Priyaji- regarding my mother-in-law Ruchiqa

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Dear Ruchiqa,

 

I am afraid I am not aware of any upaya that could help you in this

situation.

 

Sincerly,

 

Priya

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

, " ruchiqa " <ruchiqa

wrote:

>

> Dearest Priyaji,

>

> Thankyou for the upayas for my mother's house problems. She will

do

> them accordingly and get relief. I cant thank you enough for all

your

> upayas, I feel God has given me a way to get things better in my

life

> through you. I am grateful to you for everything.

>

> Priyaji, I stay in a joint family with my father and mother in

law,

> and my husband and my 2 year old son. The house we stay in on the

> third floor and is in my mother in laws name and she runs the

house

> from the beginning since my father in law is in a family business

of

> shoes with his brothers and he doesnt contribute to run the house

and

> only gives all the money to his brothers. My mother in law has a

very

> bad habit of not throwing old or things she doesnt need and has

> everything -clothes, bottles, polythene bags,suitcases, crockery

> since her marriage. She has accumulated so much that the whole

house

> looks like a store room and its so difficult to manage with a kid.

> She has about seven cupboards, 20 suitcases, 3 fridges, all in a

two

> bedroom house and with my son and old father in law( who is 74 and

> has prostrate cancer) its so difficlut. I dont have a place even

to

> get a cupboard from my son and I too have a very small one. we are

> all adjusting since several years but with a growing child we'll

need

> space. Is there any upaya so that our house gets better since to

live

> in such a mess and cluttered place, I am stressed, depressed and

> irritated all the time. We have tried explaining things to her but

> she doesnt understand. We just have enough space to just walk from

> one room to the other which will eventually also finish.

> Is there any upaya that can be done so that we are happy to be

home

> and stress free. We are building a store room now but there is so

> much stuff that all the suitcases wont even fit there.Please help

me

> Priyaji.

> My dob- 22nd january 1977

> Time- 5:45 PM.

> Place- ludhiana

>

> My husband's dob- 31/11/1975

> Time- 7:30pm.

> Place- new delhi

>

> Also Priyaji, my husband has been suffering from severe neck and

> shoulder pain since several years and no amount of medicines are

> bringing any relief. His hand thumbs are weak too. He also has

worms

> in his stomach for several years and even after worm medicines,

they

> come back. He also sees dreams that his legs are weak and he cant

> walk or run at all. He has seen this dream several times of having

> weak legs.

> Is there any upaya you can suggest for him too please Priyaji.

>

> Thanks and regards

> Ruchiqa

>