Guest guest Posted March 25, 2009 Report Share Posted March 25, 2009 Dear Sharat, The purpose of the upaya is to make the object reach the cemetery area, be it almonds or Til. How best it can be done has to be thought out by the Jatak. He may have to choose a cemetery where the upaya can be done easily. I have seen a lot of 'kabristan' both muslim and christian, where there is either no wall or a very low wall. Sincerely, Priya , sharat pandit <sharatpandit wrote: > > Respected Priya ji > > whenever such an upaya ie 'throwing from outside the cemetery' is > considered, I have come accross a practical problem. the outer walls of > almost all the shamshan ghar have high walls and it is not possible to throw > so high. the result is that whatever things you are supposed to throw inside > the cemetry fall outside only. one of my friend did the upaya for marriage > and in that upaya you have to do it over the shoulder and it is specified > not to look back, she was not able to throw all the almonds inside and lot > of these fell on outside the boundry. pl tell if this way is correct. > > some shamshan ghars have an outside boundry, then parking space and then > another boundry enclosing the area where the actual sanskar is performed. is > is okay to do this upaya from the parking space to the inside boundry or can > one just drop the upaya items anywhere in the cemetry. > > thanx and regards > > sharat pandit > > > > > On Tue, Mar 24, 2009 at 12:38 PM, < > wrote: > > > Dear Suresh ji, > > > > Ask his mother to do this upaya : > > > > Throw a handful of Til [ sesame seeds ] into a cemetery, from out side of > > the boundary wall, for 5 days regularly. The Til should be thrown during the > > day light hours. It is to be done for 5 days. There should be no break in > > the upaya. > > > > Lets hope for the best. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > --- In <%40>, > > suresh khandelwal <sureshkhandelwal@> wrote: > > > > > > Panditji, > > > > > > ? i am in deep trouble .My son is not traceble.his details are as follos: > > > > > > ?Name:?????? Chirag > > > ?dob??????????? 23/8/1991 > > > ? pob?????????? Delhi > > > ? tob??????????? 10.39am > > > > > > my details are as follow: > > > > > > Name?????????? Suresh > > > dob?????????????? 10/7/1964 > > > pob?????????????? alwar (rajsthan) > > > tob??????????????? 3pm to 5pm apx > > > > > > could you please give remedies immediately. I shall be higly obliged. and > > if i have commited any mistake against your honour kindly pardon me as i m > > very disturbed > > > > > > regarrds > > > > > > > > > sureshkhandelwal > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2009 Report Share Posted March 29, 2009 Dear Priya ji can one tie the til or Almonds in a plastic pack or tie in a cloth(color & material??) before throwing in the cemetry. regards Sharat Pandit On Wed, Mar 25, 2009 at 9:07 AM, < wrote: Dear Sharat,The purpose of the upaya is to make the object reach the cemetery area, be it almonds or Til. How best it can be done has to be thought out by the Jatak. He may have to choose a cemetery where the upaya can be done easily. I have seen a lot of 'kabristan' both muslim and christian, where there is either no wall or a very low wall. Sincerely,Priya , sharat pandit <sharatpandit wrote:>> Respected Priya ji > > whenever such an upaya ie 'throwing from outside the cemetery' is> considered, I have come accross a practical problem. the outer walls of> almost all the shamshan ghar have high walls and it is not possible to throw > so high. the result is that whatever things you are supposed to throw inside> the cemetry fall outside only. one of my friend did the upaya for marriage> and in that upaya you have to do it over the shoulder and it is specified > not to look back, she was not able to throw all the almonds inside and lot> of these fell on outside the boundry. pl tell if this way is correct.> > some shamshan ghars have an outside boundry, then parking space and then > another boundry enclosing the area where the actual sanskar is performed. is> is okay to do this upaya from the parking space to the inside boundry or can> one just drop the upaya items anywhere in the cemetry. > > thanx and regards> > sharat pandit> > > > > On Tue, Mar 24, 2009 at 12:38 PM, <> wrote:> > > Dear Suresh ji, > >> > Ask his mother to do this upaya :> >> > Throw a handful of Til [ sesame seeds ] into a cemetery, from out side of> > the boundary wall, for 5 days regularly. The Til should be thrown during the > > day light hours. It is to be done for 5 days. There should be no break in> > the upaya.