Why has this happened to me? Looking for pretex Jim?

[Guest guest]

Jim,

 

I am angry and upset at your thoughts and arguements. You are masking

the real reason behind a lot of rubbish.

I did not want to reply but I wanted to know what planets make you

what you are.

 

I checked your's and your wife's charts.

 

Your planets are such that you cannot be happy with even Rambha or

Urvashi should they consent to marry you.

 

As a very senior person, my advise to you is to accept her as she is

and lead a RIGHTEOUS life atleast from now on.

Do not look for reasons and Bahana to divorce her .

 

I am not known to mince my words so please see the reason in my

advise.

 

Tatvam-Asi

 

 

 

 

vedic astrology , Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote:

>

> Dear Gurujis,

>

> Pranam !

>

> I dont know but I would like to ask a few questions

> related to my life and I wonder as to why it happened

> to me because after trying alot and lot these thoughts

> never go out of my mind. I really need your genuine

> advice and guidance so that it becomes clear that what

> am I destined to get in my life and what shall i do.

> Points are :

>

> I never liked my life and never go attracted towards

> her. Its been almost one and hapf years and still I

> get irritated with her looks and personality. Still I

> dont love her at all. But I dont know why I am not

> getting separated. I always scold her, complain about

> her complexion, etc. I am not a person like this. But

> what to do. I get frustrated. I dont want to do all

> this. I expected a very good and loving married life

> and always thought of giving all happiness and love to

> my wife. But I dont know what planets have i got that

> as soon as i see my wife feeling of hatred, complains

> and irritation starts.

>

> 1. How will I live like this?

> 2. Am I not destined for love?

> 3. Is it going to continue for lifelong?

> 4. Will I never I what I want?

> 5. I am feeling as if GOD doesnt want me to get what I

> want.

> 6. When i always wanted a fair girl and I was so clear

> why I married a wheatish complexion. She was in make

> up and I could not find in 2 hours. Was I duped?

>

> 7. Is there any relation with my sisters as they are

> wheatish in complexion and if my wife would have been

> fair they would have got into inferiority complex.

>

> 8. Sometimes I feel that life is all about making

> right decisions and that affects us for whole life.

> But then what is destiny. Is there no role of destiny

> and if everything is destiny then what about making

> right decisions.

>

> 9. I think I am very confused minded and never take

> right decisions. I have always been unclear about

> everything in life and hence always land up with

> something undesirable. And the same thing is about

> marriage. But if this is the answer then why we say

> destiny plays a role in most things of our lives and

> marriage as well. Hence for a wrong marriage I am

> blaming my destiny,

>

> BUT WHAT IS CORRECT DESTINY OR DECISION?

>

> Please guide me Sirs.

>

>

>

> Please help. I am in deep trouble and frustration.

>

> Regards

>

> Jim

> 10 July 1978

> 18.40

> Maunath Bhanjan

>

> wife

>

> 7th March 1982

> 9.40

> Kalyan

>

>

>

____________________

______________

> Never miss a thing. Make your home page.

> http://www./r/hs

>

[Guest guest]

Nameisego ji,

 

I agree with you - This person is looking for excuses - He has posted

this kind of mail many times in groups.

 

I advise him not to spoil his present life karma by separating from

his wife.

 

Regards

Kiran

 

vedic astrology , " nameisego " <nameisego wrote:

>

>

> Jim,

>

> I am angry and upset at your thoughts and arguements. You are masking

> the real reason behind a lot of rubbish.

> I did not want to reply but I wanted to know what planets make you

> what you are.

>

> I checked your's and your wife's charts.

>

> Your planets are such that you cannot be happy with even Rambha or

> Urvashi should they consent to marry you.

>

> As a very senior person, my advise to you is to accept her as she is

> and lead a RIGHTEOUS life atleast from now on.

> Do not look for reasons and Bahana to divorce her .

>

> I am not known to mince my words so please see the reason in my

> advise.

>

> Tatvam-Asi

>

>

>

>

> vedic astrology , Jim <vivluv_2000@> wrote:

> >

> > Dear Gurujis,

> >

> > Pranam !

> >

> > I dont know but I would like to ask a few questions

> > related to my life and I wonder as to why it happened

> > to me because after trying alot and lot these thoughts

> > never go out of my mind. I really need your genuine

> > advice and guidance so that it becomes clear that what

> > am I destined to get in my life and what shall i do.

> > Points are :

> >

> > I never liked my life and never go attracted towards

> > her. Its been almost one and hapf years and still I

> > get irritated with her looks and personality. Still I

> > dont love her at all. But I dont know why I am not

> > getting separated. I always scold her, complain about

> > her complexion, etc. I am not a person like this. But

> > what to do. I get frustrated. I dont want to do all

> > this. I expected a very good and loving married life

> > and always thought of giving all happiness and love to

> > my wife. But I dont know what planets have i got that

> > as soon as i see my wife feeling of hatred, complains

> > and irritation starts.

> >

> > 1. How will I live like this?

> > 2. Am I not destined for love?

> > 3. Is it going to continue for lifelong?

> > 4. Will I never I what I want?

> > 5. I am feeling as if GOD doesnt want me to get what I

> > want.

> > 6. When i always wanted a fair girl and I was so clear

> > why I married a wheatish complexion. She was in make

> > up and I could not find in 2 hours. Was I duped?

> >

> > 7. Is there any relation with my sisters as they are

> > wheatish in complexion and if my wife would have been

> > fair they would have got into inferiority complex.

> >

> > 8. Sometimes I feel that life is all about making

> > right decisions and that affects us for whole life.

> > But then what is destiny. Is there no role of destiny

> > and if everything is destiny then what about making

> > right decisions.

