Marriage matchting concepts .

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Hare ramakrishna ,

dear group and learned members .

I am posting an article i posted in different grp which is prepared long time back .

 

bear with laungage and subjuct is very deep and i am putting in few lines ,so lot of disparity or mistake may happen .

 

I am giving th south indian concept and may be many has difference of opinion ,some will even argue that fate is controlling everything .

 

here is the post .

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In kerala and esp what i know generaly in south india we start by matchting the rasi in 10 ways like rasi,rasyaadhipa(they use differnet than normal frndship concept),vasyam,ganam(nature like godly,demonly),yoni(male /female),dinam,mahendra,stree dergham(dooram),rejju and vedham these are 10 and giving each one mark for each and see if there is more marks and still rejju (ayurvedic -vata ,pitta,kapha-i think)and vedha a must

this is known as nakhsatra porutham .

or u can use ashta koota methods prevalent in north .

Then we go for papa samya or matchting malefic planets placements .

lagana(body),2nd(family and speech),4th house (family happiness and sukha stan),7th house (house of marriage ) ,8th house (deergha mangala stan and maraka place and house of money of partner) and 12 th house is sayana sukha stan and house of expenditure------so there is 6 places

we see any malifics are there in above said places from LAGANA(body ),MOON(MIND) AND VENUS (INDICATOR OF MARRIAGE LIFE),

some people will giv equal weightage to lagna and moon (as considered 2nd lagan) .venus less weightage as some r of the opinion that the papatwa to venus cannot be remedied as a man with loose morals and girl with equaly loose morals can not make good couples ( here also i find modern opinion abt broadminded couples -but our dharma sastras dont advocate this and here we r caring abt th generation and the proud of kula ,gotra etc than mixing around ) , they see 4th and 8th matching only,Only see if too much points venus is gaining esp in the case of girl,it may boost immoral tendencies or deny normal family happiness by giving separation or even illness--it depends on the horoscope,

papatwa is considered in decressing order 8/7/4/12/2/1.Most malefic is mars(planet of aggression and sudden actions),then sani,then sun,rahu finaly ketu,

also giv some marks like mars-4/sani-3/sun-2/rah and ketu-1 also in lagana-5/2nd house2/4th house-3,7th house-4/8th house-6/12th house 1

Again this we hav to see exceptions ,own house debilataion ,means good strenght can decreas the value and planet neecha or moudya(combust ) will get 100% value.Only aspect of benefics can reduce the effects and malifics will surely increase the effects.

Main consideration while analysing----

1) Papa grahas should be some what equal position or countering position

2)If malefic is benefic from bhava concerned can giv reduction

3)if malefic is yoga karak again papatwa will be reduced

4)see major dasa of papas has passed and see their sub period and do the assessments

5)If lady having widowhood in horoscope match with a person who has two marriage or wife marana yaga( death of wife )

6)Main considerations shud be given to 7th and 8th position of malefics

7)Then in mans horo papa( malefics ) should b in 7th house in case of girls chart having malefics in 7th or 8th from concerned karakas.

8)Even if in female horoscope papas( malefics) are in 7th and 8th,if a strong benefic in 9th then it s solved automaticaly .

 

AS---- navame shubha samyukte sapape aste ashtamepiva

pathi putra yuta nari modate natra samsaya

 

9)see if papa graha dasas coming immediatly after marriage.

10)dasa santhi nirnayam

see in both horoscopes same period dasa ends within 6 months to one years ends .See next dasa is maraka, or papa or weak then those horoscopes shud not be matched.

 

same period dasa of enemy of lagna lord is happening and see its promise in the horoscope.

 

same period dasa of mutualy enemiess like sun in one chart and sani in another chart or rahu in one chart guru in other chart or venus and guru -see what this dasa s are indicating .

 

see the period of marakas in each horoscope and should not run together at one time.

 

Also ones maraka dasa and anothers weak dasa of 7th lord or karaka,like papayuta,papakartari,neecha etc should not happen at same time.

 

if malefics r in 8th house which can cause vaidhavya(widowhood),see the 8th lord and see in whose house he attained in navamsa -in his naisargika dasa can giv the effects.like moon within a year,mars within two year sun 50years ,guru-18th years after marriage.

 

or it can giv in dasa of malefics in 8th house

 

then santana chinta (progency) and prosperity and yoga chinta -like this all kinds of stuff frm two horoscopes,longitivity should b calculated firstly before matchting.

 

then i hav seen an elaborate prashna is conducted whether there is daivaanukulyam (wish of god ) for this union and see all kinds of nimittas and omens ,its mainly the prashna using cowrie methods which are more prevalent in kerala ( as its blved its originated there ) ,and i find even in tamilnadu and some part of andra pradesh and karnataka.

 

Its done along with nimitta observations ( omens )

Now a days nimittas can happen only in villages and in towns its at the discreation of astrologer to add or deduct according to his experience and reasoning power .

 

all good omens like bringings of perfumes,sandal and kumkum,somebody is bringing mangal sutra,gold or new dress,married ladies or couples coming,seeing of astamangala materials,some come singing,mangala dwani like sankh(conch),bellsringing,cowscoming,elephant,royals,horses all are considerd good.

 

some nimittas are bad which needs special attention ;

seeing somebody puts his finger in some hole or in nose /seeing some animals/birds mating --suddenly jyothishi can say not reccommended for matching.(actualy i find all this depends on upasana balam ( spiritual power ) of jyothishi)

 

I hope it can giv some what clear idea abt matching and ps see its not a Soft ware job .It needs a good calibre jyothishi and who learned a good amnt of astro principles .As we are not just following some mechanical rules and we are matchting a chart with other by evaluating and weighing pros and cons thinking various aspect of life .

 

Also i must add few more abt mana:porutha ( or lov marriage -but i hate this term as lov is not showing manas ,it can happen only in rare sitautions )--if the cpls are in lov with each other and its above any other outer influences then rishis of the opinion that jyothishi shud allow to marry them prescribing upayas if anything is neccessary .

and there is another method which can see mental/physical/material wavelenght and matchting -but i am under oath of secrecy so i cannot disclose it here .

 

so read this and giv me all of of ur opinions.

 

regrds sunil nair

om shreem mahalaxmai namah .