Clarifaction on the saas bahu conflict upay

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Namaste Priyaji,

 

Sadar pranam and Chransparsh. I have completed the Rahu antardasha upay for

marital harmony. Luckily by yours and God's blessings, I was able to find a

small silver elephant for a much cheaper price ($15). I did the upay in the

same temple that I got married.

 

Now yesterday, I started the saas bahu conflict upay.

 

Priyaji, the place where I live it's hard to make curds because of the

temperatures and so I have been buying it premade from the stores. I hope it's

okay to us the curds(yougurt) from the stores.

 

At night before going to bed, I half filled a stainless steel bowl with the curd

from store and then, I covered it with a silk cloth. I got hte silk cloth from

India. I washed it with Gangajal and dried it before using it for the upay.

The silk cloth is printed with flower prints and light blue in color. Then, I

sprinkled some ashes on it that my mom had sent from India few years ago. It is

from some yagna and so it does have cow dung in it.

 

What I noticed this morning is that the water from the curds had made the ash

all wet and also the cloth. I scraped of the watery ash into the earthern pot

with a help of a spoon and I transferred the curd into another container to

leave it at the temple. Priyaji, for some reason some blue and yellow color

from the cloth was also getting on the curds. I then washed the cloth and the

bowl to repeat the upay tonight and continue it for 13 days. That means that I

do it for 12 days and then immerse it on the 13th morning. Is it correct?

 

Priyaji, please let me know if I did everything correctly so far. Mainly, I

should wash the bowl and the cloth everyday and that it is okay if some of the

color from the cloth gets stuck on the curds. Like that no color comes out if

you wash but only when you leave the cloth over night the color gets on the

curd. Should I buy a different cloth?

 

Please let me know. Thanks again for your help. I request you to keep this

query confidential.

 

Best Regards,

 

Hiral