Re:Pitra Paksha starts 4th September Dada Ashish

[Guest guest]

Dear Dada-Ashish,

 

[ 1 ] According to Hindu tradition Ladies are not required to do the Tarpan. But

I personally do not find any thing wrong if a lady does the tarpan.

 

[ 2 ] The devta to be remembered and worshipped during the Pitra paksha is the

Kul Devta.

 

[ 3 ] Yes, There is a minor Pitri Rin dosh in your kundali. There is no such

dosh in your husband's kundali.

 

Therefore you should:

 

Count all the members of your extended family. Extended family includes the

family of your uncles also. Married sisters and daughters are not to be counted

in. Once you have got the count, get some token subscription from them to meet

the expanses of the two upaya you have to do. In case some one refuses to give

his share, you should put his share from your pocket. Of the money thus

collected you have to do these two upaya.

 

[ 1 ] Gift at any temple some item which is of general use for those who come to

worship there.

 

[ 2 ] Buy kaudis { small sea shells } which should be yellowish in colour equal

to the number of members counted above. Burn these kaudis on kachcha koyala {

wood charcoal } in an open earthen pot, at the bank of a river close to the

water. When the kaudis turn to ashes, throw the ash into the river and later

throw the pot also into the river. Make sure while you are burning the kaudis ,

no one should cross between the water and the place where the kaudis are being

burnt. That means burn the kaudis close to the water.

 

Sincerely,

 

Priya

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

, " dada_ashish " <dada_ashish wrote:

>

> Namaste Priyaji,

>

> Sadar Pranam and charnasparsh!

>

> Thank you for providing valuable information about the Pitra Paksha.

> I am a female, can I still offer tarpan to the ancestors? My husband is

currently leaving separately from me and will not co-operate and so in that

case, can I perform remedy number one mentioned below?

>

> Priyaji, kindly let me know if I or my husband has pitru dosh in our kundali?

> Lastly, which deity should be prayed during the 15 days to recieve the

blessing of our ancestors?

>

> Thank you for your valuable help and may dear God bless your soul.

>

> Best Regards

> , " "

<@> wrote:

> >

> >

> > Dear Members,

> >

> > Dos and don’ts during Pitra Paksha

> >

> >

> >

> > [1] One should offer water putting black sesame and barley in it to Lord

> > Sun facing south in noon time chanting " OM PITRABHYO NAMAH " during all

> > the 16 days.

> > [2] One should not shave in the morning but can do in the evening.

> > [3] To wash clothes are prohibited in the morning time.

> > [4] One should throw or spread some black sesame on the floors of the

> > house during these days because Pitras get the extreme satisfaction to

> > eat and see it.

> > [5] One should give rotis to Cow, Crow and Dog daily. We should not talk

> > to the Brahmin at the time when he is taking meal of Shradh and should

> > put the tilak of either ganga jal is just water after the Brahmin has

> > finished his meals and when the time to give him dakshina comes.

> > [6] If some one comes to your door for begging, must give some food to

> > him.

> > [7] Pulse of Lentil (Masoor),Pea (Matar) and Rajmaa are strictly

> > prohibited in Shraddh feed.

> >

> >

> > So we should follow the same as much as we can for getting the blessings

> > of our Pitras.

> >

> >

> >

> > God bless you

> >

> >

> >

> > Bhooshan Priya

> >

>

[Guest guest]

Dear Priyaji

Namaskar

 

Is it true that one should not light diyas (not even to Shani dev on saturdays)

during Pitra Paksha or even perform any pujas during this period.If its true and

somebody has lit them knowingly or unknowingly then what has to be done

 

Love and Regards

Rupen.

 

, " "

< wrote:

>

> Dear Dada-Ashish,

>

> [ 1 ] According to Hindu tradition Ladies are not required to do the Tarpan.

But I personally do not find any thing wrong if a lady does the tarpan.

>

> [ 2 ] The devta to be remembered and worshipped during the Pitra paksha is the

Kul Devta.

>

> [ 3 ] Yes, There is a minor Pitri Rin dosh in your kundali. There is no such

dosh in your husband's kundali.

>

> Therefore you should:

>

> Count all the members of your extended family. Extended family includes the

family of your uncles also. Married sisters and daughters are not to be counted

in. Once you have got the count, get some token subscription from them to meet

the expanses of the two upaya you have to do. In case some one refuses to give

his share, you should put his share from your pocket. Of the money thus

collected you have to do these two upaya.

>

> [ 1 ] Gift at any temple some item which is of general use for those who come

to worship there.

>

> [ 2 ] Buy kaudis { small sea shells } which should be yellowish in colour

equal to the number of members counted above. Burn these kaudis on kachcha

koyala { wood charcoal } in an open earthen pot, at the bank of a river close

to the water. When the kaudis turn to ashes, throw the ash into the river and

later throw the pot also into the river. Make sure while you are burning the

kaudis , no one should cross between the water and the place where the kaudis

are being burnt. That means burn the kaudis close to the water.

>

> Sincerely,

>

> Priya

>

>

>

>

>

, " dada_ashish " <dada_ashish@> wrote:

> >

> > Namaste Priyaji,

> >

> > Sadar Pranam and charnasparsh!

> >

> > Thank you for providing valuable information about the Pitra Paksha.

> > I am a female, can I still offer tarpan to the ancestors? My husband is

currently leaving separately from me and will not co-operate and so in that

case, can I perform remedy number one mentioned below?

> >

> > Priyaji, kindly let me know if I or my husband has pitru dosh in our

kundali?

> > Lastly, which deity should be prayed during the 15 days to recieve the

blessing of our ancestors?

> >

> > Thank you for your valuable help and may dear God bless your soul.

> >

> > Best Regards

> > , " "

<@> wrote:

> > >

> > >

> > > Dear Members,

> > >

> > > Dos and don’ts during Pitra Paksha

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > [1] One should offer water putting black sesame and barley in it to Lord

> > > Sun facing south in noon time chanting " OM PITRABHYO NAMAH " during all

> > > the 16 days.

> > > [2] One should not shave in the morning but can do in the evening.

> > > [3] To wash clothes are prohibited in the morning time.

> > > [4] One should throw or spread some black sesame on the floors of the

> > > house during these days because Pitras get the extreme satisfaction to

> > > eat and see it.

> > > [5] One should give rotis to Cow, Crow and Dog daily. We should not talk

> > > to the Brahmin at the time when he is taking meal of Shradh and should

> > > put the tilak of either ganga jal is just water after the Brahmin has

> > > finished his meals and when the time to give him dakshina comes.

> > > [6] If some one comes to your door for begging, must give some food to

> > > him.

> > > [7] Pulse of Lentil (Masoor),Pea (Matar) and Rajmaa are strictly

> > > prohibited in Shraddh feed.

> > >

> > >

> > > So we should follow the same as much as we can for getting the blessings

> > > of our Pitras.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > God bless you

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Bhooshan Priya

> > >

> >

>