Guest guest Posted May 8, 2002 Report Share Posted May 8, 2002 Om Ganeshaya Namah Respected Guruji, My condolences for loss of your father-in-law, may his soul rest in peace. Please forgive me for taking your time when you are tied down with work. But I truly understand that you are busy and if you are unable to reply, it's ok. I need your guidance to decide which path to take. I am extremely confused, frustrated and kind of scared to take a wrong decision. The man I love is in India and he has waited for me for last four years but I have not been able to go and live there because my dad is against us and I had to finish college. Now when the time has come and I am supposed to graduate this saturday morning, time is playing games and I have more chices to make my decision. If I don't graduate now I can do a double major by the end of this year, or I can go to Germany to do undergard in International Business for one year, or I can do my MBA in a year and a half, Or I can finish my education now and go to India as soon as possible to keep my promise I had made to him. The trouble is that I have only two days to decide anything because due date for everything is now. After reading all of this you must be thinking its really silly of me to ask all this and I feel really bad because it all sounds so simple but at this point in life I really need guidance and I can't find a better person than you Guruji. It's even more confusing because we have not been able to contact each other in last few months which makes me feel that may be he is changing his mind because his family has been pressuring him to marry a girl in their caste or may be he is just in pure struggle because his sade saati is going on and he is not able to act as he likes. He has been fighting with his family for so long that he might have to give up soon, which means that he would feel that my intentions are not good and I broke all the promises and that I keep adding years to my education and keep taking years off from his dreams. I truly love him and last thing I want to do is break his heart or even mine. So in a nutshell if i go ahead and graduate and go to India as soon as possible I don't even know if there is marraige in our planets this year or in how so many years so I would waste my time there, go against my father's wishes for no reason and he would call me back, because being an Indian girl I cannot live there by myself either since my parents are here. So i don't know if i will live in India in future as per my promise to him which is also what i have always wanted which is now starting to change a little, I don't know if we will get married this year or if not then when, now I don't even know what he wants at this point since I can't contact him or read his mind. I did go to india a year and a half ago, but to my surprise god created such circumstances that I had to come back here against my wishes. So I am this confused. Please read into our charts and guide me. My birth data: 19 October 1980, 2:45am, Indore, India. His birth data: 23 July 1976, 9:11am, Indore, India. Please forgive me for not sending our charts again, I am at home and my computer is not set for sending charts, that's why i went to such struggle sending them last time. Please refer to message # 8078, sent on Feb 18'02 for our charts. Aapka keemti samay liya isliye kshama kijiyega... Very Very grateful for your guidance, Aapki Aabhari, shishya Vishakha Om Ganeshaya Namah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2002 Report Share Posted May 9, 2002 Om Gurave Namah ------------------------ Dear Vishakha Make up your mind - kalasarpa & kalamrita are two peculiar combinations. Physical attraction is tremendous between the two of you..no doubt about that. Did you know that Vishakha refers toa lady who had refused the hand of a sadhu..Start fasting on all Tuesdays and worship Mahalakshmi. Best Regards, Sanjay Rath Web: http://sanjayrath.tripod.com - " vishakha242000 " <vishakha242000 <varahamihira > Wednesday, May 08, 2002 10:31 AM [Hare Rama Krishna] Guru's Guidance... > Om Ganeshaya Namah > Respected Guruji, > My condolences for loss of your father-in-law, may > his soul rest in peace. > > Please forgive me for taking your time when you are tied down with > work. But I truly understand that you are busy and if you are unable > to reply, it's ok. > > I need your guidance to decide which path to take. I am extremely > confused, frustrated and kind of scared to take a wrong decision. The > man I love is in India and he has waited for me for last four years > but I have not been able to go and live there because my dad is > against us and I had to finish college. > Now when the time has come and I am supposed to graduate this > saturday morning, time is playing games and I have more chices to > make my decision. If I don't graduate now I can do a double major by > the end of this year, or I can go to Germany to do undergard in > International Business for one year, or I can do my MBA in a year and > a half, Or I can finish my education now and go to India as soon as > possible to keep my promise I had made to him. The trouble is that I > have only two days to decide anything because due date for everything > is now. > After reading all of this you must be thinking its really silly of me > to ask all this and I feel really bad because it all sounds so simple > but at this point in life I really need guidance and I can't find a > better person than you Guruji. It's even more confusing because we > have not been able to contact each other in last few months which > makes me feel that may be he is changing his mind because his family > has been pressuring him to marry a girl in their caste or may be he > is just in pure struggle because his sade saati is going on and he is > not able to act as he likes. > > He has been fighting with his family for so long that he might have > to give up soon, which means that he would feel that my intentions > are not good and I broke all the promises and that I keep adding > years to my education and keep taking years off from his dreams. I > truly love him and last thing I want to do is break his heart or even > mine. > > So in a nutshell if i go ahead and graduate and go to India as soon > as possible I don't even know if there is marraige in our planets > this year or in how so many years so I would waste my time