Need your inputs

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Dear Guruji,

 

Need your inputs and feedback. I have accepted a new job an offer

from an MNC in mobile phones. But the offer

is for North India and position is in Gurgaon, India. Currently I am

working with reputed Apparel company in bangalore( South)India. I

have already resigned from existing company and planning to join fron

November 17th. Monetarywise the offer is good and is approx 50%

Hike on my current compensation. Now there are follwoing advantages:

 

1. New company is a much bigger company.

2. It may give future opportunities outside India.

 

Disdvantages:

 

1. I have to leave my father and sisters. And thats the biggest and

most tough decision. Re-locating to gurgaon means I will have to

settle down there with my wife. My father will feel bad and will be

alone. My elder sister marriage is due and mother passed away in feb

only. All those things is making me to think and dont know what to

do.

 

2. Cost will go up in new place.

 

3. I don't know whether I can live with my wife alone as we end up

fighting so much. Currently because of my father and sisters at

least we control our fights.

 

4. But the most imp thing is whether this opprotunity is good for my

career as i dont know whether I can get into this company in future

if I leave the offer. Thanks & Regards,

 

Please guide me Gurujis and give me your thoughts and opinion on this

move and how can i make it successful.

 

 

JIM

10th July 1978

19.31

Maunath Bhanjan ( 25.57N, 83.33E)