Need astro help to improve my relations

November 18, 2009

Dear Jyotishis,

I think I lack speaking skills which is affecting my social life. I made lot of

friends with whom I am not in touch with, now. Recently I started avoiding

making new friends because I know I wouldn't stay in touch with them. As long as

I am in touch with any friend, the relation looks very great. I am not good at

making conversations.

Also, I think I lack in common sense (social skills people generally have when

they become grown-ups). I am detached with politics in office / tactical moves

people make against me in general. I do not notice these moves (something

strikes to me but fades away in that second of time) and realize their

intentions later. I wan't to be able to guess what people around me are upto, so

as to avoid getting affected by any malice they intend on me.

My DOB is 06-06-1978 at 3:15pm venkatagiri, Andhra pradesh. 13 56N and 79 35 E.

Is there any curse in my chart with regards to my speaking / relation skills? I

also see 3 planets in my 8th House. What are the implications of it? Also pls

let me know any significant limitations / curses in my chart.

Thanks in Advance.

November 20, 2009

Dear Seshagiri Babu,

The problem of lacking communication skills is revealed by 2nd house Scorpio and

it lord Mars. Secondly, kama-trikona (3-7-11 houses) do part a role, how we

develop relationship. In your case, this trikona is occupied by merely natural

malefics (Saturn, Mars and Gulika) without any shubh sambandha. So the problem

may tease you through out life, whenever question of sustainable relationship

arises.

No doubt, from 8th house (Taurus); Mercury, Moon and Sun are casting aspect on

2nd house. And they are not assumed bad for articulation. But in my opinion, it

is Mars who is playing a dominating role in obstructing amiable and sustainable

communication skill. By nature, Mars is diagonally opposite to Mercury -

naisargik karaka for speaking and writing. It renders the native non-tactical,

straight forward, and somewhat harsh. In your case, 2nd lord Mars is conjoined

with Saturn and having argala of evil Rahu. Mars with Saturn, (having its

dispositor Sun in 8th) sometime gives inferiority complex concerning the

significations of house(s) it rules (here 2nd and 7th). Note that Mars aspects

second house (Scorpio) as well. On the other hand, Mercury is in navamsa of Mars

and with Mars well. Mercury in navamsa of Mars or associated with Mars produces

difficulties in socializing, speaking, writing and sometime interrupts academic

career. Have you noticed that you are born on Tuesday - a day ruled by Mars.

If you believe in uppay, do concentrate to appease Mars for overcoming speaking

and socializing problem. Consult any experienced Pundit who could suggest your

proper remedies. I'm not well versed in this forte. In my humble opinion it is

not such a big issue. Do join any short course on communication skills or

psychological councilling. Have friendship with marketing guys and cheer up.

By the way, you do have good chart with strongly placed lagna lord Venus and

Jupiter. The second part of life would be quite stable and considerably

sustainable.

But the parivartana (exchange) between 8th lord Venus and 9th lord Mercury

enfeebles the horoscope. This combination may make you introvert and inclined

towards occult studies. Association of 10th lord Sun and 11th lord Moon in 8th

gives difficulties in professional rise, getting desirable earning and

developing acquittance. I guess, your mode of work or department had changed

during Saturn's transit into Leo and it would again in first quarter of 2010.

Anyway. Before Saturn's dasa, your financial and social status will remain

ordinary. Emergence of Saturn's dasa (from Dec. 2015) would uplift your life

(despite it is in debilitated navamsa and with Mars). Yoga karaka Saturn with

Mars is forming dhana yoga and enjoying powerful labh argala from Venus and

Jupiter.

