Why this always happens to me- Need help

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AUM SRI GURUVE NAMAH

Dear Jyotish members and Gurudev!

 

I am very sorry to sending personal request. I generally don't wish to do

that. But now I really need some help...

 

Now our placement process is going on and I have appeared in atleast 5-6

interviews... All of them seemed to be good but, I don't know why I am unable

to make through... I am trying hard not to get depressed and maintain my

mental balance... but now it is getting out of control. When I see all of my

friends are getting selected, and I am left behind, it is very difficult to

swallow the failures. Among the 40 odd candidates to be placed now, I am among

the last five left.. I don't know where is the problem. All these interviews

seemed too be alright and I feel that I will get selected, but the results

show the opposite.

 

Day by day I am getting depressed and now I am finding very hard to keep

myself out of it. Please judge my chart and check what is happening. Please, I

am in a distress situation which I cannot share with with others, here in

campus. I hope you would take up the matter seriously and soon.

 

Moreover this is not happening for the first time, there had been more

failures than successess in my life... Why this is so.. Why I am passing

through so much of failures... Will I be facing life like this through out ?

 

My birth data:

25 august 1974; 2:26:27 PM IST; 85E21; 23N22; +5:30E

 

Looking forward for your reply soon...

 

Pranaam to all of you

Sarajit

 

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AUM SRI GURUVE NAMAH

Dear Solai,

 

Thank you very much for those words of encouragement. You are right that the

failures and success can not be judged in such a short time frame. What may

seemed to be failure can become a success in the long run.

 

But though I know all these, it is very difficult to implement these knowledge

in real life. I am trying and will do it with gurudev's blessing.

 

Thanks a lot

Sarajit

 

 

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OHM SHRI RAGAVENDRAYA NAMAH

JAYA JAGANNATHA

 

Namaste Sarajit,

 

Learned Gurus can answer you on Jyotish aspect. As we are in same field, I

will give some suggestion.

 

First of all, to me no one will have more failure than me. So, how can you

think that you are having only failures. As far as placement is concerned, I

am MBA, being the Gold medallist in all the first 3 semesters, I was the

first one to get a job, 6 months before the completion of the course. All

other students envied. But, that is the biggest mistake, I did. Now, who are

all did not had good marks and who are all didn't get through the placement

are in far better position than me. Because, in placement, your scope and

opportunity is limited to the placement companies. Whereas, in the open

market, the opportunity is unlimited and wide spectrum. So, my advice is

that it is better that you are not selected. There is a Golden opportunity

waiting for you outside. Further, a success or failure has to be measured in

a period of 4 or 5 years. Not at a particular moment. This is not a failure.

You perceive that it is a failure. It is a maya that not getting a placement

is failure. Moreover, once you come to the field, you will see, whoever is

below you and less qualified, will by pass you and reach a position, for

which he is not qualified or not deserved. You must be prepared to accept

such things. The practical field in management is not what we study or

perceive in Institutions.

 

I mentioned that I had a lot of failures. Those failures helped me to get

balanced. It taught me, What is TRUTH and what is MAYA? So, the two

advantages of failure are 1. it will definitely compensates with better one.

2. It moulds us in a balanced way of life. It is TRUE THAT WITHOUT THESE

FAILURES, I AM NOT A SATWIK PERSON.

 

I learn small small things from others, even from my 3 year old son.

ENDURANCE IN FAILURE, I learnt from Mr. M.Karunanithi, the Chief Minister of

Tamil Nadu. I can go like this. To finish it. The only way to replace

depression, is fill it with something else. Keep engage yourself with some

very hard work, which you planned to do for a long time. A REAL MENTAL WORK.

 

I hope you will be alright. A very small note from your brother.

 

Thanks

Solai Kannan

 

Sarajit Poddar [sarajit]

Wednesday, November 08, 2000 3:22 PM

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[sri Guru] Why this always happens to me- Need help

 

 

AUM SRI GURUVE NAMAH

Dear Jyotish members and Gurudev!

 

I am very sorry to sending personal request. I generally don't wish to do

that. But now I really need some help...

 

Now our placement process is going on and I have appeared in atleast 5-6

interviews... All of them seemed to be good but, I don't know why I am

unable

to make through... I am trying hard not to get depressed and maintain my

mental balance... but now it is getting out of control. When I see all of

my

friends are getting selected, and I am left behind, it is very difficult

to

swallow the failures. Among the 40 odd candidates to be placed now, I am

among

the last five left.. I don't know where is the problem. All these

interviews

seemed too be alright and I feel that I will get selected, but the results

show the opposite.

 

Day by day I am getting depressed and now I am finding very hard to keep

myself out of it. Please judge my chart and check what is happening.

Please, I

am in a distress situation which I cannot share with with others, here in

campus. I hope you would take up the matter seriously and soon.

 

Moreover this is not happening for the first time, there had been more

failures than successess in my life... Why this is so.. Why I am passing

through so much of failures... Will I be facing life like this through out

?

 

My birth data:

25 august 1974; 2:26:27 PM IST; 85E21; 23N22; +5:30E

 

Looking forward for your reply soon...

 

Pranaam to all of you

Sarajit

 

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OHM SHRI RAGAVENDRAYA NAMAH

JAYA JAGANNATHA

 

Namaste Sarajit,

 

Learned Gurus can answer you on Jyotish aspect. As we are in same field, I will give some suggestion.

