Guest guest Posted August 24, 2006 Report Share Posted August 24, 2006 Srimathe adhivan sadagopa yadinthra maha desikaye namaha Respected Shri Vasu Vadyar Yes we are Srivatsa Gothram,YajurvedhamAnd Aapasthamba Suthram. Thanks for clearing the doubt. Namskram Dasan Desikan --- csdesikan <csdesikan wrote: > Srimathe adhivan sadagopa yadinthra maha desikaye > namaha > Dear Vasu vadyar > > My brothers' wife expired resently and he has no > children. > Our vadyar says he has to perform monthly > cermonies(oona masium > etc)with homam. > There is another one (his associate)says since > there is no children > he need not perform all this monthly.He can just > give danam and no > need for arranging two persons for bramanartham and > homam. > we are confused please advise as to what is the > correct procedure in > case like my brother. > > Dasn > desikan > > > *** > Dear Sir, > Well, there are some problem is there in both of the > verses. > > I think you must be belong to 'Yajur Vedham, > Aapasthamba Suthram'. > > As per the first Vadhyar :- If one is doing karma to > his own wife, it possible to do a 'Paarvana' > chradham only for the purpose of 'Sapindeekaranam'. > The 'Varanam' is one of the main issue in chradhams. > Vasu, Rudhra, Aathithya - thri poorusham list is not > given starting with the 'Bharya / Pathni' sabhdham. > (It may be due to my lack of knowledge or > ignorance.) > > As per 'Aapasthambar', the homams are to be made > only for male. > > 'Yenme maadha/pithamahi/pithupithamahi' etc. is the > starting of the homa manthram (it may sometimes need > to add the 'Yajamanasy' before it while getting > permission to do it from a male child.) > > The manthram says : 'My mother(/grand mother/ grand > grand mother/Yajamanasy mother) who is by virtue > does not think a man other than my father (/ ...), > suppose might have thought a man who also may be my > father, but I wish to restrict this offer only for > the man who is the real cause for my birth'... > > {Here some intelectuals will raise abjections, how > dare you are to suspect your mother? etc. But it is > meaningless. We are experiencing the illegal > relationship here and there. We should try to give > respect for the real relationship and Shastram than > emotional thinkings.) > > now if we try to put a husband in that place of the > person who is offering the 'aahuthi', how to change > the dialague?! > > He can't say as " Mama Puthrasya Maatha ... " because > he don't have a son. > > > So, by logic, if the kartha is not a son (in any > way) of the Vasu roopam can not use the homa > manthram. > > When doing sapindeekaranam : The first calling > person (Vasu Roopam) will be his mother or his grand > mother, there homam is possible. > > But the sodhakumbam, masyam should be done regularly > without fail as per shastram in the 'Sankalpa > Vidhanam'. > > Kindly ask your Vadhyar, how he will make the > Varanam and how he will chant the homa manthram? > > The second Vadhyars verse should not be taken into > account. > > thanks for asking a related question. > nvs > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 30, 2006 Report Share Posted August 30, 2006 Dear Vasu vadhyar Sanlkalpa vidhanam is only for sOdhakumba and not. Masiyam will be parvana only for parents. I may be corrcected if wrong. Yours faithfully Dasan Srinivasan *** I am very poor in understanding English texts. I am unable to understand your text. I have never came across a sentence that ends with the word 'not'. nvs cs desikan wrote: > Srimathe adhivan sadagopa yadinthra maha desikaye > namaha > > Respected Shri Vasu Vadyar > Yes we are Srivatsa Gothram,YajurvedhamAnd Aapasthamba > Suthram. > Thanks for clearing the doubt. > > Namskram > Dasan > Desikan > > --- csdesikan <csdesikan wrote: > > > Srimathe adhivan sadagopa yadinthra maha desikaye > > namaha > > Dear Vasu vadyar > > > > My brothers' wife expired resently and he has no > > children. > > Our vadyar says he has to perform monthly > > cermonies(oona masium > > etc)with homam. > > There is another one (his associate)says since > > there is no children > > he need not perform all this monthly.He can just > > give danam and no > > need for arranging two persons for bramanartham and > > homam. > > we are confused please advise as to what is the > > correct procedure in > > case like my brother. > > > > Dasn > > desikan > > > > > > *** > > Dear Sir, > > Well, there are some problem is there in both of the > > verses. > > > > I think you must be belong to 'Yajur Vedham, > > Aapasthamba Suthram'. > > > > As per the first Vadhyar :- If one is doing karma to > > his own wife, it possible to do a 'Paarvana' > > chradham only for the purpose of 'Sapindeekaranam'. > > The 'Varanam' is one of the main issue in chradhams. > > Vasu, Rudhra, Aathithya - thri poorusham list is not > > given starting with the 'Bharya / Pathni' sabhdham. > > (It may be due to my lack of knowledge or > > ignorance.) > > > > As per 'Aapasthambar', the homams are to be made > > only for male. > > > > 'Yenme maadha/pithamahi/pithupithamahi' etc. is the > > starting of the homa manthram (it may sometimes need > > to add the 'Yajamanasy' before it while getting > > permission to do it from a male child.) > > > > The manthram says : 'My mother(/grand mother/ grand > > grand mother/Yajamanasy mother) who is by virtue > > does not think a man other than my father (/ ...), > > suppose might have thought a man who also may be my > > father, but I wish to restrict this offer only for > > the man who is the real cause for my birth'... > > > > {Here some intelectuals will raise abjections, how > > dare you are to suspect your mother? etc. But it is > > meaningless. We are experiencing the illegal > > relationship here and there. We should try to give > > respect for the real relationship and Shastram than > > emotional thinkings.) > > > > now if we try to put a husband in that place of the > > person who is offering the 'aahuthi', how to change > > the dialague?! > > > > He can't say as " Mama Puthrasya Maatha ... " because > > he don't have a son. > > > > > > So, by logic, if the kartha is not a son (in any > > way) of the Vasu roopam can not use the homa > > manthram. > > > > When doing sapindeekaranam : The first calling > > person (Vasu Roopam) will be his mother or his grand > > mother, there homam is possible. > > > > But the sodhakumbam, masyam should be done regularly > > without fail as per shastram in the 'Sankalpa > > Vidhanam'. > > > > Kindly ask your Vadhyar, how he will make the > > Varanam and how he will chant the homa manthram? > > > > The second Vadhyars verse should not be taken into > > account. > > > > thanks for asking a related question. > > nvs > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > *************************************************** > To Post a message, send it to: vaideekam > To Leave this group send a message to: vaideekam- > ------------------------Did you know ? ------------------------------ > You can easily find solutions for any of your " Vaideeka " needs; > Just visit http://www.ahobilam.com/ once; plenty of information there! > Have nice day! > With Best regards, > Moderator > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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