Guest guest Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 Hello desinty, I am not an astrologer. But after going through your messages I felt that you could be talking about yourself and your boy friend. Well, lets not beat around the bush, my simple advise to you is, I know it's very hard to move on in a relationship, but you need to try your level best. And based on my experience, I believe there is some planetary influence on us, during some stages of life we seem to ourselves very strong, and during some - very vulnerable. And I dont know what remedies you have to follow in this case, but what you can do is just pray to God daily, that will surely give you some mental peace. And also, do not think about anything else related to that person, anything ever - as to what happened, why it had happened so, future without him, future with him, good times with him, bad times - anything, just do not think about it. That is more important. Think about your daily tasks and relations with parents, friends etc in a microscopic manner. Make even a very minor daily task a major responsibility - think about that task, worry about that task, make it your life for then. Dont ever think as to why you are always in an emotional turmoil, dont even think about that side and dont be hard on yourself, just forget the entire episode. I understand if you say that though that guy is fickle minded etc, still its impossible to get over him and you are seeing a future with him and the very thought of no future with him is suicidal. But then, what is best for you? Yes, for the moment, it might seem that he is the very best for you, though you know there is always this humungous emotional turmoil when dealing with him. But practically, no, that's the worst option. Life is meant to be lived in a happy and peaceful manner. Why do you want to force yourself onto you some great emotional turmoil? I know its easy to say from my side. But if you could just follow " think about only your daily tasks and relations with your parents and friends in a microscopic manner " , that would do miracles. For example; if you are a student, and if you have a mid term exam in a few weeks, though you know you are a good student and never fail, still look it in a microscope, think and worry that " oh my god, maybe i will fail, i need to prepare for this real badly " . or cases like it's your mum's bday, so plan on buying her a gift, think about " what should i buy her, if i buy her this, is it good " constantly. " Concentrate and think about only mere day to day tasks " I understand the negative side of this, they could cause you unnecessary mental worries, but the huge positive side is, they will make you get out of that turmoil in quicker fashion and become normal like other people - who concentrate on thier career and day to day tasks and peaceful relations. Goodluck! --- On Sat, 11/8/08, destiny_veridical <diptigr wrote: destiny_veridical <diptigr [vedic astrology] Emotiaonal Trauma? vedic astrology Saturday, November 8, 2008, 10:51 AM 25th january 1986 8:05am, New Delhi, India. Respected astrologers, kindly let me know her education and chances of abroad in near future. I would appreciate if nature/time of marriage can also be predicted. This Girl is emotionally stressed out these days and wants to get out of the ongoing turmoil caused by her emotional attachment with a person. there was a break in her education last year, and now she has geared up to get back to her Post graduation. WHy she is attracted by people of opposite sex even if she doesnt want to? and this thing brings upon problems to her. Thanks Regards..... .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 I would like to append this message with " if my brilliant intuition fails in guessing you are the girls in subject, then for whoever it is concerned, I hope you can convey this advice to them " --- On Sat, 11/8/08, serenity forever <serenity_forever4 wrote: serenity forever <serenity_forever4 Re: [vedic astrology] Emotiaonal Trauma? vedic astrology Saturday, November 8, 2008, 11:45 PM Hello desinty, I am not an astrologer. But after going through your messages I felt that you could be talking about yourself and your boy friend. Well, lets not beat around the bush, my simple advise to you is, I know it's very hard to move on in a relationship, but you need to try your level best. And based on my experience, I believe there is some planetary influence on us, during some stages of life we seem to ourselves very strong, and during some - very vulnerable. And I dont know what remedies you have to follow in this case, but what you can do is just pray to God daily, that will surely give you some mental peace. And also, do not think about anything else related to that person, anything ever - as to what happened, why it had happened so, future without him, future with him, good times with him, bad times - anything, just do not think about it. That is more important. Think about your daily tasks and relations with parents, friends etc in a microscopic manner. Make even a very minor daily task a major responsibility - think about that task, worry about that task, make it your life for then. Dont ever think as to why you are always in an emotional turmoil, dont even think about that side and dont be hard on yourself, just forget the entire episode. I understand if you say that though that guy is fickle minded etc, still its impossible to get over him and you are seeing a future with him and the very thought of no future with him is suicidal. But then, what is best for you? Yes, for the moment, it might seem that he is the very best for you, though you know there is always this humungous emotional turmoil when dealing with him. But practically, no, that's the worst option. Life is meant to be lived in a happy and peaceful manner. Why do you want to force yourself onto you some great emotional turmoil? I know its easy to say from my side. But if you could just follow " think about only your daily tasks and relations with your parents and friends in a microscopic manner " , that would do miracles. For example; if you are a student, and if you have a mid term exam in a few weeks, though you know you are a good student and never fail, still look it in a microscope, think and worry that " oh my god, maybe i will fail, i need to prepare for this real badly " . or cases like it's your mum's bday, so plan on buying her a gift, think about " what should i buy her, if i buy her this, is it good " constantly. " Concentrate and think about only mere day to day tasks " I understand the negative side of this, they could cause you unnecessary mental worries, but the huge positive side is, they will make you get out of that turmoil in quicker fashion and become normal like other people - who concentrate on thier career and day to day tasks and peaceful relations. Goodluck! --- On Sat, 11/8/08, destiny_veridical <diptigr > wrote: destiny_veridical <diptigr > [vedic astrology] Emotiaonal Trauma? vedic astrology Saturday, November 8, 2008, 10:51 AM 25th january 1986 8:05am, New Delhi, India. Respected astrologers, kindly let me know her education and chances of abroad in near future. I would appreciate if nature/time of marriage can also be predicted. This Girl is emotionally stressed out these days and wants to get out of the ongoing turmoil caused by her emotional attachment with a person. there was a break in her education last year, and now she has geared up to get back to her Post graduation. WHy she is attracted by people of opposite sex even if she doesnt want to? and this thing brings upon problems to her. Thanks Regards..... .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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