Need Guidance - Family Discord

[Guest guest]

Dear Gurujan,

 

I am a novice astrologer and the problem at hand is too big/serious -

so I am reaching out to this forum for guidance, so that I can help

the couple involved and also learn in the process. ( I now realize the

burden of being the astrologer - people turn to you with so much hope)

 

It's a problem in my bro's family. There was some arguments between

husband and wife on 12th Jan (in Nagpur) - not sure of the reasons -

guy is not talking to us openly and is still trying to shield his

wife's true motives probably out of shame - however, we believe, it

may be around the aged parent's presence in the house - as the wife

has been opposed to this and every time, the parents visit the family

(never more than 4-8 weeks) - there is a tension in the family. This

time around, wife called her father and brother from the native place

- they came, created lot of scene at home, abused and called the boy

and his family all names - threatened to put everyone in jail by

falsely invoking anti-dowry act - took the wife and two young

daughters(2 yrs and 20 days respeectively) and left.

 

Now the thing troubling everyone a) why it happened? - astrologically

and non-astrologically; b) what's in the store for the boy, boy's

parents, girl and the two small kids? how long the problem will

continue c) What's the remedy? so 1) they unite;and the inherent

differences get taken care; 2) no one suffers (neither the boy, girl,

boy's parents, or the two small kids ) - if they the couple unite, but

boy has to disown his parents for peace at home or if these events

recur- that will also not be perfect. Further,

Even if they have to separate, it should be done smoothly without bad

blood or sufferings.

 

I did see Panditji's mail on " PIL on jyotish " and rahu in dhanu rashi

- interestingly girl here is of dhanu rashi -so there may be a link

there. Further, the boy is in MD of AK(Venus) , which is also 6L in D1

and 8L in D9. Sani AD (sitting with Ra in D9 Lagna) and Rahu PD(ended

on 13th Jan - Rahu is transiting over Natal Gu). From TP, He is in Sy

dasa - TP LL and Sy is currently eclipsed by Rahu. (next year, his TP

hora lord will also be 6L in TP D1 - does that mean the strife will

continue - probably till rahu is in dhanu)

 

Further, Girl has started 8L(Mar) MD from 2009 and is in Rahu

AD(6L(both D1/D9) in Lagna) and Sa PD. Can I interpret it as that it's

due to " nija-dosha " or poorva-karma of girl , which will make her her

own enemy?? In TP , Hora lord is Gu(7l in 8H) with Ra and is under Sk

Dasa in D9 - aspected by Sa/Ra) - so, nodes does seem to be playing a

role along with 8th house. Even from a long-term perspective - she has

Ra in lagna with Sy and Bu. (both natal and transit). Further, Bu is

her 7L from Chandra-lagna.

 

So, Can I safely say it's Rahu's game(short-term and long-term) and he

should take shelter under Maa Durga or Somnath(??) Shiva (as panditji

talked abt in PIL case). Kindly illuminate and guide. It's a personal

case - so I may be bit biased too (I belong to the boy's family)

 

 

Husband:

 

March 25, 1972

Time: 8:54:54 am

Time Zone: 5:30:00 (East of GMT)

Place: 85 E 07' 00 " , 25 N 36' 00 "

Patna, India

 

Wife:

 

October 9, 1978

Time: 6:20:00 am

Time Zone: 5:30:00 (East of GMT)

Place: 85 E 58' 00 " , 23 N 47' 00 "

Bokaro, India

 

Thanks & Regards

 

Sanjay

[Guest guest]

Sorry,

 

boy's birth data is slightly wrong . It's 8.54.54 pm and not am. By

this, he is under Sy MD/Sa AD/Ra PD - again Rahu is there. further, 7L

Ma is in 8H with Sa. As per TP - 8L Sy is hora lord of the year and

eclipsed by Ra. and he is under Moon dasa (7L in 8H). Again - too many

8 Hs and Ra :- how shd I interpret?

 

 

On Fri, Jan 15, 2010 at 12:05 PM, Sanjay Prasad <skprasad wrote:

> Dear Gurujan,

>

> I am a novice astrologer and  the problem at hand is too big/serious -

> so I am reaching out to this forum for guidance, so that I can help

> the couple involved and also learn in the process. ( I now realize the

> burden of being the astrologer - people turn to you with so much hope)

>

> It's a problem in my bro's family. There was some arguments between

> husband and wife on 12th Jan (in Nagpur)  - not sure of the reasons -

> guy is not talking to us openly and is still trying to shield his

> wife's true motives probably out of shame - however, we believe, it

> may be around the aged parent's presence in the house - as the wife

> has been opposed to this and every time, the parents visit the family

> (never more than 4-8 weeks) - there is a tension in the family. This

> time around, wife called her father and brother from the native place

> - they came, created lot of scene at home, abused and called the boy

> and his family all names - threatened to put everyone in jail by

> falsely invoking anti-dowry act - took the wife and two young

> daughters(2 yrs and 20 days respeectively) and left.

>

> Now the thing troubling everyone  a) why it happened? - astrologically

> and non-astrologically; b) what's in the store for the boy, boy's

> parents, girl and the two small kids? how long the problem will

> continue c) What's the remedy? so 1) they unite;and  the inherent

> differences get taken care; 2) no one suffers (neither the boy, girl,

> boy's parents, or the two small kids ) - if they the couple unite, but

> boy has to disown his parents for peace at home or if these events

> recur- that will also not be perfect. Further,

> Even if they have to separate, it should be done smoothly without bad

> blood or sufferings.

>

> I did see Panditji's mail on " PIL on jyotish " and rahu in dhanu rashi

> - interestingly girl here is of dhanu rashi -so there may be a link

> there. Further, the boy is in MD of AK(Venus) , which is also 6L in D1

> and 8L in D9. Sani AD (sitting with Ra in D9 Lagna) and Rahu PD(ended

> on 13th Jan - Rahu is transiting over Natal Gu). From TP, He is in Sy

> dasa - TP LL and Sy is currently eclipsed by Rahu. (next year, his TP

> hora lord will also be 6L in TP D1 - does that mean the strife will

> continue - probably till rahu is in dhanu)

>

> Further, Girl has started 8L(Mar) MD from 2009 and is in Rahu

> AD(6L(both D1/D9) in Lagna) and Sa PD. Can I interpret it as that it's

> due to " nija-dosha " or poorva-karma of girl , which will make her her

> own enemy?? In TP , Hora lord is Gu(7l in 8H) with Ra and is under Sk

> Dasa in D9 - aspected by Sa/Ra) - so, nodes does seem to be playing a

> role along with 8th house. Even from a long-term perspective - she has

> Ra in lagna with Sy and Bu. (both natal and transit). Further, Bu is

> her 7L from Chandra-lagna.

>

> So, Can I safely say it's Rahu's game(short-term and long-term) and he

> should take shelter under Maa Durga or  Somnath(??) Shiva (as panditji

> talked abt in PIL case). Kindly illuminate and guide. It's a personal

> case - so I may be bit biased too (I belong to the boy's family)

>

>

> Husband:

>

>          March 25, 1972

> Time:          8:54:54 am

> Time Zone:     5:30:00 (East of GMT)

> Place:         85 E 07' 00 " , 25 N 36' 00 "

>               Patna, India

>

> Wife:

>

>          October 9, 1978

> Time:          6:20:00 am

> Time Zone:     5:30:00 (East of GMT)

> Place:         85 E 58' 00 " , 23 N 47' 00 "

>               Bokaro, India

>

> Thanks & Regards

>

> Sanjay

>