Vedic Remedy to resolve relationship with mom

[Guest guest]

My mother is a retired psychiatric nurse, and has been a breast

cancer survivor for over 25 years. She's had four surgeries; all on

the right side of her body. My father died in February 4, 1992. She

waited for what she felt was the appropriate mourning period and

started dating a man a year later. They have a supportive

relationship, and have now been together for 14 years. They are not

married, and will not get married because of it complicating their

finances. In spite of having many friends and an active social life –

volunteering, church choir, sports activities – she is very lonely and

wants to be with me all the time. I do the best I can, but her

loneliness is insatiable, and she is so negative that she is

exhausting a stressful to be with. She is very devout in her

religious beliefs which are different than mine, and she refuses to

accept that and continually tries to force her beliefs upon me no

matter how many times I explain how I feel. She tries to be well

intentioned, but over the years has become increasingly insecure,

paranoid and delusional. She thinks the worst about members of her own

family, although my brother and sisters and I have grown up to be high

functioning respected adults.

My mother is getting older – 78 next month, and I would like a

vedic remedy to help me resolve my relationship with her.

I was born in Suffern NY at 10:20 AM on May 28, 1962.

Thank you kindly!

[Guest guest]

Dear,

 

One technique I have heard in a spiritual radio station. is as following.

 

Sit down in your home for meditation.

When you are calm. Imagine to have a connection from you to your mother (such as umbilical cord) and in your imagination cut that cord. Release her or yourself from that connection.

 

Do this, it will be effective. But there is a reason to what you are going through. Reason below.

 

I looked at your chart + D12 (Dwadasamsa), in D12, the Karaka Moon is 1H (means your head) it might be burdening to you. I see that you MO is cursed from your previous life. So looks like you need to take care of her. Even though she might be doing as you say in the email.

 

 

You will have to go through, but to reduce the strain you are going through, the Mo is in Pisces, and the Lord is Jupiter, So you will have to chant, Brihaspati mantra. Or if you of some other religion, get a mantra in regards to a GURU/TEACHER. And that will alleviate the strain.

 

 

Hope this helps.

 

Anand

On 5/1/07, evieaeeh45 <Evie36e wrote:

 

 

 

 

 

My mother is a retired psychiatric nurse, and has been a breastcancer survivor for over 25 years. She's had four surgeries; all onthe right side of her body. My father died in February 4, 1992. Shewaited for what she felt was the appropriate mourning period and

started dating a man a year later. They have a supportiverelationship, and have now been together for 14 years. They are notmarried, and will not get married because of it complicating theirfinances. In spite of having many friends and an active social life –

volunteering, church choir, sports activities – she is very lonely andwants to be with me all the time. I do the best I can, but herloneliness is insatiable, and she is so negative that she isexhausting a stressful to be with. She is very devout in her

religious beliefs which are different than mine, and she refuses toaccept that and continually tries to force her beliefs upon me nomatter how many times I explain how I feel. She tries to be wellintentioned, but over the years has become increasingly insecure,

paranoid and delusional. She thinks the worst about members of her ownfamily, although my brother and sisters and I have grown up to be highfunctioning respected adults.My mother is getting older – 78 next month, and I would like a

vedic remedy to help me resolve my relationship with her.I was born in Suffern NY at 10:20 AM on May 28, 1962.Thank you kindly! -- ThanksAnand Srivatsa

[Guest guest]

Hello-

 

We see that you might feel like you have karma to be there for your Mom. You are

doing the right thing by helping her. The problem is that this is a

time in your life that makes it the problem feel excruciating. A good mantra

will

help your mind be stronger and happier and improve your relationship with her on

the

emotional level and in the long run. Singing and music will give you much

strength.

You could do charity by donating time or money towards preserving waterways- eg.

oceans, lakes or rivers. Or you could donate a cattle to an impoverished

village.

 

Blessings,

 

R/J