Guest guest Posted November 18, 2009 Report Share Posted November 18, 2009 Dear Ruchika, Yes it is a general remedy and can be done by any bahu to minimize hostility between her and her moother-in-law. Sincerely, Priya , " ruchikag21 " <ruchikag21 wrote: > > Namaste Priyaji, > > Is the below saas bahu remedy for all : > > > > Every day, for 13 days regularly, fill half a bowl with dahi { curds } and cover the dahi with a cotton cloth. Put a little ash over the cloth and press it gently so that it soaks up the water content of the dahi. Leave the bowl for the over night. In the morning, collect the ash in an earthen pot, while offer the dahi at any temple. At the end of the 13th day immerse the earthen pot along with the ash into a river or sea. The cloth you select, to cover the dahi with, should be porous enough to soak the water through. The ash should be preferably of `upale' {dung cake} or wood charcoal { kachcha koyala } so that it could soak up the water. > > As my would be mother-in-law is creating severe problems, due to which there is lot of tension. > > can I do this so that my would be mother in law becomes favourable towards me? > > Thank you > Rucheka > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2009 Report Share Posted November 19, 2009 Thank you Priyaji, Priyaji, Everything was fixed and finalised but the mother of the boy with whom I was about to get married to is very hitler-like and at the last minute she throwed false tantrums, created misunderstandings, due to which he stopped talking to me and I had to come back to India. will this remedy help me in softening his mother's heart for me? Please guide. Thank you Rucheka , " Pandit Bhooshan Priya " < wrote: > > Dear Ruchika, > > Yes it is a general remedy and can be done by any bahu to minimize hostility between her and her moother-in-law. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > , " ruchikag21 " <ruchikag21@> wrote: > > > > Namaste Priyaji, > > > > Is the below saas bahu remedy for all : > > > > > > Every day, for 13 days regularly, fill half a bowl with dahi { curds } and cover the dahi with a cotton cloth. Put a little ash over the cloth and press it gently so that it soaks up the water content of the dahi. Leave the bowl for the over night. In the morning, collect the ash in an earthen pot, while offer the dahi at any temple. At the end of the 13th day immerse the earthen pot along with the ash into a river or sea. The cloth you select, to cover the dahi with, should be porous enough to soak the water through. The ash should be preferably of `upale' {dung cake} or wood charcoal { kachcha koyala } so that it could soak up the water. > > > > As my would be mother-in-law is creating severe problems, due to which there is lot of tension. > > > > can I do this so that my would be mother in law becomes favourable towards me? > > > > Thank you > > Rucheka > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2009 Report Share Posted November 19, 2009 Dear Ruchika, Lets hope it helps. Sincerely, priya , " ruchikag21 " <ruchikag21 wrote: > > Thank you Priyaji, > > Priyaji, Everything was fixed and finalised but the mother of the boy with whom I was about to get married to is very hitler-like and at the last minute she throwed false tantrums, created misunderstandings, due to which he stopped talking to me and I had to come back to India. > will this remedy help me in softening his mother's heart for me? Please guide. > > Thank you > Rucheka > > , " Pandit Bhooshan Priya " <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Ruchika, > > > > Yes it is a general remedy and can be done by any bahu to minimize hostility between her and her moother-in-law. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " ruchikag21 " <ruchikag21@> wrote: > > > > > > Namaste Priyaji, > > > > > > Is the below saas bahu remedy for all : > > > > > > > > Every day, for 13 days regularly, fill half a bowl with dahi { curds } and cover the dahi with a cotton cloth. Put a little ash over the cloth and press it gently so that it soaks up the water content of the dahi. Leave the bowl for the over night. In the morning, collect the ash in an earthen pot, while offer the dahi at any temple. At the end of the 13th day immerse the earthen pot along with the ash into a river or sea. The cloth you select, to cover the dahi with, should be porous enough to soak the water through. The ash should be preferably of `upale' {dung cake} or wood charcoal { kachcha koyala } so that it could soak up the water. > > > > > > As my would be mother-in-law is creating severe problems, due to which there is lot of tension. > > > > > > can I do this so that my would be mother in law becomes favourable towards me? > > > > > > Thank you > > > Rucheka > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 20, 2009 Report Share Posted November 20, 2009 Thank you. With your guidance and blessings I'll go ahead and do this remedy. a few doubts I have, Please help. 1. any particular weight of the curd in gms or a simple katori used in daily food. 2. can the dahi be offered on the shiva ling. otherwise if I just give it in the temple the panditji throws it away. 3. the earthern pot has to be immersed on the 13th itself or can be done on the next day, i.e. 14th day-on which this remedy is not done. 4. cloth is white in