Guest guest Posted August 5, 2009 Report Share Posted August 5, 2009 Namaskar sir What you told is correct - most of the suicides are preventable - just a talk of minute to 2, just and assurance, one request to postpone the plans - this simple this help in 80% of acute situation. I was luck to work in this field for a very short time - Another fact is it is our feeling that it is we who are diverting them from the thought Nandana On 05/08/2009, litsol <mishra.lalit wrote: When i cried 2 day's back, still, I could'nt get peace, he is no more now, he was not my relative, not born as brahmin, bt, he was innocent, some 20 yrs old. His parents used to call him 'Sadhu', living next door to my family house in village, he belongs to a poor OBC family, i hve not much lived in my village bt sometimes you love a person for no reason, and if you are in spirituality, you dont recognise a reason for having a feeling of luv towards a person you are not familiar. In fact, i wanted to talk to him since i heard that he is disturbed, I got opportunity to visit my village soon after my marriage for puja of Gram Devta, it was a short trip of 5 hrs, it was in my mind to meet him, bt, i was also in toxic days of marriage, i got time to goto his house, perhapse it was closed, though, i was worried for him, i thought, ok, wd meet him later, my real brother was facing some problems at his office and wanted me to draft a mail for him, so, instead of asking somebody in village to call sadhu, i went to nearby town. I also had a fear in my mind that ppl of village and my family members wd criticize me, so, i didnt do efforts to call sadhu, this is second time in life when i missed my duty for such type of stupid reasons. I wanted to counsil him both emotionaly and spiritualy, i could do effort to begin process to balance his past live sanskars, but, you know, god's wish is above our desires, i returnd to rewa same day evening, without meeting to him. 2 day's back, i came to know that sadhu has committed suicide. Tell me, what's use of energy of mantra? Perhapse, if i could meet him and could spend one single mantra's energy on his healing, today, he could survive, i could also help him financialy though i m also not rich, bt, i couldnt do anything for a simple lapse in decision making. You, pls dont miss a chance like this in your life if you are capable. Now, sadhu will never come, he is no more !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 6, 2009 Report Share Posted August 6, 2009 Dear Lalit Jee Jaya Siyaa Raam Very sad, indeed very sad. This is called luck, or fate or destiny. Honee Ko Kaun Taal Sakataa hai. Sometimes in spite of knowing many things one cannot adopt the path one wants to adopt. God does not allow anybody to help him whom He does not want to. This is not your failure, it was his Destiny. Although it is natural to blame oneself, because you had already thought about to help him, but do not blame yourself. It was God's wish which kept you far from him. With regards Sushma Vedic Astrologyandhealing , " litsol " <mishra.lalit wrote: > > When i cried 2 day's back, still, I could'nt get peace, he is no more now, he was not my relative, not born as brahmin, bt, he was innocent, some 20 yrs old. > > His parents used to call him 'Sadhu', living next door to my family house in village, he belongs to a poor OBC family, i hve not much lived in my village bt sometimes you love a person for no reason, and if you are in spirituality, you dont recognise a reason for having a feeling of luv towards a person you are not familiar. > > In fact, i wanted to talk to him since i heard that he is disturbed, I got opportunity to visit my village soon after my marriage for puja of Gram Devta, it was a short trip of 5 hrs, it was in my mind to meet him, bt, i was also in toxic days of marriage, i got time to goto his house, perhapse it was closed, though, i was worried for him, i thought, ok, wd meet him later, my real brother was facing some problems at his office and wanted me to draft a mail for him, so, instead of asking somebody in village to call sadhu, i went to nearby town. > > I also had a fear in my mind that ppl of village and my family members wd criticize me, so, i didnt do efforts to call sadhu, this is second time in life when i missed my duty for such type of stupid reasons. > > I wanted to counsil him both emotionaly and spiritualy, i could do effort to begin process to balance his past live sanskars, but, you know, god's wish is above our desires, i returnd to rewa same day evening, without meeting to him. > > 2 day's back, i came to know that sadhu has committed suicide. > > Tell me, what's use of energy of mantra? Perhapse, if i could meet him and could spend one single mantra's energy on his healing, today, he could survive, i could also help him financialy though i m also not rich, bt, i couldnt do anything for a simple lapse in decision making. You, pls dont miss a chance like this in your life if you are capable. > > Now, sadhu will never come, he is no more !! > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 6, 2009 Report Share Posted August 6, 2009 Dr Nandana and Sushama Ji, I m trying to console myself wth what you both expressed .... Me and wordly, practicality n wisdom hve been a sharp contrast in way of carrying out duties, never cared who is there before me to stop me, bt, here in this case, there was no body to stop me other then my own mind... is it a sign of my becoming weak and coming under worldly impression or m i reacting to ppl's behavior towards me, or, i m loosing energy that sadhana exposed within or maa is distancing me, i hve many questions to answer ? Regards, Lalit. Vedic Astrologyandhealing , " bhagvatjee " <bhagvatjee wrote: > > Dear Lalit Jee > Jaya Siyaa Raam > > Very sad, indeed very sad. This is called luck, or fate or destiny. Honee Ko Kaun Taal Sakataa hai. Sometimes in spite of knowing many things one cannot adopt the path one wants to adopt. God does not allow anybody to help him whom He does not want to. This is not your failure, it was his Destiny. > > Although it is natural to blame oneself, because you had already thought about to help him, but do not blame yourself. It was God's wish which kept you far from him. > > With regards > Sushma > > > Vedic Astrologyandhealing , " litsol " <mishra.lalit@> wrote: > > > > When i cried 2 day's back, still, I could'nt get peace, he is no more now, he was not my relative, not born as brahmin, bt, he was innocent, some 20 yrs old. > > > > His parents used to call him 'Sadhu', living next door to my family house in village, he belongs to a poor OBC family, i hve not much lived in my village bt sometimes you love a person for no reason, and if you are in spirituality, you dont recognise a reason for having a feeling of luv towards a person you are not familiar. > > > > In fact, i wanted to talk to him since i heard that he is disturbed, I got opportunity to visit my village soon after my marriage for puja of Gram Devta, it was a short trip of 5 hrs, it was in my mind to meet him, bt, i was also in toxic days of marriage, i got time to goto his house, perhapse it was closed, though, i was worried for him, i thought, ok, wd meet him later, my real brother was facing some problems at his office and wanted me to draft a mail for him, so, instead of asking somebody in village to call sadhu, i went to nearby town. > > > > I also had a fear in my mind that ppl of village and my family members wd criticize me, so, i didnt do efforts to call sadhu, this is second time in life when i missed my duty for such type of stupid reasons. > > > > I wanted to counsil him both emotionaly and spiritualy, i could do effort to begin process to balance his past live sanskars, but, you know, god's wish is above our desires, i returnd to rewa same day evening, without meeting to him. > > > > 2 day's back, i came to know that sadhu has committed suicide. > > > > Tell me, what's use of energy of mantra? Perhapse, if i could meet him and could spend one single mantra's energy on his healing, today, he could survive, i could also help him financialy though i m also not rich, bt, i couldnt do anything for a simple lapse in decision making. You, pls dont miss a chance like this in your life if you are capable. > > > > Now, sadhu will never come, he is no more !! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.