Marriage Problems

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Also very importantly, -

 

She is very intolerant and short tempered. If she is

not in a good mood then she will spill her bad mood on

everybody. she does not know how to deal with

situations tactfullt and communicate effectively and

intelligently.

 

She is also inconsistent. If she starts something she

will stop the same on a mid way. Also, never does

anything perfectly. She has a communication

problem and can never talk and convince people

properly.

 

All this is making the situation worse and I get more

worried.

 

What shall i do? is there any solution? Can astrology

help us? I want to be with her but not like this. I

want to accpet her. Currently its all formality and i

look for reasons so that i can accept her. Whenever i

look at her negative vibes starts creeping in me and

i'll start complaining. I dont fee good to see her.

 

My personal life is in a mess. I want to have good

life both peacefully and personally. gurujis and

seniors pls guide me properly.

 

Thanks,

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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> Dear Sirs,

>

> I am a victim of my own attitude but what to do I am

> like that and not able to help. So, I request you

> all

> to guide me and give me corrective remedies.

>

> This has become the most serious issue of my life

> and

> I am on the brink of breaking down. I got married to

> Shweta on 29th June 2006 and from that day till

> today

> there has not been a single day of peace among us.

> The

> problem is mostly from my side. We got engaged in

> March 2006 and from that time when I first met her

> in

> Mumbai; I was not attracted towards her. There was

> no

> feeling of attraction. Whenever I met her I felt she

> is not the one. She never appealed to me. But I did

> not have the guts to break engagement also thinking

> that things will improve.

>

> We got married but after 2 days only I had negative

> feelings towards her. The main thing was her

> complexion. I am a kind of person who likes Fair

> girls. I don’t know why I said yes for marriage but

> I

> have realized this fact that fair/white girl was so

> very important in my life. Please don’t take it

> otherwise but I am telling you my correct feelings.

> She is not as fair as I am infact she is not fair at

> all. Over and above I never like her personality,

> posture, the way she walk and the way she talk.

> Though

> we married but I always used to comment. Our whole

> honeymoon was spoilt. I have never given her respect

> of wife neither I have loved her. Though I have

> tried

> to change myself but my focus never shifts from all

> these things and I end up commenting on her thinking

> she will improve some day. But 9 months have gone

> and

> till date we never have good married life. And now

> it’s like on the rocks. We have started fighting on

> continuous basis and personal life is becoming

> totally

> absurd.

>

> Many a time I have told her to get separated and she

> also agrees but I don’t have the guts for that also.

> The family set up and society is like that and

> infact

> I also want to give up chance but the thing is when

> there is no attraction from day one and I don’t love

> her, respect her as a person she is how will we live

> together. From her side she tried initially to

> change

> as per me but things don’t change if she is wheatish

> in complexion she will remain the same. Now she is

> also irritated and fed up with my behavior. Apart

> from

> a couple of attitude problem and high temper she is

> a

> good person.

>

> Sir this is snapshot of what’s going on in one

> aspect

> of my life though it has still not surfaced and all

> the things are happening in four walls of our room.

> Though I am under control but she is getting

> affected

> emotionally.

>

>

> As of now things are very bad and we are fighting on

> a

> regular basis. Thing is very simple. She expects a

> lot

> of love, respect from me which I am not been able

> to.

> Believe me sir, even when I go out with her I am not

> comfortable. What shall I do now? I cant change her

> –

> the way she is, her color complexion, the way she

> walks, she talks, the way she take things in life,

> her

> attitude. I have problems with everything. She

> fights

> on small comments on her. I know that I am not doing

> justice to her and that’s why she might be behaving.

> She never compromises on anything. Only one thing is

> she is not bad.

>

> Is there any remedy/solution like Puja, Vrata, Gems

> any sort of things which will make things better

> among

> us. Please suggest remedy for both of us. What can

> make her attractive to me? Please suggest sirs. I

> never expected my married life will be come hell

> like

> this. Why is this happening to me?

>

> Vivek

> 10th July 1978

> Maunath Bhanjan

> 18.40

>

> Shweta ( wife)

> 7th March 1982

> Kalyan

> 9.40 am

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