Guest guest Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Dear Gurujis Here is my DOB:oct9th,1974,timr:13:05hrs,Guntur,Andhra Pradesh I am not sure where to start...I got married in 2005 and now I have a son of 1yr old. We live in US and at time of my son''s birth, my parents were here to help me. After a big fight, my husband agreed for my parents to stay with us for my 1st delivery -at first,only my mom and then my dad came after 1 month. They were here for 3 months and it was as very close to hell for my parents and me. Then atlast he told to me that he wants my parents to to leave the house. We are 4 sisters and we don't have brothers and I am the youngest one. My parents paid for the tickets to come here from India and then my husband and MIL always says that still my parents did not do something else for me. I did my MS here before marriage and I am working now. SO, I am earning money and still I was not able to buy anything for my parents when they were here. Now, My MIL is here and she talks in such a way that it hurts me. My husband agrees that and then he says it is her talking style and she is like this since his childhood. She is of high maintenance and always says that she cannot adjust in anything in any terms. Whenever she comes to US,she is here for 6 months and then she does lot of shopping for all the relatives. And then we pay $1500 for a house loan every month and in addition to this, she has our credit card and we pay for all her expenses in India. Still I should not say even a word, I am not allowed to even buy a $10 gift card for my dad.. If I continue writing this, I can write 100 pages.So, I am stopping here..Btw, his cousin were here in my house for 6 months and now other one is coming..But my parents are not allowed to visit me..(It was an arranged marriage) My question is - As per my horoscope, DO I need to suffer like this my remaining life? or Is there any possibility of any change in my husband. Any possibility of atleast my parents come here for a visit and stay with me for couple of months peacefully? Probably, no one cannot understand this..but, each and every minute, it is like a torture. Please analyse Thank for your help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 /*hraum krishnaya namah*/ Dear Kundana , Your Lagna is at the border. Sudasa nor Naisargika doesnt show marriage in 2005. I think first you need to rectify your birthtime. Regards, Rafal Gendarz SJC Jyotish Guru -------------- /*Consultations & Pages* http://rohinaa.com rafal starsuponme / Kundana Madasu pisze: > > > Dear Gurujis > > Here is my DOB:oct9th,1974, timr:13:05hrs, Guntur,Andhra Pradesh > > I am not sure where to start...I got married in 2005 and now I have a > son of 1yr old. We live in US and at time of my son''s birth, my > parents were here to help me. After a big fight, my husband agreed for > my parents to stay with us for my 1st delivery -at first,only my mom > and then my dad came after 1 month. They were here for 3 months and it > was as very close to hell for my parents and me. Then atlast he told > to me that he wants my parents to to leave the house. We are 4 sisters > and we don't have brothers and I am the youngest one. My parents paid > for the tickets to come here from India and then my husband and MIL > always says that still my parents did not do something else for me. I > did my MS here before marriage and I am working now. SO, I am earning > money and still I was not able to buy anything for my parents when > they were here. > > Now, My MIL is here and she talks in such a way that it hurts me. My > husband agrees that and then he says it is her talking style and she > is like this since his childhood. She is of high maintenance and > always says that she cannot adjust in anything in any terms. Whenever > she comes to US,she is here for 6 months and then she does lot of > shopping for all the relatives. And then we pay $1500 for a house > loan every month and in addition to this, she has our credit card and > we pay for all her expenses in India. Still I should not say even a > word, I am not allowed to even buy a $10 gift card for my dad.. If I > continue writing this, I can write 100 pages.So, I am stopping > here..Btw, his cousin were here in my house for 6 months and now other > one is coming..But my parents are not allowed to visit me..(It was an > arranged marriage) > > My question is - As per my horoscope, DO I need to suffer like this my > remaining life? or Is there any possibility of any change in my > husband. Any possibility of atleast my parents come here for a visit > and stay with me for couple of months peacefully? > > Probably, no one cannot understand this..but, each and every minute, > it is like a torture. > > Please analyse > > Thank for your help. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Namaskaram All, Many women face marital problems due to in-laws.In-laws are capable of shattering the pure relationship between husband and wife and wrecking the marriage. Can the jyotish gurus throw light on the possible factors in a horoscope for a person to get happiness w.r.t in-laws ? Regards, Indumati vedic astrology , Rafał Gendarz <starsuponme wrote: > > /*hraum krishnaya namah*/ > Dear Kundana , > > Your Lagna is at the border. Sudasa nor Naisargika doesnt show marriage > in 2005. > > I think first you need to rectify your birthtime. > > > Regards, > Rafal Gendarz > SJC Jyotish Guru > -------------- > /*Consultations & Pages* > http://rohinaa.com > rafal > starsuponme / > > Kundana Madasu pisze: > > > > > > Dear Gurujis > > > > Here is my DOB:oct9th,1974, timr:13:05hrs, Guntur,Andhra Pradesh > > > > I am not sure where to start...I got married