> >

> > 9. I think I am very confused minded and never take

> > right decisions. I have always been unclear about

> > everything in life and hence always land up with

> > something undesirable. And the same thing is about

> > marriage. But if this is the answer then why we say

> > destiny plays a role in most things of our lives and

> > marriage as well. Hence for a wrong marriage I am

> > blaming my destiny,

> >

> > BUT WHAT IS CORRECT DESTINY OR DECISION?

> >

> > Please guide me Sirs.

> >

> >

> >

> > Please help. I am in deep trouble and frustration.

> >

> > Regards

> >

> > Jim

> > 10 July 1978

> > 18.40

> > Maunath Bhanjan

> >

> > wife

> >

> > 7th March 1982

> > 9.40

> > Kalyan

> >

> >

> >

> ____________________

> ______________

> > Never miss a thing. Make your home page.

> > http://www./r/hs

> >

>

[Guest guest]

Dear Kiran Ji,

 

Namaste ! I agree with you and also understand that I am not doing

right by thinking all this and not behaving well with my wife and

always complaining about her.

 

I also know that I am making a fool out of myself by writing many

times to all seniors Gurus in this forum.

 

But I would also request you to understand from my perspective and

just try to understand why am I doing all this. There must be some

major frustration and disappointment which is making me do all this.

If this was intentional why I would have written. this also means

that I am not able to get an anwer of my problems and how to cpe with

them. I have been advised to accpet her. Believe me I am trying hard

but after some time again the feelings starts coming in and as soon

as I see her I become tensed and paranoid. I the write to all the

seniors in this forum so that they can understand and also

astrologically if it can give some directiona dn clues for the

solution.

 

In any case I seriously apologize if you dont like my writing on the

forum. In any case I have recd help from all of you learned Gurujis

and I thank all of you for helping and guiding me. I will still be

looking for a final light of knowledge which can help me !

 

Thanks & Regards

 

JIM

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

-- In vedic astrology , " kiran.rama " <rkirana

wrote:

>

> Nameisego ji,

>

> I agree with you - This person is looking for excuses - He has

posted

> this kind of mail many times in groups.

>

> I advise him not to spoil his present life karma by separating from

> his wife.

>

> Regards

> Kiran

>

> vedic astrology , " nameisego " <nameisego@>

wrote:

> >

> >

> > Jim,

> >

> > I am angry and upset at your thoughts and arguements. You are

masking

> > the real reason behind a lot of rubbish.

> > I did not want to reply but I wanted to know what planets make

you

> > what you are.

> >

> > I checked your's and your wife's charts.

> >

> > Your planets are such that you cannot be happy with even Rambha

or

> > Urvashi should they consent to marry you.

> >

> > As a very senior person, my advise to you is to accept her as she

is

> > and lead a RIGHTEOUS life atleast from now on.

> > Do not look for reasons and Bahana to divorce her .

> >

> > I am not known to mince my words so please see the reason in my

> > advise.

> >

> > Tatvam-Asi

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > vedic astrology , Jim <vivluv_2000@> wrote:

> > >

> > > Dear Gurujis,

> > >

> > > Pranam !

> > >

> > > I dont know but I would like to ask a few questions

> > > related to my life and I wonder as to why it happened

> > > to me because after trying alot and lot these thoughts

> > > never go out of my mind. I really need your genuine

> > > advice and guidance so that it becomes clear that what

> > > am I destined to get in my life and what shall i do.

> > > Points are :

> > >

> > > I never liked my life and never go attracted towards

> > > her. Its been almost one and hapf years and still I

> > > get irritated with her looks and personality. Still I

> > > dont love her at all. But I dont know why I am not

> > > getting separated. I always scold her, complain about

> > > her complexion, etc. I am not a person like this. But

> > > what to do. I get frustrated. I dont want to do all

> > > this. I expected a very good and loving married life

> > > and always thought of giving all happiness and love to

> > > my wife. But I dont know what planets have i got that

> > > as soon as i see my wife feeling of hatred, complains

> > > and irritation starts.

> > >

> > > 1. How will I live like this?

> > > 2. Am I not destined for love?

> > > 3. Is it going to continue for lifelong?

> > > 4. Will I never I what I want?

> > > 5. I am feeling as if GOD doesnt want me to get what I

> > > want.

> > > 6. When i always wanted a fair girl and I was so clear

> > > why I married a wheatish complexion. She was in make

> > > up and I could not find in 2 hours. Was I duped?

> > >

> > > 7. Is there any relation with my sisters as they are

> > > wheatish in complexion and if my wife would have been

> > > fair they would have got into inferiority complex.

> > >

> > > 8. Sometimes I feel that life is all about making

> > > right decisions and that affects us for whole life.

> > > But then what is destiny. Is there no role of destiny

> > > and if everything is destiny then what about making

> > > right decisions.

> > >

> > > 9. I think I am very confused minded and never take

> > > right decisions. I have always been unclear about

> > > everything in life and hence always land up with

> > > something undesirable. And the same thing is about

> > > marriage. But if this is the answer then why we say

> > > destiny plays a role in most things of our lives and

> > > marriage as well. Hence for a wrong marriage I am

> > > blaming my destiny,

> > >

> > > BUT WHAT IS CORRECT DESTINY OR DECISION?

> > >

> > > Please guide me Sirs.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Please help. I am in deep trouble and frustration.

> > >

> > > Regards

> > >

> > > Jim

> > > 10 July 1978

> > > 18.40

> > > Maunath Bhanjan

> > >

> > > wife

> > >

> > > 7th March 1982

> > > 9.40

> > > Kalyan

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

____________________

> > ______________

> > > Never miss a thing. Make your home page.

> > > http://www./r/hs

> > >

> >

>