Guest guest Posted March 11, 2005 Report Share Posted March 11, 2005 Hi Mark, Very facinating,exactly that's what I do as you said,Let his leave own life.I will tell you one incident, while he was going for a first time in flight,I was with him to drop him to airport.while we set in car,I asked him did you visited temple today,He said " No " .So as soon as our car reached near to our temple as it was coming in route,I stopped it and than told him to visit and he didn't argue about it at all " While other's time he does get irritated with my thoughts and authority,but I don't mind it,As he know he has to do it,as I have told him so. While we were kids or about incident 2 years ago,we use to fight a lot,may be Mars and Saturn effect were to much,But after reading your whole years Moon transit and meeting with Guruji,I have learned when to hit sixer.Most of time I am successful and he is learning a Spiritualism a lot from me,So he know he has to do what ever I asked.Let see what future holds for us,whentwo more charts I have relate it to our's two.I am prepared for that. Thanks for Analysis.I know he is more materialistic than Spiritual.Also all the time tensed. I have seen people having Sat + Mars in 12th house are happeir working in night shift,rather than Day shift.They are more healthier and energetic and not at all frustrated.As he is working currently in night shift and I was able to make out a diference b/w his previous Day shift Job,which was hectic,While with this ine he is comfortable. --- Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid wrote: > Dear Shripal: > > See below: > > Shripal <d_shripal > Spirituality_Astrology > Mon, 7 Mar 2005 21:36:11 -0800 (PST) > > [spirituality_Astrology] 8# 2-Mark, re Q > How to dissolve the > confusion or tension of malefic planets? > Mark > Kincaid 3/7 > > > Hi Mark, > > I am eldest in a house and having only one brother, > who is just a 2 years younger to me and also a Libra > rising with Sun exalted in 7th house,He is telecom > engg, as I am Electx Engg.Small family,but happy > family.Can you comment about my future relationship > with my brother. > > I find understanding relations between people, via. > their astrology charts, > is one of the most, fascinating aspects of Jyotish. > > Like the transits, at some point I realized one > could 'feel' that > interaction, and the 2 charts, helps emmensely > understand why some > interactions are sweet and others, miserable.... > > .Can you comment about my future relationship > with my brother. > > you ask.... I'll just say, the future is up to the > 2 of you. > > I tell people who want to improve their > relationship, to focus on improving > themselves. > > I also tell people to understand what 'they're' > bringing to the > relationship, so we stop blaming the 'other' for our > malefics. > > That is probably the greatest challenge in > relationships, is we blame each > other,... > and to this regard, Jyotish is very helpful because > it shows so clearly what > strength and what maleficness, we're each > bringing... > > Therefore, we each can strive to improve ourselves, > and as we do > this,...we'll enjoy better, relations in the > future... > > > How can we see from a chart,as I am having 5 > Mama's(Mother's Brothers) and 4 Mashi's(Mother's > sisters).Three Uncle's and One Aunt. > > When we spent a lot time with someone or talk with > someone for a long,isn't planets in those peoples > chart influences us some how.If they are in Bad > aspect > to our Bad planets than our chances of getting Bad > in > future in more and if there good planets are > influencing us than getting better prospect in > future > in our like. > > You're right. We do experience and are influenced > by the collection of > planets of others. > > And yes, you're right we will be affected positively > or not, by others... > > I think that's why Mother's are always so concerned > with the quality of the > friends, we hang out with, hehhe. > > > People interaction has a lot influences in our chart > isn't it.For Example When a persom stays with > friends > a lot,than planet of his friends chart is triggering > some planets in your chart, that might be good for > you > or may be bad too.How much that factor effect's > one's > Life. > > I'd say the extent to which you allow it to bother > you. > > Nature will show you. If it's a balanced amount of > friendship and all the > other areas of your life, personal needs, family > concerns, work, romantic > interests, don't get neglected due to this > predominance of 'friends' > karma... > > then everything can be okay. > > But with you, and your chart, looking at the 10th > house, it's very possible > you'll have the experience of challenges with > friendships... > > So it's healthy that you warn yourself, to not get > too consumed with that > one area, only. > > > Are you getting want I am trying to say, it is > similar to the way we are talking through mails,your > some quoted points change my life,as i start > accepting > it and similar for you for someone.It can be for > better and for worst both, that will be decided in > future. > > I think I do, understand. > > So inter-relationship planets influence each other > as > positive and