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Dear Sir,

 

Namaskarams.

 

The suggestion is a practical one if proper care is taken and have mutual

understanding and help. But in the city life where Complexes and Flats are

increasing having connection with neighbours is - mostly one can say NIL. Many

do not know their neighbours.

Another way is get fruits etc and manage just like upavasam days.

 

In one section of Brahmins, ladies take bath, cook food and it is considered.

But how far this is good?.

 

Some ladies say that in the present day all are mingling there is no difference

and use .... which was not available in olden days and solves the problem and

they are normal.

Present day thinking is changing and how far it will affect really? In the

present scarcity of accomodation, being in seperation is difficult. We are going

out and coming but are we taking bath every time after coming back home? How far

the " madi " ?

 

If we start thinking in the (modern world facilities or inadequcy etc.)

practicing as per customs is difficult. Where these will end we do not know.

 

Just I have written the above lines - these are not any comments -

 

Thank you and with regards.

 

Rajasekaran.

 

***Adiyen,

If you are a person who wish to follow sastram then you should find a way to

keep it, because no one is there to modify the codings of sastrams according to

the present situations. So, I can tell strictly, only what sastram says, I am

not here to suggest members how can they skip / cheat the sastrams or to

encourrage them by telling what they are doing is correct.

It is very wrong comparison about the " Kalappu theetu " by travelling in a bus

with the direct " Rajaswalai theetu " .

If one admit the " Rajaswalai " lady to cook, then he can entirely once for all

leave the Perumal Kainkaryams.

More over I wish to say members, please suggest and explain your experiences,

how you have managed the situations without skipping sastrams and their results

and do not write the stories of inabilities (due to laziness) to others.

When a lady is able to cook for 27 days, why not a gent for atleast 3 days? What

is in it? If you are used to do the washing work, then inter change the work

for those three days?!

I could not agree, that a family in a city will not have friendship with even

one other family?! If it is fact, then I could accept them as a human being!!

" Unmai Kadumaiyandhagavum, Kasappagavumdhan irukkum "

Vasu Vdhyar