sad demise of mother - please help

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Dear Gurujans,

 

 

We are going through a very sad period and I would

like to share the sad news that my mother passed way

for heavenly abode on last Saturday, 2nd February 5.40

am. She was suffering from Kidney failure form last 10

years and since last one and a half months she was

constantly hospitalized and not keeping well.

 

On Friday 25th January her pulse rate dropped but

after 3 days in hospital doctors said she is fine and

stable. I left for work and my wife’s sister marriage

on Monday. On Thursday 31st January I again got a call

that she is not well and infection occurred. She was

admitted and doctors thought it as a normal infection

and took it casually. While she was in tremendous pain

and I was not there in Bangalore. On Friday she was

still in pain and virtually not in senses. She was not

talking to anybody and in the night around 11pm her

pulse rate dropped, BP started falling and she was

shifted to ICU. There they realized that the whole

toxic water has entered in all the parts of body and

lungs. They tried but could not do anything and we

lost our mother.

 

I would like to also tell you that my mother had a

deep yearning to live life inspite of all sufferings

she was going through. She never wanted to die. When

last week she was admitted she was so scared that she

will die and told me that “Beta, Agar main chali jati

to kya hota, Mere ko to abhi bohat kuch dekhna hai,

mere bachon ka kya hota”

 

But we could not do anything and she passed away. I

wanted to do lot of things for her but I could not. In

a way I have a deep feeling that somewhere I have not

turned up to her expectation and she left with a lot

of expectations and desire from me. I am at a big

fault. I loved her a lot but never expressed her

directly.

 

In this case what all shall I do. What should I

perform now? I want to perform all rituals to make her

sole happy. Please guide me and help me.

 

Please guide me.

 

Thanks,

 

Jim

 

D.O.B.- July 10,1078

P.O.B.- Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh), 25.57N,

83.33E

T.O.B.- 18:40 P.M.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mother - Anju

 

D.O.B.- October 18,1960

P.O.B.- Bankura (west bengal)

T.O.B.- 11:10 A.M

 

 

Father

 

D.O.B.- April 28,1954

P.O.B.-Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh)

T.O.B.- 23:40 P.M

 

 

Ankita (elder sister)

D.O.B.- July 15,1982

P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

T.O.B.- 9:30 A.M.

 

Pallavi (youngest sister)

D.O.B.-September 9,1988

P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

T.O.B.- 6:40 A.M.

 

 

Shweta - wife

 

7th March 1982

9.40 am

Kalyan

 

 

 

 

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