negative both ways.I want to know is it > a > fate, a karma, can be seen in your chart or a free > will.So synastry effects are how much and under what > conditions they eract each other. > > Fate & free will are such a fascinating aspect of > life, and Astrology. > > Our charts are indicative, too, of both. > > The qualities, and dasa and transiting, 'karmas' > that are coming,...even our > nature, to a great extent are all indicative of the > pre-determined, quality > of life that we chose, coming here. > > However, free will is the opportunity for growth in > our present and future. > > I think of fate as bills that are coming. > > They're coming. We know that. But, we're free > right now, to either prepare > adequately for their coming or not. > > For ex. if one of our bills is a $ 100.00/debit, and > we know it's coming > this month, on the 21st?, yet, we're still free to > ignore it, or get ready > for it. > > We can kind of ignore it, and when it lands, be not > too surprised at the > grief it brings because we only have 200$ in our > account. > > But, if we know it's coming, and we strive to have > 'more' in our accounts, > say 500, 600 or even 700, then that bill comes but > it's impact is not so > great. > > Like that, all our 'bills', even emotionally > exchausting one's will have > their effects, but we still have the free will to > prepare better. > > Since I've learned this, I've turned around the > negative influences of the > Moon being aggravated by malefics and even New Moon. > Resting more, > enlivening the positive sides of Moon, has allowed > me to grow in Moonish > strength, and the negatives upon the Moon, don't > affect me nearly as badly > as before. > > That one exper. alone has convinced me of this > important, practical utility > of Astrology. > > > > For example me and my brother.He did Engg as I > started > it and he got influenced by that and he also did a > same.For someone father is a doctor so son also > wants > to be a same.Sometimes it is opposite too.Can you > give > some general statements about a synastry b/w me and > my > brother.Birth data as follows. > > You and your brother, are fascinating charts to look > at. > > Both have Libra rising, which makes for a smooth > interaction. > > I have Libra rising friends, and we get along > famously because of that > similarity, between our two charts. > > Your brother, however, has this exalted Sun, which > can be positive, but > being in the 7th house, can be associated with an > intense selfishness. > Sometimes, people with Sun in 7th, want to rule > others. So, he needs to > understand that he's a good example for others, and > not to rule over > them.... Any of this ring true? > > His other biggest challenge, perhaps, is his Mars & > Saturn in the 12th > house. These 2 planets are very difficult in the > 12th, and Mars carrys > their negative glance back into the 7th house, and > that's why Mars is > considered kuja dosa as a result. > > Also, Mars & Saturn are in Virgo, so the individual > has to watch not to be > tooooo critical on himself and especially others.... > > Please be careful and don't say these things to him, > unless he asks or is > open too it. > > This is just for your benefit/question. > > I'd rather be talking to him personally, because if > he was really interested > in these things, then, the Wisdom of it, could > really mean something... > > Otherwise, please keep my opinions, confidential.... > thank you. > > > > Name:Shripal's Brother > DOB:15th April 1982 > Time:20:00hrs (Libra rising) > Place:Rajkot > > Myself: > DOB:16th March 1980 > Time:21:00 hrs.(Libra rising) > Place:Rajkot > > > enjoy... > > Sincerely, > > > Mark Kincaid > > > ps.... Though you're meant to bring some wisdom to > your brother, because of > your Jupiter, fully aspecting the 3rd house of > younger brothers and > sisters.... and this can be a very positive > experience because Jupiter's > aspecting its own home,... but...also, it can be > complicated... > because SAturn & Mars' influences can come along > too... > > So, be careful that you don't bring any heaviness, > Mars anger, or Saturn > grief to him. > > Especially because of his chart, your gifts of > wisdom, should be appreciated > and sought out by him, to you. > > Otherwise, just pray for him,....and let him live > his own life... > > Strong Sun people like your brother have to do 'it', > life, in their own > way,... till they get tired of it, and then they > ask....and become more > humble... > > Know what I mean...? > > > > > --- Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid wrote: > > > Hi Mark, > > > > Talking to you is always a grace and betterment > for > > one's understanding about life. > > > > Dear Shripal: > > > > See below: > > > > Shripal <d_shripal > > AyurvedJyotishYoga > > Sun, 6 Mar 2005 22:11:01 -0800 (PST) > > Spirituality_Astrology > > [AyurvedJyotishYoga] Re: 2-MARK, Q How to > > dissolve the confusion or > > tension of malefic planets and Are we getting > > influenced > > > > > > > > " Love is the beauty of the soul " " For it was not into > my ear you whispered, > but into my heart.It was not my lips you kissed, but > my soul. 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