in 2005 and now I have a > > son of 1yr old. We live in US and at time of my son''s birth, my > > parents were here to help me. After a big fight, my husband agreed for > > my parents to stay with us for my 1st delivery -at first,only my mom > > and then my dad came after 1 month. They were here for 3 months and it > > was as very close to hell for my parents and me. Then atlast he told > > to me that he wants my parents to to leave the house. We are 4 sisters > > and we don't have brothers and I am the youngest one. My parents paid > > for the tickets to come here from India and then my husband and MIL > > always says that still my parents did not do something else for me. I > > did my MS here before marriage and I am working now. SO, I am earning > > money and still I was not able to buy anything for my parents when > > they were here. > > > > Now, My MIL is here and she talks in such a way that it hurts me. My > > husband agrees that and then he says it is her talking style and she > > is like this since his childhood. She is of high maintenance and > > always says that she cannot adjust in anything in any terms. Whenever > > she comes to US,she is here for 6 months and then she does lot of > > shopping for all the relatives. And then we pay $1500 for a house > > loan every month and in addition to this, she has our credit card and > > we pay for all her expenses in India. Still I should not say even a > > word, I am not allowed to even buy a $10 gift card for my dad.. If I > > continue writing this, I can write 100 pages.So, I am stopping > > here..Btw, his cousin were here in my house for 6 months and now other > > one is coming..But my parents are not allowed to visit me..(It was an > > arranged marriage) > > > > My question is - As per my horoscope, DO I need to suffer like this my > > remaining life? or Is there any possibility of any change in my > > husband. Any possibility of atleast my parents come here for a visit > > and stay with me for couple of months peacefully? > > > > Probably, no one cannot understand this..but, each and every minute, > > it is like a torture. > > > > Please analyse > > > > Thank for your help. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 My marriage happened in Dec 2005. I started my first job as a software engineer in India in Nov 1997. Please let me know if I need to give any more details to rectify my DOB. Thanks ________________________________ m_indumati <m_indumati vedic astrology Sun, October 11, 2009 8:08:36 AM [vedic astrology] Re: If possible,pls analyze  Namaskaram All, Many women face marital problems due to in-laws.In-laws are capable of shattering the pure relationship between husband and wife and wrecking the marriage. Can the jyotish gurus throw light on the possible factors in a horoscope for a person to get happiness w.r.t in-laws ? Regards, Indumati vedic astrology, RafaÅ‚ Gendarz <starsuponme@ ...> wrote: > > /*hraum krishnaya namah*/ > Dear Kundana , > > Your Lagna is at the border. Sudasa nor Naisargika doesnt show marriage > in 2005. > > I think first you need to rectify your birthtime. > > > Regards, > Rafal Gendarz > SJC Jyotish Guru > ------------ -- > /*Consultations & Pages* > http://rohinaa. com > rafal > starsuponme@ ... / > > Kundana Madasu pisze: > > > > > > Dear Gurujis > > > > Here is my DOB:oct9th,1974, timr:13:05hrs, Guntur,Andhra Pradesh > > > > I am not sure where to start...I got married in 2005 and now I have a > > son of 1yr old. We live in US and at time of my son''s birth, my > > parents were here to help me. After a big fight, my husband agreed for > > my parents to stay with us for my 1st delivery -at first,only my mom > > and then my dad came after 1 month. They were here for 3 months and it > > was as very close to hell for my parents and me. Then atlast he told > > to me that he wants my parents to to leave the house. We are 4 sisters > > and we don't have brothers and I am the youngest one. My parents paid > > for the tickets to come here from India and then my husband and MIL > > always says that still my parents did not do something else for me. I > > did my MS here before marriage and I am working now. SO, I am earning > > money and still I was not able to buy anything for my parents when > > they were here. > > > > Now, My MIL is here and she talks in such a way that it hurts me. My > > husband agrees that and then he says it is her talking style and she > > is like this since his childhood. She is of high maintenance and > > always says that she cannot adjust in anything in any terms. Whenever > > she comes to US,she is here for 6 months and then she does lot of > > shopping for all the relatives. And then we pay $1500 for a house > > loan every month and in addition to this, she has our credit card and > > we pay for all her expenses in India. Still I should not say even a > > word, I am not allowed to even buy a $10 gift card for my dad.. If I > > continue writing this, I can write 100 pages.So, I am stopping > > here..Btw, his cousin were here in my house for 6 months and now other > > one is coming..But my parents are not allowed to visit me..(It was an > > arranged marriage) > > > > My question is - As per my horoscope, DO I need to suffer like this my > > remaining life? or Is there any possibility of any change in my > > husband. Any possibility of atleast my parents come here for a visit > > and stay with me for couple of months peacefully? > > > > Probably, no one cannot understand this..but, each and every minute, > > it is like a torture. > > > > Please analyse > > > > Thank for your help. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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