Moderation should be even handed

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Hello Dear Moderator Swamin,

 

Feedback to MR TVP

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I have already given feedback to Mr.TVP via phone and e-mail

discussions. So please don't tell that nobody gave feedback to TVP.

Should I forward all my communications with him ? But since he is your

friend, should I give him only nice feedback for factually and

materially error prone article 3 ?

 

But I am really surprised that u are worried about nodbody replying to

Mr.Padmanabhan's messages. I joined the group because, you mention in

your group homepage

 

" Sharing knowledge about vaideekam

We help interested people to know more about their religious functions,

followed by their ancesstors, by which we hope for the best of our career

and our children to become a respectable person in the society or

community. "

 

 

Not providing Religious Alerts

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I am really disappointed that you have stopped the alerts, saying that

you are conducting the POLL. I am going to request my other group

moderator to start it if this important service is stopped for ever.

 

Regards,

adiyen Lak Sri

 

 

vaideekam , " T.V.Padmanabhan " <tvp7> wrote:

>

> Dear Mama

> I wrote 3 write ups so far and I thank Sri Dorairajan

> for reading and appreciating my write ups. Sure I

> shall continue my writing and talking on the subject.

> I thank you, mama, for this opportunity.

> I realise the value of time and efforts being put in

> by you to develop the vaideekam consciousness and

> would request you to continue the same without

> stopping.

> With kind regards

> T V Padmanabhan

> --- Dorairajan Ranganathan <dorai_radha>

> wrote:

>

>

> T V Padmanabhan

> Advocate

> A-20 Arcot Terrace

> 160 Arcot Road, Vadapalani

> Chennai 600 026, India

> Tel: 91-44-24724911; 98400 52787

>

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Dear Member,

Please cool down first.

All are my friends, including you.

But little difference is there a well known friend that is all.

I just asked all members to simply make a response on other members or groups

activity. I had never support for any error message / communication.

If you found any error then you should discuss it via the group, which

will create a meaning full arquement among members. If suppose you

want to personally discuss with any other member it is different, we can not

tell any opinion on it. Also how could we know about the communications

you had with anybody? You may have sent a message to this group about your

discussions with Mr.TVP which ever you can express.

No problem, developing some dispute like this also may lead to a good start.

I had never told that I am going to stop or discontinue anything , anywhere.

I had not get any approval from any member before starting the reminder service.

But after starting the reminder service, as a normal human, who is having much

interest in others reponse, may try to know wheather the service howmuch useful

to others?! Also I am here want to reveal a fact: due to the heavy work load of

composing for new year panchangam (Paranthaman), Muhurtha works, New Tamil

version of website creation etc. etc. made me helpless to update the " Calendar "

portion of our group. What to do? I used this situation to less my stress and

created poll to know the importance of the reminder service. i.e, how much

importance we should give for that?

Though it is right or wrong I appologies for this situation.

But I wisht to clarify onething for all: It is always better to make requet

onece than blackmail. " There are dozens of buses to Paris, you catch one which

you feel better. "

I request all members about their opinion about my reply for the questions of

this honourable member.

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