Guest guest Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 MODERATION IS NOT THE ONLY SOLUTION Moderation is good, but has its minus points too. How would you like if the mails we post, land on The Forum, the next day or day after ? I find this problem on many forums where our posts do not find its way to the List for next 2-3 days. The moderator has to read the posts before they are approved, and this takes time, and he can only do this when he is free. THEN HOW DO WE SOLVE THE CURRENT PROBLEM OF ABUSE ? Whenever a member is abused, necessarily or unnecessarily,with cause or without cause, with provocation or without provocation , at such times, all the other members should join hands together and rebuke the abuser. They should not stay mum, because then the abuser would get more strong to continue. And members like Bhaskar whom one does not like due to professional jealousy or otherwise, and want him to be removed ,can always be asked to leave, or he himself would leave once he feels that no more men remain in the assembly and the rest make him sad by their constant digs at him. I request all the members that just as you would all face a robber when he comes to your house to commit robbery, and you would not run away from your house taking the few family members willing to come with you, in the same way do not run from this Forum to newer pastures, for no where else can you get satisfaction or happiness by running or moving away,One cannot get satisfaction or happiness by running away and making new homes, happiness and contentment has to come from within and not without. Sorry for the pravachans, and dear members if you do not wish me here, its okay, I will stop writing, but at least allow me to be here, and dont ask me to quit. regards, Bhaskar. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 , " Bhaskar " <bhaskar_jyotish wrote: > > MODERATION IS NOT THE ONLY SOLUTION > > Moderation is good, but has its minus points too. > How would you like if the mails we post, > land on The Forum, the next day or day after ? > I find this problem on many forums > where our posts do not find its way to the > List for next 2-3 days. > The moderator has to read the posts > before they are approved, and this takes time, > and he can only do this when he is free. > > THEN HOW DO WE SOLVE THE CURRENT > PROBLEM OF ABUSE ? > > Whenever a member is abused, necessarily or > unnecessarily,with cause or without cause, with > provocation or without provocation , at such > times, all the other members should join hands > together and rebuke the abuser. They should not > stay mum, because then the abuser would get more > strong to continue. And members like Bhaskar whom > one does not like due to professional jealousy or > otherwise, and want him to be removed ,can always > be asked to leave, or he himself would leave once > he feels that no more men remain in the assembly > and the rest make him sad by their constant > digs at him. > > I request all the members that just as you would > all face a robber when he comes to your house to > commit robbery, and you would not run away from > your house taking the few family members > willing to come with you, in the same way > do not run from this Forum to newer pastures, for > no where else can you get satisfaction or happiness > by running or moving away,One cannot get satisfaction > or happiness by running away and making new homes, > happiness and contentment has to come from within > and not without. > > Sorry for the pravachans, and dear members if you > do not wish me here, its okay, I will stop > writing, but at least allow me to be here, > and dont ask me to quit. > > regards, > Bhaskar. > Dear Bhaskar you are right about defending self from abusive people who attack you. Ahimsa meaning that we do not perform meaningless violence, but when someone attack us, our duty is that we must defend ourselves and is necessary attack that person.But sometimes we can return attack with many way and manner,for example, with practical knowledge etc. Be strong, because your knowledge is precious and blessing for someone who learn Jyotish, from people who poses real, practical knowledge and not theoretical knowledge. regards, ashwini Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 , " Bhaskar " <bhaskar_jyotish wrote: > > MODERATION IS NOT THE ONLY SOLUTION > > Moderation is good, but has its minus points too. > How would you like if the mails we post, > land on The Forum, the next day or day after ? > I find this problem on many forums > where our posts do not find its way to the > List for next 2-3 days. > The moderator has to read the posts > before they are approved, and this takes time, > and he can only do this when he is free. > > THEN HOW DO WE SOLVE THE CURRENT > PROBLEM OF ABUSE ? > > Whenever a member is abused, necessarily or > unnecessarily,with cause or without cause, with > provocation or