Good luck,

M. Imran

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Body Longitude Nakshatra Pada Rasi Navamsa ChKarak

Lagna 13 Li 06' 17.50 " Swathi 2 Li Cp -

Sun 21 Ta 48' 11.99 " Rohini 4 Ta Cn BK

Moon 28 Ta 49' 52.19 " Mrigasira 2 Ta Vi AK

Mars 2 Le 17' 49.29 " Makha 1 Le Ar GK

Mercury 12 Ta 06' 49.75 " Rohini 1 Ta Ar PK

Jupiter 16 Ge 43' 34.13 " Aardra 4 Ge Pi PiK

Venus 24 Ge 48' 12.55 " Punarvasu 2 Ge Ta AmK

Saturn 1 Le 36' 00.44 " Makha 1 Le Ar DK

Rahu 8 Vi 42' 55.12 " U.Pha. 4 Vi Pi MK

Ketu 8 Pi 42' 55.12 " U.Bhaa. 2 Pi Vi -

Rasi

+--------------+

| \ / \ Mnd / |

| \ / \ Rah / |

| \ / \ / |

| \ / \ / Glk |

| x Asc x Sat Mar |

| / \ / \ |

| / \ 7 / \ |

| / \ / \ |

| x |

| \ / \ / |

| \ / \ / GL |

|AL x x Ven Jup |

| / \ / \ |

| / Ket \ / Sun \ |

| / HL \ / Moo Mer \ |

+--------------+

Navamsa

+--------------+

| \ / \ / |

| \ / HL \ / |

| \ / \ / |

|Jup Rah x Asc x |

| / \ / \ |

| / \ Mnd / \ |

| / \ / \ |

| / Mer \ 10 / \ |

| / \ / \ |

| AL Mar x Glk |

| \ / \ / |

| \ Sat / \ / |

| \ / \ / |

|Ven GL x Sun x Ket Moo |

| / \ / \ |

+--------------+

vedic astrology , " Seshagiri Babu K.V. "

<telugu_guy_gemini wrote:

>

> Dear Jyotishis,

> I think I lack speaking skills which is affecting my social life. I made lot

of friends with whom I am not in touch with, now. Recently I started avoiding

making new friends because I know I wouldn't stay in touch with them. As long as

I am in touch with any friend, the relation looks very great. I am not good at

making conversations.

> Also, I think I lack in common sense (social skills people generally have when

they become grown-ups). I am detached with politics in office / tactical moves

people make against me in general. I do not notice these moves (something

strikes to me but fades away in that second of time) and realize their

intentions later. I wan't to be able to guess what people around me are upto, so

as to avoid getting affected by any malice they intend on me.

>

> My DOB is 06-06-1978 at 3:15pm venkatagiri, Andhra pradesh. 13 56N and 79 35

E.

>

> Is there any curse in my chart with regards to my speaking / relation skills?

I also see 3 planets in my 8th House. What are the implications of it? Also pls

let me know any significant limitations / curses in my chart.

>

> Thanks in Advance.

>

November 20, 2009

Dear Imran Ji

Your observation " By nature, Mars is diagonally opposite to Mercury - naisargik

karaka for speaking and writing. It renders the native non-tactical, straight

forward, and somewhat harsh. " is very accurate in my case,considering the

feedback/advise I get from friends. They ask me to be a bit tactful in my

communications, avoid being straight forward thereby avoiding giving the

impression of being harsh.

I'll certainly take your point on that and try to do remedies to appease Mars.

I'll take your suggestion on joining soft skills training and making friends

with marketing guys (whom I usually do not like communicating with as these

guysÂ usually talk about 100 topics in 10mins or 1 boring topic for 100 mins

) )

With my little knowlege of Astrology, Mars being diagonally opposite to Mercury

makes sense to me.

Your other observation " But the parivartana (exchange) between 8th lord Venus

and 9th lord Mercury enfeebles the horoscope. This combination may make you

introvert and inclined towards occult studies. " is also true.

Its been 2.5yrs now since I came to know about Astrology (Earlier all I knew

about Astrology was that " its fake " , as I heard lot of people around me say so,

without actually knowing details). In these 2.5yrs I really struggled hard to

learn Astrology, trying to balance my profession and other commitments,Â but am

not able to move an inch forward, inspite of time/resources being there. I read

a lot of details. The details make sense to me, but I am not able to apply them

or learn (at remember) anything. I also started feeling that due to my lack of

communication skills or relation skills I am not able to become a good Disciple

inspite of few jyotish gurus ready to teach (online) / offer lessons. I am

hopeful things will improve for me.

Thanks,

Seshu.

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vedic astrology

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