NOW 33 YEARS OLD ALSO REFUSES TO MARRY , AS NO GIRL CAN ADJUST OR TOLERATE SUCH AN ATMOSPHERE AT HOME .. > > However I would also like to mention that as a father , he was very protective and has inculcated values and simplicity in me and my brother and always kept us under his protection as an ideal father.IT IS ONLY THAT HE HAS FAILED TOTALLY AS A HUSBAND . > > I SHALL BE VERY OBLIGED IF THE LEARNED MEMBERS IN THE FORUM CAN PLEASE ANALYSE AND SUGGEST A WAY OUT . > > KIND REGARDS, > > JEHAN > > > > Your Mail works best with the New Optimized IE8. Get it NOW! http://downloads./in/internetexplorer/ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2010 Report Share Posted February 18, 2010 is your mother is still keeping cloth which were used at the time of her marriage and since then these cloths are not used or may not be used more then four times since then lalkitab , D S <didjns wrote: > > Respected Members, > > Ever since our childhood my brother and I have seen my parents fighting . > > My parents had a love marrage 36 yrs back .They are 1st cousins ( my mother's mother and my father's mother were sisters ) .Ever since they got married they are not happy . Just 20 days after her marriage , her father had paralysis and so she decided to keep silent and bear the hardships in her marriage . My mother is going through mental & physical torturer every day of her life since marriage .. > > My mother is a very simple lady and has taken care of the family since last 36 years as a devoted housewife and never complained of anything.She has also taken care of her old ailing mother in law till her end.Now she is taking care of my father's younger brother who is bed ridden with paralysis . BUT IN SPITE OF ALL HER KINDNESS , HARD WORK , NON COMPLAINING NATURE ,MY FATHER REMAINS UNKIND TO HER & ABUSES / CURSES HER DAILY AND HITS HER TIME AND AGAIN . > > AT THIS AGE SHE IS NOT KEEPING GOOD HEALTH . ON MANY OCCASSIONS WE HAVE FOUGHT WITH OUR FATHER BUT HE REFUSES TO UNDERSTAND AND CHANGE HIS BEHAVIOUR. HE ALSO HATES EVERYONE IN MY MOTHER'S FAMILY IN SPITE OF THE FACT THAT THEY ARE ALL SIMPLE GOD FEARING PEOPLE AND THEY DON'T INTERFERE IN HIS AFFAIRS .. > > MY MOTHER IS NOT ALLOWED TO VISIT OR SPEAK TO HER BROTHERS , SISTERS OR MOTHER .. > > WE ARE AT A LOSS AND WANT TO KNOW IF ANYTHING CAN BE DONE TO MAKE MY FATHER CHANGE HIS ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR TOWARDS MY MOTHER. > > My MOTHER'S d.o.b. is 14.06.1945 > Time : 5.13 p.m. > Place : ANEKAL ( NEAR BANGALORE ) 12° 42' 0 " N / 77° 42' 0 " E > > My FATHER'S d.o.b. is 16.02.1945 > Time : 9:40 am ( war time ) > Place : SURAT 20° 58' 0 " N / 72° 54' 0 " E > > DUE TO THIS NATURE OF MY FATHER , MY BROTHER , WHO IS NOW 33 YEARS OLD ALSO REFUSES TO MARRY , AS NO GIRL CAN ADJUST OR TOLERATE SUCH AN ATMOSPHERE AT HOME .. > > However I would also like to mention that as a father , he was very protective and has inculcated values and simplicity in me and my brother and always kept us under his protection as an ideal father.IT IS ONLY THAT HE HAS FAILED TOTALLY AS A HUSBAND . > > I SHALL BE VERY OBLIGED IF THE LEARNED MEMBERS IN THE FORUM CAN PLEASE ANALYSE AND SUGGEST A WAY OUT . > > KIND REGARDS, > > JEHAN > > > > Your Mail works best with the New Optimized IE8. Get it NOW! http://downloads./in/internetexplorer/ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 19, 2010 Report Share Posted February 19, 2010 Respected Leekaji, PLEASE NOTE MY REPLY AS UNDER : please give your own birth details , JEHAN , 29.08.1974 ( self )Time : 06:20 a.m. MUMBAI FIRDOUS , 24.03.1976 ( younger brother ) Time : 03:07 a.m. MUMBAI and please confirmi) is there was any miscarriage in first 3 years of marriage. NO. ii) is any of your bua or mausi are or were suffering from joint pains of headache problems. YES , both Bua and Mausi iii) is any memeber of your family not married since long.YES....my mama ( mother's younger brother ) & also my brother FIRDOUS iv) do u follow any local guru.... only Shirdi Sai Baba ...no living guru v) have your family has given some land to some society. or some land dispute is going on YES ...land given to a local doctor years back and also land disputes vi) is your mother is still keeping cloth which were used at the time of her marriage and since then these cloths are not used or may not be used more then four