Messy married life - Help me come out

[Guest guest]

Hi,

 

I got married on 29th June, 2006 and since then or rather only after my

engagement in March, 2006 there has been serious problems in our married life.

The problems are mainly because I never developed a liking for her and get a

repulsive feeling whenever I see her. I never feel attracted to her and always

find complaints. Yes it is true that she is not what I always looked for in a

wife neither in terms of looks, attitude or mental compatibility.

 

I am sound a bit non-sensical but I am sharing frankly so that I can get right

guidance. I will request all Gurujis to read this in the right spirit and

walking into my shoes.

 

Basically I think i am completely obsessed with fair complexion and this was one

of the criteria while we were looking for a girl for marriage. Somehow I dont

know these days with make up and all in arranged marriage u dont get to know

much while meeting prospects and i said yes. later on i was shocked but still

didnt have the guts to break the engagement due to many reasons. Really speaking

you will not believe how I am handling but this has been the biggest blow and

disaster in my life. Something i never expected.

 

Its not that I have not tried. I have tried a lot and infact still trying. I

want to change but this is a fix. We met doctors as well. Infact I have

constantly tried to influence her by asking her to maintain herself/go to

gym,clinics etc etc but now she reacts and doesn't bother.

 

Now we are expecting our 1st child in November as well. and I am really shocked

for myself that still I dont have a strong liking. And thats the reason may be I

am not taking care of her to the extent it is required. Here again, please try

and understand my whole problem and relate in that perspective.

 

Request all your feedback and guidance/suggestions/remedies to come out of this.

I am open for doing anything that can change me or her or whatever it takes to.

But really need help as this is completely spoiling our personal and future

life. I dont know if there are other cases like this but this is a real

situation.

 

 

Please guide me with a right answer and if you can throw some light on why all

this hapened to me. I am really helpless.

 

 

Thanks & Regards,

 

 

My birth details

10th July 1978

19.34.10

Maunath Bhanjan (25.57N, 83.33E)

 

Wife

7th March 1982,

10.40

Kalyan

[Guest guest]

You are born in vyatipata yoga,Poorvaphalguni nakshtra and parivesha in the 7th

house from Chandr.Sade -satti is going on for you.

Vist " Pushkar " Ajmer Dist,Rajasthan IN ,perform the rituals and also consult a

Psychiatrist.Later on  you would feel good out of your marriage.

 

--- On Sat, 10/31/09, vivluv_2000 <vivluv_2000 wrote:

 

vivluv_2000 <vivluv_2000

[vedic astrology] Messy married life - Help me come out

vedic astrology

Saturday, October 31, 2009, 2:29 PM

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hi,

 

 

 

I got married on 29th June, 2006 and since then or rather only after my

engagement in March, 2006 there has been serious problems in our married life.

The problems are mainly because I never developed a liking for her and get a

repulsive feeling whenever I see her. I never feel attracted to her and always

find complaints. Yes it is true that she is not what I always looked for in a

wife neither in terms of looks, attitude or mental compatibility.

 

 

 

I am sound a bit non-sensical but I am sharing frankly so that I can get right

guidance. I will request all Gurujis to read this in the right spirit and

walking into my shoes.

 

 

 

Basically I think i am completely obsessed with fair complexion and this was one

of the criteria while we were looking for a girl for marriage. Somehow I dont

know these days with make up and all in arranged marriage u dont get to know

much while meeting prospects and i said yes. later on i was shocked but still

didnt have the guts to break the engagement due to many reasons. Really speaking

you will not believe how I am handling but this has been the biggest blow and

disaster in my life. Something i never expected.

 

 

 

Its not that I have not tried. I have tried a lot and infact still trying. I

want to change but this is a fix. We met doctors as well. Infact I have

constantly tried to influence her by asking her to maintain herself/go to

gym,clinics etc etc but now she reacts and doesn't bother.

 

 

 

Now we are expecting our 1st child in November as well. and I am really shocked

for myself that still I dont have a strong liking. And thats the reason may be I

am not taking care of her to the extent it is required. Here again, please try

and understand my whole problem and relate in that perspective.

 

 

 

Request all your feedback and guidance/suggestion s/remedies to come out of

this. I am open for doing anything that can change me or her or whatever it

takes to. But really need help as this is completely spoiling our personal and

future life. I dont know if there are other cases like this but this is a real

situation.

 

 

 

Please guide me with a right answer and if you can throw some light on why all

this hapened to me. I am really helpless.

 

 

 

Thanks & Regards,

 

 

 

My birth details

 

10th July 1978

 

19.34.10

 

Maunath Bhanjan (25.57N, 83.33E)

 

 

 

Wife

 

7th March 1982,

 

10.40

 

Kalyan

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

Dear friend,

 

Your navamsa lagna lord sun ruling over your Dharma

 

is strongly afflicted being close to 6th cusp

 

controlling over the rasi /navamsa/stellar depositor

 

Rahu completely in the house of dharma i.e.9th

 

in marana karaka sthana.

 

Please recite for 1 hours of Shadakshara Ram Tarak Mantra every morning and

evening to

 

control the negative effects of afflicted Sun.

 

Hope you will succeed well accomplishing your own dharma.

 

with best wishes,

 

Mrutyunjay Tripathy

(Consultancy out of group is not free)

 

vedic astrology , " vivluv_2000 " <vivluv_2000 wrote:

>

> Hi,

>

> I got married on 29th June, 2006 and since then or rather only after my

engagement in March, 2006 there has been serious problems in our married life.

The problems are mainly because I never developed a liking for her and get a

repulsive feeling whenever I see her. I never feel attracted to her and always

find complaints. Yes it is true that she is not what I always looked for in a

wife neither in terms of looks, attitude or mental compatibility.

>

> I am sound a bit non-sensical but I am sharing frankly so that I can get right

guidance. I will request all Gurujis to read this in the right spirit and

walking into my shoes.

>

> Basically I think i am completely obsessed with fair complexion and this was

one of the criteria while we were looking for a girl for marriage. Somehow I

dont know these days with make up and all in arranged marriage u dont get to

know much while meeting prospects and i said yes. later on i was shocked but

still didnt have the guts to break the engagement due to many reasons. Really

speaking you will not believe how I am handling but this has been the biggest

blow and disaster in my life. Something i never expected.

>

> Its not that I have not tried. I have tried a lot and infact still trying. I

want to change but this is a fix. We met doctors as well. Infact I have

constantly tried to influence her by asking her to maintain herself/go to

gym,clinics etc etc but now she reacts and doesn't bother.

>

> Now we are expecting our 1st child in November as well. and I am really

shocked for myself that still I dont have a strong liking. And thats the reason

may be I am not taking care of her to the extent it is required. Here again,

please try and understand my whole problem and relate in that perspective.

>

> Request all your feedback and guidance/suggestions/remedies to come out of

this. I am open for doing anything that can change me or her or whatever it

takes to. But really need help as this is completely spoiling our personal and

future life. I dont know if there are other cases like this but this is a real

situation.

>

>

> Please guide me with a right answer and if you can throw some light on why all

this hapened to me. I am really helpless.

>

>

> Thanks & Regards,

>

>

> My birth details

> 10th July 1978

> 19.34.10

> Maunath Bhanjan (25.57N, 83.33E)

>

> Wife

> 7th March 1982,

> 10.40

> Kalyan

>