[Vaideekam] father deceased/father in law also deceased

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Dear Sriamn Sarathi,

 

Very sorry to hear about your father's death.�

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SriMan Vasu Vadhyar,

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Namaskarams.�� Please correct me if I am wrong.� Normally they say that we

should not go to visit our Kulaperumal till Varushabdigam is done.� Our

Kulaperumal is Tirupathi Venkateswara Perumal.�� I usually felt that this

restriction was enforced to avoid any mishaps to the Kartha(in those days the

roads were treacherous and bus/train was always a problem and the Kartha may

really get sick after going to those places?) and in the process the masyams,

etc... may not be performed at the due dates,etc...

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Was it the real reason or am I missing something else?

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With Namaskarams

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Dasan

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Kannan

 

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All are correct, and the reason also correct,

but these are all correct only if the 'Sapindikaranam' is not done.

 

The actual karma was completed at the end of 'Sapindikaranam' which was actually

preponed from its schedule at the end of first year.

 

There is no logic of preponing the Sapindikarana karma, and keeping the

restrictions till the end of first year?!

 

It will be like sending an Engine of a passenger time in a preponed schedule and

trying to send the compartments in the scheduled time??!!

 

Also one more thing should remember,

people may get relief only by putting their worries in front of their favorite

God, if there is no 'Sastra virodham' or no source of 'papam' we should not

restrict a good thing, which may lead to open the opposite side of door.

 

nvs