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Dear Gurujans,

 

This is making me extremely tensed and worried. I have already decided to move

thinking it would be good for my future.

 

Please guide me properly and what shall I do. Need your help and inputs.

 

Thanks,

 

 

 

 

 

 

--- On Sat, 10/11/08, Prem Chopra <pramchopra1964 wrote:

 

Prem Chopra <pramchopra1964

Re: [A_Foresight_Prince_of_India_Available] Urgent Please

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Saturday, October 11, 2008, 5:38 PM

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

~~~ Om Shree Ganeshaaye Namah ~~~

 

Dear Jim [Anoop]

 

God Bless U

 

Sorry for the delay as there is not the right time for you move away from the

present location as it will give you grave affect and may be you loose job even.

In other words you should not proceed to other place at all. you have to

continue in Bangalore only.

 

Thanks

Tem Pram

 

 

 

 

On Sat, Oct 11, 2008 at 11:41 AM, Jim <vivluv_2000@ > wrote:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dear Pram Ji,

 

Why are you not replying? Please guide me and give me all perspectives so that I

can take decision. Need your immediate help.

 

 

I want to discuss extremely imp this with you. I have got an offer from an MNC

as Regional Business Development manager. But the offer is for North India and

position is in Gurgaon, India. Currently I am working with reputed Apparel

company in bangalore( South)India.  Monetarywise the offer is good and is approx

50% Hike on my current compensation. Now there are follwoing advantages:

 

 1. New company is a much bigger company.

 2. It may give future opportunities outside India.

 3. Its a more professioanl and systematic company. 

 

Disdvantages:

 

1. I have to leave my father and sisters. And thats the biggest and most tough

decision. Re-locating to gurgaon means I will have to settle down there with my

wife. My father will feel bad and will be alone. My elder sister marriage is due

and mother passed away in feb only. All  those things is making me to think and

dont know what to do.

 

2. Cost will go up in new place.

 

3. I don't know whether I can live with my wife alone as we end up fighting so

much. Currently because of my  father and sisters at least we control our

fights. 

 

4. But the most imp thing is whether this opprotunity is good for my career as i

dont know whether I can get into this company in future if I leave the offer.

This year my

company in bangalore has assured and committed verbally me for a hike and

promotion by December. Currently I handle South Region Trade and National role

for Department stores. But they told me that in 6 months they would make me

National sales manager.   It has become a tough decision. 

 

5. But the bihhest thing is good company and Family in Bangalore.Please suggest

me what shall I do as I am in a total fix and not able to make a decision. Need

your

 help Guruji.

 

 

 

Need your immediate guidance as I am in a big fix and dilemma. Actually if u see

my wife is running sade satti. And i think my sade satti is also there. Also one

of the renowned astrloger - bejan daruwalla - if u know him long back in 1999

predicted that 2010, 11 will be rough and tough on me and my family. What does

that mean? Can you pls look into my chart and comment on the same. Especially as

I am moving

away from my father and sisters to a new place its of prime importance to

understand this and find any solution/remedy. else as per your advice The offer

is good. My father is in 2 minds. But internally I know he would feel a bit

insecured and unhappy. He is worried that family would be scattered and whether

this opportunity is potectial in future. What I can see is this a potectial

opportubity for my future. And in the meantime if his business stabilizes in

bangalore I can move back to Bangalore in a year or two. Other if his business

doesnt grow in Bangalore then after my youger sisters marriage and younger to

younger sister's studies he can move to Gurgaon.

 

Whats your comments? 

 

Neeed help sir.

 

Thanks

 

 

 

Thanks & Regards,

Vivek

10th July 1978

19.31

Maunath Bhanjan ( 25.57N, 83.33E)