without provocation , at such > times, all the other members should join hands > together and rebuke the abuser. They should not > stay mum, because then the abuser would get more > strong to continue. And members like Bhaskar whom > one does not like due to professional jealousy or > otherwise, and want him to be removed ,can always > be asked to leave, or he himself would leave once > he feels that no more men remain in the assembly > and the rest make him sad by their constant > digs at him. > > I request all the members that just as you would > all face a robber when he comes to your house to > commit robbery, and you would not run away from > your house taking the few family members > willing to come with you, in the same way > do not run from this Forum to newer pastures, for > no where else can you get satisfaction or happiness > by running or moving away,One cannot get satisfaction > or happiness by running away and making new homes, > happiness and contentment has to come from within > and not without. > > Sorry for the pravachans, and dear members if you > do not wish me here, its okay, I will stop > writing, but at least allow me to be here, > and dont ask me to quit. > > regards, > Bhaskar. > Dear Bhaskar you are right about defending self from abusive people who attack you. Ahimsa meaning that we do not perform meaningless violence, but when someone attack us, our duty is that we must defend ourselves and is necessary attack that person.But sometimes we can return attack with many way and manner,for example, with practical knowledge etc. Be strong, because your knowledge is precious and blessing for someone who learn Jyotish, from people who poses real, practical knowledge and not theoretical knowledge. regards, ashwini Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 Dear Ashwiniji, Thank you for your opinion in this mail and the previous one too, At least there are few people who do not entirely look at my retorts to abusers as entirely wrong. Believe me, I do not to returning abuse for abuse, but some people do not understand any other language. Sitting on a astrologers seat, I would never like to defile it with indecent language or such usage of any words, but in this world, one is forced to do many such acts,which he would not otherwise do willingly. Anyway ..along the way of Life, we have to meet and deal with all sorts of people of different types of characteristics. We have to be ready for all sorts, without defiling our inner self. To be a like a Lotus among.... or like a rose with thorns. best wishes, Bhaskar. > Dear Bhaskar you are right about defending self from abusive people > who attack you. > > Ahimsa meaning that we do not perform meaningless violence, but when > someone attack us, our duty is that we must defend ourselves and is > necessary attack that person.But sometimes we can return attack with > many way and manner,for example, with practical knowledge etc. > Be strong, because your knowledge is precious and blessing for someone > who learn Jyotish, from people who poses real, practical knowledge and > not theoretical knowledge. > > > regards, > ashwini > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 , " Bhaskar " <bhaskar_jyotish wrote: > > Dear Ashwiniji, > > Thank you for your opinion in this mail and the > previous one too, At least there are few people > who do not entirely look at my retorts to abusers > as entirely wrong. > Believe me, I do not to returning abuse > for abuse, but some people do not understand any > other language. > Sitting on a astrologers seat, I would never like > to defile it with indecent language or such usage > of any words, but in this world, one is forced to > do many such acts,which he would not otherwise do > willingly. > Anyway ..along the way of Life, we have to meet and > deal with all sorts of people of different types > of characteristics. We have to be ready for all > sorts, without defiling our inner self. > To be a like a Lotus among.... or like a rose with > thorns. > > best wishes, > Bhaskar. > > > > > Dear Bhaskar you are right about defending self from abusive people > > who attack you. > > > > Ahimsa meaning that we do not perform meaningless violence, but when > > someone attack us, our duty is that we must defend ourselves and is > > necessary attack that person.But sometimes we can return attack with > > many way and manner,for example, with practical knowledge etc. > > Be strong, because your knowledge is precious and blessing for someone > > who learn Jyotish, from people who poses real, practical knowledge and > > not theoretical knowledge. > > > > > > regards, > > ashwini > > > I understand you perfectly. Well, you now how to fight with that people, if you don't have any other solution I wish to you only the best. regards, ashwini Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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