times since then YES , her marriage saree etc.HOPE THE INFO IS USEFUL TO YOU TO ANALYSE & HELP HER OUT OF THE PROBLEMS. regards, JEHAN regards,leekha--- On Thu, 18/2/10, sleekhas <sleekhas wrote: sleekhas <sleekhas[lalkitab] Re: Sincerely request help for my mother-jehanlalkitab Date: Thursday, 18 February, 2010, 10:15 AM please give your own birth detailsand please confirmi) is there was any miscarriage in first 3 years of marriage.ii) is any of your bua or mausi are or were suffering from joint pains of headache problems.iii) is any memeber of your family not married since long.iv) do u follow any local guruv) have your family has given some land to some society. or some land dispute is going on;regards,leekhalalkitab , D S <didjns wrote:>> Respected Members,> > Ever since our childhood my brother and I have seen my parents fighting .> > My parents had a love marrage 36 yrs back .They are 1st cousins ( my mother's mother and my father's mother were sisters ) .Ever since they got married they are not happy . Just 20 days after her marriage , her father had paralysis and so she decided to keep silent and bear the hardships in her marriage . My mother is going through mental & physical torturer every day of her life since marriage .> > My mother is a very simple lady and has taken care of the family since last 36 years as a devoted housewife and never complained of anything.She has also taken care of her old ailing mother in law till her end.Now she is taking care of my father's younger brother who is bed ridden with paralysis . BUT IN SPITE OF ALL HER KINDNESS , HARD WORK , NON COMPLAINING NATURE ,MY FATHER REMAINS UNKIND TO HER & ABUSES / CURSES HER DAILY AND HITS HER TIME AND AGAIN .> > AT THIS AGE SHE IS NOT KEEPING GOOD HEALTH . ON MANY OCCASSIONS WE HAVE FOUGHT WITH OUR FATHER BUT HE REFUSES TO UNDERSTAND AND CHANGE HIS BEHAVIOUR. HE ALSO HATES EVERYONE IN MY MOTHER'S FAMILY IN SPITE OF THE FACT THAT THEY ARE ALL SIMPLE GOD FEARING PEOPLE AND THEY DON'T INTERFERE IN HIS AFFAIRS ..> > MY MOTHER IS NOT ALLOWED TO VISIT OR SPEAK TO HER BROTHERS , SISTERS OR MOTHER .> > WE ARE AT A LOSS AND WANT TO KNOW IF ANYTHING CAN BE DONE TO MAKE MY FATHER CHANGE HIS ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR TOWARDS MY MOTHER.> > My MOTHER'S d.o.b. is 14.06.1945> Time : 5.13 p.m.> Place : ANEKAL ( NEAR BANGALORE ) 12° 42' 0" N / 77° 42' 0" E> > My FATHER'S d.o.b. is 16.02.1945> Time : 9:40 am ( war time )> Place : SURAT 20° 58' 0" N / 72° 54' 0" E> > DUE TO THIS NATURE OF MY FATHER , MY BROTHER , WHO IS NOW 33 YEARS OLD ALSO REFUSES TO MARRY , AS NO GIRL CAN ADJUST OR TOLERATE SUCH AN ATMOSPHERE AT HOME .> > However I would also like to mention that as a father , he was very protective and has inculcated values and simplicity in me and my brother and always kept us under his protection as an ideal father.IT IS ONLY THAT HE HAS FAILED TOTALLY AS A HUSBAND .> > I SHALL BE VERY OBLIGED IF THE LEARNED MEMBERS IN THE FORUM CAN PLEASE ANALYSE AND SUGGEST A WAY OUT .> > KIND REGARDS,> > JEHAN > > > > Your Mail works best with the New Optimized IE8. Get it NOW! http://downloads./in/internetexplorer/>---<*> Free Lal Kitab Software and Resources: http://www.astrosage.com/lalkitab/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2010 Report Share Posted February 28, 2010 dear jehan, Please note down the remedies for you i) keep one silver elephant (toy) (minimum 50gm) with its trunk upward in your house. this elephant should be kept on wooden platform and it should face your main room's entrance.(overall prospertiy for whole family) ii) keep four rattis (this is one kind of seed red and black, in oldertimes people used to weigh gold with this) in yellow colour's cloth in your house (any where in house). (will take care of hurdles and will clear the path of incomeflow) iii) give khoya (it is used for making burfi-sweet) in temple/gurudwara/church, 50 gms every monday. (do it for atleast 4 mondays). (health for all) iv) give roti + gur (jaggery) to cow (one chappat + small piece of jaggery) sometimes. (growth) v) one kg rice to be immersed in river/sea for 4 continious days. (1kg rice x 4 days). (peace of mind and brother's marriage) vi) offer milk to sun (subey surya ko doodh arpit karey jaisey log panni kertey hai) (carrer) THERE MUST BE SOME MAGNIFYING GLASS IN YOUR HOUSE PLEASE