colour and has to be immersed in the river as well with the earthern pot...is this right. Thank you so much Priyaji. Charan Sparsh. Rucheka , " Pandit Bhooshan Priya " < wrote: > > Dear Ruchika, > > Lets hope it helps. > > Sincerely, > > priya > > > > > > , " ruchikag21 " <ruchikag21@> wrote: > > > > Thank you Priyaji, > > > > Priyaji, Everything was fixed and finalised but the mother of the boy with whom I was about to get married to is very hitler-like and at the last minute she throwed false tantrums, created misunderstandings, due to which he stopped talking to me and I had to come back to India. > > will this remedy help me in softening his mother's heart for me? Please guide. > > > > Thank you > > Rucheka > > > > , " Pandit Bhooshan Priya " <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Ruchika, > > > > > > Yes it is a general remedy and can be done by any bahu to minimize hostility between her and her moother-in-law. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " ruchikag21 " <ruchikag21@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Namaste Priyaji, > > > > > > > > Is the below saas bahu remedy for all : > > > > > > > > > > Every day, for 13 days regularly, fill half a bowl with dahi { curds } and cover the dahi with a cotton cloth. Put a little ash over the cloth and press it gently so that it soaks up the water content of the dahi. Leave the bowl for the over night. In the morning, collect the ash in an earthen pot, while offer the dahi at any temple. At the end of the 13th day immerse the earthen pot along with the ash into a river or sea. The cloth you select, to cover the dahi with, should be porous enough to soak the water through. The ash should be preferably of `upale' {dung cake} or wood charcoal { kachcha koyala } so that it could soak up the water. > > > > > > > > As my would be mother-in-law is creating severe problems, due to which there is lot of tension. > > > > > > > > can I do this so that my would be mother in law becomes favourable towards me? > > > > > > > > Thank you > > > > Rucheka > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 20, 2009 Report Share Posted November 20, 2009 Dear Ruchika, [1] A katori of curds will be sufficient. [2]Do not offer it to Lord Shiv Ling. Just leave the curds in front of any deity. You can leave the curds there in a paper cup. [3]You can immerse the pot on the 14th day. [4] Yes use a white cloth and yes that too should be immersed along with the pot and the collected ash. Sincerely, Priya , " ruchikag21 " <ruchikag21 wrote: > > Thank you. With your guidance and blessings I'll go ahead and do this remedy. a few doubts I have, Please help. > > 1. any particular weight of the curd in gms or a simple katori used in daily food. > 2. can the dahi be offered on the shiva ling. otherwise if I just give it in the temple the panditji throws it away. > 3. the earthern pot has to be immersed on the 13th itself or can be done on the next day, i.e. 14th day-on which this remedy is not done. > 4. cloth is white in colour and has to be immersed in the river as well with the earthern pot...is this right. > > Thank you so much Priyaji. > Charan Sparsh. > Rucheka > > , " Pandit Bhooshan Priya " <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Ruchika, > > > > Lets hope it helps. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " ruchikag21 " <ruchikag21@> wrote: > > > > > > Thank you Priyaji, > > > > > > Priyaji, Everything was fixed and finalised but the mother of the boy with whom I was about to get married to is very hitler-like and at the last minute she throwed false tantrums, created misunderstandings, due to which he stopped talking to me and I had to come back to India. > > > will this remedy help me in softening his mother's heart for me? Please guide. > > > > > > Thank you > > > Rucheka > > > > > > , " Pandit Bhooshan Priya " <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Ruchika, > > > > > > > > Yes it is a general remedy and can be done by any bahu to minimize hostility between her and her moother-in-law. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " ruchikag21 " <ruchikag21@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Namaste Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > Is the below saas bahu remedy for all : > > > > > > > > > > > > Every day, for 13 days regularly, fill half a bowl with dahi { curds } and cover the dahi with a cotton cloth. Put a little ash over the cloth and press it gently so that it soaks up the water content of the dahi. Leave the bowl for the over night. In the morning, collect the ash in an earthen pot, while offer the dahi at any temple. At the end of the 13th day immerse the earthen pot along with the ash into a river or sea. The cloth you select, to cover the dahi with, should be porous enough to soak the water through. The ash should be preferably of `upale' {dung cake} or wood charcoal { kachcha koyala } so that it could soak up the water. > > > > > > > > > > As my would be mother-in-law is creating severe problems, due to which there is lot of tension. > > > > > > > > > > can I do this so that my would be mother in law becomes favourable towards me? > > > > > > > > > > Thank you > > > > > Rucheka > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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