> >> > Lets hope for the best.> >> > Sincerely,> >> > Priya > >> > <%40>, > > suresh khandelwal <sureshkhandelwal@> wrote:> > >> > > Panditji,> > >> > > ? i am in deep trouble .My son is not traceble.his details are as follos:> > > > > > ?Name:?????? Chirag> > > ?dob??????????? 23/8/1991> > > ? pob?????????? Delhi> > > ? tob??????????? 10.39am> > >> > > my details are as follow: > > >> > > Name?????????? Suresh> > > dob?????????????? 10/7/1964> > > pob?????????????? alwar (rajsthan)> > > tob??????????????? 3pm to 5pm apx> > > > > > could you please give remedies immediately. I shall be higly obliged. and> > if i have commited any mistake against your honour kindly pardon me as i m> > very disturbed> > > > > > regarrds> > >> > >> > > sureshkhandelwal> > >> >> > > >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2009 Report Share Posted March 29, 2009 Dear Sharat ji, No. I do not think so. Sincerely, Priya , sharat pandit <sharatpandit wrote: > > Dear Priya ji > > can one tie the til or Almonds in a plastic pack or tie in a cloth(color & > material??) before throwing in the cemetry. > > regards > > Sharat Pandit > > On Wed, Mar 25, 2009 at 9:07 AM, < > wrote: > > > Dear Sharat, > > > > The purpose of the upaya is to make the object reach the cemetery area, be > > it almonds or Til. How best it can be done has to be thought out by the > > Jatak. He may have to choose a cemetery where the upaya can be done easily. > > I have seen a lot of 'kabristan' both muslim and christian, where there is > > either no wall or a very low wall. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > --- In <%40>, > > sharat pandit <sharatpandit@> wrote: > > > > > > Respected Priya ji > > > > > > whenever such an upaya ie 'throwing from outside the cemetery' is > > > considered, I have come accross a practical problem. the outer walls of > > > almost all the shamshan ghar have high walls and it is not possible to > > throw > > > so high. the result is that whatever things you are supposed to throw > > inside > > > the cemetry fall outside only. one of my friend did the upaya for > > marriage > > > and in that upaya you have to do it over the shoulder and it is specified > > > not to look back, she was not able to throw all the almonds inside and > > lot > > > of these fell on outside the boundry. pl tell if this way is correct. > > > > > > some shamshan ghars have an outside boundry, then parking space and then > > > another boundry enclosing the area where the actual sanskar is performed. > > is > > > is okay to do this upaya from the parking space to the inside boundry or > > can > > > one just drop the upaya items anywhere in the cemetry. > > > > > > thanx and regards > > > > > > sharat pandit > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On Tue, Mar 24, 2009 at 12:38 PM, < > > > @> wrote: > > > > > > > Dear Suresh ji, > > > > > > > > Ask his mother to do this upaya : > > > > > > > > Throw a handful of Til [ sesame seeds ] into a cemetery, from out side > > of > > > > the boundary wall, for 5 days regularly. The Til should be thrown > > during the > > > > day light hours. It is to be done for 5 days. There should be no break > > in > > > > the upaya. > > > > > > > > Lets hope for the best. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > --- In <%40> > > <%40>, > > > > suresh khandelwal <sureshkhandelwal@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Panditji, > > > > > > > > > > ? i am in deep trouble .My son is not traceble.his details are as > > follos: > > > > > > > > > > ?Name:?????? Chirag > > > > > ?dob??????????? 23/8/1991 > > > > > ? pob?????????? Delhi > > > > > ? tob??????????? 10.39am > > > > > > > > > > my details are as follow: > > > > > > > > > > Name?????????? Suresh > > > > > dob?????????????? 10/7/1964 > > > > > pob?????????????? alwar (rajsthan) > > > > > tob??????????????? 3pm to 5pm apx > > > > > > > > > > could you please give remedies immediately. I shall be higly obliged. > > and > > > > if i have commited any mistake against your honour kindly pardon me as > > i m > > > > very disturbed > > > > > > > > > > regarrds > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > sureshkhandelwal > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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