CONFIRM. regards, leekha lalkitab , D S <didjns wrote: > > Respected Leekaji, > > PLEASE NOTE MY REPLY AS UNDER : > > please give your own birth details , > > JEHAN , 29.08.1974 ( self ) > Time : 06:20 a.m. > MUMBAI > > FIRDOUS , 24.03.1976 ( younger brother ) > Time : 03:07 a.m. > MUMBAI > > and please confirm > > i) is there was any miscarriage in first 3 years of marriage. NO. > > ii) is any of your bua or mausi are or were suffering from joint pains of headache problems. YES , both Bua and Mausi > > iii) is any memeber of your family not married since long.YES....my mama ( mother's younger brother ) & also my brother FIRDOUS > > iv) do u follow any local guru.... only Shirdi Sai Baba ...no living guru > > v) have your family has given some land to some society. or some land dispute is going on YES ...land given to a local doctor years back and also land disputes > > vi) is your mother is still keeping cloth which were used at the time of her marriage and since then these cloths are not used or may not be used more then four times since then YES , her marriage saree etc. > > HOPE THE INFO IS USEFUL TO YOU TO ANALYSE & HELP HER OUT OF THE PROBLEMS. > > regards, > > JEHAN > > regards, > leekha > > > --- On Thu, 18/2/10, sleekhas <sleekhas wrote: > > > sleekhas <sleekhas > [lalkitab] Re: Sincerely request help for my mother-jehan > lalkitab > Thursday, 18 February, 2010, 10:15 AM > > > please give your own birth details > > and please confirm > > i) is there was any miscarriage in first 3 years of marriage. > ii) is any of your bua or mausi are or were suffering from joint pains of headache problems. > iii) is any memeber of your family not married since long. > iv) do u follow any local guru > v) have your family has given some land to some society. or some land dispute is going on; > > > > regards, > leekha > > lalkitab , D S <didjns@> wrote: > > > > Respected Members, > > > > Ever since our childhood my brother and I have seen my parents fighting . > > > > My parents had a love marrage 36 yrs back .They are 1st cousins ( my mother's mother and my father's mother were sisters ) .Ever since they got married they are not happy . Just 20 days after her marriage , her father had paralysis and so she decided to keep silent and bear the hardships in her marriage . My mother is going through mental & physical torturer every day of her life since marriage . > > > > My mother is a very simple lady and has taken care of the family since last 36 years as a devoted housewife and never complained of anything.She has also taken care of her old ailing mother in law till her end.Now she is taking care of my father's younger brother who is bed ridden with paralysis . BUT IN SPITE OF ALL HER KINDNESS , HARD WORK , NON COMPLAINING NATURE ,MY FATHER REMAINS UNKIND TO HER & ABUSES / CURSES HER DAILY AND HITS HER TIME AND AGAIN . > > > > AT THIS AGE SHE IS NOT KEEPING GOOD HEALTH . ON MANY OCCASSIONS WE HAVE FOUGHT WITH OUR FATHER BUT HE REFUSES TO UNDERSTAND AND CHANGE HIS BEHAVIOUR. HE ALSO HATES EVERYONE IN MY MOTHER'S FAMILY IN SPITE OF THE FACT THAT THEY ARE ALL SIMPLE GOD FEARING PEOPLE AND THEY DON'T INTERFERE IN HIS AFFAIRS .. > > > > MY MOTHER IS NOT ALLOWED TO VISIT OR SPEAK TO HER BROTHERS , SISTERS OR MOTHER . > > > > WE ARE AT A LOSS AND WANT TO KNOW IF ANYTHING CAN BE DONE TO MAKE MY FATHER CHANGE HIS ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR TOWARDS MY MOTHER. > > > > My MOTHER'S d.o.b. is 14.06.1945 > > Time : 5.13 p.m. > > Place : ANEKAL ( NEAR BANGALORE ) 12° 42' 0 " N / 77° 42' 0 " E > > > > My FATHER'S d.o.b. is 16.02.1945 > > Time : 9:40 am ( war time ) > > Place : SURAT 20° 58' 0 " N / 72° 54' 0 " E > > > > DUE TO THIS NATURE OF MY FATHER , MY BROTHER , WHO IS NOW 33 YEARS OLD ALSO REFUSES TO MARRY , AS NO GIRL CAN ADJUST OR TOLERATE SUCH AN ATMOSPHERE AT HOME .. > > > > However I would also like to mention that as a father , he was very protective and has inculcated values and simplicity in me and my brother and always kept us under his protection as an ideal father.IT IS ONLY THAT HE HAS FAILED TOTALLY AS A HUSBAND . > > > > I SHALL BE VERY OBLIGED IF THE LEARNED MEMBERS IN THE FORUM CAN PLEASE ANALYSE AND SUGGEST A WAY OUT . > > > > KIND REGARDS, > > > > JEHAN > > > > > > > > Your Mail works best with the New Optimized IE8. 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