[Vaideekam] Re; Doubt on Ahara niyamam after sraddham/tarpaNam/upakarma

[Guest guest]

I could not understand the argument, because immediately after the

completion of the Tharpanam the food (annam) can be taken.

Or

If you don't have time to sit and eat in urgency, it can be carried with

you to take in the leisure time.

Where is the question of not taking 'annam'?

Let it be.

 

I hope, that you have got a little pleasure by adding myself also in the

list.

Here I got the chance to explain few lines about me.

Before that I wish to clarify one thing, anything pointed out from sastram

is applicable not only for others, it will be applicable for me also.

 

I am giving much preference to Anushtanams than my profession,

For example, I will not go for Tharpanam not even a single person,

because I feel it is difficult to be in empty stomach from morning 5 am [(people

are doing tharpanam from 4 am) to 10 am, and then I have to take (second)bath

and then

Aaradhanam and after that I have to do Tharpanam after that I have to eat

something]

so, I thought it will affect my anushtanam and hence I stopped going out for

tharpanam on every Amavasai. It is true and few of the member of this group

will know about it.

 

My profession is nature and suitable for anushtanam where ever I be in any

duty.

Nobody will angry on me or laugh on me for taking time for my anushtanam.

 

More over, we can ask a person as " Nee romba yogyamaa? "

but it will not made us as " Yogyan " .

nvs

 

 

On Fri, Mar 7, 2008 at 8:35 PM, venkat chari <venkigopu wrote:

 

>

> srI:

> Swamin wrote:

> You have twice mentioned the phrase " Udyoga nimittam " , which can not be

> considered by sastram, because the 'Udiyogam' you are mentioning is not

> suggested by sastram for a brahmanan

>

> Sure. Everyone works. A Brahmin practises as a vadhyar (which is also a

> udyogam or work). Adiyen asked you when we are not able to stay home after

> pitru tarpanam or Upakarma tarpanam, due to work. If we do not eat rice

> annam ,

> then what is recommened for evening/night bhojanam other than pahzam.

> regards.

>

> *venkat chari <venkigopu* wrote:

>

> srI:

>

> Sriman NVS swamin,

> dasoham.

>

> We have a doubt. It is generally suggested to have phala aharam (pazham)

> in the night bhojanam if one performed a sraddham, pitru -tarpaNam or Rhsi

> tarpaNam on a upAkarmA day. What is prescribed for night bhojanam after

> these rituals, when one did not eat annam for the midday due to udyoga

> nimittam? In this case, is annam prescribed for the night bhojanam? Due to

> udyoga nimittam, it is not always possible to have annam for midday

> bhojanam.

>

> Best regards.

> dasan.

>

> ***

> You have twice mentioned the phrase " Udyoga nimittam " , which can not be

> considered by sastram, because the 'Udiyogam' you are mentioning is not

> suggested by sastram for a brahmanan.

>

> If you think the 'Udyogam' is very must on a vrudham day,

> then why not keep full day upavasam? Which is not restricted on any

> condition.

>

> Also, dhrava (liquid) aaharams like milk or fruit juice are not considered

> as 'aahaaram consumed', it can be taken twice or thrice also to mange the

> hungry.

> nvs

>

>

>

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

Respected swamin

i read all the comments and reactions in vaideekam group.

i would like to add swamin said few do tharpanam from 4 am.

 

that itself is wrong i suppose.

 

before sunrise doing sandhya and just at the sunrise praatha sandhya

upasthaanam is correct.

after that only maadhyaahnikam. after that only tharpanam is to be done.

 

even compromising that 'udyoga nimiththam' madhyahnikam is done along with

praatha sandhya,

around sun rise, to some extent it is ok.

 

*tharpanam also before sunrise? *

*then in my opinion it is not tharpanam at all.*

**

something else.

 

as it is called pithru kadan - it is a 'kadan' only

 

if every thing is compromised like this, then where is the question

of 'aahaara niyamam' .

 

that can also be given a go bye - eat as you please

 

regards

MGVasudevan

 

 

***

And hence, I am not going to do barhaspathyam (vadhyar) for those people, and I

am instructing all to learn and do tharpanam on your own atleast after sunrise.

nvs