Guest guest Posted November 11, 2007 Report Share Posted November 11, 2007 Dear Sir, I am not able to develop a liking for her and during Diwali I told her that she was not lloking good and she made a huge issue and the whole festive spirits died. My mother and sisters are also upset and they started fighting with me complaining about her. The atmosphere became very bad. Any how i told shweta that I will stop commenting on her but she will have to make people in family Happy. But internally I know that i do still not like her. Whenever i see her I start getting negative vibes because of her complexion and personality and that is clearly visible on my face. In that scenario what do you that our future holds astrologically. I need your advice and is there any solution? Please suggest me sir. Thanks, Vivek 10th July 1978 Maunath Bhanjan (UP), 25.57N, 83.33E 18.40 Shweta (wife) 7th March 1982 Kalyan 9.40 am > I am a victim of my own attitude but what to do I am > like that and not able to help. So, I request you > all > to guide me and give me corrective remedies. > > This has become the most serious issue of my life > and > I am on the brink of breaking down. I got married to > Shweta on 29th June 2006 and from that day till > today > there has not been a single day of peace among us. > The > problem is mostly from my side. We got engaged in > March 2006 and from that time when I first met her > in > Mumbai; I was not attracted towards her. There was > no > feeling of attraction. Whenever I met her I felt she > is not the one. She never appealed to me. But I did > not have the guts to break engagement also thinking > that things will improve. > > We got married but after 2 days only I had negative > feelings towards her. The main thing was her > complexion. I am a kind of person who likes Fair > girls. I don’t know why I said yes for marriage but > I > have realized this fact that fair/white girl was so > very important in my life. Please don’t take it > otherwise but I am telling you my correct feelings. > She is not as fair as I am infact she is not fair at > all. Over and above I never like her personality, > posture, the way she walk and the way she talk. > Though > we married but I always used to comment. Our whole > honeymoon was spoilt. I have never given her respect > of wife neither I have loved her. Though I have > tried > to change myself but my focus never shifts from all > these things and I end up commenting on her thinking > she will improve some day. But 9 months have gone > and > till date we never have good married life. And now > it’s like on the rocks. We have started fighting on > continuous basis and personal life is becoming > totally > absurd. > > Many a time I have told her to get separated and she > also agrees but I don’t have the guts for that also. > The family set up and society is like that and > infact > I also want to give up chance but the thing is when > there is no attraction from day one and I don’t love > her, respect her as a person she is how will we live > together. From her side she tried initially to > change > as per me but things don’t change if she is wheatish > in complexion she will remain the same. Now she is > also irritated and fed up with my behavior. Apart > from > a couple of attitude problem and high temper she is > a > good person. > > Sir this is snapshot of what’s going on in one > aspect > of my life though it has still not surfaced and all > the things are happening in four walls of our room. > Though I am under control but she is getting > affected > emotionally. > > As of now things are very bad and we are fighting on > a > regular basis. Thing is very simple. She expects a > lot > of love, respect from me which I am not been able > to. > Believe me sir, even when I go out with her I am not > comfortable. What shall I do now? I cant change her > – > the way she is, her color complexion, the way she > walks, she talks, the way she take things in life, > her > attitude. I have problems with everything. She > fights > on small comments on her. I know that I am not doing > justice to her and that’s why she might be behaving. > She never compromises on anything. Only one thing is > she is not bad. > > Is there any remedy/solution like Puja, Vrata, Gems > any sort of things which will make things better > among > us. Please suggest remedy for both of us. What can > make her attractive to me? Please suggest sirs. I > never expected my married life will be come hell > like > this. Why is this happening to me? > > Vivek > 10th July 1978 > Maunath Bhanjan > 18.40 > > Shweta ( wife) > 7th March 1982 > Kalyan > 9.40 am > > > > > > Amit <amitpuri20 > To: > A_Foresight_Prince_of_India_Available > Wednesday, November 7, 2007 6:58:33 AM > Re: Fw: Vivek's > Remedy[A_Foresight_Prince_of_India_Available] Human > Body vs Gemo > > namskar vivek > > i am following your thread let me try to make you > understand what pram > ji want to convey.??? first of all your question is > about Pukhraj yes > you can wear this stone and your second question > is....... do you > have to upgrade to your existing pukhraj with new > one ?????....... .... > yes you have to it is quite small and we dont know > its vedic value if > its property are excellent then ok other wise you > have to change to > with new one.. > and third and last question can your wife wear your > old one.???? no at > all there are various reason instead thro this stone > in to the > running water or you can keep it with you as your > assets . > > i think i am clear now. > > regard > A_Foresight_ Prince_of_ India_Available@ > . com, Jim > <vivluv_2000@ ...> wrote: > > > > Dear Pram Ji, > > > > Thanks for your reply. I am not able to understand > your reply. What > shall I do? Since I am wearing a smaller Pukhraj ( 3 > carat) and you've > recommended heavier one what should i do? > > > > Please let me know sir. > > > > Thanks, > > > > Vivek > > > > > > > > Prem Chopra <pramchopra1964@ ...> > > A_Foresight_ Prince_of_ India_Available@ > . com > > Tuesday, November 6, 2007 1:08:15 PM > > Re: Fw: Vivek's > Remedy[A_Foresight_ Prince_of_ India_Available] > Human Body vs Gemology > > > > ~~Om Satguru Shree Sachidanand Sainath Maharaj Ki > Jai~~ > > > > Dear Vivek [Anoop] > > > > God Bless U > > > > You have to through to the river towards flowing > side so that you > can get benefit of its used Remedies otherwise it > will shifted to the > person who ever will use it untill it reach to > River. This is because > every Remedy/Stone has its journey and it will work > untill it is used > for the fix time period and gives results when you > able to honor that > item to River get all benefits. May be you know this > I think. > > > > Thanks, > > > > > > On 11/6/07, Jim <vivluv_2000@ > wrote: > > Dear Pram Ji, > > > > Good Morning. How are you? I hope now you are near > to your dreams as > I can see your list growing and I pray ro GOD as > well that you become > the Foresight price of India. > > > > I wanted to ask you one thing: Pls let me know if > I should buy a new > Pukhraj or not. I am already wearing a 3 carat > Pukhraj since last 2 > years or so. I need your genuine advice sir as I > need to plan for it. > What do you a genuine Pukhraj of 7 rattis will cost > as suggested by you. > > > > Regards > > > > Vivek > > > > > > > > > > Prem Chopra < pramchopra1964@ gmail.com> > > A_Foresight_ Prince_of_ India_Available@ > . com > > Saturday, October 27, 2007 3:57:54 PM > > Re: Fw: Vivek's Remedy[A_Foresight_ > Prince_of_ > India_Available] Human Body vs Gemology > > > > > > ~~Om Satguru Shree Sachidanand Sainath Maharaj Ki > Jai~~ > > > > Dear Jim > > > > God Bless U > > > > Used stone must be thow into the river for the > betterment of its > wearing results which has been accepted by you. Some > things cannot be > transferable. If you try it to sale it then all the > remedies > experienced then it means " Nakee Kee Aur Parshad > Chhordiya " . All must > be new. > > > > > > From Pram Chopra > > KP Transcriptor and Analyest > > Astro-Spiritual Guru > > > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ _________ > _________ __ > > > > Tired of spam? Mail has the best spam > protection around > > http://mail. > > > > > > > > > > From Pram Chopra > > KP Transcriptor and Analyest > > Astro-Spiritual Guru > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ _________ > _________ __ > > > > Tired of spam? Mail has the best spam > protection around > > http://mail. > > > > > > > > > Tired of spam? Mail has the best spam > protection around > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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