Sorry Exact 3 birthtimes

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Dear Dhira Krsna

 

Ref: Exact record of birth time(s) of daughter: a) 1st incision, b)

head out, c) 1st cry, d) cord-cut:

 

As you are the Nth person who sent me a personal mail on this & I have

had to write a disappointing reply to, I am also ccing this to the 3

Lists

 

Very sad. Went home y'day & searched thru all my files, so that I cd

upload the data on varahamihira today. I must have chucked off that

paper which had those details, as: a) a month after that date, I

chanced Gurudev's message that only the cord-cut time is relevant, &

b)given my clutter-nature of life, I have an equally compelling

(compensatory) obsession to chuck things I dont require. I have the

cut-cord time of course, to the second, if of any consolatory use (it

is 9h 48m 28s am on June 10, 2001 at Bombay= aka Mumbai= 72e50, 18n58,

5/30 E of GMT). And I have fortunately retained that data only because

I made the chart on Jhoral (tho not read: see later).

 

Quite sad, as all 4 times were within minutes of each other, & recorded

exact to the second by the anaesthetist on my request. And that I cd do

this only b'cos the docs were my wife's colleagues. For most other

people, they wd find it difficult to record for their children, esp in

India, where the husband is not allowed in the OT unlike abroad where

for natural births, it is compulsory. Aaaargh! Sorry. We have lost some

potential research input, which is ALSO very difficult to get.

 

Abt why not read child's chart: the first few yrs are supposed to be

due to karma of parents. More than all that, more practically: parents'

ideas abt their children get formed in the early yrs, & subtly cd affet

our behaviour. And we parents r not super-human-devatas. Eg i cdnt help

note the KSY in my elder child's (son) chart (5 yrs old now), when I

read it last yr. My behaviour towards him cd have been subtly affected

in some way (maybe more protective, maybe some feeling of having been

cheated, .... God knows what all has gone thru my subconscious in

knowing my son's chart, tho read by me only recently after his 4th yr

age....) in his growing up yrs (i also have KAY). It affects one's

unbiased behaviour, somehow, which is not good, in the initial yrs. Who

knows, I may be tempted to see it when she is 5. Of course, there is no

cut off date to when u can see your child's chart, & in India, most

people do it immediately after birth. This is NOT some aphorism that I

know of. It is just MY personal feeling.

 

Sorry

Nandan

 

--- Dhira Krsna BCS <Dhira.Krsna.BCS wrote: > Dear Nandan,

>

> For the sake of checking my ayanamsa calculations, would you please

> send

> me the timings of your daughter?

>

> >However, my daughter is only 9 months old currently. And hence,

> while u

> >r free to ask me anything about her, pl DO NOT send me any

> predictions

> >(as parents are enjoined not to know their such a young child's

> chart,

> >tho we can surely study it for balarishta, etc, whatever)

>

> Why do you say that parents are not supposed to know the chart of

> their

> young child? Is it then forbidden to know anything about his/her

> personality? Of course, I do understand it may be very painful to

> find out

> if there's balarista or so, but if not, what is the harm? And from

> what

> age do you see it proper to have the child's chart made? I'm in

> wonder

> that you would not have had a look into your daughter's chart

> yourself?

> Speeking for myself, I would be curious! Of course, I understand it

> may

> harm the parental mood if the child is still so small...

>

> Wishing you well,

> Dhira Krsna

 

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