tremendously hurt by the son

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Pranam Guruji,

 

My son arrived on 23rd December09 to visit us for his training vacation. I

wanted to go to airport to pick him up but my husband refused saying one of his

friend will pick him as he has bike. i was hurt but still kept quiet as i knew

that he is in love with Nepali girl will be at the airport so he wants to avoid

me. when i went home it was locked and i knew that my husband with my daughter

has gone to airport to pick him up. my husband avoided me because of this girl

as i have not approved of this girl because of her family background. i was

deeply hurt as they had food outside reach home at 1am. i felt neglected. on the

other side my son was hurt that i did't go to airport to pick him up. i told him

about his father refused. my son said why did i listened to my father if you

would have loved me you would have come anyway. i just don't understand why

husband is creating a misunderstanding between me and my son. he has been doing

it since my son was a kid. i am deeply hurt. i feel like commiting suicide

sometimes for my husband's behaviour.

 

secondly, i didn't approve of girl of my son choice because i wanted a family

with good background and big family but he has turned totally against me as i am

against this girl. today he literally fought with me over the phone for this

girl who is just few months old in his life. she was standing next to him and he

was fighting with me taking her side. i started crying upon that he said don't

blackmail me emotionally. i am too shocked and hurt. I have told him every son

has to pay for Matru-Run and i am giving you a freedom for not to pay for

matru-run and i will be praying God to give you sadbuddhi and May God pardon you

for hurting me. frankly speaking i am prepared for the worst. he has hurted me

so badly that i don't want to go to him. but still he is my son. I have revived

this pain i m still crying.

 

can you suggest some upayas to come out of this situation.

 

thank you very much

 

warm regards

 

 

urmilla