 

First of all, to me no one will have more failure than me. So, how can you think that you are having only failures. As far as placement is concerned, I am MBA, being the Gold medallist in all the first 3 semesters, I was the first one to get a job, 6 months before the completion of the course. All other students envied. But, that is the biggest mistake, I did. Now, who are all did not had good marks and who are all didn't get through the placement are in far better position than me. Because, in placement, your scope and opportunity is limited to the placement companies. Whereas, in the open market, the opportunity is unlimited and wide spectrum. So, my advice is that it is better that you are not selected. There is a Golden opportunity waiting for you outside. Further, a success or failure has to be measured in a period of 4 or 5 years. Not at a particular moment. This is not a failure. You perceive that it is a failure. It is a maya that not getting a placement is failure. Moreover, once you come to the field, you will see, whoever is below you and less qualified, will by pass you and reach a position, for which he is not qualified or not deserved. You must be prepared to accept such things. The practical field in management is not what we study or perceive in Institutions.

 

I mentioned that I had a lot of failures. Those failures helped me to get balanced. It taught me, What is TRUTH and what is MAYA? So, the two advantages of failure are 1. it will definitely compensates with better one. 2. It moulds us in a balanced way of life. It is TRUE THAT WITHOUT THESE FAILURES, I AM NOT A SATWIK PERSON.

 

I learn small small things from others, even from my 3 year old son. ENDURANCE IN FAILURE, I learnt from Mr. M.Karunanithi, the Chief Minister of Tamil Nadu. I can go like this. To finish it. The only way to replace depression, is fill it with something else. Keep engage yourself with some very hard work, which you planned to do for a long time. A REAL MENTAL WORK.

 

I hope you will be alright. A very small note from your brother.

 

Thanks

Solai Kannan

 

Sarajit Poddar [sarajit]Wednesday, November 08, 2000 3:22 PMvarahamihira Subject: [sri Guru] Why this always happens to me- Need help

AUM SRI GURUVE NAMAHDear Jyotish members and Gurudev!I am very sorry to sending personal request. I generally don't wish to dothat. But now I really need some help...Now our placement process is going on and I have appeared in atleast 5-6interviews... All of them seemed to be good but, I don't know why I am unableto make through... I am trying hard not to get depressed and maintain mymental balance... but now it is getting out of control. When I see all of myfriends are getting selected, and I am left behind, it is very difficult toswallow the failures. Among the 40 odd candidates to be placed now, I am amongthe last five left.. I don't know where is the problem. All these interviewsseemed too be alright and I feel that I will get selected, but the resultsshow the opposite.Day by day I am getting depressed and now I am finding very hard to keepmyself out of it. Please judge my chart and check what is happening. Please, Iam in a distress situation which I cannot share with with others, here incampus. I hope you would take up the matter seriously and soon. Moreover this is not happening for the first time, there had been morefailures than successess in my life... Why this is so.. Why I am passingthrough so much of failures... Will I be facing life like this through out ?My birth data:25 august 1974; 2:26:27 PM IST; 85E21; 23N22; +5:30ELooking forward for your reply soon...Pranaam to all of youSarajit__________________Get free email and a permanent address at http://www.netaddress.com/?N=1OM TAT SATArchive: varahamihiraInfo: varahamihira/info.html

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Jaya Jagannath

My dear Sarajit,

I want you to remember that Swami Vivekananda did not get a job, even

when he was the most qualified. Thakur willed it as this was the only way to

save him from medicracy and get Vivekananda in the right path.

Other comments are below:

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Sarajit Poddar <sarajit

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Wednesday, November 08, 2000 5:52 PM

[sri Guru] Why this always happens to me- Need help

 

 

> AUM SRI GURUVE NAMAH

> Dear Jyotish members and Gurudev!

>

> I am very sorry to sending personal request. I generally don't wish to do

> that. But now I really need some help...

Rath: Do not be sorry, my students are always welcome to share their sorrows

with me. The whole world is there to share your happiness, but I will always

be there to share your grief and sorrows. That is the job of God & Guru as

they have to be around at times of turmoil.

 

> Now our placement process is going on and I have appeared in atleast 5-6

> interviews... All of them seemed to be good but, I don't know why I am

unable

> to make through... I am trying hard not to get depressed and maintain my

> mental balance... but now it is getting out of control. When I see all of

my

> friends are getting selected, and I am left behind, it is very difficult

to

> swallow the failures. Among the 40 odd candidates to be placed now, I am

among

> the last five left.. I don't know where is the problem. All these

interviews

> seemed too be alright and I feel that I will get selected, but the results

> show the opposite.

Rath: Better late than never. When is the last one? Why did I say this???

Lets wait and see.

 

 

> Day by day I am getting depressed and now I am finding very hard to keep

> myself out of it.

Rath: Good. Now you will be a good krishna Bhakta. When one becomes

sorrowful the truth dawns that we are very alone andthat the only true

relationship is that of the teacher and the taught. So say OM KRISHNA GURU

 

Please judge my chart and check what is happening.

Please, I

> am in a distress situation which I cannot share with with others, here in

> campus. I hope you would take up the matter seriously and soon.

 

> Moreover this is not happening for the first time, there had been more

> failures than successess in my life... Why this is so.. Why I am passing

> through so much of failures... Will I be facing life like this through out

?

>

> My birth data:

> 25 august 1974; 2:26:27 PM IST; 85E21; 23N22; +5:30E

Mail the chart to me

> Looking forward for your reply soon...

>

> Pranaam to all of you

> Sarajit

Blessings of Mahaprabhu

Sanjay Rath