Life is destiny or making right decision?

[Guest guest]

Dear All esteemed learned people,

 

I have just one question with all leaned people here. I have not been

able to find an aswer for the same.

 

- If everything is destiny what role does mind and decision making

play. If you take my example I did arranged marriage and decided on

myself. Now when I look back then a lot of times I think why didnt

follw the right decision making process. May be I should have taken

more time before deciding. Or my be met her twice. I took decision in

2 hours. You will not believe I am a firm believer in astrolgy and

always decided i will marry a girl with whom my kundli will match and

with her my kundli was not matching still I said yes immediately. I

always wanted a fair girl and I was very very clear. still when I

took decision in my first meeting I think I did not try to check on

it much. Yes There were circumstances like mother was not well and

father was also pushing that this is right match but as such there

was no pressure.

 

After marraige yes I am having tough times. Chemistry has not been

great among us.

 

I am just trying to make you aware of the circumstances. if I made a

bad decision or destiny has a own role to play? whats the answer. Pls

guide me as this will help me in future as well.

 

I hope you will take my question positively. I am posting this to all

forums so please dont think I am trying to take advantage. I expect a

genuine analaysis which will make us learn things.

 

 

Regards,

 

Jim

 

10th July 1978

18.29

Maunath Bhanjan (25.57N, 83.33E)

 

 

wife

 

7th march 1982

9.40

Kalyan