there, go > against my father's wishes for no reason and he would call me back, > because being an Indian girl I cannot live there by myself either > since my parents are here. So i don't know if i will live in India in > future as per my promise to him which is also what i have always > wanted which is now starting to change a little, I don't know if we > will get married this year or if not then when, now I don't even know > what he wants at this point since I can't contact him or read his > mind. I did go to india a year and a half ago, but to my surprise god > created such circumstances that I had to come back here against my > wishes. > > So I am this confused. Please read into our charts and guide me. > My birth data: 19 October 1980, 2:45am, Indore, India. > His birth data: 23 July 1976, 9:11am, Indore, India. > Please forgive me for not sending our charts again, I am at home and > my computer is not set for sending charts, that's why i went to such > struggle sending them last time. Please refer to message # 8078, sent > on Feb 18'02 for our charts. > > Aapka keemti samay liya isliye kshama kijiyega... > Very Very grateful for your guidance, > Aapki Aabhari, shishya > Vishakha > > Om Ganeshaya Namah > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2002 Report Share Posted May 9, 2002 Shri Ganeshaya Namah Respected Guruji, Thank you so very very much for your guidance. I am grateful to you. I will start fasting and the Mahalaxmi Ma pooja as soon as possible. I take it as a hint from you that may be I should also act like Vishakha and refuse his hand because although there is no doubt about the tremendous physical attraction, it will not be a good marriage because physical attraction alone cannot make a marriage successful and that is all you see in our charts?? I know that it is my karma and I must decide for myself but that's where I am stuck. Now I pray to god for guiding me in case I pick the wrong path. Thanks... Aapki shishya.. Vishakha Shri Ganeshaya Namah varahamihira, " Sanjay Rath " <srath@v...> wrote: > > Om Gurave Namah > ------------------------ > Dear Vishakha > Make up your mind - kalasarpa & kalamrita are two peculiar combinations. Physical attraction is tremendous between the two of you..no doubt about that. Did you know that Vishakha refers toa lady who had refused the hand of a sadhu..Start fasting on all Tuesdays and worship Mahalakshmi. > Best Regards, > Sanjay Rath > Web: http://sanjayrath.tripod.com > - > " vishakha242000 " <vishakha242000> > <varahamihira> > Wednesday, May 08, 2002 10:31 AM > [Hare Rama Krishna] Guru's Guidance... > > > > Om Ganeshaya Namah > > Respected Guruji, > > My condolences for loss of your father-in-law, may > > his soul rest in peace. > > > > Please forgive me for taking your time when you are tied down with > > work. But I truly understand that you are busy and if you are unable > > to reply, it's ok. > > > > I need your guidance to decide which path to take. I am extremely > > confused, frustrated and kind of scared to take a wrong decision. The > > man I love is in India and he has waited for me for last four years > > but I have not been able to go and live there because my dad is > > against us and I had to finish college. > > Now when the time has come and I am supposed to graduate this > > saturday morning, time is playing games and I have more chices to > > make my decision. If I don't graduate now I can do a double major by > > the end of this year, or I can go to Germany to do undergard in > > International Business for one year, or I can do my MBA in a year and > > a half, Or I can finish my education now and go to India as soon as > > possible to keep my promise I had made to him. The trouble is that I > > have only two days to decide anything because due date for everything > > is now. > > After reading all of this you must be thinking its really silly of me > > to ask all this and I feel really bad because it all sounds so simple > > but at this point in life I really need guidance and I can't find a > > better person than you Guruji. It's even more confusing because we > > have not been able to contact each other in last few months which > > makes me feel that may be he is changing his mind because his family > > has been pressuring him to marry a girl in their caste or may be he > > is just in pure struggle because his sade saati is going on and he is > > not able to act as he likes. > > > > He has been fighting with his family for so long that he might have > > to give up soon, which means that he would feel that my intentions > > are not good and I broke all the promises and that I keep adding > > years to my education and keep taking years off from his dreams. I > > truly love him and last thing I want to do is break his heart or even > > mine. > > > > So in a nutshell if i go ahead and graduate and go to India as soon > > as possible I don't even know if there is marraige in our planets > > this year or in how so many years so I would waste my time there, go > > against my father's wishes for no reason and he would call me back, > > because being an Indian girl I cannot live there by myself either > > since my parents are here. So i don't know if i will live in India in > > future as per my promise to him which is also what i have always > > wanted which is now starting to change a little, I don't know if we > > will get married this year or if not then when, now I don't even know > > what he wants at this point since I can't contact him or read his > > mind. I did go to india a year and a half ago, but to my surprise god > > created such circumstances that I had to come back here against my > > wishes. > > > > So I am this confused. Please read into our charts and guide me. > > My birth data: 19 October 1980, 2:45am, Indore, India. > > His birth data: 23 July 1976, 9:11am, Indore, India. > > Please forgive me for not sending our charts again, I am at home and > > my computer is not set for sending charts, that's why i went to such > > struggle sending them last time. Please refer to message # 8078, sent > > on Feb 18'02 for our charts. > > > > Aapka keemti samay liya isliye kshama kijiyega... > > Very Very grateful for your guidance, > > Aapki Aabhari, shishya > > Vishakha > > > > Om Ganeshaya Namah > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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