Guest guest Posted May 27, 2008 Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 Batchiter, well if u really love her u must be able to do anything for her even sacrifice that attachment for her and love her as a true friend, wish her well and even if she is unhappy in her marriage for a short time also encourage her, give her moral support to strengthen her marriage not weakne it she is a married owmen now so entertain only genuine compassion, affection as u may have to a sister of urs. bless her and move on as she has, it is unethical to stillentertain anyother interest in her, this way ur career, life will move on to greater levels else u will runin all u have now too. come out of Moha and move to tyaga and then prema of a a true friend. Best wishes it is not easy but POSSIBLE. else there is no difference between a animal and a human being who evolves and adjusts with time, values they are human etc. bach_kabba <bach_kabba wrote: Hi there!!! Date of birth is 5th july 1978. Name: Bachitter singh. Place of birth Chaunda, Punjab, India. These days going through very depressing phase. I thougt by now I would be over it as time heals everything. I was in love with someone. She loved me as well. But fate didnt want to see us together. She got married somewhere else. She resisted but then sccummled to family pressure. Guy to whom she married also new the story but didnt help us et al. She accecpted the destiny and said she is looking forward for new life although she is not happy and she left me. We talked little bit after her marriage but I started blaming her cursing her out of frustation. Then she stopped talking to me. Then I thought with time everything will be alright and I will forget her. Then I went to India (I live in cananda) for two months. before going to India I got managed to finsih my PhD and then also got job offer. These were the good things happened in life. Then I thought I will be good after sometime and I will forgt her. But in India I couldnt get my tour enjoyed. I was missing her so much. Then came back to canada and started job. but still I am not managed to forget her and I get so much depressed even though I try to do everything to go away from it. My feeling fights with themselves. Sometime says she must have forgotton me know and would be enjoying happy life. other times I feel she cant leave me and she should come back to my time. I didnt talk to her in 6 months now and I dont want to talk to her as I am affraid it could again make the things worse. its ok what phase I am going through but may be she would have been enjoying good life so why I disturb her and I dont have any right to do so. So I dont know what life as written for me. Even having everything I am still empty. Can u guys tell what would tentative course of life now. thanks BAchitter G B Prashant Kumar Pl give personal data with verifable life event dates=jobs, marriage, family, kids, high/low times. Picture or 2 for Lagna features check to my ID pkgoteti, Services of this astrologer in the group only are FREE! personal consultations ARE CHARGEABLE! Mobile 09840051861 Chennai, India Me Shuba Vela! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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