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Dear Sirs,

 

I want to discuss extremely imp this with you. I have got an offer

from an MNC as Regional Business Development manager. But the offer

is for North India and position is in Gurgaon, India. Currently I am

working with a reputed Apparel company in bangalore( South)India.

 

Now there are follwoing advantages:

1. New company is a much bigger company.Better salary

2. It may give future opportunities outside India.

3. Its a more professioanl and systematic company.

 

Disdvantages:

 

1. I have to leave my father and sisters. And thats the biggest and

most tough decision. Re-locating to gurgaon means I will have to

settle down there with my wife. My father will feel bad and will be

alone. My elder sister marriage is due and mother passed away in feb

only. All those things is making me to think and dont know what to do.

 

2. I don't know whether I can live with my wife alone as we end up

fighting so much. Currently because of my father and sisters at least

we control our fights.

 

3. But the most imp thing is whether this opprotunity is good for my

career as i dont know whether I can get into this company in future

if I leave the offer. This year my company in bangalore has assured

and committed verbally me for a hike and promotion by December.

 

But the biggest thing is new company - A Very good company and on the

other hand Father and sisters alone in Bangalore.

 

Please suggest me what shall I do as I am in a total fix and not able

to make a decision. I have told my father that i'll go for now and in

future if his existing business grows and he becomes stable in

Bangalore I can come back in 1-2 years and if business doesnt grow he

can think of moving to gurgaon.

 

Need your help Gurujis.

 

Thanks & Regards,

JIM

10th July 1978

19.31

Maunath Bhanjan ( 25.57N, 83.33E)

 

Father

 

28th April 1954

11.45pm

Maunath Bhanjan